#they’re just annoying in general

[faerygardens]

There are more tallulah & tommy fics on ao3 than there are pac & mike fics

#fae.txt #mcyt #qsmp #Idk if this counts as discourse #No hate to dsmp fic writers and crossover fic writers in general #I just find it super annoying how often these fics are just the dsmp with like one qsmp element added and are only tagged qsmp #Like if you’re writing a dsmp fic please tag it as such because some of us aren’t looking for that #I also say this as someone who was a sbi main for the longest time #It’s just rude #Also it’s not just sbi mains who do it btw I’ve seen a lot of dt fics in there too #I hate these fics for the same reason I hate x reader fics: they’re untagged and annoying to filter out

[vacantgodling]

✨preferences should not be standards for writing advice✨

#whenever i see writing advice i just get annoyed #honestly one of my biggest gripes about writing communities in general is this #constant need to regurgitate certain pieces of writing advice like they’re ambrosia of the gods #my biggest writing advice is to just stop fucking listening to all writing advice that has to do with #prose and style #just stop doing it #read books and find things you like and craft your own style of things #i know this is not simple for everyone but i’m tired of constantly seeing #i think flowery prose bogs things down too much #and i think that direct prose isn’t good enough at putting people in the world #like mate—everyone has preferences and preferences do not make good advice #so like #i wish people would stop acting like their opinion is the next best piece of writing advice #it doesn’t help anyone it just causes fucking insecurities #i am also having sensory overload so perhaps ren doth bitch too much #but you can pry flowery prose and run on sentences and incomprehensible blocks of text from my cold dead hands #bc it makes me happy to write like this and fuck off #ren hot cakes #i’ll delete this later im just cold and annoyed #and unfortunately you can thank my mother bc im extremely passive aggressive

[sanyu-thewitch05]

Me watching the LGBT community who almost never rarely gives black women and girls, asexuals, or aromantics genuine respect, pretend we’re all friends and have always treated us right the minute it’s June 1st and want to use black women(mainly darkskinned) and girls as their little poster girl:

#asexual #aromantic #It’s always coming from the non black people(including other racial minorities) too #and the stuff coming out of the lgbt community towards black women and girls has gotten real nasty #i have seen numerous people(although they’re mainly black) say that black people are inherently queer because we’re unnatural and strange #in the eyes of white supremacy and white people #like are you ok in the head??? why do you want to say that black people are inherently strange and we defy every social standard #as of our existence is a social statement #I personally think the worst thing I’ve personally heard(from yet another black person) #was that black women and girls would get seen as men or trans women because our hair is nappy #what does our natural hair have to do with getting seen as men or trans women?? #and the white lgbt people just applauded them and hearted their tweet #it annoys me how for some weird reason political and social movements will mainly use black women especially darker black women as rep #and It’s almost always by a non black person #like why don’t you use a girl or woman from your own race in your political and social justice artwork #oh wait that’s right #because in general the lgbt community views black women and girls as magical negras who will be their ride or die sista soulja #who will mule and fight for them no matter how badly they outright insult us or sneakily talk badly about us #pride month is basically another black history month when it comes to how everyone reacts to it #every reaction to it is superficial and they’re only celebrating us because they feel like they had to or wanted social points #had it been any other month they would’ve been focusing on the group that they belong to

[elmleif]

pretty like mommy

#not gonna lie that last pic has the most threatening aura #had to include it #they’re asserting their dominance and making sure he knows his place in the matriarchy that is the Hammond Murphy household #BUT IS THIS POSEPACK NOT THE CUTEST FUCKING THING YALL EVER SEEN #also didn’t realize Saoirse’s annoying ass friendship bracelet ruined the palette mesh LETS JUST IGNORE THAT OK #postcard legacy #postcard legacy challenge #generation 1: the farmer #saoirse murphy #cillian hammond #morning hammond murphy #ts4 #ts4 screenshots #ts4 legacy #ts4 gameplay #simblr #simmer

[flaticeball]

the idea of a Gayest Player In The NHL bracket at all is already in poor taste to some degree bc i get everyone loves to make the “they’re so gay for each other fr” jokes but the condition of the actual league and its actions right now is like. you do understand why calling these people Gay Icons (Positive) for funny haha jokes is just. at best inappropriate timing, yes? but the idea of literally including one of the guys who got pride nights cancelled with his homophobia is just. can we take a minute to realize that hockey fandom doesn’t take place in a void completely unconnected to reality and see that this is just. a Really Bad Look. at best.

#gav gab #saw someone reblog the actual bracket intro post with among other things #‘mom come pick me up they’re calling tseguin a gay icon in 2023’ and like #LMFAO. YEAH. FOR REAL. YOUVE SEEN WHAT HE SAID ABOUT THE SEDINS YES? #anyways get outta here with that shit #people have gotten real confident with the ‘they’re about to fuck at centre ice’ thing and saying hockey is a Super Gay Sport #which is a fun joke to make with your friends online ig #as annoying as i find it generally #but you do understand this isn’t real yes #and i know the bracket is not making claims about reality #but what it IS doing is including players like eric fucking staal #in a bracket for Gayest NHL Player #and the real life actions of staal actively make the sport unsafe for queer athletes and queer fans #stop mistaking jokes about hockey players fucking each other or writing rpf about that as any kind of activism #or any kind of actual reflection of the nhl #how do you think this is an appropriate thing to do for so many reasons lmao how are you including some of these guys on this #even before you get into some of the other insane behaviour going on in this bracket existing #‘I didn’t pick the contestants!’ you did you. you’re in charge. #‘just hope they get voted out’ don’t include them at all what’s wrong with you #why do bracket creators always act like it’s some kind of mandatory moral imperative they include every single thing nominated/voted in #you have agency here lmao. use it. fucking spineless. #rpf for ts #adjacent enough anyway #homophobia cw #why would you do this #lmfao the brief scroll of that blog i took the amount of ‘propaganda’ that’s just ‘this guy has friends’ #wild. genuinely wild. #one request id like to make to the liveblogs this year too on a vaguely tangentially related note is #reign in your blatant and unrepentant amatonormativity please #from your local aro

[longing-for-rain]

Are you going to write for the Big Bang???

I was thinking about it but probably won’t because I have lots of WIPs, but I don’t think any of them would fit a G or T rating.

And it turns out whoever is running the tumblr blog blocked me from it so 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s whatever.

#don’t know who it is but i have an idea of who they’re friends with #it’s annoying because there is so much context they’re missing #but yah some of this fandom is just kinda clique ish in general #i miss being in the zutara fandom before i met *that* individual who i will not mention

[infestedguest]

Am I the only person who’s uncomfortable calling a group consisting of one canon lesbian and three characters who are at no point indicated to be remotely queer in the actual show “the fruity four”?

#and no neither steve eddie or nancy are queer coded you just don’t know what queer coding actually is #I’m a bi4bi stancy truther but I’m able to recognize that that’s just my headcanon #saying that they’re queer coded is giving the duffers way more credit then they deserve #it also implies steddie and ronance which is very annoying since it’s apparently just supposed to be #in reference to those for characters in general #which is kind of isolating to anybody who doesn’t ship ronance and steddie #stranger things #stranger things fandom #stranger things fandom meta #and yes I have reblogged posts calling them that but only because it’s so ubiquitous in the fandom that it’s almost impossible to avoid #st fandom #st fandom meta #fruity four #st4 #robin buckley #steve harrington #nancy wheeler #eddie munson #anna talking about stuff

[saintlesbian]

as for the rest of the ep…

Chalynn truthers we won. we fucking won 🍾🍾🍾

Lois trying to talk Ned into making peace w/ Michael and Drew sounds REAL funny knowing that drew and Michael r still planning on pushing him out of ELQ again. fuck those two forever actually, y’all can make peace in hell

speaking of drewfus, I wish I could be glad he’s leaving but it’s not for very long and crew is gonna be annoying abt it I’m sure. this version of drew is such a shell of himself that anytime hes brought up I just feel disgusted 😖

I’m getting tired of Sonny bringing up Carly when talking to nina it just feels WEIRD… I really don’t wanna see a Carson reunion but it’s starting to feel like the pikeman/cyrus bs might end up being the catalyst for one… sonaritas should we be worried. 😟

also Tolly agreeing to use krissy as the surrogate… wasn’t there literally a whole argument against doing this months back that resulted in tolly icing krissy out for several weeks…? once again I must assert this whole surrogate storyline is a load of barnacles

#pentababbles #general hospital #I’m happy abt the proposal :) but I also feel like they kinda did this so they could be married b4 Gregory croaks #still! taking my wins where I can! their scenes today were sweet and I liked it 👍 #i know ned has beef w/ nina over the SEC thing but. once he finds out Michael knew and STILL tried to push him out of ELQ #nina should be the least of his worries. since let’s face it drew earned that prison sentence 😅 and it’s not a crime to report a crime! #the bensons r just mad they had to face even the mildest of consequences for their actions tbh #drew goin to Australia tho like. take joss and Carly w/ u I don’t wanna see them again either #have joss spend time w/ her Aussie father or something I just can’t take her anymore #also the fact that he’s leaving for Christmas so Michael doesn’t have to… bro I hate him so much #bro you just got out of PRISON how about you spend time with your DAUGHTER that you PROMISED to be there for you ASSHOLE #and with drew going away… PLEASE I don’t want a Carson retread please please please #like I find crew annoying and meaningless but at least they’re over in their own corner. but I was actually starting to like Sonny #a Carson retread is just gonna make him suck again 😞 #cannot stand the surrogate storyline and tolly is nothing to me anymore but w/e I can deal with it. #however if they really are setting up the surrogate arc to be an angst backdrop for kraze… burned-lariat go get them royalty checks I stg 🤣 #but yea that’s my thoughts! story feels discombobulated as ever but we soldier on iguess

[toaster-trash]

I have a really vivid memory of being like around 7 and having to do some kind of “mental health/social studies” class thing, I think mostly “how to manage your emotions” or “how does your body react to X emotion?” and stuff like that, and I remember it was mostly just questions like, “what do you do when you’re angry to manage it?” or “how does your body feel when you’re anxious?” or “who do you ask for help from when you need it?”

And I can’t remember exactly what answers I put but I just remember almost every time, the teacher coming round, looking at what I wrote and going “ummm no I don’t think that’s right 🥰” and NEVER elaborating and just moving on to everyone else’s and going “yes, that’s right!”

I have one memory of stopping the teacher and going “but why” and she just said “It just isn’t!” and then when 7 year old me went “but why” again, she just walked away

?????? I would LOVE to know what I wrote because I am 100% certain childhood me was completely and utterly truthful but also, what was the point in that mandatory class if you’re not going to explain to the kids you’re teaching why how they’re processing their emotions or interacting with the world is wrong

Anyway Alexa play Willard! by Will Wood

#honestly this is a problem I have with the education system in general #Ive had this kind of thing happen a lot #(although specifically when I was a kid and had more balls to constantly ask “but why why why why) #where it’ll give you information and try to teach you shit #but only the BASE level bare minimum of that topic #especially with things like social studies and mental health #but honestly with a lot of academic topics too #it’s like schools try to sum up the world in a 30 minute lesson #and then get surprised and annoyed whenever they’re asked to elaborate #don’t even get me started on the philosophy lessons we had to do for R.E #it was genuinely like ah yes #pick out examples of objective immortality #and instead of like #ACTUAL examples of things that are objectively wrong #like you know #raping children #it was just like #telling a friend’s secret to someone else :( #?????? #well what WAS the secret #are they in immediate danger? is someone else in immediate danger? #then YES #you SHOULD tell someone #and that doesn’t make it morally wrong #and when I SAID that #the teacher just went #yes but that’s not really the point is it #??????????? #I was 14 and raging #The Education System!!!!!

[poisoned-pearls]

you know, Idk if I have to say it, but, cut off those people who drain you. You shouldn’t always have to text first, your friendship shouldn’t end because you stopped talking.

And I know it sucks, that feeling of crippling loneliness. But when shit was absolutely the worst for me, when everything had fucking crashed and burned, I met a few people who finally reminded me what it meant to have someone care, and you’ll get it soon

#This is nothing like what I normally post but like #No genuinely. It fucking sucks and I may have been like #the most depressed I’ve been in my life #Fighting only the time I was with my ex for top place #But like. I’m also getting better. I only text like three people regularly but it’s better than having like #8 people who didn’t give a shit about me #And like #idk I think adhd makes you weak to just #wanting ANY kind of connection because otherwise you become absolutely bored and boredom is painful #The energy drain kills you #Also general red flag in people though I hate using that phrase #If someone won’t let you be in pain #watch out. When I dealt with someone manipulating an old friend into believing I was a horrible person a ‘friend’ slowly got annoyed at me #Trying to deal with it without ever offering help or advice #When someone’s first response to your pain is “oh my god will you shut up about that” they will not care about your pain ever #Also in general. Don’t hang out with straight men who appropriate gay culture #because they’re still like. Patriarchal and sexist assholes with a fake cover #Because Guess what!! When you say homophobic shit but your not gay #your just homophobic!!!!

[cheemsitz]

As a psychology major, I can say and firmly believe that Freud is so stupid. He'd be so close to getting it, then boom. He's back to saying stupid ass shit.

#my posts -// #idk ppl on tiktok are annoying and think they’re so smart like no!!! you’re 15/16 and lack critical thinking #I understand why he’s still taught or talked about or whatever #because he’s the pillar (that’s how I’ll phrase it ig lol) of psychology/when it was still an enigma #but like… if he were to say all that shit now ppl would think he’s crazy #ppl back then had no idea what psychology was so when someone presents a new topic with unheard of perspectives #then ppl are gonna think that persons knows what they’re talking about #because there’s nothing else to go off of and they have no prior knowledge or understanding #also a lot of his research/findings whatever… was concluded from observing males #and he just took those theories and copy and pasted and slightly edited them when it came to girls #like??? that’s NOT HOW THAT WORKS LMFAOO #idk I just wish ppl would actually educate themselves instead of spewing dumb shit #but hey… thats nothing new for tiktok users #and the internet in general

[shoutsindwarvish]

what if i brought my magen david rainbow flag into work but also buy a desk-sized palestinian flag to put next to it so that people know to stop wishing me merry christmas but also don’t make any other assumptions

i’m almost definitely not going to because it’ll be striking a hornet’s nest but getting so fucking tired of how much my team is openly assuming everyone is christian (complete with multiple explicit mentions of the church and jesus himself in our last meeting of things/people that coworkers were grateful for)

like yeah it would be inappropriate for me to bring politics to work and will probably make people uncomfortable but THEY STARTED IT

#i thought i could let it just roll off my back but it’s wearing on me #the sheer unabashed double standard #honestly should just harness the spite for my job search #but like. at least ATTEMPT to claim it’s a generic winter holiday celebration #they’re not even bothering to file off the christmas label #my team meeting yesterday was a full hour of explicitly christmas-themed activities #christmas trivia #then guessing whose christmas tree belonged to which coworker (they assumed we all had one and asked us to send them in on friday) #then christmas pictionary #i was going to mention at the end that hanukkah starts thursday night but we ran out of time #i don’t begrudge festive cheer. genuinely. #i AM annoyed by the assumption that being christian is the default #when i KNOW they do not see being any other religion as neutral #from some unfortunate experiences during last pesach #[screams] #my posts #work adventures #…i’m not going to because it’s not fucking worth it

[aroaessidhe]

2024 reads / storygraph

The Ruin of Kings

start of a complex high fantasy series

follows a boy who grew up in the slums, but is claimed as the missing son of a treacherous prince and is dragged into dangerous politics against his will

and simultaneously follows him older, having escaped and following his destiny, among gods & sea monsters & giant dragons

both stories being retold as he’s trapped in prison, by himself and his captor, with footnotes from a third party

shapeshifters & demons

#the ruin of kings #aroaessidhe 2024 reads #sorry i know people probably like this but i just...idk #hm. why. it feels unnecessarily convoluted #there’s so many different things going on but I don’t get the purpose. it just feels like things happening in order (but also out of order) #I enjoyed the footnotes a lot. I like when they’re kinda funny and argue with the narrator. they kinda dropped off a lot after the start th #I don’t care about the MC. he’s annoying. Sorry. #Some the dialogue feels awkward. Also every time the MC makes a joke it’s like cringily anachronistically modern? idk #i mean I know it's a fantasy world not the past. but it feels out of place #Don’t love how it / the MC treats women in general idk. quite an allonormative narrative also #do the other ones have other MCs? i might consider reading them one day if so but. otherwise ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[doomedpuppetyuri]

Hey I hope you guys know that any time someone likes and/or reblogs a post I make about a more niche fandom I start giggling. Kicking my feet. Twirling my hair even.

#/pos #makes me so happy honestly I’m so grateful #I get so excited #Like omg they’re not annoyed that I never shut up abt this thing I assumed no one else cared about they’re actually interested…… #anyways love y’all #<3 #not really about a specific fandom #maaaaybe lost in random #but also just in general

[chibishortdeath]

OH I AM BEING SO INCREDIBLY NORMAL ABOUT CORDOVA TOWN RN—

#castlevania #castlevania games #text post #epic gaming moment #hector castlevania #castlevania curse of darkness #curse of darkness #IT LOOKS LIKE A SIMONS QUEST TOWN #AND THE ZOMBIES IN IT #AND ALSO THE ONE THATS IN RONDO #AND THE ONE FROM ONE OF THE LEVELS IN CV3 #ASDFJFKSH I KNOW ITS JUST A REOCCURRING SETTING BUT AAAAA #Now I’m sittin here thinking about Simon’s Quest but 3D #I would cry if Konami remade that game either out of sadness because the remake was bad or pure joy #I’m leaning on not trusting Konami tho tbh #curse of darkness has literally been so fun oh my god #I love my weird devil children they’re all great #cant wait to get the mage one and evolve it to be the really cutesy Kirby character lookin one #and the backtracking and maps are just in general very fun #I’m finding that I’m not getting annoyed by any of the backtracking which is a great sign #ough I love this game

[wyvernne]

it kills me that so many people portray diluc as indiscriminately cruel. he may be cold, and even curt at times, but he’s genuinely a gentleman and it’s so obvious in his voicelines that he cares about others.

#the amount of people that headcanon him as being a terrible spouse because they write him as getting ‘annoyed’ at y/n is worrying lol #i guess you could weed out all the bad traits of genshin characters lol #diluc can absolutely be dismissive at times #but literally just to people that are bothering him 💀 #and his interactions w kaeya don’t count they’re just being petty siblings 😭 #diluc wouldn’t bother being the darknight hero if he didn’t care about others lol #speaking of… #y’all #i’m just gonna say this as a general statement #it’s not bad for characters to be villains or have villainous traits #diluc has unlikable/undesirable traits but it doesn’t make him a bad character #or make people problematic for talking about those traits #i only have an issue when people grossly mischaracterize him lol #i don’t want to get into it but #yeah #villains can be cool besties you don’t have to condone their actions lmfao #and ur fave can be problematic and that’s okay #diluc murdered a bunch of people let’s be real 💀