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raindropren · 6 months
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Oc Art time!
Hi! This is Fault <3 He is Baby and Plush is a Twitch Streamer and I looovveee him :D He's my little romance-based-story character (His main plot is Romance and it's Adorable aaaaaaaa) Okie that's all for now :]
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andthebeanstalk · 10 months
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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
#hlep#original#mental health#my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it#i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support#and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of#huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the#longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel#i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop
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yudol-skorbi · 4 months
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i am at the point where if i dont finish now i'll newer finish so yeah the rest of the gaaaaaang
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luvit · 4 months
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ELLIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
Just wanna start off by saying that your one-shots make me absolutely FERAL I'm literally going to swallow your account whole.
Recently, I walked into the wrong store at a strip mall lookin like a fuckin HIGHLIGHTER (full pink outfit + heels 💀), and the guy at the counter was this BEEFCAKE with a gaiter mask and a Slipknot shirt who looked me up and down before asking if I was in the right place. I almost folded on the spot. I actually don't know how I made it out of there alive bro.
So how do I channel my raging obsession with this random stranger even though I saw him for a grand total of 15 seconds? By projecting it onto COD, of course!
Here I humbly ask of thee to make a piercer!Ghost AU who is pretty much just a brooding metalhead decked out in piercings and tattoos, and a reader who is literally the big-eyed, picture-perfect, borderline Elle Woods embodiment of your typical "good girl", who has Simon grinding on the shelves beneath the counter when she asks him abt services. She only has basic earrings, and the idea of being the one to ruin her pretty little visage drives him fucking wild. Has to keep himself from leaping over the register and ploughing a crater of her into the floor when she schedules an appointment for a Christina piercing.
Only problem is, is when it happens, she's a whiny little thing and a sobbing mess so she's gotta be comforted in order for Simon to do his job (wink wonk). Throws in a free ring and the promise of future discounts bc he wants her to come back for more. He just laughs when she picks a sparkly lil butterfly stud or whatever bc he thinks she's adorable but also out of confusion bc girl??? What was the reason for this if not late-onset rebellion???? Did you lose a bet????? No to all. Homegirl actually got her bits ka-chunked as her first piercing by choice bc it's easy to hide lmao. Crazy.
Bonus points if Ghost makes her send daily photos of it to "see how she's healing". I also imagine he would personally put her new jewelry pieces when she buys them and teaches her what a Jacob's Ladder piercing is (iykwim 😏) but that sounds like a part 2 kinda thing and I feel like I've already sent so much 😭 I don't mean to overwhelm you with this I'm so sorry. I'm just passionate I swear 😪
Anyway YOU'RE DOING CHARITY WITH WHAT YOU DO ILYSM TY BYEEEEE <33333
(female!reader, mdni 18+)
BRO ARE YOU LIVING AN IN REAL LIFE ROMANCE NOVEL??????? WHAT FANFIC DID YOU STEP OUT OF??!?!?!??! oh wait. this one ;P
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piercer!simon who absolutely could not take his eyes off of you when you walked into the little area of the strip mall. where the walls were lined with graphic tees, art, and a whole line up of tools and items meant for piercing. the dark walls and the only colors in the room being the neon on the shirts and your pretty pink outfit that especially made it come together with the little skirt you decided to hike up a little higher on your hips. oh, simon could stop himself from thinking about how innocent you looked. and how much he wanted to ruin that. especially with the way your wide eyes looked around at everything and landed on him. he knew he needed to corrupt that.
piercer!simon who asks "need anything, little lady?" from behind the counter. when you turn those doe eyes to him, oh he's a goner for sure. makes him shift so his growing bulge is hidden against the counter. he hoped that it would go away if he just planted his clothed dick against the side of the counter. in his head he's pleading that you don't come closer and just run out of there. but when you come bounding over to him, he has no choice but to grind against the shelves when you move those pretty lips. especially when you say you came in there on accident, oh he can make you cum on purpose. you should've just run while you had the chance. but you figured since you were there and already acknowledged that you should do something. now, he's got his hooks into you. because little you decided to approach the huge muscled man who's got a bunch of tattoos running down both arms, a bunch of ear and eyebrow and lip piercings, and a hidden tongue piercing he likes to show off on special occassions.
piercer!simon who walks you through the types of piercings you can get done when you ask him, haven't gotten anything else besides your earlobes pierced. he says they can do more on your ears, it's easier enough since you have the basics there already. or even a nose piercing. and he takes the chance to study your face, but with the angle you're giving him with that top? he's able to barely see your cleavage and the way your bra cups your tits so nicely. has to bite his lip when you start looking on your phone for types of piercings as well. he sees your hands and things how those pretty manicured fingers would look wrapped around his cock. would feel so much better than a lousy shelf.
piercer!simon who takes in a breath when you show him a picture of a christina piercing. wants to tell you that they don't normally do that in a strip mall anyways. but the way your nervous little pout wobbles and you look guilty since you don't want to walk in and not get anything? simon thinks to himself, why not? he can do it under the table, among other things he can do under a table. just for you he says.
piercer!simon who tells you to meet him after hours so he can block the windows and close down the shop to give you complete privacy. and when you do, he greets you with this primal grin that makes you feel like you're stepping into a wolves den. makes you strip completely for him and gets close to your pussy when you show it to him nervously. who himself spreads your pussy open so he can "see what he's working with" as he gently rubs your inner thighs and massages all around your pussy claiming it's to get you ready.
piercer!simon who readies the tools and pauses because apparently you're not that ready yet. and when you ask what he means, he spreads you open again and presses down on your clit, plays with it just a little. knows he can't make a sweet thing like you cum. that you'll catch on if he does. but can't help but just mess with you a little bit by rolling it between his fingers and swiping it back and forth. says that it needs to be so so that it's "not in the way". and will have to hold it out of the way when he's actually ready to pierce it, but his fingers "slip" a couple times on your clit and he has to resume position. it's a little hard now that you've become so slippery! and the way your thighs twitch every time he presses onto it? it takes a looot longer than expected.
piercer!simon who asks why you decided to get this out of all the piercings, while he rubs around your mound soothingly. makes you squirm as you look at him with hooded eyes while trying to come out with a steady answer. and when you say that it'll be easier to hide than more ear piercings, a belly pericing, or any facial piercings, he has to hide this evil smirk of his.
piercer!simon who takes advantage that you have to hide this piercing, so you can't properly ask for help for care on it! so why not ask an expert who also knows about the piercing? convinces you to give him your number so you can text him updates of it healing so he can help you keep tabs on it. so he can tell you its "healing progress" when in reality he's having you take pictures nearly every day. tells you that he needs a really clear picture so you're going to have to spread your legs a little wider, even hold your pussy lips open a little bit so he can see.
piercer!simon who says that the pictures aren't enough, he isn't able to clearly tell. you'll just have to come in again so he can check it for himself. after all, he's way better if he does a personal inspection. how else can he know how that pretty pussy is doing if he doesn't give it a hands on inspection?
piercer!simon who believes in an eye for an eye. and if you're curious as well then he might show you his jacob's ladder piercings. might let you touch them. might let you feel them. all 7 of them. 🤷‍♀️
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do not edit or reupload my works elsewhere (reblogs welcome!)
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ravennazane · 1 year
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I wonder if Wednesday notices that Enid looks at her like the way that Gomez looks at Morticia, like
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Il mess you up if you dare threaten my friends!
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(The idea just popped into my head and had to do it)
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andy-clutterbuck · 3 months
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RICK GRIMES The Ones Who Live
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melonalemonade · 2 months
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the man, the myth, the legend ✨
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poyopaan · 5 months
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Now that these are all done i just really needed them all combined in one post ehe
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socksandbuttons · 4 months
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Hear me out ✨solar flare meetings bean eclipse✨ (if your au has solar flare)
BEHOLD. He's not small exactly. Monty ended up rebuilding him from a Staff bot. Eclipse wasn't too happy about that actually but ya boys got wheels now!
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catlover4536 · 2 months
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Coming here to say masc presenting Julie is one of my favorite Julie ideas out there and that, of course, I needed to make a femme presenting Frank to compliment @cyanwyrmy and their wonderful Julie!
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redhead1180 · 3 months
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Adorable 😍😍
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benoits-neckerchieves · 2 months
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i love this boy so much
“You let him have it cause he’s real cute” yes, yes he is
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Knives Out Q&A, 14/11/2019
Also there’s a part where the interviewer says he should do a full version of that Sondheim song he sings in the car and he goes “nobody wants to hear that” and i would just like to say that everybody very much wants to hear that
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balanceingrace · 24 days
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I know all of my followers who have worked in food service are dying at how wrinkled this apron is😂
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smoresie · 19 days
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new for the buckshot fandom
bad news: the update has been moved to april 4th
good news: look the picture they used...
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whereismyhat5678 · 1 month
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Guys I have done it- It took me a while to cook up but-
HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!!! 💝💝💘💘💓💓✨✨🍫🍫
I unfortunately couldn’t finish it yesterday cuz I had a hair appointment to attend too 💇‍♀️💇‍♀️✨✨
But other than that I made these two guys:
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Btw I think I got a new headcannon (kinda-)! When Peppino is feeling anxious, annoyed, stressed, etc: his mustache is down and just looks flat or stretched. When he’s either happy or around Gus and genuinely feels safe: his mustache curves like shown here 💞💞☝️☝️
Hehe, these two love each other so much 💗💗
But don’t think that’s all!! I I did this for fluff….
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But I also made something spicy..
(Tw(?): It’s that one shirtless Peppino sprite- 💀)
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Look at your own risk-
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(I can’t do backgrounds FOR SHIT but I love how this came out it took me HOURS-)
*clears throat* Happy Valentine’s Day guys 💕💕
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