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#there isnt really a 'middle ground' on a binary feminine - gnc - trans guy spectrum...we're all buying from the same places for diff reason
nudibutch · 3 years
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Hiiiii 🥰 I’m a baby transmasc butch and I was wondering if you have any good packer/strap/harness recommendations? I’m a little lost with all the online options, and I’m just trying to see what some real life *butches* use instead of trying to balance between what’s used by the overwhelmingly femme lesbians depicted on websites, and what’s used by trans men
hello!! happy to help :) to be 100% honest with you:
gnc/transmasc butches 🤝🏼 trans men
(using the same reliable brands)
its really less about WHO is using it and more WHAT youre using it for. its a lot more about your own comfort level and preference. I prefer a boxer harness (like the kind rodeoh makes) because it eliminates a lot of bottom dysphoria by keeping me "covered" while integrating a dildo nicely with my body. others prefer an actual harness, for its adjustability or other reasons. its really up to you.
dont feel limited by the models used on websites. they may be feminine but theyre just demonstrating a product; choose whatever looks good to you in the dildo/harness etc department. i chose based off what i thought looked really cool while also being not too big for my frame (for me - 5'5" and 100lbs, 6" is my max length personally). main takeaway from dildos is: silicone, silicone, silicone. easiest to keep clean, sterilize (just boil in water for a few min), and always pair with NON SILICONE lube (water based is best)
packers: mr limpy is a classic, comes in a variety of sizes i think and also isnt too expensive if youre looking for a starter! this is used by a both butches and trans guys alike. i actually went with the archer (the petite size bc im small - but the regular one is bigger than mr limpy i think)
there are also some "pack and play" models im not as familiar with that are "soft" packers but can be converted to "hard" with a rod insert if youre looking for a 2 in 1 kind of deal.
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