#ryan rambles

[eddiebabygirldiaz]

there's something so intimate about mutuals being on here at the same time. like oh you reblogged that from me just seconds after i posted/reblogged that, so in essence we have touched the same thing. did you feel me.

#ryan rambles #mutuals #idk if this properly expresses what im thinking but its the best i could do #also i am much sleepy rn #text post

[unnatural-disasterr]

me: i’m okay

hades: …wait. wait, just… if you… if you find her. if you somehow find her? tell her something for me, tell her… tell her cerberus is doing very well.

me:

#hades game #hades supergiant #ryan rambles

[femme-enby]

“Aro and/or ace characters can still be in relationships!”

Correct! But here’s a question-

Why do folks put aro/ace/aroace characters in relationships that end up being virtually indistinguishable from romantic/sexual relationships when y’all do put them in relationships?

“Popular” example at the moment (bc let’s be real we have so few characters as it is) is Alastor from HH.

Iirc he is canonically asexual, and seems to be aromantic (although that could be that he just has no interest in anyone we’ve seen or the fact that bro is much more invested in his own entertainment than romance, but still) and yet when folks ship him… bro has a whole new personality half the time.

All of a sudden dude is blushing and shy, bud is DTF, simply put he seems like someone who definitely experiences romantic and sexual attraction.

Now sure, aroace people can seem like that.

But don’t y’all think it’s a bit disheartening for plenty to see the few characters that represent us seemingly having that aspect of their identity ignored? Essentially turning them into characters that are aro/ace in name only yet not seeing that in any of their actions?

If you want the character in a relationship, that’s one thing.

But for example, let Alastor still be like “haha, NO.” When even whoever you’re shipping him with makes a subtle or blatant sex joke/pass at him. Let his physical affection be a pat on the head and a twirl around the room while he’s busy yappin about his grand new idea for some entertainment, as he then moves on to fiddling with his radio or using his powers to give a little show of what he’s talking about so his partner can better envision what he’s saying.

What I mean is- love and affection can be shown plenty of different ways, it doesn’t have to be all cuddling and sex. It can be interactions like the character has had with others in the original material, just with the added knowledge that while they don’t really do anything “more” physically, they do still care deeply for whoever you’re shipping them with. The character lets the other person in on their actual plans or lets them know a little more about their actual plans, the character puts in that little bit more work so their partner can better understand their plans or ideas or feelings, without that meaning that the aroace character is either uncomfortably putting up with a lot of physical affection or even freely choosing “out of character” ways of showing affection such as cuddling, kissing, and sex.

Another option is, give them semi-logical yet still non-romantic/sexual ways to show their affection. If they’re typically more meek or something, then perhaps with their partner they just speak wildly outta pocket. If they’re always kinda just letting folks talk over them and typically almost overly polite, like “oh no, yeah no you’re right your idea is better my bad” then maybe with their partner they’re like “naw my idea is amazing, don’t be a chicken we can definitely outrun an emu while cutting through this field” and they are just… incredibly sure of themselves and they stand their ground bc they feel SAFE with their partner, and that is how they show love.

#ryan rambles #idk there are options #aroace #aro #arospec #aromantic #ace #acespec #asexual

[fvcking-damage]

listen i don’t have anything against the kid but by god i’m already so annoyed hearing about him and watching him in the bench from 98 different angles when there are 39 other players in the game and another whole ass team there

#i’m mmmmmmad #ryan rambles

[draculiya]

I am gay and ashamed

#rotmnt #meat sweats #repo mantis #hypno potamus #sona #ryan rambles

[kasoogi]

#ryan rambles #one piece #buggy the clown #impel down #buggy pirates

[starlesscitiess]

neither fall out boy nor the offspring were lying. the kids are not in fact alright

#i’m sorry guys that reading post really got to me #on top of every other way we mistreat malign abuse and screw over children? #it’s just. how do you fail a demographic this fucking badly when you claim to care about them so much #kids need real structural support if they’ve got any chance in the world #hell i still consider myself a kid given that i’m having a rough go of my transition to adulthood #this shit fucking sucks man and it seems we’re doing everything in our power to make it worse #anyway #i guess this also goes under #juno band tag #and uh. new speaking tag #ryan rambles

[autistic-katara]

thought my rapid onset JD hyperfixation was dying down to the “u wont feel like ur seconds away from actually exploding 24/7” level but nope i fear i just gotta push through this

#i’ll rlly be like “what if i’m just faking being ND for idfk shits and giggles” and then do stuff like this #jackson’s diary #ryan rambles

[ryan-masamune-of-oshu]

Send help! I created seven ocs and I might be about to create like five more. Idk what happened. Suddenly there's an elaborate plot and characters with different motives...

It's getting complicated.

#ryan rambles

[breadtickles]

devastated. i just ran out of updog

#ryan rambles

[eddiebabygirldiaz]

writing about buck cleaning eddie's gunshot wounds can actually be so personal

#ngl think i am breaking and healing myself with this #its so self indulgent but i dont care #ryan rambles #buddie

[unnatural-disasterr]

but i don’t mind because that’s how my daddy raised me if they strike once then you hit ‘em twice as hard but i always knew in that the end, no one was coming to save me so i just prayed and i keep praying and praying and praying

#ethel cain #god. fuck #i need that song directly into my veins #ryan rambles #music

[femme-enby]

TERFs are honestly so fuckin funny.

Let me explain- they swear up and down they “know” that they can “tell”, but they are truly just trying to push outdated gender norms and expectations.

Ex: I tend to speak bluntly, sometimes even in such a way that can be considered aggressive by some, when really I am simply trying to be assertive and to the point bc I’ve learned that if I don’t speak like that rarely do people listen.

I presume it’s something about how I speak/type as well as the fact that TERFs are honest to god uneducated, if not also struggling with literacy which leads to folks like me being able to tell them “I am a trans man/masculine individual, I’ve experienced both misogyny and male privilege” and they will SWEAR you’re just a male who was bullied for being effeminate and you’re “wrongly” conflating that with misogyny (spoiler alert… it is also misogyny, or at least ROOTED in misogyny when feminine men get harassed and bullied, bc at the core of the mistreatment they face the thought process is still the same- “feminine=women=weak”)

Like you can straight up tell them “I menstruated for 12 years and I’m now on testosterone” and half of them will still be like “I’m sorry the system let you on hormones as a child but that was NOT a period, you’re just a MAN and you CANNOT menstruate!”

Like… wow, no wonder they prefer to end up in my private messages with this bullshit bc I’d be embarrassed AF to be caught being so BLATANTLY uneducated on a topic that I REFUSE to stop yapping about 😂😂😂

#ryan rambles #how tf are you gonna be SO FUCKING WRONG

[fvcking-damage]

me bc the bruins scored 9 vs the realization i’ll have to upload 9 goals

#said lightheartedly #i got this #ryan rambles

[drmichealmorbius]

I never ever want to hear once more to see you again. I can't get it out of my head and i just want to cry forever. i'm going to miss him so much

#ryan rambles

[kasoogi]

girlboy boygirl

#animefest #ryan rambles #death note #tlt #mello #my cosplay #the locked tomb #gideon nav #Gideon the ninth #animefest23