#since then she hasn’t rly brought him up other than in past tense

[haram-jaan]

Since your mum knows about h can she not sway your dad into agreeing like sana has found someone who possesses all these qualities ? :/ or like a trusted family friend / friend who can approach the topic. I would hate for you and h to go through the mental struggles of seeing your dad try and introduce you to people :/ or how about h asking his family to approach yours islamically?

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#the thing is she’s not on board herself lmfao #she found out last year n told me to end it #since then she hasn’t rly brought him up other than in past tense #so I think she assumes we broke up #aside from that no family friend works bc the only one my dad has told lives in Pakistan lol #I think we would get through it even if I had to sit n listen to potential rishtas bc we both know I’m obviously not going to say yes lol #but Insha’allah somehow his is the first and last #and no no matter how much my dad talks about Islam he’d still not approve bc them contacting us out of the blue is just too sus #his idea of all this is he picks out my husband b that’s it lol #if he’s so desperate for a Pakistani man why doesn’t he marry one :/ #anyway yeah the point is my dad is not reasonable #every single reasonable argument or plan will not work #bc he isn’t reasonable !!!!!!! #if my mum went n said yeah she met someone who wants to marry her #he’d kill me in my sleep and no that is not an exaggeration #I just need to try and get my mum on board first #bc this is all escalating so quickly and I’d rather not deal w strange men in my house