I am a romantic asexual looking for a romantic asexual.
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I got a comment on my last post about an aroace podcast and I figured a full post wouldnt hurt!
The podcast is called Sounds Fake But Okay:
"Sounds Fake But Okay is a weekly podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a demisexual straight girl talk about love, relationships, sexuality, & pretty much anything else they just don't understand.
Kayla and Sarah have been best friends since their freshman year at the University of Michigan. The summer after the freshman year, Sarah came out as asexual and aromantic. Sarah began asking Kayla questions about the world of dating and sex that she just didn't understand. Questions like how long is sex supposed to last and what the appeal of dick pics is to some people.
These conversations were usually very humorous and often insightful, and so the decision to try making a podcast about these topics was made. The girls now cover all kinds of topics from questioning your sexuality and asexual people’s place in the LGBTQIA+ community to topics of personal interest like fandom to giving listeners dubious advice."
Their website: https://www.soundsfakepod.com
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I have put on an all black outfit AND eyeliner. This is my peak.
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Man sure is a great time to be a hopeless romantic asexual during the time of hook up culture.
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I am afraid of falling in love and of living without have ever been truly loved
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Thought I’d go ahead and post this piece I did for a queer art show a while ago to celebrate ace week! I’m a romantic ace, hence the ace of hearts, and a Romantic ace, hence the literal heart
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on this national coming out day I’d like to remind all my romantic asexuals that your love does not make you invalid and that love and sex can exist just as strongly apart as they do together - from a romantic ace who refuses to be invalidated
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Not being able to sit in chairs properly isn’t just a gay thing. It’s an LGBTQIA+ thing. Turns out I’m asexual.
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So, I just joined Acebook.
Now all I need to do is work up enough courage to actually interact. X'DD
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Just a thought but non-ace people don't get to decide whether or not rep is "good enough" for us
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Hot take, it’s reasonable to read characters like Thumbelina and Princess Kaguya as asexual and Belle and Giselle as demisexual.
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🎃 Happy Halloween! 🎃
Now cringe and enjoy a conversation I had with a man on Plenty of Fish who managed to check ALL of the dating while asexual boxes.
Now lets see:
Doesn’t understand what attraction is
Doesn’t know what being asexual means
“I can make you like sex” otherwise known as “You’ll change your mind when you meet the right person”
There must be something wrong with you physically (go see a doctor)/Your hormones must be out of balance
“I feel sorry for you” and “You’re missing out on something important”
(This one is kind of new) Homophobia/Transphobia? “After all you were born as a girl and you should have feelings for men and for sex” ???
He also went on to repeat himself and tell me sex has been “scientifically proven that only sex can give a person extreme pleasure”. Yeah...anyway.
🎃 Happy Halloween! 🎃
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This man entered my DMs on THIS BLOG and started a conversation. I didn’t show those screens but he said “Hey” and I said “Hi.” he asked me how I was, I was “fine”. Then the screens start.
This man’s first language was clearly not English and apparently didn’t know what “asexual” meant but I tried to clear that up in simple terms but you’ll find a ton of men online who are just like this. I have one guy on Discord who messages me on and off who once asked if I was a virgin and who cries in text form when I “act strange” or bring up his bull. A lot of these men will ask to be “friends” and then if you say yes they’ll assume you are up for it and pounce. I say men because I’ve never had a person of the female persuasion do this to me. After I made sure this guy wasn’t a bot (after the first few messages) I wanted to keep the conversation going long enough to get something weird out of him so that’s why I agreed to “be friends”.
So some things he said in case you missed them. He asked me to “talk about sex” as well as “talk about my figure, how it looks”, demanded just “one” picture, wanted my whatsapp (which I actually do not have, don’t trust it) and wanted to come to my country to “meet me”. This last part is actually a recurring feature with the guy in my DMs on Discord. I don’t know what possesses someone to think about travelling across the world after just having met someone five seconds ago only through text. Like long distance can work, but this is just weird as all hell. I’m not blurring the man’s blog because he’ll probably message other people and I want people to be able to block him. It’s also a blank blog with a name that doesn’t reveal anything.
Anyway, I hope you enjoyed this post. I don’t get a lot of these situations as much anymore, at least good enough to post, so I’m happy to be posting on this blog again for what it was made for!
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I might kinda stepped out of my mental closet for the second time this year 🌈
Just wanted to share the revelation
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I’m super confused about why a guy goes on talking to me, we both know he’s just looking for sex and yet like...he keeps talking. He’s there trying to convince me hook ups are fun and “feel good”; thanks for the information.
The Desperation is Real.
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I'M REALLY TRYING TO BE MYSELF WITH YOU BUT IT'S BECOMING TOO HARD AND I DON'T KNOW IF YOU REALLY CAN HANDLE THIS.
About a week ago I told @sarar3n33 my theory that Batman is asexual, probably that around the line of a Romantic Asexual and now she refers to herself as Batman and I adore my friend so much
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CRAVING - is this what it feels like to get horny?
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I’m thinking 3 words but not those 3 letters
I like you
I fancy you
I love you
Those 3 letters are nowhere in my mind
No thoughts of being intertwined as one
No thoughts of jigsaw pieces
I later realised a crush meant something different to most people
It could mean sexually appealing
Not just aesthetically pleasing
or nice to be around
My head spun like a merry-go-round
All those years I plucked a crush out of thin air when asked
Now felt like a lie
Because I didn’t mean what they meant when they said it
I meant this person seems like good company
Just not a company I want in my bed
This doesn’t mean I’m broken
This doesn’t mean my heart is cold or dead
You can like
You can love
With or without lust
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