#sahw

[muslimahtradwiferevert]

#freepalastine🇵🇸 #islam #convert to islam #revert islam #muslim #sunni islam #welcome to islam #all women must veil! #burqa #stop islamophobia #sahw #stay at home housewife #trad wife

[asamniii]

Me, in 10 years.

by a girl, who’s planning, working and dreaming for this life.

I’ve made it.

All my hard work, and dedication has paid off.

I’m finally living the life of peace and stability that I’ve dreamed about since I was a child.

I wake up next to the love of my life, my husband, in a big sprawling home, that we own.

After a lifetime without my father, building a life and legacy with a man of exemplary character, who provided love, security and stability, has been a joy for me.

I go downstairs and greet my children, who have been cared for, loved and provided every opportunity. My heart is full in my chest.

They have no concept of going to bed cold or hungry, stressing as a child about bills or the fighting and anger of a broken home.

Nothing but sweet innocence is in their eyes.

I know that, after having to work since 16 out of necessity, I am a point where my days are full of relaxation and peace after the kids go to school.

After a childhood and many years after of scarcity and uncertainty, I am in awe of the ease that life now brings.

I think of the day ahead of me, and the days behind that it took to get here and I could almost weep from happiness at this life.

#bykhadeajia #lucky girl syndrome #black women in luxury #wellness #hypergamy #blackgirl #soft life #self care #self love #self improvement #dream life #long term goals #long post #old money aesthetic #sahw #trophy wives

[melisssg99]

New Years Resolutions Thing to do/learn in 2024🩷

•Create a vegetable garden 🌱

•Grow and use some produce 🧅🥔🧄🍅

•Grow some herbs 🌿

•Start a sourdough starter 🫙

•Bake sourdough bread 🍞

•Learn to eat meat after 11 years of vegetarianism

(Only local and organic) 🥩

•Make pickles from scratch 🥒

•Make hummus from scratch 🫛

•Pick a cherry from our tree 🍒

•Make a fruit jam/jelly 🍯

•Host a dinner party 🍽️

•Use our own compost ♻️

•Sew a dress 👗

•Do yoga on a weekly basis! 🧘🏻‍♀️

•Learn to curl my hair properly(1940's pageboy?) 💁🏻‍♀️

•Hug cows! 🐮

•Be kind to myself 🩷

(maybe I'll add more, idk 🤭)

•Make pasta(dough) from scratch! 🍝

•Use up my all non-natural, commercial cosmetics/soaps/lotions to then switch to more healthy natural options 🧼🧴💄

#personal #new years resolutions #2024 #happy new year #traditional #femininity #farmcore #homemaker #egalitarian #cottagecore #feminine #homemaking #homestead #homesteading #stay at home girlfriend #stay at home wife #sahg #sahw #sahm #goals #crunchy mom #crunchy #holistic #holistic health #holistichealth #natural #trad #tradfem #trad femininity #traditional femininity

[heymstiff]

💖🎀Do Not Chase a Man💖🎀

I’ve read some books, done a lot of research and inner work, tapped into my femininity to understand as a woman we do not chase or look for a man, but a man chase and looks for a woman.

I came across this analogy that women are the employer and men are the employee and the company is the marriage and men are interviewing for their position as a husband within that marriage and women decides if the man is worthy of being hired for the position.

It is a man’s role to impress a woman, not the other way around. Think of yin and yang, push and pull, give and receive. Men are the givers and women are the receivers.

A woman should never chase after a man it degrades a woman’s confidence and self worth. When a woman chases a man she will never know if that man is truly interested in her and is not just settling or passing time while pursuing the woman he truly wants. This will create doubt in a woman and deteriorate her self confidence and she will become insecure within herself.

Moral of this story is tap into your femininity and don’t ever chase a man 💅🏾

#femininity #pink aesthetic #pinkcore #sahm #coquette #sahw #housewife #pink life #pink blog #pretty in pink #soft pink #pink #pink moodboard #pretty girls #soft life #soft girl #soft moodboard #soft aesthetic #it girl #that girl #cute #so cute #self care #black woman in luxury #black woman femininity #black women white men

[openbibleopenheart]

What does the Bible say about dressing modestly, and in a God honoring way?

Well well well, if it isn't me, breaking Christian hearts. I've done it a lot (while being pagan, while being atheist, and now being Christian).

My problem, is that SOO many tradwives on here put looking amazing as their top priority, while calling themselves Christian. Girlies, imma be honest with you. You're full of shit.

I recently saw a post on how to dress nice as a housewife, and omg, literally the first line was to wear accessories.

First of all, it literally say in 1Timothy 2:9-10:

"Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works."

So, HOW to be modest?

A pretty simple question, yet still hard to answer.

1. Be gentle

2. Help people

3. Fear God

4. Be quite ("quick to listen, slow to speak" James 1:19)

(Most of the rules you need to follow, you can find in James' book!)

"Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious."

1Peter 3:3-4

Also, a common misconception I see:

"Dressing modestly for you husband"

No!?!!!? You should dress modestly for GOD. If you're not married, you're in a relationship, OR you are married, your husband is not the one you should be dressing modestly for! It's God!

Dressing modestly is a way to honor God. Covering up is a way to show respect to him.

#christian aesthetic #christian women #trad wives #tradwife #sahw #bible reading #christian living #christianity #christian faith #holy bible #modesty #tradwoman #traditional femininity #traditional life #tradblr

[laces-and-pearls]

source: karathebabynurse on Instagram

A good video to show to those who believe that stay at home mums and wives do not contribute anything to the world ❤️ and how much it costs to pay different professionals for a job that a stay at home mum does on her own ❤️

#traditional femininity #femininity #tradfem #traditionalism #tradblr #sahm #stay at home wife #sahw #stay at home mum

[tierrahenri]

#hypergamous #hypergamy #soft era #divine feminine #sahw #sahg #femine

[femme-et-traditionnelle]

When and why did you become a tradfem?

I don't remember of a particular moment or reason. The personality that is associated with tradfems was who I was since I was a child. I always loved caring of the home, cooking, cleaning, minding children, I was your typical girly girl that loved dresses and hairstyling and skincare, and I was always very much more inclined to a simple lifestyle, living in the countryside, doing things from scratch, not caring the famous and popular. When "Mori Kei" was popular, I identified as a Mori girl and started a Tumblr back then 🤭 All the way through high school and college, I was the ultimate girly girl, I would say I would marry and become a SAHM. Back then, I don't know if tradfems circles were already a thing online (Certainly not as visible as today at least) so I was very much alone in my vision of things but I had very understanding friends who would say how, considering my personality, that was the most fitting, I was made for this lifestyle, though back then both them and myself thought it was an unreachable dream. But dreaming is good for the mind 🤗

I did force myself to change this behavior/personality in early adult years as it was not fitting with my work at the moment and I thought I was the one who had to change. Eventually, I decided I would change my job and reverted back to my values and liking, and decided I was ready to focus on my search for my husband.

My dream came true in the end 🥰

My daily life right now is a blessing. My husband is an amazing person, our personalities fit together so well, both in our similarities and differences, and I found even more joy in homemaking than I thought I would.

A fun fact is that my husband has never used words like tradfem, traditional husband, provider, etc... He doesn't actually know much about this whole terminology. Yet he fits exactly what a tradfem would want for a husband, he provides for the family and has a strong sense of work ethic, he's ready to work countless hours for the sake of his family, he's very responsible and caring. He is also very much into living a simple life doing most by ourselves, creating a big family with good moral values.

I don't think becoming a homemaker is for every woman, I don't look down on women that aren't traditional. I am so blessed to be able to live the life I was yearning for and I pray that all can get their own dream life come true 🤍

#I ended up writing a lot #sorry #Husband is away for training for 4 days #so I needed some chatty time I guess 🤭 #ask #personal #question #answered question #tradwife #traditional gender roles #traditional femininity #tradfem #traditional #homemaker #SAHM #SAHW

[muslimahtradwiferevert]

#freepalastine🇵🇸 #islam #convert to islam #revert islam #muslim #sunni islam #welcome to islam #all women must veil! #burqa #stop islamophobia #feminine not feminist #tradwife #homemaking #housewife #sahw #homeschooling

[lovelyfemgirly]

im 17, im finishing high school this year, and i wanna be a stay at home mother, but before that, i wanna go to university and study medicine or international relations. in my dreams, im gonna get my degree and build my family. i hope i can achieve that.

i dream so much about having a family, loving them unconditionally, taking care of my children with my partner.

be loved and taken care of by my partner and loving and taking care of them. i really wish this dream will come true one day, i pray for this.

i dream about going to the church and worshipping God with my family, to show Jesus my love and gratitude for him more and more, to be a woman that honors God.

i have to get better and improve a lot of things in my spiritual life and life in general, but i believe that gradually and slowly i will become a woman of god and achieve my dreams.

#christian #sahw #stay at home mom #stay at home wife #sahm #hyper feminine #motherhood #christian girly things #jesus

[melisssg99]

I've had some pretty bad days, feeling achy and sick(an understatement).

Fibromyalgia was really kicking my butt.

But I'm ready to get things done again in my home.

Lots of laundry, letting my mattress and duvet air out and just general tidying and spot leaning.

Wish me luck ♡

#personal #fibromyalgie #fibromyalgia #fibro #traditional #femininity #homemaker #traditional living #trad #homemaking #sahw #sahg #sahm #cleaning #feminine #tradfem #trad femininity #chronic illness #chronic pain #chronic fatigue #chronically ill

[heymstiff]

💖🎀💖🎀 I’m a pink loving housewife living my most softest life as a kept woman.💖🎀💖🎀

#soft life #housewife #sahm #pink life #pinkcore #coquette #pink #pretty in pink #soft pink #that girl #it girl #pink aesthetic #femininity #cottagecore #sahw #pretty #pretty girls #pink blog

[thecurlyhousefairy]

My little girl loves to play kitchen in her little wooden kitchen with her wooden toys, her wood food and wood plates. She even cleans it like mama with the little towel she has, everyday. She "bathes" her toys in the sink even though it has no water. It's a delight to see her.

It's so funny, because my mother in law came today and she was so outraged we gave her a kitchen. She is a respectful person and doesn't say it out loud, but also, she is not a very conscious person so I can see all her opinions on her gestures. Oh dear grandma, it's such a pity you missed the joy in all this.

The joy of doing domestic things everyday, to transform every little moment of your routine into a blessing. The joy of creating beauty in everything you use, to create delicious food that nourishes your body and your soul and to have the pleasure to do it with beautiful tools, with beautiful plates, with a beautiful kitchen decorated to your taste.

My kitchen is showroom of art, of efficiency, of mastery and skills, a blending of love and hability so intricate you cannot distinguish where one ends and I'm so proud of all of it.

And my little one, my little one is learning on that too. ❤️❤️❤️

#tradwife #tradfem #traditional femininity #traditional gender roles #traditionalism #sahw #femininity #homemaking #<3

[audrinawf]

some women in here hate hypergamy but are following and watching the hypergamy & femininity tags like hawks just waiting to attack anyone that makes a post talking about wanting marriage…like ? I thought y’all were all about being independent and having hobbies and passions but the only passion I see is waiting to jump women with different opinions…the women that scream the loudest about independence and living your life for yourself and not relying on men are the one that are up my ass the hardest. like…what happened to engaging in hobbies. or is your hobby really just to bring down women that want a different lifestyle?

they also disguise it as caring about women and wanting what’s best for women…but whenever someone replies to my posts they always write the most nasty thing in the tags…okay so do you guys care about women or not? or is that respect and care only reserved to those that agree with you? cause I couldn’t care less about people with different opinions cause in a perfect world we need balance and we need opposing opinions to exist. I just would never stalk feminist tags and and wait all day and night to attack other women cause I was raised right and I don’t hate women and disguise it as feminism. that’s real predator energy.

#glow up #femininity #self care #girly blog #hypergamy #soft life #self development #marriage #pink pill #dating and relationships #sahw #stay at home moms #traditional relationships #traditional feminity