the thing about taking advice from anyone on tiktok or instagram including catholic and christian type influencers, parenting advice, relationship advice, etc, or internalizing any stories of horrible relationships and betrayal people tell on those platforms, or reading about all the ways interpersonal relationships can end horribly and be cycled through extremely quickly on those platforms is that you are necessarily then consuming the thoughts and experiences of someone who is willing to put their face and name on a public social media platform to talk at you. and like 1% of those people have a good reason for doing so and the other 99% are completely unhinged. so everything you’re consuming has first gone through the filter of "is this person weird and insane enough to make Instagram reels of themselves crying?" and if the answer is yes maybe their advice doesn’t apply to your life because you’re a normal person who would not do that.
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so many people in the notes of various joe hills pronouns posts are like “well ofc i don’t think he means it” or otherwise implying that joe doesn’t know what he’s talking about when he says he’s unlabeled and uses any pronouns like. guys. he isn’t lying and he isn’t confused. he’s an adult and he clearly knows quite a bit about these things, given he talks about them frequently.
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speaking of my own blorbos tricking me into doing nice things for myself, I just invested in some expensive but, it sounds like, really nice leather sandals with soft soles, and the reason I want them is that they're cute and look comfortable and I don't have any good sandals right now and one of the reviews said 'I've been going barefoot full time for the last 8 years and I love these sandals'
but the reason I found them is that I was looking for footwear that felt aesthetically appropriate as a compromise for dressing as aubree in places that don't allow going barefoot
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