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#sex in relationships with clark is just like. a fun extra. he can vibe without it though and still ykno. be head over heels for someone
kxllerblond · 3 years
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Anonymous ASKED:  💞 + This might sound silly, but what are clark's thoughts on sex? does he particularly like it, or does he not really care one way or another? Is it something that's frequently on his mind, or does it hardly ever come to mind unless prompted? how does he feel about it in general? (meme)
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Unlucky for you, I have a whole meta I’ve just never written on this topic...
So there’s a few factors to consider when talking about Clark and his relation with sex. 1. He uses sex to get things. It’s a tool. 2. He needs it to continue his pseudo immortality. It’s for survival. 3. When he finds someone he clicks with, sex is just a fun and intimate thing.
Typically, sex is NOT on Clark’s mind. He’s demisexual and on the grey spectrum. When he’s not in any sort of emotionally invested relationship—it’s just a tool and a tool for survival. It’s a means to an end. He doesn’t CRAVE it, he doesn’t look at people of interest and have the possibility of it cross his mind. Unrelated but related, that’s probably why he makes such a good Dominant outside of relationships because it’s essentially him just doing a JOB. Like it’s work, there’s no real PERSONAL enjoyment. It’s very professional and Clark is VERY good at being professional.
When he IS in an emotionally invested relationship, he can shift to being pretty allo-typical. I wouldn’t go as far as to say hypersexual, but when Clark’s invested in someone at that level he craves and wants and etc.
 I think it boils down to Clark feeling neutral and disinterested in sex in general but when it’s paired with someone he has a deeper connection to THEN it becomes something of interest.
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