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x3nshit · 1 year

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one thing i need to start living by is “become the thing that you want” if i want friends who throw themed parties maybe i should start throwing those parties. if i want someone who writes me love letters maybe i should start writing letters for the people i love. if i want to hang out at museums and pretty cafes maybe i should invite my friends to these places. and maybe even then i won’t find the kind of people i want to be around. but then i would have become the exact person i want to be around. and maybe that’s good enough.

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way2pretty4this · 7 months

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Romanticizing Your Life (in a way that won't drain your bank account)

Make a happy playlist and listen to it while going on a walk

start a journal (doesn't have to be consistent, just when you have something to say)

Try baking something (I suck at baking, so if you've ever broken a stove or an oven, this idea is NOT for you)

Try drinking water. In a real glass. You're going to feel so fancy.

Light some candles and buy some flowers for yourself.

Put on a face mask (This never fails to make me feel like the main character)

Watch the sunrise or sunset (If you live far away from a place where you can see it then drive.)

Read a book

Take the newspaper and find the crossword section. Take this to a coffee shop and do it there with your favorite drink (I've been doing this once week and it is genuinely the best part of my day)

Try smiling more. Not in a weird way, but people will react kindly to you if you show them kindness. Its gonna make you feel warm and fuzzy inside.

Paint your nails a color you like (as someone who never has her nails painted, this makes me feel so bougie)

Listen to a podcast. Doesn't have to be a serious one. Either way you'll feel so mature.

TAKE A BUBBLE BATH. I don't do this very often but oh my gosh. I wish I did. It's so relaxing. You could even up it by playing relaxing music from your phone and pretending you're in a spa.

Make your space yours. I mean your room should look like a physical representation of your personality. If this means there are paint splatters on the walls and rubber ducks hanging from the ceiling thats okay. If it means the whole room is painted black and there are 3 pieces of furniture, this is okay. As long as you love it and it makes you feel comfortable.

Give yourself a signature scent. This isn't hard, you don't need to spend thousands of dollars on perfume. Just find a scent you really like, go to the drug store, and buy conditioner, shampoo, body wash, and lotion all with this scent. After you shower, use the lotion all over. This will make you smell like your scent and it's amazing. I started doing this a few months ago and I've gotten so many compliments on how I smell. You don't realize how big a compliment that is until you get it. Trust me.

Of course this is all for fun and you don't have to do any of it if you don't want to, but I think its a cute way to bring a little spark of joy into your daily lifestyle.

♡ Have fun! ♡

#stay focused #self love #self healing #self help #positivevibes #discipline #self improvement #self care #mindset #self growth #romanticise your life #romanticize

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reyvxntagesblog · 5 months

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Tomb of a suicide // Wilhelm Kotarbiñski // 1900

#dark academism #poetry #tumblrtextpost #light academic aesthetic #dead poets society #tumblrpost #poets on tumblr #light academia #autumn #literature #literary quotes #romantic academia #romanticism #romanticise your life #cottegecore #dark acadamia quotes #dark acadamia aesthetic #painting #baroque

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verona-honey · 16 days

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I am made of everything I love. I am made of your love for cinnamon incense. Your copper hair phase. Your childhood bear. Your coffee, taken hot and with oat milk, always.

#aesthetic #dark academia #light academia #poetry #self care #self love #books #girlhood #gratitude #romanticise your life

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inkwellphotograph · 5 months

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dark academia on a poor university student budget

Because tuition is expensive and my job doesn't pay much.

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Letter-writing. Decorate the margins with simple doodles that you know they'd appreciate. Find your own, distinctive sign-off. (You can also do this online by customising emails, Google Docs links, etc.)

Libraries. Campus libraries and their hum of student chatter. Once they begin to get too loud for your liking, visit a public library and study amongst the towering shelves.

Thrifting. Slowly phase old porcelain tableware into your kitchen. Walk to class in a gently-battered long coat. Thumb through copies of classics with worn corners and an old love note on the inside cover. Especially if you find an ornate teacup or mug that you can keep at your study space to be completely yours.

Make it yourself. Press flowers between heavy books and use them as decoration in your journal or sketchbook. Cut up some scrap paper and make bookmarks with your favourite book quotes.

Explore. Wander around public parks in your favourite pullover or blazer, taking photos or sketching whatever it is that catches your interest. Investigate back corridors and secret passages on your campus.

Read all those books in your TBR. (I know you have a lot on there.)

Journal, write, sketch, paint, compose... indulge in whatever creative respite you choose. Create.

#dark academia #light academia #romantic academia #classic academia #darkest academia #grey academia #cryptid academia #fairy academia #student life #university life #college life #dark academia inspiration #academia tips #chaotic academia #academics #romanticise your life #romanticise school

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feminineenergylife · 6 days

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#romanticise your life #romantasy #romanticize #romantacism #femininity #feminine #divine feminine #feminine energy #black femininity #feminine journey #soft black women #soft life #soft woman #soft aesthetic #women #romanticise everything #romanticize your life #romanticism

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zzzzzestforlife · 15 days

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"Stop Romanticizing Tech" 👩‍💻 Software Engineer's Realistic Day

i've heard a lot of peers in tech say they wish people would "stop romanticizing tech" because of their personal experience with burnout and stress and more recently, AI and layoffs. all their complaints resonated with me and for a time, i also saw each day as a painful slog.

but i think just a pinch of romanticism and optimism can go a long way towards seeing possibilities and opportunities where others may not. we're already here, after all, at this point of uncertainty and chaos. if we tell ourselves that we can't see it any other way, we only suffer twice.

so regardless of your circumstances, i hope that as you acknowledge the reality, you also see everything that could be 💛

morning!! 🌇

woke up 30 minutes before my alarm!! ⏰ been trying to fix my sleep schedule / body clock, so this is a major win!

leisurely morning routine and breakfast before work is sooooo important!! 🥞

peer-review code (~13x!!)🏃‍♀️

fixed a major bug!! 🐛 and two other bugs i found because i'm an overachiever like that 💁‍♀️

went to an interesting lunch and learn!! 😋

afternoon... 🏙️

hot-fix!! 🔥🚒 (for a component that somehow got left out of a recent migration...)

meeting with some beta testers that went really well ☺️ i'm so proud since i led the project and endured a lot... like, A LOT for it 🥲

another meeting, this time to finalize documentation across teams in preparation for release... kinda boring tbh, but necessary 🤝

set up even MORE monitoring in preparation for release + clean up some tech debt while i'm at it 🖥️

evening~ 🌆

meetings with my manager and manager's manager 💼 i can't deal with office politics, tbh, so i just view these as catch ups with older friends who i happen to work with...

internal testing meeting for a colleague's project~ 👏

company-wide meeting~ (basically my time to be nosy about all the other departments) 👀

💌: until next time~! 🧡

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xxstargirl27xx · 1 year

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hor1zond1ar1es · 13 days

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how to be that girl ~

have a signature everything. scent, nail colour, hairstyle, make-up (as in like a defining statement maybe eyeliner), accessory?

have a morning and night routine.

genuinely pretty people are always kind. be nice, give compliments on small things. because pretty isn’t just on the outside it’s inside too.

be your main priority. take care of your mind, energy, mental health, and body. work out, eat healthy food, meditate, read and do fun things. Become your own best friend and take care of yourself.

be independent and confident. don’t hold on to people who drain your energy; confront them or cut them off.

jealousy is a disease. take inspiration from those who have what you want, look up to them and learn.

tell people your here. share your thoughts, be funny, don’t take yourself too seriously, be open-minded and as present as you can be

stop caring. peoples opinions shouldn’t matter to you. nice fit? Wear it. Hungry? Eat.

don’t overthink. focus on the present and live in the moment.

you’re loved 🩰🦢🚬🕯️

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ash-elizabeth-art · 3 months

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POV you're going on a date to an art museum

etsy.com/shop/ashelizabethart

#i genuinely would wear this to an art museum tho #handmade jewelry #light academia #romanticism #romanticise your life #romanticise everything #museumcore #handmade

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carpeeenoctem · 13 days

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Romanticise your life for a moment

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withlove-esme · 2 months

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Seven days until my semester starts. I must be the most terrified girl in the world rn!

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reyvxntagesblog · 3 months

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Those who find beautiful meanings in beautiful things are the cultivated. For these there is hope.

— Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

#poetry #dark academism #tumblrtextpost #light academic aesthetic #dead poets society #tumblrpost #poets on tumblr #light academia #autumn #literature #oscar wilde #the picture of dorian gray #romantic academia #romanticise your life #romanticism #chaotic acadmeia quotes #chaotic academic aesthetic #chaotic academia

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sogirrrrrl · 9 months

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welcome to my cottage

#aesthetic #moodboard #soft academia #cottagecore #cozy cottage #cozy vibes #cottage aesthetic #moomin #cats #cozy #cows #gilmore girls #romanticise your life #romanticise everything #lorelai gilmore #rory gilmore

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inkwellphotograph · 7 months

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⚘ small suggestions to feel more dark academic

Be unafraid to prioritise studying. Decide for yourself what brings you more satisfaction.

Have a system for revising. Learn what works best for your learning, and dedicate yourself to sticking to it. Make a table of contents, make a key for your annotations, find a specific spot in the library.

Black pens.

Eyeliner. It looks great on everybody.

Be willing to learn. Do not lose yourself in your studies. Be open to the knowledge of others, experiment with hobbies, ask questions wherever you go.

Keep a journal with you at all times. Record whatever you think you need to, no matter how important or trivial it may be.

Decorate your phone screen. Use custom icons that match your background. If you want visual interest, use widgets.

Make a personal ritual for rewards. Personally, I take myself out for coffee or snacks after finishing a particularly draining exam or assignment.

Do not let yourself become vain or conceited. If following the dark academia subculture boosts your confidence, that's excellent. But remember to stay respectful and polite, and don't take yourself too seriously

#dark academia #academia aesthetic #dark academia suggestion #dark academia aesthetic #light academia #grey academia #classic academia #chaotic academia #darkest academia #romanticse everything #romanticise your life #romanticise school #suggestions

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pastel-charm-14 · 1 month

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how to romanticize your life - a series - post 1 - intro to romanticizing

hello lovelies! this is a lil series that i'm putting together on how to romanticize lots of different aspects of your life. i hope you like it! <3

the art of romanticizing your life.

it's about finding beauty and magic in the ordinary, turning everyday moments into something extraordinary, and infusing your life with a sense of wonder and delight.

whether it's savoring a cup of tea in the morning, taking a leisurely stroll through the park, or simply enjoying the company of loved ones, romanticizing allows you to appreciate the little things and cultivate a deeper sense of joy and gratitude.

so in this daily series we're going to dive into the concept of romanticizing and how it can add an extra special touch to all facets of your life!

stay tuned...

#series #romanticism #romanticise your life #romanticize #romanticise everything #that girl #it girl #pink #cute #romaniticization #romanticizing school #pastel dreamer✨

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