#sincerely

[bodega-catto]

Geto’s cheeks turn red when his smile is sincere

#jjk #gojo satoru #satosugu #geto suguru #jujutsu kaisen #sugusato #gego #sincere or when he’s with Gojo #which is basically the same #he did say he couldn’t smile in a world like this and then Gojo made him smile #sincerely #Gege you will pay for my therapy

[hamdosana]

"Rizq isn't just food or money. A sincere friend is also a form of rizq, a loving spouse, barakah in time, the peace of heart, a content family, all of this is a part of rizq."

#allah #muslim #islamicreminders #deen #dawah #deenoverdunya #tawakkal #allahuakbar #islamification #quraan #repent #muslim ummah #prophet muhammad #muslimah #namaz #nabi muhammad saw #future spouse #friends #frienship #sincerely #peace #islamic #islam help #islamicquotes #islamdaily #islamicpost #islam #islamicreminder #islamislove #sunnah

[dear-ao3]

hello and greetings to all my friends moving into college dorms this time of year!!!

while it is a well known fact that college dorms are often not cleaned at all between people, it is important to tell the administration about things that are absolutely Abysmal.

for example: things that are beyond broken, extremely dirty conditions, clear evidence of vomit/bodily fluids, anything that plain doesn’t work, etc.

to be clear, i am not talking about things that can be fixed with a bottle of clorox wipes, some disinfectant, or a screwdriver. these are things that are either a health hazard or are not in proper working condition.

my credentials on this matter: i was a resident assistant for 2 years. i’ve seen some shit.

here’s what you can do!!!

do not try to talk to anyone in person ESPECIALLY on move in day. all administration that can deal with your problems are probably dealing with bigger problems. move in day is an absolute mess. don’t try and bother res life on move in day unless you physically cannot move into your room for some reason (like there’s a clear cut maintenance problem). you can try to talk to someone, but chances are it won’t get you anywhere other than frustration. it sucks, but that’s the reality of it.

take before and after pictures!!! document everything!!! make sure your pictures are clear, take photos, etc. you will need these. show what you did to clean/fix the problem if necessary.

send a long and detailed email to the following people: the director of residential life, the head of facilities/ building management, the office of accessibility/ student services/whatever it’s called on your campus (even if it is not an accessibility issue usually these people are the fastest to respond), and the college president (often they won’t respond but it gets everyone else’s attention). if applicable you can also send the email to the head of campus safety/security and student health services/ health center). include your photos and make the email as long and detailed as possible. send this email ASAP. you need a paper trail. if you got get a response in three business days send a follow up email and go down to the res life office (often they will say they are busy and no one can speak to you, but sometimes you just have to annoy the crap out of them)

tell your ra. tell them multiple times. a lot of the time they can’t do anything about it, but they can tell their supervisor about it.

keep pestering people until you get an answer. don’t feel bad about it. you should not be paying tuition to live in a shit hole that violates health codes. a lot of the time they can’t move you elsewhere, but the school should still know about the problem.

get your parents involved as a last resort. generally offices hate dealing with parents but if you’ve exhausted all other avenues then go ahead and do it.

i wish you all the best of luck, remember that you are in college to learn and learning how to deal with stubborn administration is definitely one of those things. a little dirt is normal, but sticky carpets, broken glass, broken thermostats, etc, are not. you’re paying to go there, get someone to fix it.

#SINCERELY #someone who has spent 10 hours cleaning her younger sisters college apartment and it is still not clean #my dad rented a carpet cleaner from home depot that’s how bad it was #that is Unacceptable #not a tag #from saph #college life

[blondephenobarbitol]

I actually fucking hate Mr. Jägerman here's why

Mr. Jägerman is a character in the Hatchetfield universe who is never onstage and only mentioned in 1 (one) line. This was enough to ignite my rage.

It's because in this one line, so much is revealed about Max's character. So let's dissect that.

Max is mean. We know this. The very first thing established about him is how threatening he is. But I think his character often gets lost in the 'bully' identity, because just like every other Hatchetfield character, he is layered and complex.

We also find out two other things about him pretty much immediately: He has a crush on Grace (we'll come back to that) and he needs to feel in control.

There's a lot of evidence to support this. He repeatedly refers to himself as the 'god' of Hatchetfield High. He creates arbitrary rules around who his friends can date. He creates arbitrary rules around where the nerds are 'allowed' to go. And the moment someone implies he is not as powerful as he thinks he is, he retaliates violently.

This isn't just Max being a jerk. These are all signs of someone who is almost certainly deprived of control in their home life, which forces them to find it elsewhere. Max likely has little to no say in what happens to him at home. He's clinging to a sense of control wherever he can find it. And that line basically confirms that his home isn't a safe place for him.

Back to the crush on Grace, when you look objectively at the actions Max takes in the show, you'll find that he's not really a bad person, he's a mean person. He's a little shit that processes his need for control in the entirely wrong way, but people are shaped by their surroundings. The actions that come from him are different.

His crush on Grace only supports this. Every other bully in every piece of media sees the girl they like and whistle and say "yo lemme hit that." And if the girl rejects them, they resort to "tease bitch." Not Max. The first thing he does is start a conversation with her, laughs at (what he thinks is) a joke, then offers to carry her books. Like, I wish my highschool bullies were that nice to their own girlfriends.

When she rejects him, it's true that he continues to pursue her and calls her "dirty girl," but that once again comes back to his need to feel in control. But he doesn't get aggressive, he doesn't do anything that screams 'bully.'

We don't get a lot of scenes with pre-ghost Max. But when we do, they're interesting to analyze. Like, have you ever noticed that when he finds Steph in the Waylon Place, his very first instinct is to tell her, "Get behind me, I'll protect you" from, as far as he knows, actual ghosts? He feels like his life is in danger, but he's still putting Steph's safety first, despite having no interest in her romantically. That's huge.

There's even some evidence to support that Max terrorizing the nerds is, from his perspective, not so one-sided. When he finds out they were the ones who pulled the pranks, he says "I thought you guys hated me."

And he's open to change. He's not stubborn, he's not brutal. He doesn't continue hating the nerds just because it is what it is. Moments before his death, he is showing signs of opening up to them, and actually seems like he's coming around.

And none of this is meant as trying to defend Max's actions. I know he's the antagonist. I know he treats people unfairly. But all of this has to come from somewhere. I'm trying to say that there was clearly a foundation of a good person underneath all that cruelty. So what toughened his shell?

Mr. Jägerman. Max reveals in that one line that if he were to go back home from the 'party', his dad would call him a 'little cuck.' "can't even fight off one lousy skele'uhn." In this, he reveals his dad is demeaning to him. He's the kind of man who would hear that his son was in a life-or-death situation, and instead of comforting him, he would have made fun of him.

What must that do to a person? As someone who grew up in a home where Dad wasn't always a safe person to be around, I know that when I was younger, a lot of my bad bad behaviours were something I learned from him.

The prank meant to scare Max was the nicest thing anyone's ever done for him.

I think a lot of what happens in NPMD is indirectly Mr. Jägerman's fault. "Knowledge is knowing Frankenstein is the doctor, wisdom is knowing Frankenstein is the monster" type of shit. It is directly because of his actions and the way he treated his own child that any of this happened.

or maybe I'm reading too much into this. But I fucking hate Max's dad so much.

#sincerely #nerdy prudes spoilers #npmd #nerdy prudes must die #max jagerman #max jägerman #hatchetfield #hatchetverse #tgwdlm #black friday starkid #pete spankoffski #ruth fleming #richie lipschitz #grace chasity #steph lauter #character analysis

[luthienne]

Naomi Shihab Nye, from Red Suitcase; "Sincerely"

#naomi shihab nye #red suitcase: poems #sincerely #words #poetry #typography #palestinian literature

[silentgrim]

#AAAAAAAAAAA #SAVE US PLS #ON MY HANDS AND KNEES MY GOOD SIR #PLEASE #sincerely #i hope everything works out #or i’ll cry #i’ll sob and walk mindlessly thru the streets #crossing fingers 🤞🤞🤞🤞 #i want the add makeup to every outfit #let’s hold hands and chant fam #🫴 #chatter

[i-professional-procrastinator]

we have lost the plot. the plot has been lost. the plot is long GONE.

#HELLO?? #this isn't even funny tbh #i feel like exaggeration is only funny to a certain point and this just isnt- #u can disagree but i dont wanna hear about it #let's drop the “gale IS THE WORST” propaganda #he sucked ASS in the love triangle #BUT #that's literally a teenager traumatized by war oppression and poverty #no wAY HE'S COMPARABLE TO PRESIDENT FUCKING SNOW #sincerely #a gale hater #gale hawthorne #coriolanus snow #hunger games #the hunger games #tbosas #peeta mellark #finnick odair #katniss everdeen #katniss and gale #katniss and peeta #everlark #tiktok

[fionacreates]

Also... because tumblr...

I'm Fiona. Fine purveyor of content in which the queer folks almost kiss.

#sincerely #an aro #art #lgbtq #i mean... they probably kiss #portfolio day adjacent

[sincerelyangel]

#love letters #makeup #eyeshadow #red aesthetic #red eyeshadow #eyeshadow palette #sincerely #angel

[waterbenderkat]

All I’m saying is if they ever get to s2 and casting Toph, she better be a short queen™.

#avatar #toph #toph beifong #avatar: the last airbender #a:tla #sincerely #a 4’10 fan #netflix #waterbenderkat

[audhdnight]

Quick little PSA because I keep seeing confusion on this topic:

“Allistic” simply means “NOT autistic”.

It DOES NOT mean you are neurotypical. It is not a bad thing. It’s not some kind of accusation that you need to be defensive about (literally saw someone throw a huge hissy fit about being “lumped in” with neurotypicals by an autistic creator).

You can be neurodivergent AND allistic, if your neurodivergence is ANYTHING OTHER than autism. You can have OCD, schizophrenia, adhd, anxiety, DID, or literally anything else. As long as you are not autistic, you are still allistic.

Please stop using allistic as a synonym for neurotypical. Please stop acting like it is an attack if someone refers to you as allistic if you know you do not have autism.

That is all.

#sincerely #an autistic person #actually neurodivergent #actually autistic #comorbid autism adhd #nightramblestm

[weaselishmcdiesel]

If you assign homework over breaks fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you

#sincerely #someone who has all my fucking professors giving me homework #fuck you. fuck you and I hope you never recover. fuck you #fuck you. #weasel speaks #I’m so fucking mad right now

[dear-ao3]

thinking about this one authors note that i read on a fanfic awhile ago that was like "hey guys pls leave feedback i hate when people write stuff like 'the older man' or 'the englishman' or stuff like that to refer to people but idk how to not do that" like. just write their names. they're their names. no rules against using them a million times.

#and while were at it use said as many times as you want #sincerely #a person with not one but two and a half writing degrees #not a tag #from saph #anyway not to be mean at all even remotely #but reading things like this makes it read like journalism and i dont want to feel like theres new york times in my fanfic thats just :/

[lilblueorchid]

About love, loss, and dreams.

We're nearing the end of summer and I can't help but be reminded of how I was exactly one year ago. I had lost my bunny Coco a few month prior, and summer was bittersweet. Coco's absence was very hard to bear, and I had heavy trouble sleeping - I would always wake up at the hour he passed.

But towards the end of summer I dreamt of Coco for the first time, the first thing I asked him was if his stomach was still hurting. Obviously he didn't answer but he was sleeping so peacefully. And I think that dream really helped me move on.

#grief #comic #tribute #bunny #dream #sleep #dreamscape #love #loss #I got a bit teary eyed writing all of that haha #I'm doing better now!!! #Sincerely

[psychicdisaster]

I think if Kurumi and Kuniharu had another child, it would be god.

#sincerely #how did those two idiots (affectionate) end up with such children #saiki no psi nan #tdlosk #the disastrous life of saiki k. #saiki k #kuniharu saiki #kurumi saiki #coffeejelly.txt

[69ottersinatrenchcoat]

Going to start a riot.

"Endogenic" systems, DNI (do not interact). I don't wanna hear it.

If you're experiencing disassociation, identity confusion, amnesia etc, psychologically you most likely *have* trauma causing it. Split personalities don't just 🎶happen🎶

Endo-gen ‘systems’ get lost, you aren't welcome here. Please, stop making an already misunderstood diagnosis worse.

#Sincerely #a trauma gen system struggling with coming to terms with their system because of the ‘fandom’ attitude to DID #READ THE DSM #DID system #OSDD #DID #endos dni #anti endo #endo as in endogenic not endometriosis #posted by 🔥