#resentments

[thepeacefulgarden]

#resentments #they can't read your mind #relationships #self care #self love #self respect #self compassion #speak up #boundaries #codependency #people pleasing #fawning

[serenityquest]

#resentments #blame #projection

[shbubble]

Expectations are just premeditated resentments

Katya Zamolodchikova, UNHhhh Ep. 152

#UNHhhh Ep. 152 #UNHhhh #expectations #resentments #Katya Zamolodchikova #katya #drag queens #drag queen #katya quotes

[kittenzeke]

Today's reading for Lent is rich in wisdom and especially relevant to my life. I still have so many resentments to pray about.

#journal #personal #pic #lent #catholic #catholic on main #god #forgiveness #resentments #prayer #currently reading #bibliophile #bibliophilia #bible study

[randomreasonstolive]

Reason to Live #8157

 Letting go of resentments and moving on with life. – Guest Submission

(Please don't add negative comments to these posts.)

#sad #help #hope #reason to live #depressed #depression #empty #alone #mental illness #anxiety #trauma #guest submission #mental health #progress #resentments #resentful #emotions #feelings #moving on #growth #stability

[thebaneofmyexistence2]

You say you hope I'm doing well.

I am doing well

But in the sense I'm doing so much better without you.

I hope you've had a taste of your own medicine.

Cause that shit was potent

And it built so much resentment in me that I still feel it.

I hope you're getting a taste of that medicine.

#resentments

[tdjens]

I’m so sick and tired of seeing the ones who have stolen pieces of my heart, my soul, my inner peace seemingly going on with their picturesque life.

As if they are not effected by the cruel and unusual events that transpired at their leisure.

As if we were not once bonded so tightly that I called you a lifer. A lifelong friend who becomes family.

Why? Why did this happen? Why the FUCK are you okay with it?! Why are those who ‘serve and protect’ only protecting the monsters?

What’s the balance? What’s the bigger picture? Because all I see is black and red. Rage and darkness. It’s hard not to let it consume me and come for you as you let him come for me.

May God be with me and have mercy on my soul.

#rapeawareness #resentments #betrayal #dark thoughts #no justice no peace #picturesque #you make me sick #may god have mercy on my soul

[3score11poet]

Tea Time Emotiku

Sunday, 01/22/2023, Resentments

Resentments served cold / Plotting revenge does sound sweet / It only hurts YOU. © keefderpoet 2023

“The human heart in its perversity finds it hard to escape hatred and revenge.” Moses Luzzatto

There is an old saying that resentments are like drinking poison in hopes it will kill the other person. It’s true. At least in my case, I find resentments cause my stomach to churn, my pulse rises uncontrollably, and I feel sick. So I have given up resentments, for the most part. Oh sure, injustice will flash in the pan like an old flashcube, but then it’s done. I find I CAN control my response; I can reduce opportunities for others to abuse me, my good will, or my good nature. That gives me peace and allows my soul time to recover. That’s a much better sensation for my gut, heart, and monkey brain.

#tea time emotiku #resentments #revenge #moses luzzatto

[addiction-can-be-overcome]

How long have you held on to a resentment? This last month I found a resentment that is 36 years held. It’s still so strong, it still holds so much emotion.

I’m angry over something someone didn’t do. A promise not kept. Something that was part of my lifetime dream, that I can’t ever have. Why can’t I have it? Because I chose a different path. I chose a better path. My life is better now and I know it. But why? Why am I still holding on so tight to this? I wouldn’t trade my life for that missed opportunity if it came with a zillion dollars.

But here I am holding on to this hurt, all this anger, and I can’t escape it. I’ve tried to let it go. Tell myself that it doesn’t matter. Because it just doesn’t.

As I keep trying to let this go, I keep coming back to “but damn it I deserved that!” It’s like I felt this unkept promise was payment for all the BS that the promise maker put me through. Well, let’s call it was it really was, not BS, abuse, old fashioned emotional abuse.

So, I told my ‘new’ therapist about it. They pointed out quite quickly that this resentment isn’t resentment, it’s the result of trauma, 36 year old trauma that I’ve been told over and over to just let go. So I guess another session of EMDR is necessary. At least at this point I know it works.

Remember, if the steps don’t work for something there are other resources. You can get better.

#emdr therapy #resentments #therapy helps #recovery

[agreenroad]

So Much Waiting For You

So Much Waiting For You

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#bitterness #disappointments #fear #future #guilt #jealousy #past #regrets #rejections #resentments

[vjonny2x4v]

"The simple truth is I deserve to lose"

#Music #lyrics #Kublai Khan #Resentments #Spotify

[luckyclover]

Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous (Page 552)

How to get rid of resentments:

If you have resentment you want to be free of, if you will pray for the person or thing that you resent, you will be free. If you will ask in prayer for everything you want for yourself to be given to them, you will be free. Ask for their health, their prosperity, their happiness, and you will be free.

Even when you don’t really want it for them and your prayers are only words and you don’t mean it, go ahead and do it anyway. Do it everyday …. and you will find you have come to mean it and to want it for them, and you will realize that where you used to feel bitterness and resentment and hatred, you now feel compassionate, understanding and love.

It worked for me then, and it has worked for me many times since, and it will work for me every time I am willing to work it. Sometimes I have to ask first for the willingness, but it always comes. And because it works for me, it will work for all of us. As another great man says, ‘The only real freedom a human being can ever know is doing what you ought to do because you want to do it.

This great experience that released me from the bondage of hatred and replaced it with love is really just another affirmation of the truth I know: I get everything I need in Alcoholics Anonymous—everything I need I get—and when I get what I need I invariably find that it was just what I wanted all the time.

#resentments #forgiveness #peace #love #joy #happiness #power #freedom #control #honor #dignity #trust #compassion

[serenityquest]

Road to Relapse

Resentments burn the edges of my mind.

Troublemaking thoughts

fester in fertile fields

of self-importance and self-righteousness.

My brain begs for

distilled dynamite

to dull the confusion.

Fueling the fire

is so tempting.

-- Eileen Mager

#spilled ink #relapse #alcoholism #poem #poetry #alcoholic #resentments

[kapicryst]

Grudges and resentments are burdens to nobody but yourself.

#costar quotes #costar #quotes #costar qotd #grudges #resentments #burdens #nobody #nobody but yourself

[a-god-in-ruins-rises]

#this is based #also pleased to see all of the americans in the replies agreeing #none of them crying about it being inauthentic or appropriation or whatever #this is why americans are superior #no resentment or pettiness #just magnanimity and joy

[cappycodeart]

"The dead one! Yeah I haven't thought about her in a long time!"

A little theory I've had about Winter King's original motives based on his heartless comment about Betty and Ice King's original motives for kidnapping princesses in the first place...... clearly she gave off Bad Ex Vibes…

#adventure time #fionna and cake #simon petrikov #winter king #candy queen #princess bubblegum #ice king #betty grof #fionna and cake spoilers #adventure time spoilers #at spoilers #spoilers #fan art #digital art #sketch #2023 #SORRY THIS IS SKETCHY I NEEDED TO GET IT OUT OF MY SYSTEM. I HAVE SO MANY THOUGHTS ABOUT THIS JERKWAD #SO MANY QUESTIONS SO MANY THOUGHTS AND NONE OF THEM WILL EVER BE ANSWERED LOL #I say bad-ex in quotes I feel like I hc that this Simon definitely had some ego issues to begin with... #and whether betty left him or died in the apocalypse he held that against her and became resentful instead #after he became Winter King he grew out of it and stopped caring because he's having a fantastic time now #but PB has always been a subconscious reminder of Betty. Why else would he target her specifically.