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rainbowpopeworld · 5 months

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This is a big thing that I continue to work on unlearning/relearning

#care tasks #self care #cleaning is a process #a never ending cycle #judgement makes it harder #morally neutral #spoons #spoonie #disabled #nd things #neurodivergent #cleaning #oh no it's queue

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solarpunkani · 11 months

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"Oh no, someone's attracted to the aesthetics of my -punk movement but doesn't know the praxis and history behind it like I do--"

OK. Tell them. Make it a teaching moment. Everyone who's in your movement learned the background from somewhere at some point, maybe this is that point for that person. Give them a jumping off point that they can dive into later.

"Oh but I shouldn't be responsible for teaching baby -punks about the history and the how-tos and--"

OK. Then don't tell them. You don't have to be responsible for teaching people with a budding interest in your group the ins and outs and how-tos. That's fair and valid! It can be a lot of work. Someone else will handle it

"But I'm annoyed that they would try to claim to be part of/be interested in my community without knowing all the details that I know after being in it for months/years/decades, they're dumb, they're posers, they're--"

OK. Then don't engage with them, if it's that bad. Maybe someone else will come around and tell them the history, maybe they'll pick it up on their own, maybe they'll just enjoy the fashion elements for awhile.

"But they shouldn't claim to be part of the -punk community if they don't know the--"

I feel like we have a few options here. People can either talk to them, share the history, share the values, share the praxis. Or they can just chase off anyone who even thinks about dipping a toe in their community, and then wonder why it's dying off later down the line.

I dunno, maybe I'm too naive and patient or whatever. But if people are entering your -punk spaces without knowing The Rundown of what you feel they need to know, maybe being nice about it and informing people instead of immediately assuming stupidity and malicious intent could help you make a new friend. Even the loudest voices in a space had to learn from somewhere, and not everyone has the luxury of being in the space as the History was Happening--whether it's an age thing or a not being aware of the space thing. Or maybe I just don't see what the big deal is behind people hating people who like the aesthetic of something and don't know the behind the scenes history about it yet.

Because I believe in the word 'yet.' No one comes into this world knowing everything about everything, and we're all constantly learning new things. I'm not gonna degrade someone and call them a poser for not knowing what I know. Because if it were me, interested in a scene but getting chased out and called a poser? I wouldn't hit the books and study up, I'd go 'that fuckin sucks, those people sucked' and then avoid anyone and anything having to do with it.

So chase people off and call them posers if you want. But if your community starts dwindling, don't be fucking shocked.

#out of queue #ani rambles #punks and posers #i cant even call this a 4am hot take because its 7pm but like #idk i keep seeing posts about like 'how DARE people think I bought my punk clothes how DARE they not know the how-tos and DIYs'#or 'ugh people only care about the ~aesthetics~ of my movement if you don't know shit get out of here' and like #maybe I'm just a shy ass introverted nerd whos scared of social rejection! but I avoid that shit like the plague #so if someone were to reject me based on not knowing about something I'd never even heard about? something i was JUST getting into?#there's a high chance I'd just scram and never look back. i don't wanna be the one who causes that emotion in someone else #granted this is coming from someone who STILL doesn't know how to make her own patches or worked up the courage to do direct action praxis #outside of offering neighbors to my tomatoes and trying to talk to people about what I'm passionate about #but still imo unless someone's a malicious intentional bad actor i dont see the point in scaring newbies off #thats how movements die imo #i know this is my solarpunk blog but its not a solarpunk specific thing #i think the main post that inspired this was about store-bought versus self-made spiked leather jackets #which honestly just feels petty to me but who knows.#might delete later

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tomatoart · 2 years

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can my cat and ur cat have a playdate in these rat infested sewers

#catboy jerma #jerma985 #hatsune miku #jerma985 fanart #cat miku #jerma #queue are lovely #vocaloid #see idk what to tag bc i never draw epic sjtuff liek thisd #pls dont touch if ur an are p ess or weird abt mr germs LOL anywyas i so hi off jerma content #im posting both vers bc i dont care if it looks clunky i had sm funn w this like the most fun yet i think YAY ok after thisill go back to #posting my older art to get rid of them

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daily-hanamura · 3 months

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#p4 #p4g #persona 4 #persona 4 golden #hanamura yosuke #yosuke hanamura #haha the way yosuke just takes ownership of caring for his friends #i actually never recovered from this scene you know. no one else volunteered this because teddie was such an unknown #and we could say everyone else has their reasons for not doing so but.#in a way so does yosuke. hes got to go to bis parents as well and tell them to look after this new kid #and he pulls so much of his weight in caring for teddie as well. he teaches him how to get around #he teaches teddie how to live in the human world. he teaches teddie how to work #i feel like the last point is so complex because. it helps yosuke alleviate the boredom of working at Junes as well by having a friend there #but inadvertently or otherwise. hes also preparing teddie for a life when yosuke wouldnt be there anymore #(because hes moved out to go to college or whatever)#and i feel so strongly about their dynamic but also. also!! the way yosuke was the one that made this step #how he just takes responsibility for the people around him without need for praise. how he cares about them.#he's good with his queue

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leopardom · 1 month

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genuinely struggling to feel any excitement about the jo gigs i’m attending thanks to the insane fans who choose to queue even since midnight at the day of the gig

#idek why i thought the ee tickets would kinda solve the situation #but it only pushed people with ga to queue even more #not to talk about some people with ee who show up at fuck o clock on the queue too like hello you bought that ticket to avoid queueing for #an insane amount of hours #i don’t talk about the people with ee who show up in the morning i mean everyone who may be arriving before 8am like huh?#and like i have ee for Milan but now i’m scared #it’s not even about getting barricade i’ve dealt with the idea i’ll never have barricade at a jo gig and i don’t care #but this is stressful af yk #sorry i’m just very frustrated and want to rant but i also feel like i have no right to rant or what and AAAAAAAAAAA #this is emma speaking

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asleepinawell · 1 year

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basically do you prefer to play solo or do you prefer to get the story run with the scions and then play with others or do you hate support/trust etc etc

this occurred to me when I was making the least favorite dungeons polls and people were mentioning other players as reasons they didn't like certain dungeons which is something I didn't consider for my own choices in later dungeons since I always run them as trusts unless I'm with a friend

#massively prefer support/trusts #always play them in support first time #mostly prefer to do it that way after but I'll often queue if I'm with a friend #they go slightly faster with people but the dps queue time tends to negate that #also I'll usually only heal/tank in trusts #I not only like playing with the characters but I like the extra control I get on the pace #and the extra gear I get #ffxiv #ffxiv polls #final fantasy xiv #ffxivmp #mp #I just really like playing with my blorbo buddies even urianger who is guilty of murdering me on multiple occasions #what's really funny is the first time I did ktisis with real people (under duress) I was so confused #because I was so used to how the elpis squad did the mechanics #I was like you are standing in the wrong place for this mechanic!!!! I don't care if it's safe! it's wrong!#why aren't you using hermes hit box to judge the safe spots for the across the arena blasts #why is no one interrupting hermes true bravery?????#also discovered I had no clue how the snake head mechanic worked and had just been following venat around the whole time oops #venat would never betray me

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tethered-heartstrings · 5 months

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i lived btw if you even care

#sarcasm just in case #in reference to surgery i had last week #ngl never have had surgery this major and i anticipated pain and wound care etc but not this amount of exhaustion #i am sleeping so fucking much and i already slept a lot #but today is the first day without any acute surgical related pain and my drains are out #so i am sorry to all the dms i have yet to reply to bc my brain is basically sand and goo #i also fell down the stairs lmfao but i am fine!#i'll still keep my queue where it is and may keep it at this level permanently idk #ty to everyone who gave me well wishes i really appreciate it!#the speaking clown #delete later

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wonderinc-sonic · 5 months

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I think Shadow should try to destroy the world again. But this time not because he's been manipulated by his creator. For himself. It's self care.

#don't tell me he has developed as a character i know and i don't care #i think it would be fucking hilarious #acceptable reasons: too many people think hes nice; had to wait in a queue behind lady walrus; sonic said he never would #shadow the hedgehog #just have him be evil for one more game please he was such a fun evil guy and we may never get him again #i am feeling some typa way about shadow being allowed to kill everyone #wonderincs

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fizzytoo · 1 year

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baby juliette!

#ts4 #ts4 gameplay #sims 4 gameplay #little julie :(((#we’re skipping the newborn phase yall i wanted to play infants so bad #that new baby smell 😞#YOU KNOW if she was a care bear i think she’d maybe be wish bear ☹️☹️#postcard legacy challenge #postcard: gen2 #queue #you never really think about the last time you held a baby #my youngest sibling is reaching toddler hood and before her #i haven’t interacted w a baby in like 10-11 years??? since my brother was a baby #sim: rosa han #sim: juliette han-avagyan

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awayfromhomes · 7 months

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very weird to bring your queuing culture into countries that you are merely a guest in and don’t have a lot of shows just to have ANOTHER barricade … people have no shame but what’s new

#like queue in italy spain germany all you want who cares but it’s weird to me that there are almost never locals at barricade simply because #others saw a chance and put their wristband systems into place for barricade #and same with the pictures interesting to see how it’s 90% internationals getting them though i can promise you #locals were waiting as well #😶😶

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wishesofeternity · 8 months

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"The queen’s (Elizabeth of York's) greatest generosity went to her family and those connected even peripherally with family—expenditures revealing the importance of personal ties to this queen who had lost so many loved ones to wars, executions, and natural death. One poignant expense in her Privy Purse is tiny: 3½ yards of cloth to “a woman that was nurse to the Prince, brother to the Queen’s grace.” Nineteen years after the young prince disappeared, his older sister remembered the nurse who took care of him. Similarly, she regularly sent alms to “a poor man” who was a former servant of Edward IV. ... Perhaps Queen Elizabeth was a soft touch. On December 9, 1502, she gave 12d to a “man of Pontefract” who claimed that he had lodged in his home the queen’s uncle Anthony Wydeville, earl Rivers, during the year of his execution—19 years earlier in 1483!"

Arlene Okerlund, "Elizabeth of York: Queenship and Power" / Joanna Laynesmith, "The Last Medieval Queens: English Queenship 1445-1503"

"Elizabeth Darcy, the lady mistress of the nursery for Elizabeth Woodville's children, was appointed to the same post for Elizabeth of York's children, probably as a result of the younger queen's childhood affection for Darcy."

#Meanwhile Ricardians will claim that Elizabeth of York never knew true affection and care until she arrived at Richard and Anne's household #historicwomendaily #history #elizabeth of york #edward iv #anthony woodville #edward v #queue

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inalandofsadclowns · 6 months

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spn spinoff, but it's just cas going on a quest to revisit all the times and places of every memory which had ever been taken from him while trying to stay incognito not to mess with time and shit.

dean obviously joins in. he starts to suspect cas might have been mistaken what he said he only started to care about humanity because of dean.

#look i don't know where i was going with this #but it would be a shame if the one with a crack in his chassis who cared about the whole world never had those beautiful memories back #enough you're going in the queue #castiel #cas #destiel #deancas #dean winchester #dean #spn #supernatural #spn au

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prowlsart · 2 months

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