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hektor-world · 12 days
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I miss you
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starlet-sky · 1 year
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I have a relationship blog, for anyone who’s in love, has been in love, or hopes to be in love :
@yearning4u0nly
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silentmindchronicles · 5 months
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Am I just crazy or???
Someone explain to me why “men” think it’s okay to like or comment or subscribe to other people when they’re in a relationship yet barely like, comment or interact with their S.O. Content. like is it just me or do these men really just think it’s okay to be on so many other females accounts, and give all these other females attention, and then question why their female at home is always mad or feeling some type of way, or not acting the same as they used to or not as loving as they used to be , yet, he was caught subbing and liking, and being on other females accounts, when he told you to create an of, just to use it against you and cover up for what he wanna do and make it seem like what he does ain’t shit compared to what you do
Not to mention they know your boundaries. And don’t care. Clearly
Yet everything you do is (was) for them
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ijumpedacrossforyou · 18 days
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Came across this post on my Facebook. The relevance. I've had this conversation with myself, as you can gain from previous posts.
I do and don't want to talk. Maybe we should, and I'll express every single thing I want to say. I would still look hopelessly heartbroken, he knows I am.
So should we talk? I know we shouldn't, because I just don't know how I feel anymore, it's so back and forth. Everyday is a different feeling. Sometimes I'm over it, other days I'm so disgusted (by my own thoughts).
I can't let my heart take the lead any longer. It's written enough excuses to forgive him. So I will not initiate talking to him. I keep telling myself that. I'm trying to talk myself through this phase of getting over him. I keep wondering how many phases I'll go through, though.
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romantic-charm · 9 months
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iloveubee · 1 month
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Ok so something that has been revolutionary for me and my gf since now its possibile for me and her to talk a bit more, thats also why i havent been posting that mutch so that i can directly Say things tò her but also due to mental health problems, but One way that we show eatchothers affection Is that we started tò play brawl stars togheter and yeah It might be weird, but i get so excited when She Is online and there also a chat so we talk about things in there sometimes and It makes me feel closer to her, even if chatting on a mobile game chat seams desperate but i don't care Just that i can play with my lovely girlfriend means the worlds tò me, and that we are able tò have some quality time togheter, Witch Is One of the more important stuff for me, so yeah its fucking great! Also me and her are litteraly Emz and Poco they are so us coded even if Bad Randoms Poco Is more me coded. But yeah this makes me so Happy
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surviving-distance · 10 months
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Does anyone else regularly use the Obedience app?
You share the account with your partner/s and make rule and task lists with punishment and reward lists.
I used it years ago and my service oriented ass with a praise kink loved it, lol.
I would like to bring using it up to him but in a no big deal way.
Anyone have ideas on how to casually get him on board? Especially being long distance.
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shannon41511 · 7 months
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oversweetpeaches · 2 years
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eyelids
i thought you no longer gave me butterflies . but that so easily , yet so shockingly , changed when you told me that you loved my eyelids .
i never thought you would notice the subtle things i don't love about myself. 2:19am
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paroxym-erlebnisse · 2 years
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you are the reason i continue living
you’re the oxygen in my lungs
you’re the blood pumping my heart
and you’re my everything
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aconfusing-blog · 2 years
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It’s been ages since I’ve posted
its been a while, so here’s what’s happened since I last posted:
- the girl that my friends kept annoying me to date has told me her feelings for me I also like her back but I cannot find the chance to ask her out. I was planning to yesterday, but then we saw my two other friends and they came along with us and hung around all day. one of the other friends that came along decided to really annoy me. he wouldn’t let me talk to anyone other than him, and every time I tried to talk to anyone else (even on texts) he would interupt by either taking my phone or walking in between and changing the topic. it really annoyed me so when he took my phone for like the 80th time I decided to walk away to teach him a lesson. my  friend said that he felt bad, yet never apoligised.
-I finished all my exams and now I have like 2 weeks of doing nothing because I’m off school, but I’m happy that we go back to school quite soon. I am almost 100% sure that I have failed math, which isn’t good because that means that I am forced to do it again. 
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mistressmooncake · 24 days
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Weird shit went down on Friday afternoon with my ex.
I think he's really unwell and really angry. It's coming out everywhere.
He accused me of fucking his brother. We had live location on all the time. He must have seen I was there maybe an hour.
I get this message "Anything you want to tell me".
We'd been talking previously in the day about being casual so I finished that convo and said sorry i was busy and asked if i could know what he might want and made a little jab and said "cause i have a line to pick from but i honestly cbf getting to know someone knew cause im too busy". He was like no waht are you doing. I said I was driving home just got home. Him: is that all? Me: popped into your brother quick but yeah just got home.
He starts accusing me of lying, that I tried to deny where I was, and that I better not be fucking his brother. I said I'm not, I was comforting his brothers crying child and had a chat with an old friend as his brother is also an old friend of mine. Ex says in lying. I point out if I wanted to sneak around with his brother I wouldn't have my live location on with him.
I took a screen and sent to his brother showing him the accusations. He demanded to know who I sent them to. I said his brother cause I was terrified.
I had previously taken some screens of a brutal convo we had where he essentially was ending it all and sent to his sister saying I didn't think it was going to work out. He demanded to know who I sent those to the day before. I said Laura as she believed we would get back together.
He loses it says I'm stalking him (when he stalked where I was and made assumptions and flipped out). Tells me to screenshot me and sisters convo to show him that I sent her the screenshots. I did but not her replies. She immediately asks who I'm sending that to. I say ex. She asks why. I say he thinks I'm fucking your brother.
Suddenly, sisters account unfriends and re adds me. I say this to ex and say it's suspicious. I accept the re add from her, and suddenly, the convo is being screenshot and screen recorded. I wasn't to worried as there wasn't anything nasty. Us talking about podcasts and then me just showing her its pretty much over. Otherwise he'd have just seen me caring and loving about him.
This re add start trying to talk to me but isn't typing like the sister and seems too strained to be coming off as a girl. I call her. I get from HIM "stop contacting my family". Im like oh sorry are you with her and he says no. I said i was confused, and he tells on himself saying "well when I'm confused i don't call your family".
Me: oh are you with sister?
Him: No
Wtf?
I call out the new add from sister. Saying its not her. "As if someone else is on my snap lol".
Then it all stops for 2 hours.
I get a message later saying he feels no bad blood. He doesn't want to destroy me. Just stop being friends with his sister and that he isn't accusing me of anything.
I essentially say ok, get better, goodnight.
Cause by now I'm just shocked and appalled.
From what I can deduce, his sister was at the house. When I told him I messaged the screens to her I believe he flipped out and intimidated her into giving him access to her snap. Then added me to look at all our conversation. After he did that I'm guessing whatever argument or conversation took place between them and I got that final reply.
What floors me is stalking me, and accusing me of stalking. Lying and gaslighting me and accusing me of lying.
When we separated we agreed to keep our locations on cause we cared for each other. On Friday I considered stopping but was too scared he'd freak out.
This morning rolls around and he's turned off his. So I'm like ok guess we don't care anymore so I turn off mine. SO HE BLOCKS ME.
I know I'm better off but just wow...
Trauma response didn't kick in till after that.
At this rate I'd rather die alone.
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ijumpedacrossforyou · 13 days
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He did see me. He told me he needed me to know how pretty he thinks I am. Not that you can see someone's features intimately as you pass them going 40 mph, but he said it counts for him. He was surprised to know I saw him, back/too.
We had a total solar eclipse the other day. A local distillery had a party for it, so I went before work with some friends. They had a tarot reader there, and I decided to pay for a 10-minute session. She asked me what I wanted to talk about, giving me some general, common questions. Ex. What's going on between you and a love interest/partner? So I said let's do that. What's going on with us? With him?
She used an oracle pack, a more serious one. As she shuffled, a card fell out. "I can't express myself." She said it was about him. I laughed at the relevance. She said, "Let's find out why." I told her he said it was because he never learned how.
She then began to shuffle her tarot deck. More cards began to fall. The tower - something really big had happened between us. The lovers - the love still there, but it's broken right now. Four of wands - it would require a lot of communication to fix. Ace of pentacles - there is hope. Knight of pentacles - but efforts are not being made. The emperor - on either end, because I'm trying to control the situation.
She said she could see I was struggling with what to do and asked if I was scared of being alone. I said no, because I'm not. I said I'm scared of never finding another relationship with this much intensity, in a good way. What I'm also scared of, really, is finding someone else and wasting more time. Be it because I will always compare something new to him, or that I invest more time into someone who won't appreciate me properly.
The advice? "I know this isn't what you're going to want to hear, but there is no wrong decision. Either choice will come to fruition." Ten of cups - it would take effort from both of us. Six of wands - but I would need to set strong boundaries. "If you choose not to be with him, you will be okay. If you choose to be with him, it will be okay IF you set and maintain strong boundaries." Strength - I need to know that I have the strength to make either decision.
I've spent the rest of that day and the couple since then thinking about instigating him to say something meaningful. Why does he want to keep in contact? Really. What does he want?? But to keep myself from doing so, I keep cherrypicking times I was left feeling so empty because of his carelessness, negligence, disrespect.
• The night I asked to go out with him and he told me, sorry, no, it's boy's night. Really, any time he went out and didn't invite me at all or agreed to meet up but much later on. I always crave him extra when I'm drunk. It's hard for me that he never considers me. • The time he asked to come see me on a Sunday afternoon, got to my house and he'd been drinking. He got off then left to continue drinking with his brother instead of staying with me. I was upset later that week, and he told me I could've come and hung out with them. When I said I wasn't going to invite myself, he said I should have. • The time I might've already mentioned when I asked to meet his children, and he said she said no, that he had to respect that. I don't believe he actually asked her. • The couple times we got into arguments about her tracking him down in the middle of the night. One of us always ending up walking away. There was a night in particular that he went outside to talk to her. When I found him on the phone, he tried to shoo me away, and I became reasonably but only mildly upset. I just wanted to know why he answered her call, and he wouldn't answer me. He immediately decided to leave. I blocked his way and tried to get him to relax, stay, and have a conversation with me, but he refused. I grabbed the front of his shirt and he pushed me away. He and his brother left. I followed him trying to persuade him to stay and please talk to me. His brother called me crazy.
Whether subtle omissions or blatant lies, they all hurt just the same. His lack of support, never prioritizing me... I can't text him.
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cyberiapinksosa333 · 7 months
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“wtf is wrong with you”
you mean like today or like in general?
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iloveubee · 1 year
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I made this memes for all the things i wanna Watch with my lovely Bee when we can se eatch other again enjoy!
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surviving-distance · 9 months
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Having him recreate you into a better human through his vision is incredibly exciting and amazing for anyone service oriented. I never would have imagined that I could produce this much dopamine all the time now.
Have you ever felt so good that you need to tie rocks to your feet to keep you from floating away? It's that.
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