#sex enthusiastic

[aroaceconfessions]

I wish people understood that finding sex scenes stimulating (in specific settings or in general) does not equates to being attracted to the people doing the fucking, like no. The act itself? Great, marvelous, pleasant, satisfying. The visual stimuli telling lyinto to my brain that I'll be doing the deed soon? Ooh, exciting, fun, interesting! The people? Meh. Like, I'm as attracted to them as I am to a dildo which is not at all.

#sex favorable #sex enthusiastic #sex positive #asexual #ace

[perksofbeingace]

I need a little help figuring out how to classify myself. I technically do have sexual libido and stuff, but I usually am emotionally attracted to someone, and I don't really get sexually attracted to people but do like sex and get turned on by people sometimes?

so you have romantic feelings, but no sexual attraction, but you do like the feelings of sex.

sounds like (insert romantic orientation of you)and asexual but sex enthusiastic to me.

you don't need to feel sexual attraction to like the feelings of sex. and getting arouse is a bodily reaction to stimuli. and libido is a bodily function like an itch. none of those are necessarily connected to sexual attraction.

there you go.

#asexual #sex enthusiastic #Anon

[aroaceconfessions]

I don’t find myself sexually attracted to people but I’m very hyper sexual. Does that make sense? I hope it does. Sometimes I feel like my asexuality is invalid because I genuinely like sex and I’m afraid to tell people this. My friends know I’m asexual but they don’t know that I’m not sex repulsed

#hypersexual #asexual #ace #sex favorable #sex enthusiastic

[aroaceconfessions]

How can I tell if I'm a sex-neutral/positive ace or demisexual if I've never been in a relationship, but would be repulsed by the idea of having sex with someone if we weren't in a relationship beforehand? I do know that I'm aegosexual too. Sorry if this question is too specific I just don't know how I could tell the difference and idk who to ask

#sex neutral #sex positive #sex favorable #sex enthusiastic #sex indifferent #asexual #demisexual #aegosexual

[aroaceconfessions]

It almost like, makes me angry when other ace people go, "well I'm ace so sex is always gross and I don't get what the appeal is" like I mean you're valid but not every ace is sex repulsed and it feels alienating. Like I'm somehow not ace enough. People keep going out of their way to insist that every ace is sex repulsed every time the topic of sex comes up. Again; you're absolutely valid to think sex is gross, it's the, "Ace = Always disgusted by sex" mentally that upsets me.

#asexual #ace #sex favorable #sex enthusiastic #sex neutral #sex indifferent

[aroaceconfessions]

I'm sorry. I didn't mean to write that much. But i am really confused.

Okay so, sex-favourble aces means asexual people who don't mind engaging in sex right? But what if I not only don't mind it, but I also WANT to try it? I see a lot of aces saying that they have very little to none interest in sex. And yeah, i understand that. Sex isn't really that important but like, I would still like to try it.

I'm pretty certain that i have never been sexually or romantically attracted to anyone. But on a lot of websites/forums about asexuality it says that asexual people have very little sexual desire. And it just isn't true for me.

And it makes me question myself again. What if I am just a confused allo person? But then to who would i be attracted? Maybe i somehow pushed my sexual attraction away?

#never apologize op #asexual #ace #sex favorable #sex enthusiastic #aromantic #aroace

[aroaceconfessions]

Can you still be ace if you enjoy the feeling of sex, but not feel sexually attracted to anyone, or very very few people?

#asexual #ace #sex favorable #sex enthusiastic

[aroaceconfessions]

As a sex-favorable ace, sometimes I feel like I’m only donning half the label. Like I’m “half-ace” or something because I actively and seek out and enjoy sex. Sometimes this makes me think I’m not really ace at all, and I’m just faking it for attention or that even if I am, I don’t belong in lgbt+ community. Or that I’m a disgrace to the ace community for using their label willy nilly.

And, obviously, I know that even if I’m sex-favorable I’m still ace and I still belong to the lgbt+ community. That labels are made to help me, not hurt me. That they’re subject to change and that I’ve known Im ace for a year now so I should stop worrying about all of this and start feeling at home in my skin and about who I am. But something just pulls at the reins on all of that and makes me scrutinize everything I do and ask myself “really? Are you truly ace even though you just did that? Thought that?”.

Yes, I am ace, brain. So, please, just shut up!

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #sex favorable #sex enthusiastic

[aroaceconfessions]

I'm aroace and sex favorable, and I wish I knew other sex favorable aces to talk about sex with, but I don't know where to find them or how to even talk about it if I did find them

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #sex favorable #sex enthusiastic #Anonymous

[aroaceconfessions]

i’m aroace but i identity a lot with alloaro issues because i’m sex-favorable

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #sex favorable #sex enthusiastic #Anonymous

[aroaceconfessions]

So I'm on the ace spectrum, and heres what I noticed about how I feel about sex. People don't turn me on. I do read smut, and actions do turn me on. Its tied more to the idea of sex rather than with a person. There's a few people where I think like to have sex with? So would this make me gray-ace?

#asexual #ace #sex favorable #sex enthusiastic #questioning #graysexual #Anonymous

[aroaceconfessions]

I’ve spent my whole life thinking I was allosexual because I like sex and like pleasing partners and I’m Romantic On Main but I’m starting to think I’m actually a self favorable asexual (which I just recently learned about). Because as much as I like having sex I don’t really get hot for people. I think people are pretty and I like making them feel good but I guess I’ve never understood sexual attraction, I just like sharing orgasms with people I’m close to.

#asexual #ace #sex favorable #sex enthusiastic #Anonymous