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#questioning my sexuality
starchilddante · 6 months
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As an ace person, I struggle with identifying my romantic attraction. Because I don't feel sexual attraction, it can be hard to determine what is romantic feelings.
I've been going by lesbian online for a couple years and about 9 months in person. I like women. I know that for sure. But I can't really tell the difference between romantic and platonic attraction with dudes. Am i bi? I am gay? I have a temporary crisis over it every time the issue comes up.
I know the only one who can determine my identity and that it's okay if I realize my romantic attraction is not what I thought it was, but I just wanna know if any other aspec people deal with this and how they handle it. It feels scary because I feel like my experiences could be invalidated or questioned if I end up coming out as bi after coming out a lesbian. I don't know if I can handle that again.
Give me your collective wisdom, aspec community I'm scared
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Friendly reminder that some people realize their sexuality late in life. Some realize it in college, like me. Some realize it after they are married and have kids. Nonetheless, whether they realized it in childhood, teen years, or in adulthood, all queer ppl are valid.
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cyberp34rls · 3 months
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guys i think im bi, idk how and why im questioning my sexuality soo..
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tintenspion · 1 year
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Casual reminder that these exist
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Having a Thought
So, I think I may not like men since I’ve had no romantic feelings for my first boyfriend and might’ve pretending. I might’ve not even been attracted to him romantically. So, maybe I’m a lesbian? Maybe not. Who knows. I certainly do love girls
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genericbrand-cereal · 10 months
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I have two sides:
Wanting to write about Gwen Stacy
&
Wanting to finish writing my WIPs but ATSV is taking over my mind
WHO WANTS A SPIDER-GWEN STACY DRABBLE?!
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britkunoichi92 · 2 years
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Holy shit, I was not prepared for @leanbeefpatty!!
Yes, I saw the meme. Yes, I saw the physical perfection she embodies as a female.
As a female myself who is (maybe?) hetreo leaning ace, despite the fact I've never dated men, and am kind of weirded out about hetero sex, and strongly consider myself aroace now... plus I wouldn't mind dating girls...
(plus major crush for about 7 years is Markiplier so eh)
Holy crap Holy crap Holy crap!!
I am SO GAY right now!!
Muscular women!! Holy shit!! 😍
I'm a pudgy little b since I reached puberty. I've been a kickboxer for six years and never had six pack abs or gains because I love chocolate and vidya games too much but HOLY. SHIT!!
This woman embodies everything I want to be!!
And I am having a HUGE LESBIAN AWAKENING RIGHT NOW!!
Like seriously, I know I'm gushing but oh no she's hot!! 😍 my brain is having a meltdown!
This amazingly sculpted woman is making me seriously question my pathetic excuse for a sexuality now.
*squee*
I mean, I'm never going to get abs like that because I have non existent motivation, but holy crap!! 😍
Those abs!! Those biceps!! Those thighs!! Damn!! Like she must spend hours in the gym!! I kind of really wish I had her mindset!!
Omg she's so cool and those abs tho!! Tbh I do like abs so... 😏
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Y’all ever just… try to imagine getting married to your soulmate and like… don’t see a face??? Like your soulmate’s in front of you but they’re just kind of a featureless humanoid blob??? Is that normal???
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jamiedagaymie · 9 months
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Yay I’m question my sexuality again
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Can sex repulsion be something you're born with or is it always a result of trauma?
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I'm thinking back on instances with my first (and only) boyfriend. So I broke up with him after a year or so because I didn't have feelings for him anymore, but like now, it's hitting me that I never liked that man romantically in the first place.
Also, thinking back on us making out and shit, those situations felt no different than like my other body parts coming into contact with something else except slimy cause of the whole spit thing. Like I was indifferent to the whole thing. Also, I would make sounds and purposefully speed up my breathing cause that's what he was doing.
Did I fake that whole thing? Did I completely trick myself?
I am once again struggling with my sexuality. Cause right now I'm sitting and Bisexual and Demi-Sexual/Romantic. But do I feel sexual attraction outside of like a vague fictional scene with me as a character thing. Do I actually have to be friends with someone/know someone well to have romantic feelings, or do I just not have romantic feelings. Idk, man, and I also say I'm bisexual because in these potential fictional situations with me as a character, any gender can be my love interest, and I'm into it. I can find people of all genders attractive and have different "turn ons" (for lack of a better word) that I find attractive in different genders. But what if I'm fine with anything because I actually don't feel anything.
What a calamity. I feel like I need help on this or smth cause I have no real life experiences to use as thinking points
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myceliumhash · 1 year
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figuring out that you're on the asexual spectrum while you're in a relationship is vv confusing
I'm so grateful my partner is so supportive, patient, and understanding
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impuric · 1 year
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part 1 and 2 of debating my sexuality (copied from spacehey bulletins
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part 1:
so i can genuinely not tell if i'm either pan or bi with some sort of heavy male preference
i like women
but i like men more
i have no idea what i'm really doing w/ my life anymore
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part 2:
so
we know that i'm heavily attracted to men
but i also am attracted to women
but i also kinda prefer being in some sort of t4t type of relationship
but i also dont mind being in a relationship with anyone who isn't trans (as long as they're supportive)
BUT AT THE SAME TIME I KINDA WANT PEOPLE WHO HAVE A SIMILAR GENDER IDENTITY TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME BUT AT THE SAME FUCKING TIME IDGAF???
and despite being hypersexual, i do find sex weird but that's only on certain levels (like there are certain levels of weirdness when it comes to sexual activities ig?)
GOD WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING UP THERE.
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ednamode1 · 11 months
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Am I asexual or has my deeply religious and lowkey sexist family made me believe that premarital sex is a sin, is dirty/disgusting, and will diminish my worth as a woman?
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myescapeforever · 1 year
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Oversexualised myself when I was younger and now I have to defend myself after realising I'm on the Asexual Spectrum. I didn't enjoy the intercourse with those men most of the time. I just thought I needed their validation. But now I know I don't need that. I don't know where on the spectrum I am I just know I'm on it and I hope that's enough for now 🏳️‍🌈
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Nsfwish?? kinda
When you are asexual as much as you are horny what do you do?? Like I want someone to do me but I am not attracted to them enough to surpass the blockage that comes with it. It's not just one person it's everyone every gender
Is this normal? Am I just confused? Am I not actually biromantic? Do I even know what sexual attraction is?
Help
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