#surf and terf

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#art #artists on tumblr #drawing #sketch #my art #арт #sketchbook #traditional art #рисунок #скетч #the clash #joe strummer #Hot wheels #Surf n terf #Surf'n'terf #diecast cars #Rockabilly #Graffiti #graffiti tag #portrait drawing #traditional sketch #The clash clampdown #punk rock #Classic punk #70s punk #70s #punk culture

[doodle-doodie-doo]

Btw I made this moment into a gif you guys!! Loved this moment

#my other stuff #Eddsworld #Eddsworld surf or terf wars #ew Matt

[peppermintquartz]

A shark husband sees his shark wife being very excited about something

Shark husband asks, "why are you so happy today?"

Shark wife says, "JK Rowling is here on a seaside holiday and she's trying out a new sport!"

Shark husband is puzzled. "But don't you hate JK Rowling?"

Shark wife says, "I do! But we can have Surfing Terf for dinner!"

#listen #that surf and turf pun got stuck in my head so i just gotta inflict #idk if i want this spread around a la badjokesbyjeff #or to have it die in silence #head terf is a shit person

[goofenschmertz]

voldemort is the type of guy to like a charcuterie board

#voldemort #harry potter #fuck jkr #tom riddler #tom rizzler #tommy riddle #ballsack #terfs can't surf

[a-random-whovian7]

Should have put JK Rowling in the Titanic Submarine, we could have called it the "Surf 'n Terf".

#196 #fuck jkr #titanic #i love puns #general tomfoolery #trans rights

[bassed11]

Post surf and terf

#co's art tag #eddsworld #ew fanart #matt #edd #eddsworld matt #eddsworld edd #lobster matt #TW PISS 😞 #eddmatt #mattedd #<-- SURE

[rjalker]

"""MERD isn't based on TERF!!!! It's not meant to make you think of TERFs!!!! It's not comparing physically disabled people to TERFs!!!!" so you're just straight up lying now? Really? Just saying the most blatant lies possible? Really???

Like it's not the most bullshit acronym possible just so that it can resemble the word "TERF"?????

You're really gonna try and pretend that "Mental Exclusionary Radical Disables" isn't literally just a bastardization of TERF to fucking surf on the coat-tails of people rightfully hating TERFs literally just to demonize physically disabled people with a straight face? Are you fucking serious?

You do not get to fucking compare physically disabled people (many of whom are literally fucking trans) who do not want ablebodied people taking over our space to TERFs and then pretend you're on the right side here.

Don't even fucking waste your gods damned breath trying to pretend this bullshit of an acronym isn't just "TERF" with some new letters slapped on top.

You people are blatantly just trying to come up with scary sounding buzzwords to call the physically disabled people you don't like so that you don't actually have to explain to people, "Yeah, I'm siding with the ablebodied people who want to take over spaces exclusively created for physically disabled people so that ablebodied people can continue to speak over and drown out physically disabled people. I'm on the side of the people who say that having ADHD is the exact same thing as being a quadriplegic. These mean cripples are cops for not letting people with ADHD into their space."

Just because you come up with a scary fucking buzzword to call the cripples who don't want to be subjected to even more ableism in the one space that's created for us doesn't mean you're the good guys.

#ableism #cripplepunk #I swear to gods. #actually physically disabled #actullyphysicallydisabled

[giveuthemo0n]

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about me <3

‘i rise with my red hair / and i eat men like air’

my name is greta, im a minor, i'm aroace, and i go by she/her <3

🎧 music: i love taylor swift, phoebe bridgers, julien baker, lucy dacus, boygenius, mitski, ethel cain, searows, laufey, lana del rey, paramore, olivia rodrigo, conan gray, and fiona apple

📓 books: my fav books are acotar, tog, hoeab, gggtm, song of achilles, girl in peices, the priory of the orange tree, when rain turns to snow, they both die at the end, harry potter (fck jr <3), the perks of being a wallflower, the hunger games, tbosas, + more

🫐 movies/tv: dead poets society, little women (2019), adventure time, toh, amphibia, disenchantment, gilmore girls, detectorists, banana fish, yuri on ice, glee, scott pilgrim takes off, yellowjackets, & vld (defending this show w my life)

💿 video games: sdv, acnh, botw, & sf

🤍 ships: wolfstar beloved <33, jily, jegulus, shackie, lottielee, lottienat, taivan, everlark, anderperry, faberry, feysand, lumity, zukka, huntlow, klance (stuck in 2019 core), marcanne, brittana, salvis, bubbline, scollace, & ramscott

🌑 my fav things: the beach in winter, skiing, listening to music in the dark, my bedroom, drawing, pinterest, sunsets hdjhsjk, reading, baking, surfing (if it’s not too cold haha), the mountains, bavaria (where my dad is from <33), hiking, hanging w my cousins, & willow trees

dni: dsmp fans (if were already moots dw about this), racists, homophobes, transphobes, aphobes, ableists, proshippers, anyone under 13 or over 20, basically anyone rude, terfs, anti-feminists

thats about all :) feel free to ask me anything or msg me if u need anything <33

ily!!!!!!!

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#pinned post #about me #intro post #introductory post #pinned intro #blog intro

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

WIBTA for asking a friend if I could move in with them?

I (16m) came out as trans to my parents about a year back and discovered both of them (but especially my mom, who is the main concern as my parents are divorced and I don’t live with my dad) are very transphobic — my mom has been heavily influenced by the clusterfuck that is TERF social media and as I understand it she’s scared that me transitioning would hurt my mental / physical health in the long run (even though I literally can’t medically transition as i had an allergic reaction to anaesthetic when I was younger and now I have a severe phobia of anything medical including potential HRT or surgical procedures :/). Her reaction has been very aggressive, sarcastic, belittling, condescending, etc. (telling me i’ve been brainwashed by trans ideology, the usual TERF-adjacent shit) and she’s also ableist and denies my ADHD diagnosis that I’ve had for months as she claims I just want an excuse to be lazy.

All this plus a general hostile atmosphere (from both sides because i’m not good at being patient and non-confrontational) is making life at home intolerable for the most part and I’ve been seriously considering moving out. However I have no money so I would need to couch surf or find a friend who would be alright with me staying at their house long-term. I don’t have any friends who have explicitly said I could stay with them if I needed to (because I haven’t asked yet) but a few of them know all these details and have been supportive so I’m sure they would be open to it if I asked. Still, I really don’t want to be a burden to anyone and I have two years left before I go to university so I would be relying on friends for a long time (plus their parents as I wouldn’t be able to buy my own food or anything of the sort unless I got a job, in which case I’d have to blow money I could be saving up for university on groceries so I feel like the smart thing to do would be to stay at home and save up) — I feel like they would agree to let me stay to be nice but secretly resent me and I obviously don’t want that. So should I ask someone or should I suck it up and wait the two years out?

What are these acronyms?

#aita #am i the asshole

[doodle-doodie-doo]

(Eddsworld surf and terf wars spoilers)

I dunno what i expected from the newest episode but it def wasent edd flirting with tom and matt playing with his boobs uhhhhhh

#my rants/headcanons/etc #eddsworld #eddsworld surf or terf wars

[miss-peanut-butter-cups]

yeah-hey! terf island babyyy! love to see the tories and labour bonding over their hatred of trans people! such a potent enemies to lovers story! call this a surf and terf, cause I'm catching waves of transphobia on this island! yahooo! 🤘🏄‍♀️

#im laughing but it fucking sucks #trans issues #196 #trans

[mugwumpnoodles666]

eddsworld oppsite day surf and terf screenshot edit

#tom eddsworld #eddsworld matt #eddsworld #eddswolrd #eddsworldedd

[twothpaste]

if you're 1 noisy follower who's too cowardly to come off anon, block me. if you're multiple terfs who spend their evenings surfing the notes on posts about trans women, and sending monologues to random ppl who reblogged them, consider getting a job. it's really that simple 🥱

#maybe try projecting your internalized misogyny at your therapist instead of at an Earth Bound Blogger. you might feel better #most miserable people on earth. lmao.

[redley-of-many-noodles]

I made an interesting discovery today.

(I would especially like to hear your thoughts, @analogue-system )

To start, some context.

I don’t ‘surf’ the plurality tags like I frequently do aspec and destiel tags (despite not being involved in either!), but I’ve seen some things relating to them.

Primarily, a lot of people putting “endogenic systems dni” or “non-traumagenic systems/supporters not welcome” in intro posts and the like. I’ve also seen a much lower concentration of systems that identify as endogenic, but that was from my For You page, so the algorithm’s bias may have been at play there.

From what I’d read about DID in a psychology class a few years ago, and interviews I’d seen on Azeal’s YouTube channel, I knew that severe trauma can cause DID to develop or intensify. Using that, I guessed that the meaning of ‘traumagenic’ was relating to that fact. That systems form through trauma. Everything I’d heard up to that point seemed to fit with that. But then, what did ‘endogenic’ mean?

I made another assumption.

I had seen a lot of negativity towards endogenic systems, and had heard a system talk about a Discord server they were once in, which was filled with people allegedly trying to ‘naturally’ become plural. This server was also said to immediately turn on the system after they were medically diagnosed.

My brain connected that dot to ‘endogenic,’ and the fact that it was somehow distinct from ‘traumagenic.’ I was satisfied with that conclusion, too.

But then my Author Brain got to Author Brainstorming. I wanted to make sure I knew the exact definitions just in case that one story idea ever came to fruition. So I searched the internet for,

“traumagenic vs endogenic.”

And I found an interesting article.

One from a system that’s been a part of the community for quite a while now.

The system that coined the terms ‘endogenic’ and ‘traumagenic.’

I’d like you all to read it.

Seriously, read it. Read it carefully. Don’t just toss the entire thing out the window as soon as the author uses one word you don’t like.

Read. It. All.

And think about it.

There’s not much I can say that the article didn’t nail right on the head — great job to the Lunastus Collective on that! — so I’ll just ask you the tried and true questions you’ve probably seen a dozen times before.

If you don’t like [x], why?

If you hate endogenic systems, or think they aren’t actually plural, why? What’s your reasoning? How much actual evidence is there to back it up? How much of your argument, when you take a close look at it, is just bias?

Same thing to those who feel similarly towards traumagenic systems. Why?

Assuming endogenic systems to be “fakers” who were impersonating a disorder to mock those suffering from it or to get attention came naturally to me. I hadn’t really seen the term ‘endogenic’ or its meaning discussed at all, and it made sense — just like plenty of people have faked Tourette’s and autism for TikTok views, it made sense that people would fake DID too.

And don’t get me wrong, for every disorder that’s been featured in the news or a movie there’s a crowd of people who will pretend to have it for attention. I have no doubt there have been people pretending to have DID under the endogenic label, but the same is likely true of traumagenic.

I’m not plural. I’m not an authority on plurality. But the Lunastus Collective is the first actual authority on the subject I’ve seen discuss endogenic systems in any other light than “go fuck yourself and die.”

Even if I’m being woefully misled and somehow stumbled onto misinformation from the most nefarious, diabolical liar to have ever graced the Earth, I feel like that’s a problem. That people respond to a word with that much hostility.

It’s an attitude that reminds me of aphobes and terfs in how dismissive and disrespectful it is.

So, if you’ve read this far and have been genuinely giving thought to the matter, genuinely trying to look at this from all sides — please, talk to me. Share your thoughts. If you have sources of your own to share, please link them in the comments or reblogs or anything.

I don’t want this to be a post centered around hate and conflict. So please, approach with grace, not to have a fight, but to have a discussion. Even if you do so grudgingly.

#plurality #traumagenic #endogenic #dissociative identity disorder #did osdd #plural community #multiplicity #discussion #traumagenic system #endogenic system #did system #plural system #i want to hear from the plural community on this #i want to hear your thoughts after reading all that #if you found something here useful #or informative to you #please reblog and spread it around #tag people if you feel like it #i want an actual sample size on this #rather than just having the post die in 3 days #so yeah. please engage. i want to discuss #i want to learn more. i want to hear your voices #i want to know and understand you better #but it seems like you don’t understand each other very well #and because im nosy and meddling #i have a tiny vain hope in my heart #that this will change some of your minds #that people will stop hating and start loving #that’s all i can think of to say. and im at the tag limit now. #before i go; the secret to immortality is—

[yuri-for-businesswomen]

has anyone noticed that swerf and terf sounds like surf and turf. kind of swag

#shitpost

[jellojellojello]

JK Rowling drowning in the ocean. Call that Surf and Terf

#I think I’m funny #anti JKR #anti TERF #terfs do not interact #anti HP