#queer friends

[chimericmacandcheese]

queer friend outing

#art #furry #chimericmacandcheese #artwork #artists on tumblr #drawing #anthro #digital art #furry art #scalie #polar bear #whale shark #galapagos land iguana #iguana #lizard #beach #queer friends #transmasc #transman #himbos #himbo #hand holding #they're going to a queer beach meetup :3 #chubby #musclegut #ocean #queer pride

[rissagroves]

stick n poke night on 35mm expired film, 2024

some of my favorite people on earth,

developed locally, scanned by @criscostarr, edited by me

#rissa groves art #nights i don't want to forget #35mm #expired 35mm #film #film isn't dead #photography #stick n poke #friends #queer friends #images that live rent free in my head

[sarosthewizarddude]

I'm friends with a bunch of other queer people and most of them have lowkey (or highkey) homophobic parents and my parents basically have everyone's undying respect because they use people's preferred names and pronouns and try to make our house a safe space for my friends who don't have that at home

#lgbtq+ #family #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbt+ #gay #queer #queer rights #pronouns #safe space #lgbtq+ rights #personal story #parents #preferred name #preferred pronoun #queer friends #friends #friend group #friend group antics #homophobic parents

[aditheursula]

I watched Saltburn in its entirety, first to last.

People said it was unhinged and filthy. Listen to me. Are you listening? That shit was tame if you have queer friends. That goes double for those who have queer scammer friends you can't get rid of. If you know then you know.

#saltburn #queer friends are crazy #love them #queer friends #queer friendship

[sheltiechicago]

Serenade: Alannah Farrell's Tribute to Queer Friends, Lovers, and Neighbors

Farrell paints and pays tribute to their queer friends, lovers, and neighbors in atmospheric, emotional, and brooding environments.

#alannah farrell #artist #art #queer #queer friends #lgbtq+ #lovers #queer neighbors #painter #paintings

[cardboardbox-fly]

Friendship goals is if one of you is sobbing over your favourite character being killed off (>:/)

One is being asked out and the other is screaming about it

(Also careless whisper by George Michael is being played on my Alexa for the friend who’s being asked out)

#ofmd #Izzy hands #queer friends #love them

[rexyvex]

The three dumbasses

drew me and my friends together <3

#art #digital art #artwork #digitalart #artist #artists on tumblr #queer #queer art #queer artist #friends #queer friends #digtal #illustration #digital illustration

[thatparticularlytastyghostcookie]

I’m so desperate to find more queer friends here to the point that I actually made an account on a dating app (yeah I’m so fucking lonely and desperate), I spent like an hour on the app helpless like a grandpa getting using a smartphone for the first time, and now I’m certain that this whole thing ain’t for me and I just accepted my fate as a forever loner and deleted my account and app.

#I fucking hate dating apps #dating apps #do I have to sacrifice myself to the devil to find queer friends #i’m so lonely #it’s pathetic #queer friendship #queer friends #queer struggles #lgbtq+

[rissagroves]

moss and friends

#me #moss #the woods #queer friends #nature

[riverthylacine]

Hey! I’m Chikul I’m a trans guy and I’m autistic and have adhd and I have. Chronic fatigue syndrome and I’m trying to make friends because I have literally non, so if you want to dm me we can chat! Just read my dni on my blog before you do so!

#making friends #friends #queer #lgbt #lgbtqia #trans #transgender #queer friends #looking for friends #disabled #actually neurodivergent #actually autistic #neurodivergent #neurodiversity

[krill-god]

I came here for friends and all I got was me talking to myself

#still better than pretending people like me #pls i need friends #queer friends #that won’t judge me #and possibly #otherkin? #mmmm yes #otherkin

[h-georges]

I have NEVER made a post like this but I kinda figure what the hell?

🗽NEW YORK QUEER SEEKS NEW FRIENDS⭐️

Hi! My name is Henry. I am entirely too old to still be on this website, but it grabbed ahold of my squishy teenager brain in 2010 and I’ve been trapped ever since (read: I am 29). My pronouns are they/he.

I’m making this post because, you guessed it, I would like more friends in my life! If the following things sound like you/apply to you, come say hi! [I know this probably sounds v desperate; I am sorry about that. I am Going Through It right now. But underneath the emotional turmoil I’m going through is a super neat, compassionate, dorky human. 👍🏻]

Anyway…please be:

-older than 21 - this is non negotiable.

-as you can likely tell, I have ADHD. Please be cool about that. If you happen to also have ADHD definitely say hi so we can cause chaos together

-various things I enjoy; my 2 v fluffy cats, existential memes, emo rock from the 2000s, screaming about gender and LGBT+ history, my various special interests, and more!🤠

-what I am looking for: a person to send memes to, an internet pen pal, queer growth, joy and support, general screaming about capitalism, etc.

Anyway people of tumblr, come be my friend, pls?

#ramblings #literally what have I got to lose #friends #friendship #queer friends #queer #lgbt #lgbt community #trans community #enby community #non binary #actually adhd #do people even use these tags anymore? #actuallydepressed #actually bpd #long distance friendship

[blanketburritotoro]

My friend who does my hair finally caved and gave me an undercut.

Me: dude. I look so gay.

Them: dude. You ARE so gay.

Me: that's besides the point.

#pan #lgbtq #haircut #undercut #bi #friends #queer friends

[lthelesbian]

bringing this back because yes 

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSestqBoZjkPxfIzt6XzzrsEUEmd-OGYzOlOhhhWBPbLvkW_lw/viewform

#friendship application #friends #friendship #internet friends #online friends #wlw friends #lgbtq friends #queer friends #queer pals #sapphic friends #qtpoc friends #be my friend

[laughingcatwrites]

As a reminder that good exists out there, a coworker recently confessed to me that he found out his child is questioning their identity (kid's gender redacted for this post). The kid is keeping it from him, so he can't say anything to them or show that he knows, but he's doing his best to get mentally prepared and educated so that he'll be ready whenever his kid does feel comfortable enough come to him.

For context, this guy is a big, bulky middle aged dude who loves sports and typical outdoor "manly" activities. As his coworker and friend, I know he's a kind and sweet teddy bear of a person, but his kid probably views him as a stern, authoritarian figure, the way most teenagers view their parents. His family lives in a conservative area, so I'm sure between that, their dad's looks and interests, and the fact that their dad is a Figure of Authority, the kid is worried that they won't be accepted.

But you know what? When he found out about his kid, the first thing he did was reach out to his closest queer friend and ask for resources for parents of questioning children. His biggest fears are that his kid will be bullied or discriminated against and won't feel comfortable enough to be themself. His second action was to find himself a mentor in another parent who went the same situation (kid coming out in a conservative town). The other person is preparing him for some of the struggles his kid may face and the fights he may need to take on as a parent to make sure his kid is safe and treated well.

Something I want to emphasize for people focused on language as the primary method of allyship is that when we spoke, he used some outdated terms and thoughts about gender and sexuality. That does not make him bad. These were the terms and thinking used about questioning teenagers when he was growing up and he never needed to learn more current ones. But now that he does have that need, he's throwing himself in head first because that's his kid and he's darn well going to make sure that his kid feels welcomed and has a safe place to be themselves even if they never come out to him.

#I'm so proud and happy for my coworker and I've been trying to figure out how to let him know how amazing I think he is #what gets me the most is that he's keeping this super down low to avoid giving any hints to his kid #he has a lot of queer friends so he already is known as an ally but there's always a chance it will be different if it's family #and he took that chance and crumpled it up into a ball and slam dunked it into the garbage for three points #and decided that even if his kid wants to hide it from him for the rest of his life he will still do what he can to make their life better #pflag #parents doing their best #parenting win #good news #allyship