Honestly I’m happy for them and I think she looks very sweet and beautiful! The thing I’m uncomfortable about isn’t even the age gap in itself like she’s not that young and she’s mature obviously and has a solid career that keep growing and is financially free so it’s not like he’s trying to take advantage of her or groom her or whatever .. it’s just like he kind of confirmed the fact that he’s like every Hollywood actor say that he wants kids get married etc just to spend his 20s and 30s running around and when he decide to settle ofc it’s with a younger woman so having kids is easier and they all want that confidence for being with still a younger women . Anyway I just feel that way but people are exaggerating like it’s not worth cancelling him or calling him a groomer like wtf 💀for me it’s just about him and his choice that kind of speak out some way about him yk but its not a reason to hate him his choice doesn’t affect her or the relationship so aside from that I’m just happy for them fr .
Yeah he's just childish. That's all it is lol. This could prove to be a prosperous relationship or it could all turn out to have just been some kind of midlife crisis who knows. Tom Hiddleston dated TS who's like 10 years younger than him and he's literally married to Zawe now. Sebastian Stan was running around with a 25 year old before he got with Annabelle Wallis. I really don't think it's serious enough to be throwing around all these words and narratives
#and boomers be like 'we worked hard you guys don't know the meaning of hard work' hun i run circles around you on the daily and would whip a
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With so many elections coming up worldwide it's probably a good time to remind everyone that tumblr once got infested with agents trying to convince everyone not to vote, or not to vote left because the candidates weren't morally pure enough.
Also a reminder that they were better at tumblr than most of us, comrade interloper was great at memeing. Like, the talent!
Anyway don't fall for it. There is no morally pure option.
"it's the butt" youre damn right it is :P but also the tilting his head up... is this the size difference kink again?? :DDD if so, that is fab and i love it. also feels lowkey weird to do this after how i started the post but congrats re ramadan <3
(following up on this)
There is an element of size difference in the head tilt, but mostly it’s just Steve realizing how expressive and beautiful Tony’s eyes are. He could stare into them all day!
re: Ramadhan, heh thanks 😅 And no worries, the month got started with SebStan’s instagram post on the same topic*, so it’s almost thematic.
*Not-safe-for-ramadhan/work link for those who missed it.
so, it’s been a few weeks since tfatws ended and everyone’s quick to make sambucky and sarahbucky stuff, and good for you if you do, but as a person with cptsd and MAJOR trust issues, it’s been bothering me a bit in terms of the show addressing Bucky’s mental issues.
i’m not sure if Bucky would ever fully trust anyone again to love them. we know he’s been on dating apps so he might be open to encounters, but probably nothing serious, since from what we can tell from his conversations with Yori and Leah, he can’t really tell the truth of something as simple as his real age or why he always wears gloves.
i say this because of four things:
1) Sebastian Stan’s interpretation of Bucky where he said “Bucky’s relationship with Steve may be the only thing stopping him from committing suicide.”
2) The fact that Steve ultimately left Bucky for Peggy at the end of Endgame, which I know A LOT of ppl do not accept, but it’s ‘canon’ so we have to live with that in terms of understanding Bucky in TFATWS.
3) “If [Steve] was wrong about you, then he was wrong about ME” - Bucky, tfatws 1x2, suggesting he has A LOT of self doubt and feelings of unworthiness.
4) the difference between Bucky’s joy of finally being free in 1x4 “You are free” - Ayo 6 years ago in Wakanda while Steve was still around, to the conversation with Dr. Raynor in 1x1, “You’ve got your mind back, you are being pardoned. I mean, these are good things. You’re free.” “TO DO WHAT?” - Bucky (may i refer you back to #1 and ask you what Bucky has left to live for now??)
i’m in a very safe relationship with my family, but i still have a VERY REAL FEAR that they are wrong about me and will realize what i am and abandon me at any given moment and that they’re better off without me.
this is basically what actually happened to Bucky at the end of Endgame... or how i interpreted it anyway, because whatever his reasons, Steve left Bucky for a woman who had “lived a good life” (Peggy’s own words, CA:TWS).
if the only person in the world who understood your really unique circumstances and loved you anyway took the power to change the past and left you, that must shatter your ability to trust people.
at the end of TFATWS, it seems like Bucky’s finally found a family with the Wilson’s, and i’m really happy for him about that canonically, but from a mental health standpoint, i’m just not sure if it’s that easy and that it’s just another media thing really simplifying mental health issues for the sake of a “happy ending”.
also, i know that Bucky’s not the Winter Soldier anymore, but i’m kinda mad that they reduced him into just another Snarky Marvel Character™️. Sebastian’s ability to play the tragic, lost aspect of an otherwise proficient killing machine was what A LOT of us loved about Bucky, but in TFATWS he’s just... snarky.
tl;dr: although i loved tfatws, i think the way they handled Bucky’s mental health was rather ableist and unconvincing, especially when Sebastian has been playing Bucky’s inner turmoil so well in the past.
Sebastian Stan gets possessed by his one braincell for a hot second and he's immediately trending on multiple social platforms. I tell you, the power this man has-