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deveharrington · 6 years

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David, if true, you choosing this sh*t over your own children is unforgivable. Please, never call yourself a father until you first resolve whatever it is that is hurting you so badly.

Disclaimer: Here are theories, not facts, based on pieces of evidence. I’m connecting the dots here in interest of shedding light on the truth, on injustice and on the possibility that David is just straight up lying to his own fans about everything. Everything.

David, the fact that you even considered choosing this sh*t over your own children is, I mean, there are no words. You are not a father right now. Do not say you are a father. You do not deserve your children, the greatest gifts you could have ever received.

I cannot support Gillovny anymore, I cannot wish upon Gillian to waste anymore of herself on this empty husk of a “person”. The fact that David has prolonged this sh*t for this long is unforgivable. What could he possibly have to say for himself? David, what on earth is hurting you so badly that you will vindictively flaunt this sh*t in front of Gillian’s face while filming season 11 of The X-Files? What brought you to make passive aggressive comments towards her in interviews, speaking for her, demeaning her, diminishing her, putting words into her mouth when she is not there?

Because Gillian Anderson herself is demonstrating that she has moved on, I will honour her and do the same. So, forget about Gillovny because the real tragedy here is no doubt the depth of loss for the family.

David, why do you focus all of your destruction on the people who truly know you, see you, genuinely care about you, while you run away to pamper scammers, leeches, liars, masks, facades, and people you treat like objects? What is really the problem here?

David, you are not even Hank Moody. Even Hank Moody had more subtlety and reason in the way he pursued women (not that I agreed with him). And Hank Moody never portrayed the depth of self-loathing and misplaced anger you are displaying right now. Do you not see yourself?

I will not even dare to imagine what kind of pain the family must be going through, and this is undoubtedly a loss of a person they once knew, a death, a void. Or maybe I should shut my mouth and not assume that I could ever hope to know or explain what they are feeling. Of course, they know David better than anyone so, again, I will honour them and respect them by following their lead and moving on with myself.

This post will elaborate on a timeline theorized by @iwantapenguin.

To the fans who still pay attention to David in hopes of collecting their dues, consider that David may never give back to you what he owes you. But do not think you are so distant from him. Do not underestimate your own compassion, empathy and concern for him, for the “fake family” (not his real family, but the scammers) he surrounds himself with do not give a single sh*t about him.

But please consider: What is so terrifying here is that all the evidence points to David’s anger towards social media and HIS OWN FANS actually being a product of having his absolutely unspeakably disgusting “secret” exposed. And even when he was exposed, even in this political climate, even if his kids would be implicated by the publicity, HE STILL CONTINUED AND CONTINUES TO THIS DAY. Consider this! Think about this!

Disclaimer: sensitive themes ahead. I will be speaking of the cycle of abuse, grooming, and related topics ahead.

Thanks to any readers.

1. David, you are not a father right now. Please do not refer to yourself as a father. And please, please do not implicate your family in your lies.

The gag here is that it is not even much skin off Tim Daly’s back to raise your own kids for you. All he has to do is be himself and lead by example. Where the hell are you, David? Are you still, to this day, running from yourself?

You said that you started your horrible “music career” for your kids, to show them “grit” or whatever bullshit you were touting at that time. But why do you bring your “partner” on your tours instead of your own kids (which is unspeakably disgusting)? Why, until recently, have your kids never actually seen you perform live? Why do you make a mockery of the sanctity of terms such as “family” and “children” by lying about them to leverage and justify your own shitty-ass, completely self-serving behaviours?

Was it too much to see your own kids surpass you in learning how to play a guitar? What the hell kind of father runs away from his own kids? Are you competitive with your own kids? Are you trying to compete with Tim Daly, or your own son, trying to show them what it means “to be a real man(child)?”

What is really wrong here, David? Are your kids starting to see you for who you truly are? Are they not living up to your expectations, or are they simply not giving in to your incessant need for control? Did you decide to run once you realized you could no longer manipulate them just like you manipulate everyone else you come into contact with?

2. So, what is really wrong here, David? Do you choose to hurt the people who care about you because this is easier than being dependable? Do you feel more powerful when you hurt others? Is everything about power? Even your pampering of the scammers and fakers?

Consider this: when someone shows David genuine affection, he abuses it by playing a game of push and pull, and he does this because he is testing this affection.

It is related to his constant and disingenuous self-deprecation: he cannot take even a simple compliment without twisting and abusing it to serve himself. David uses self-deprecation to pull the punch on everyone rightfully calling him out on his patheticness. He thinks, if he says it first, then he is in control and he creates the truth.

Does David think that bringing genuine affection to its breaking point is also a form of control? As in, he will manipulate situations so that he ends up being the one to “dump” you (and he “dumped” his own children like an ex-girlfriend, remember this) but what he is really doing is trying to mask the depth of his insecurity and low self esteem. The self hatred here is off the charts. As soon as something real appears, it seems that David immediately reacts with, “I have nothing to give, I am not enough”, and that is the real truth underneath all of David’s many deflections, manipulations, masks, and verbal tactics.

David, do you pamper the scammers because they provide “unconditional love”? Or do you prefer to be surrounded by them because they have no idea who you truly are? Or, would you simply prefer to buy the fake affection of others for the rest of your life (more predicability, less risk)?

Again, Is it easier to get the attention of the people who care about you, not by being dependable, but by hurting them?

Is this why you are constantly hurting Gillian? Because you would rather abuse her depth of affection for you, test it, push it and pull it, and you prefer to abuse it because it is easier than showing up for her? Do you hurt Gillian because you can see that she is rightfully acclaimed, praised, and respected and you know you are nothingness in comparison? Does hurting her give you the delusion that you are conquering her, communicating with her, surpassing her?

To see the extent to which you will hurt the genuine people in your life, your fans included, only speaks to the unfathomable pain you must be going through. There is something seriously wrong here if this type of behaviour is rewarding you, bringing you your own kind of sick validation in any way.

3. Is it easier for you to rely on addictions than it is to rely on yourself?

Addiction to stimulants, sex, dopamine, “The Honeymoon Phase” of a relationship, lying, cheating, secrecy, taboo, danger, extremes, delusions, obfuscating, shapeshifting, and so many more are being exhibited here.

Abuse of the self, of identity, of integrity, of others, of trust, of power, of the truth, and so many more are being exhibited here.

And yes, you ARE addicted to public humiliation, David. You need attention at all costs. You are addicted to attention and the only way you know how to get it (or do you just always choose the easiest method possible?) is by humiliating yourself. You humiliate yourself for this “partner” and they are your audience of choice. But are you so glib you cannot see that you put every idea in this “partner’s” head? That their affection is doled out according to a script you wrote? Or is this what you want?

Just like you wield your self deprecation in, again, a sad attempt to beat us to the punch of rightfully calling you out on your own patheticness (because your need for control has controlled your life), you thought that stating your own fear loudly and clearly would pull the wool over our eyes. But everything, every single thing you have ever said eventually gets disproven somewhere down the line because you are a shapeshifter, manipulator, and scammer. You are a liar 100% of the time.

The truth will always come to light, and it shows that, yes, you are addicted to public humiliation. It is not so straightforward or literal as those terms, because, for you, you must always overcomplicate and convolute everything you do and react to in order to make yourself feel unique, intelligent, complex.

But I see you David. I see you being vindictive. And I see that you hide this truth, even from yourself, by focusing your aggression upon yourself.

4. Abuse is a cycle.

I had no idea at all that David had a history of sexual abuse (his experiences with a 30 year old woman at age 16). I will actually apologize to him for not collecting all the facts beforehand. And this evidence explains so so much about the current situation, but sadly, the ideas are truly scary and sad to consider.

Abuse manifests as a cycle if not properly addressed. David taking pride in his own abuse (most likely a psychological distortion done to to block his own trauma or shame) is the red flag factory.

So, objectively, I will go forward through the lens of abuse as a cycle. Again, please know that these ideas are theories and not facts, and there is some sensitive material ahead:

When David met this “partner”, perhaps when he saw the innocence he also saw the potential for corruption.

Abuse is not straightforward, and this is why David is not straightforward, in his image, in his actions, his beliefs, his reasonings, his every word.

Consider (again, keep in mind abuse is not always literal or straightforward): He may be allowing this “partner” to ABUSE HIM in an attempt to re-live the previous abuse he experienced and he is convinced he takes pride in. But, in the bigger scheme of things, he is the one with complete control over this “partner”, though he will allow them to abuse him on a micro-level, but he only allows this for manipulation purposes.

When I say “abuse” what I am talking about here is he will skew the power balance between them. For example, he may take her lead on occasion, do what she suggests, what she says, to play with her mind and convince her this is an “equal” “partnership”. And he will construe these behaviours as their language of affection or some disgusting nonsense. And this, in turn, only cultivates more devotion from them.

It takes two to tango. David will in turn abuse this “partner” for stimulation and whatever else. I now have no doubt now that there is no intimacy involved in this shituation. And yes, you can call me crazy for even considering there ever was.

Imagine: when he allows her to abuse him (tell him what to do, what to be, what to buy, what to think) he manipulates her into thinking he is being attentive or changing for her but what he is really experiencing is the sick pleasure of being abused (abuse of his own identity, his own integrity, his reputation, his beliefs etc.). But in this situation he still has control over the “partner” because at the end of the day he is the one with all the resources.

Example: he will spoil her or follow her lead only to keep tabs and guilt trip her later with an, “I did this all for you” approach. Perhaps to trap her, force them to stay (I mean, one of David’s biggest fears at this point must also be this person leaving him, is this why he is isolating them in a train(wreck) in the middle of nowhere?).

David is so shitty at playing the game that he has to resort to cheating, playing dirty, and completely dominating the field. What a prize!

For so long I was trying to put this into words, but within the context of this discussion, I think what he wants is for her to abuse his identity and I think this is definitely related to his mid-life crisis. Consider: Why did David take a nosedive into LA Dave? When NY Dave is the David who interacts with his family? When Vancouver Dave is the David who is employed? Why LA Dave? Why this “partner”? Why this facade? Why this culture?

I think it can be literally explained so simply, because David truly is so simple and shallow: he does not like what he sees in the mirror. This is why he likes this “partners” face, this is his way of looking in the mirror. Because when David himself looks in the mirror, he is not only shown a face he is disgusted by, but his own shallowness is put to the forefront. This is too much reality for David to handle at once, I suppose.

Imagine: one of those wonderfully smutty X-Files fanfics on tumblr. And sorry to insult the sacred bond of Mulder and Scully by even associating them with David but here we go.

Imagine a smutty X-Files fic where Mulder describes a person, I will not say it is Scully, just a person, and he describes his own face, his own body, his own voice, his own ideas, his own attitude, his own resources. Just try to imagine this, and try not to laugh.

Did Mulder and Scully ever compromise each other? Wear masks in front of each other? Exploit each other? Violate each other’s privacy? Project their insecurities onto each other? Abuse each other? Lie to each other? Spoil/buy each other? etc. etc.? The answer is no, because a genuine relationship needs none of these things.

5. To those who will inevitably say, “how dare you say these things about David! etc.” THAT’S what I’m saying!

What is so terrifying here is the fact that David can do these things behind the scenes, have these absolutely sick ideas in his head while he shows up to work with a smile and projects a completely different image. He will have his own absolutely disgusting intentions while he tells his OWN FAMILY that he is just going to the local smoothie shop or flying to Australia and no one is invited or buying a caboose in the middle of nowhere without even involving his own family. Who the fuck does this?

Again: What is so terrifying here is that all the evidence points to David’s anger towards social media and HIS OWN FANS actually being a product of having his absolutely unspeakably disgusting “secret” exposed. And even when he was exposed, even in this political climate, even if his kids would be implicated by the publicity, HE STILL CONTINUED AND CONTINUES TO THIS DAY. Consider this! Think about this!

What is so terrifying here is that David sold a completely different image of himself and he continues to try to sell this image! All of those lies he told about old age, supporting women.. I mean, it is unfortunate that the loyal fans must feel shame and disgust for even believing him!

Do not believe him anymore! DO NOT!

Personally, this rubs me the wrong way so much that I cannot really fully express myself without destroying my keyboard. So, I will just post this:

Jamie Lee Curtis on what really frightens her:

6. And feelings are not thoughts/thought processes.

Consider: Gillovny. Feelings are not thoughts. Feelings will not do the work for you. Feelings are uncontrollable, actions are controllable.

So the question then becomes, why does David always act so strangely in reaction to the obvious feelings he has towards Gillian? Why does he react so strangely, almost making the opposite of the correct decision with regards to Gillian?

Again, here is a hopeful little nugget: I see David as terrified of seeing the end of a genuine thing. This is why he will not even acknowledge a genuine compliment. This is why he will be “content” to “live” his “life” in a manufactured Hell with a parrot for a “partner”. This is why he will not even start anything with Gillian: he does not want it to end.

And call me whatever you want, I see some of hs current actions, emotions, and expressions as a reaction to an “end” that occurred between him and Gillian (and she had every right to end things). Though it may be mainly an anger towards the fact that she ended his cash cow. Lmao.

Right now I see a lot of deflection, passive aggressiveness, demeaning, diminishing towards her and only praise when it benefits him.

Again, for someone with such a low self esteem, strange view of women, lack of personal accomplishment or beliefs, I could go on, etc. it probably gives David some backwards ego rush to be able to mistreat Gillian when he sees the amount of acclaim, attention, that she gets, as well as the reputation that people hold her to.

This is transparent and could just be easily labelled and subsequently ignored if only Gillian did not demonstrate that she seems to have uncontrollable feelings when it comes to David. I also think he knows and sees the effect he has on her and he abuses it. He abuses her affection by pushing and pulling, playing hot and cold, lying, fooling, obfuscating, doing everything to test this affection and never reciprocate or foster it into something greater. But again, it is because he is afraid to see the end. It's like he's just toying with it just like he toys with his own destiny.

That’s what is so scary. With all celebrities being outed left and right with their stupid statements, we can't really know what they are thinking, planning, how they will take their next step, or how they process info.

David has demonstrated nothing that shows he has any strength of anything other than his arms. Not even any strength in his legs. He has no strength of conviction, no depth of emotion, he has no beliefs, he has no identity. Even lacking one of these aspects would put someone at a disadvantage but he lacks all of them. There is nothing there. I wonder, does David deliberately keep himself deficient underneath the surface in order to not take responsibility for the "things that happen to him out of his control" (a probable excuse he might give)?

6.5. If it is any small consolation, know that “badly” seems to be the way that David treats the people he actually cares about.

I think it goes beyond pushing them away, I think he adds the fact that he needs to come out on top in the end (and he manipulates the situation bring about the end on his own terms, and through his own means, his own actions. It is about control and ego.).

So, him being vindictive towards Gillian, trying so hard to prove himself, could be seen as him trying to come out on top of their supposed “fight” they are having right now, and it is a manifestation of the insecurity David feels from being compared to Gillian.

And more importantly, the vindictiveness towards his family: Could it all be as simple as he is feeling they replaced him with Tim Daly? Is it too hard for him to see his ex-wife being treated properly? Too hard to see his children becoming responsible by following Tim’s lead, and therefore David can no longer surpass his own kids in his mental competition with them because any responsible person automatically surpasses David?

And, again, I believe his real fear is not public humiliation (nice try, David. And how the hell were we supposed to believe that shit when we see your “dancing” and “singing” on tour. Could you at least try not to insult our intelligence with your crap lies?), his real fear is the end of something real.

So know, if he keeps you around and pretends to be nice to you, it is because he wants something from you, and this “something” is definitely not your opinion.

7. David is an abuser, an emotional manipulator, a psychological manipulator and a liar, of these facts I have no doubt. And he thrives on being abused himself, maybe because these are the only behaviours he is familiar with, it is his own language of communication.

David is not a normal person, and when I say this, I'm not referring to his unearned "celebrity" (barely) status, but his extreme extreme extreme self centeredness (I hesitate to label him as a narcissist, but not out of any mercy, only for the sake of ethics since I am not qualified to do so. He undoubtedly portrays many many characteristics of classic narcissism, but to varying degrees, so just keep that in mind).

8. So, I don’t even know where to begin on trying to parse out what lies, manipulations, extortions, delusions, I could go on, etc. David has told his “partner” to trap them the way he has. To bring the shituation to this state, to have completely removed this “partner” of themselves, to have reduced them to nothing just like David is nothing, just to have them by his side in Hell. And at the end of all this, they are still “singing” acoustic love songs to him.

From a psychological perspective, to think of the brainwashing is nothing short of endlessly intriguing.

But from a human perspective, this is honestly nothing short of devastating.

Call me whatever you want, but when I realized what I realized here, I cried for this "partner”. Not for the foolish, shallow, glib, immature mean girl they have shown themselves to be (time and time again), but for the loss of potential, of identity, and of innocence.

The value of potential (optimism, hope, ambition, drive), of identity (knowing how to act for yourself and no one else, and no, I don't consider “instagram Valley girl” to be an identity), and of innocence (curiosity, humility, also identity) are simply invaluable. There are no words to capture their value, these are the ingredients of life, of truth, of faith and of integrity. Without these, life is nothing, it is an illusion.

What is so scary here is that David is showing that will not hesitate to steal these things from another person if it benefits him, even if this benefit is completely superfluous and absolutely morally wrong! What the fuck, David?

9. And there is no doubt of a failure here on the part of this “partner’s” parents, to allow this shituation to occur and be prolonged to this point. And I’m sorry but going by the evidence we have of the way this “partner” acts, I am guessing there were other failures of parenting that may have occurred.

The failure here is that this “partner” did not know how to act when David started interacting with them. And no one protected them even when the corruption was brought to light.

David shows his pure narcissism, pure corruption here. He failed in being responsible. I can’t write anymore because, again, I will destroy my keyboard. Just know that my rage at this aspect of the situation is... indescribable.

10. On the failed parenting, I’m sorry, but David seeking a level with a trashy girl like this is only illuminating the truth. Maybe her failed parenting reflects David’s own failed parenting: too laid-back, too “whatever is cool”, too “I don’t ask my kids for their opinion”, while still spoiling and inflating your children’s egos in the place of actual discipline or teaching life lessons.

Another aspect of failed parenting: being fake to your own kids.

So, maybe surrounding himself with a reflection of failed parenting makes him feel validated or at least not so alone. I know its a stretch, but I wanted to address why exactly David would want to be around someone like this... and you know what I mean.

11. To re-iterate: Now that we know that there is no intimacy here, what is the pull for David? Every. Single. Time. I say it is her face but now...

David wants to be led by this person. He loves LA and wanted to recreate the dynamic he had with Tea, with her being the one to call the shots in their relationship.

Ok, bear with me, but how else can we explain all of his nonsensical new interests, which just so happen to be the interests of a 10 year old superficial valley girl?

Perhaps David is just that type to want someone else to take the lead, figure out the steps (just like Brad Davidson) because it is his nature. I suspect at this point that what’s happening is that his internal world is pure chaos, so that is why he looks to simplicity, literal cues, easiness etc. in the real world.

Or? maybe he just wants to re-live a youth, even if it is not his own youth, not even his own ideas. Just consider... the absolute sadness of that situation for a bit. Imagine if you were so desperate for something you were willing to completely forsake your own identity, beliefs, interests, ambitions, ideas etc. just to pretend to be something you were not. Consider this as well in relation to the mid-life crisis, identity crisis, and David basically being a nothingness underneath his elaborate facade.

I see David as taking her lead on many occasions. I think this idea is so unfathomable we don’t even acknowledge it but the evidence shows the truth. Though, in the end, he is still the one with the ultimate control. Remember: he is doing what it takes to appeal to her, placate her, manipulate her.

Perhaps he is so lost he is just trying to copy and paste an identity.

11. So, what is it, David? Do you drag around your issues so you can have an excuse to fall back on when you get tired and bored of your own kids and decide to dump them like a non-compliant girlfriend? Is this why you bought a new property? Because you were getting bored, or were scared to get bored? Is this why you didn’t tell your family about the new property until after you bought it? In order to hurt them? Confuse them? Try to convince them you have some semblance of a life of your own?

Do you not see yourself, David?

12. The final point: In the end, David will always choose himself. AND, David ALWAYS CHOOSES WRONG!!

Wrong David, you made the wrong choice!!!! WRONG WRONG WRONG

Always wrong:

Wrong clothes (can’t even match a shirt and pants properly Dave? These are simple decisions!!)

Wrong music (when will you set your talented bandmates free Dave? Since all you do is just nod and accept whatever they give you since all you really care about with the “tours” is being up on stage!!)

Wrong people (where do I even begin? Do you just want shitty people around you on purpose? Feels better to sit with fellow filth?)

Wrong... you neglected your children... beyond wrong (BEYOND WRONG.)

YOU CHOSE WRONG DAVID.

The End! Thanks readers! :)

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