Please teach your daughters that following a man through hell is not love.
Sticking by his side while he drags you through years of embarrassment and infidelity that makes you question your worth is not love.
Abandoning your dignity and self respect to keep the peace is not love.
UNLEARN THAT SHIT!
No man that truly loves you would ever put himself in a position to lose you or want to hurt you.
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This is a bit off topic but, Regimen Tord reminds me of *those* parents, the type that have you more to show you off than consider you as person. Being "shy/withdrawn" Means being weak, letting others choose where to go means you're a pushover, Trusting people means being "young, naive"
You know? The type of parent who will absolutely insult everything about you, but in a way that shows you they're "doing it for you" Pressure you to the point you *have* to do it his way, and then praise you a bunch
He feels like a overbearing parent but as a paranoid, disney villain
This sounds like it comes from somewhere deep and I hope you're okay anon, but yeaaahhh.....Thats partly how I characterise him, though as more of a "loving" partner who's only concerned about you, because hey, sometimes you can't handle certain things, not that they're calling you weak! No no! It's just...natural, to need help sometimes. So just, leave it to them, okay?
They love you, just, reciprocate it sometimes. Afterall, they're doing this for you.
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VERY IMPORTANT a dam in the Netherlands, the weerdsluis lock, is directly on a migratory path for spawning fish. They have a worker stationed there to open the door for the fish, but they can take a while to open it. So to keep the fish from getting preyed on by birds they installed a doorbell. Only, the fish don't have hands to ring the doorbell. If you go to their website, they have a LIVE CAMERA AND A DOORBELL that YOU RING FOR THE FISH when they're waiting, and then the dam worker opens the door for them! I can't express how obsessed I am with this. look at this shit. oh my god.
Please check on the fish doorbell once in a while :)
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i dont know who needs to hear this but you do not need to go on a diet. you do not need to lose weight as a new year revolution. you do not need to feel shame for gaining any weight over the holidays and for enjoying yourself and the food. you do not need to tolerate diet talk after setting a boundary and if someone cant respect that then theyre being the asshole. you already have a summer body. you already are hot. theres no moral failure or shame in being fat
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girl who needs to ask for reassurance would rather be stabbed than admit they have needs
GIRL GENDER FUNNY‼️ POST MADE BY MOST FEMININE HE/THEY SHUT UP‼️
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One of my favourite mundane weirdnesses about Edinburgh is that we set the big clock visible approaching the station to be 3 minutes fast to make sure people are on time for their trains. My Favourite mundane weirdness of Edinburgh is that we check this by firing a cannon.
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listen. i know it's not 2014 anymore and i know it's just a throwaway line and that the russo brothers didnt intend for marvel action blockbuster captain america the winter soldier to become the tragic gay love story that never was but man. having steve say "it's kind of hard to find someone with shared life experience" in a conversation about romantic relationships right before the bucky reveal is so cruel. it's not just about steve and bucky obviously having the shared experience of being "out of time," it's the fact that they've both been stripped of their humanity in opposite directions. steve is a legend, he is an american hero and a national icon before he is a human being the same way that bucky is a weapon and a killing machine before he is a human being. steve knows that anyone who falls in love with him in the 21st century fell in love with captain america first, and that's just not him. but then the one person who knew him first and knew him best and loved him (not captain america, that little guy from brooklyn) so much he died for it is alive, impossibly. and it's a miracle because he's back and it's horrific because he's back under the worst possible circumstances. but to steve, the winter soldier is worth tearing the world apart for because he's always been bucky first. they find each other and suddenly they're human again. and maybe, despite it all, being "out of time" becomes a blessing, because in this century they'd finally be allowed to love each other the way they've always wanted to. like real people do.
like. no. the captain america trilogy isn't about two queer men traumatized and alienated by war and modern life rediscovering and reclaiming their humanity through their love for each other. but. i mean. it couldve been
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if i was a bug i would find you every lifetime just to die in your drink
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