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intellectual6666 · 1 month
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Slowly, the summer is coming. Slowly the water in the water bottle is coming back to normal temperature. Slowly the small droplet of sweat is swimming down from the forehead. Slowly the sweaters are going inside the storage trunks. Slowly the taazi matar paneer is turning into only matar ki sabzi. Slowly the sleeveless loose t-shirts are coming back from exile. Slowly the temperature of the hot water which we used for bathing is going down. Slowly the winter is bidding goodbye and giving us a hopeful smile. A hope of seeing us again after 7-8 months.
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lvrshush · 1 month
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every time i feel a little shitty i come back to the one thing that gives me comfort in a weird way (my ed)
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frocga · 2 years
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no because keith just angry-crush shit-talking lance inside the red lion for all of the beginning seasons
so like when lance gets the red lion she's mildly confused because she didn't expect lance to be such a pleasant boy (and she has to apologize to blue later for shitting all over her pilot)
because the lions don't understand the delicate part of humanity that is teenage crushes
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oceanandlilies · 8 months
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Why guys with curly hairs are so cute!!??
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Sergeant miss sad eyes reporting for suffering
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residualthoughts · 6 months
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Okay, I realise I was gone from Tumblr a while, but why is there a live section full of half naked ppl?
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luxstellar · 11 months
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vantaerayleigh1997 · 2 years
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Maybe I'm too wishful..
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book-buni · 1 year
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i wonder if anyone will ask
"are you really ok?"
when i say i am.
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I know my belly isn't really that big but I feel so awful right now at the beach in a bikini! I don't know how to sit to make me look slim enough...
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girlygirl72 · 28 days
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Favorite Pilates video:)
ꨄ ꨄ ꨄ
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inmortalgirl18 · 2 months
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We didn’t come with a manual… but all we want is to connect with our mutuals on this crowded but lonely Earth…
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lvrshush · 1 month
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i have these phases were im lonely but im surrounded by people.
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inkskinned · 10 months
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the thing is that they're so fascinated by sex, they love sex, they can't imagine a world without sex - they need sex to sell things, they need sex to be part of their personality, they need sex to prove their power - but they hate sex. they are disgusted by it.
sex is the only thing that holds their attention, and it is also the thing that can never be discussed directly.
you can't tell a child the normal names for parts of their body, that's sexual in nature, because the body isn't a body, it's a vessel of sex. it doesn't matter that it's been proven in studies (over and over) that kids need to know the names of their genitals; that they internalize sexual shame at a very young age and know it's 'dirty' to have a body; that it overwhelmingly protects children for them to have the correct words to communicate with. what matters is that they're sexual organs. what matters is that it freaks them out to think about kids having body parts - which only exist in the context of sex.
it's gross to talk about a period or how to check for cancer in a testicle or breast. that is nasty, illicit. there will be no pain meds for harsh medical procedures, just because they feature a cervix.
but they will put out an ad of you scantily-clad. you will sell their cars for them, because you have abs, a body. you will drip sex. you will ooze it, like a goo. like you were put on this planet to secrete wealth into their open palms.
they will hit you with that same palm. it will be disgusting that you like leather or leashes, but they will put their movie characters in leather and latex. it will be wrong of you to want sexual freedom, but they will mark their success in the number of people they bed.
they will crow that it's inappropriate for children so there will be no lessons on how to properly apply a condom, even to teens. it's teaching them the wrong things. no lessons on the diversity of sexual organ growth, none on how to obtain consent properly, none on how to recognize when you feel unsafe in your body. if you are a teenager, you have probably already been sexualized at some point in your life. you will have seen someone also-your-age who is splashed across a tv screen or a magazine or married to someone three times your age. you will watch people pull their hair into pigtails so they look like you. so that they can be sexy because of youth. one of the most common pornography searches involves newly-18 young women. girls. the words "barely legal," a hiss of glass sand over your skin.
barely legal. there are bills in place that will not allow people to feel safe in their own bodies. there are people working so hard to punish any person for having sex in a way that isn't god-fearing and submissive. heteronormative. the sex has to be at their feet, on your knees, your eyes wet. when was the first time you saw another person crying in pornography and thought - okay but for real. she looks super unhappy. later, when you are unhappy, you will close your eyes and ignore the feeling and act the role you have been taught to keep playing. they will punish the sex workers, remove the places they can practice their trade safely. they will then make casual jokes about how they sexually harass their nanny.
and they love sex but they hate that you're having sex. you need to have their ornamental, perfunctory, dispassionate sex. so you can't kiss your girlfriend in the bible belt because it is gross to have sex with someone of the same gender. so you can't get your tubes tied in new england because you might change your mind. so you can't admit you were sexually assaulted because real men don't get hurt, you should be grateful. you cannot handle your own body, you cannot handle the risks involved, let other people decide that for you. you aren't ready yet.
but they need you to have sex because you need to have kids. at 15, you are old enough to parent. you are not old enough to hear the word fuck too many times on television.
they are horrified by sex and they never stop talking about it, thinking about it, making everything unnecessarily preverted. the saying - a thief thinks everyone steals. they stand up at their podiums and they look out at the crowd and they sign a bill into place that makes sexwork even more unsafe and they stand up and smile and sign a bill that makes gender-affirming care illegal and they get up and they shrug their shoulders and write don't say gay and they get up, and they make the world about sex, but this horrible, plastic vision of it that they have. this wretched, emotionless thing that holds so much weight it's staggering. they put their whole spine behind it and they push and they say it's normal!
this horrible world they live in. disgusted and also obsessed.
#this shifts gender so much bc it actually affects everyone#yes it's a gendered phenomenon. i have written a LOT about how different genders experience it. that's for a different post.#writeblr#ps my comments about seeing someone cry -- this is not to shame any person#and on this blog we support workers.#at the same time it's a really hard experience to see someone that looks like you. clearly in agony. and have them forced to keep going.#when you're young it doesn't necessarily look like acting. it looks scary. and that's what this is about - the fact that teens#have likely already been exposed to that definition of things. because the internet exists#and without the context of healthy education. THAT is the image burned into their minds about what it looks like.#it's also just one of those personal nuanced biases -#at 19 i thought it was normal to be in pain. to cry. to not-like-it. that it should be perfunctory.#it was what i had seen.#and it didn't help that my religious upbringing was like . 'yeah that's what you get for premarital. but also for the reference#we do think you should never actually enjoy it lol'#so like the point im making is that ppl get exposed to that stuff without the context of something more tender#and assume .... 'oh. so it's fine i am not enjoying myself'. and i know they do because I DID.#he was my first boyfriend. how was i supposed to know any different#i didn't even have the mental wherewithal to realize im a lesbian . like THAT used to suffering.
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oceanandlilies · 5 months
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ADVICE NEEDED!!
So guys basically this friend of mine have a huge crush on this guy and she wanna let him know about her existence and wants to strike up a conversation with him but also she don't wanna look like a creep or something but she don't even know how to start convos with people and then she asked me....
So the problem is I don't even know how to approach your crush (ofc if I knew I would have done that)...so I need advice/some tips!!
BOYS!! I ALSO WANNA KNOW YOUR OPINION LIKE WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK SHE SHOULD DO THAT WOULDN'T LOOK CREEPY OR SOMETHING TO YOU??
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In my "this cannot continue yet it does" era🫶🏼
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