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Welcome to our religious queer experience!
A place to talk about both being queer/a member of the S2LGBTQIA+ community- and being religious in some way, something that a lot of people - both from the queer and from the religious community - think is "contradictory", or exclusive to one another.
I sincerely apologize if anyone reading this is uncomfortable with the word queer in reference to the community as a whole - so feel free to immediately block this blog, in case it makes you overly uncomfortable, as the word will probably be used quite often!
The person running this blog may not understand all types of experiences encompassing all religions and all queer identities, but I'll try my best to understand. I hope this can be a safe place for anyone to either vent, or build a community in which they can talk about their experiences safely.
Welcome for all religious people, as well as atheists to talk about their own experiences! As long as you aren't hateful of others, and choose not to spread falsehoods, you are welcome to speak. (That sounded unnecessary lol)
Blog is quite obviously inspired by @our-queer-experience , and was made for i couldn't find a blog like exactly this.
So have fun ig!
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realqueerpositivity · 4 months
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I love aromantic people
I love aromantic men
I love aromantic women
I love aromantic people who are outside of the gender binary
I love aromantic people who's genders can't be put into words!!
I love aromantic people who are romance repulsed
I love aromantic people who are neutral on romance
I love aromantic people who love romance and want to be / are in a romantic relationships!
I love aromantics who've always known they were aromantic, regardless if they had language for it
I love aromantics who thought they were alloromantic
I love aromantics whose journeys have been complicated!
I love aromantics who thought they were bi or pan before realizing that it was quite the opposite!
I love aromantic allosexuals!
I love aromatic asexuals!
I love aromantic folk on the asexual spectrum!
I love aromantic people on the aromantic spectrum!
I love aromantic who experience romantic attraction!
I love aromantic people who don't experience romantic attraction!!
I love aromantic people💕
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rainbowskittle · 4 months
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queerbookdom · 6 months
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🌈 2023 November Queer Releases 🌈
Nota Bene: an asterisk (*) is added near the titles to mean that the book DOES NOT feature queer characters on page (to my knowledge), but the author is queer and therefore still in need of our support as those book are intrinsically queer (or at least I think so, everyone else is absolutely free to feel otherwise).
I try to be as inclusive as I possibly can, so my monthly release posts will…
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queer-montague · 7 months
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Let me start this rant by saying this: I am nonbinary, and (unfortunately for my dysphoria) an AFAB person.
I've always hated my body. Always. I think that everybody under the AFAB category – cis or otherwise, but especially trans folks – have been programmed at an early age to scrutinize their bodies for flaws and feel insecure about them.
I'll use today as an example for me: I was at my job today, which was outside. It was hot today. My work uniform is black tee and black pants. I also had on a black hoodie and a grey toque (I'm Canadian, but besides the point; also for my work, hoodies are allowed if you want.) I mentioned how hot it was to a man I worked with, who (I'm pretty sure) has never had any problems with the way he looks and people liking him for it. He said it's my fault for wearing a toque and hoodie and I had no right to complain. And here he is in a tee, jeans, and ball cap.
As somebody who's incredibly insecure, it gives me so much anxiety thinking about not wearing a hoodie overtop of my uniform. Or some type of long sleeve. Unnecessary anxiety. Like my unintentional overthinking makes my stomach sick.
I don't know. This was just something that happened today that I wanted to rant about. Made me think that I don't know if I can ever be comfortable in my own skin, no matter how hard I try.
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queer-queries · 8 months
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Do you have any advice on coming out to your friends as a bi lesbian when you have no clue if theyre exclus or not? I am TERRIFIED to come out to them and I have no clue how to ask them how they feel so now I’m just afraid they’re gonna drop me over my identity..
hi friend! my general coming out advice is to test the waters- if these friends are online friends or friends who are up to date on intracommunity discourse like that, then you can ask them what they think on neutral ground, meaning don't make it seem like you're looking for them to say yes or no, just ask. one way you could do that was by saying you heard some discourse about it and are confused and wanted to ask if they knew how to explain it and what their thoughts were.
but if these friends don't know about online discourse like this and generally aren't in the online queer world that much, then there's a pretty darn solid chance that they won't care. i completely understand where you're coming from because i've struggled with the exact same thing, but i've come out as a bi lesbian to lots of irl queers who don't know about online discourse, and every single one of them has been extremely accepting and said something along the lines of "it's your identity, not mine, no one else can tell you who to be". because the reality is that the whole mindset of "valid vs. invalid" is extremely online as a mindset. for the most part, some random queer person who doesn't know shit about random online queer discourse, isn't primed to think in a binary of valid vs. invalid because that's not actually a normal way of thinking, so they're not used to it- it's just what a lot of online queers have sadly become used to.
so if they are online and know discourse stuff, then test the waters first. but if they aren't, i would just tell them that you've struggled a lot with your identity and say something like "i identify as both bi and a lesbian because it makes the most sense to me" and if they ask respectful questions, then you can do your best to answer them, but they will much more likely just be like "oh cool" because they're not used to thinking of other queer people like they're all potential enemies trying to use labels just to hurt them.
i wish you much luck anon, if you go through with it then feel free to let me know how it goes!
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thousandsofroses · 1 year
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I just want to say it here because i have nowhere else to say it:
i have had she/they pronouns on my social media bios for like 2 years now at least because i’m afab and not brave enough to say they/she or she/they/he etc etc.
anywayyyys no one ever even uses “they” (classic ppl ignoring the they)
BUT recently THREE ppl have used it in person unexpectedly when referring to me and i cannot explain how seen and held i felt.
and one time i even said “oh she is ok” or “you don’t have to use they if you dont want” and they still did it anyway!!! 😭
the feeling i got just confirmed that i’m not “faking it” i’m actually so genderfluid and finally have been having these precious moments where i feel seen and loved for it for the first time ever and it makes me so emotional
i just need to keep reminding myself i’m valid. even on my girl days when i feel entirely cis and like i’m “faking it”
idk bro it’s so hard to love myself when i can’t even label what gender i am feeling sometimes. it makes me feel like i don’t know who i am, and i can start to feel very isolated from myself. but i just remembered these three moments that have happened and i it’s all i can think about right now i love those people for it❤️
anyway pronouns are important! i pretended publicly like they weren’t important to me but they are and they help me feel like me
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yagirlssoftcore · 1 year
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anxiouscryptidpartner · 10 months
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dilliedallieallie · 26 days
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🪻introduction post please read🪻
name: allie
age: 19
located: U.S. 
sexuality: queer (not really labeling myself rn but i’m femme presenting 95% of the time and im afab and identity as a woman and im attracted to other women☺️)
pronouns: she/they
this is my personal 18+ BLOG and it’s where i’m creating my queer safe space to explore my own interests and with others☺️please feel free to send asks, dm me, and interact with my blog! just looking to have silly little conversations and flirty banter🥰
please DON’T send unsolicited pictures before we’ve spoken in depth!!!! i DON’T want to receive unsolicited nudes unless we’ve talked in depth!!! CIS MEN AND MINORS WILL BE BLOCKED AND CREEPS/YOU MAKE ME FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE
just be respectful and sweet!🖤
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casperolivervo · 1 year
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New job starts next week! But I need help getting meds tomorrow... I need at least 60 bucks. ✨️💊 Any bit helps!
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rainbowskittle · 5 months
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I’m thankful for all my friends I met on here. I feel closer to you than anyone else in ‘real world’ aka offline. Plus making offline friends sucks so much harder to make friends … if you have tips please help… need advice…haha.
@fuckinnproblems I know you don’t use this anymore … but I’ll still tag. We been mutuals from day one I feel like. Maybe was first week of tumblr but still thankful for you. From the moment I got Tumblr so 9 ish years?? We ‘met’ according to tumblr. So thank you for everything you do, advice you give, and even listening to my rambles even when I was sick. Sooo yeah thankful for you Syd!
@coldbrewqueer So many letters I can put into words to describe you. You’ve helped me in so many ways it’s silly. I’m thankful for all your advice and your photography is goals too. You truly incredible human! Definitely love your aesthetic haha. I wanna be you when I grow up.
@ad-meliora-0 Ayeee my memory is like Dory and you shark knowledge you probably know a shark with bad memory… that be me. But I’m thankful we stumbled upon each other. You are amazing person too. I love when you share music too since it’s always fun to find new music since looks like we have similar taste. Or it slowly turns to same cuz I burrow your music you share haha. I’m thankful for your music and you as a person too.
@aribeexx You so cool! I love seeing when you share your singing or stage performance! I could never but definitely cheering on from the sidelines / through screen. You need to go to AGT or a show like that you have talent! I know we don’t talk talk much but I’m thankful for you too.
@acetrainerjen I know I’m worst with never answers or slow answers sorry! But I promise I’m so thankful when we talk or even rp. Haha. I may not be good writer but rp fandoms with you has helped me. I still not the best but it’s eh. So thankful to write and just talk fandoms with you.
@girlswithguns22magnum YOU ARE MY ONLY BESTIE IN REAL LIFE AND SORRY BUDDIE YOU ARNET GETTING RID OF ME EVERRRR !! Ah we been through so much !! Won’t share cuz that’s just us together. But dude !! Bro!! Thank youu ! You will always be my favorite Taurus!!
@making-the-most-0f-it Sharing Scotland and Eddie Munson (and Steddie) with you been so fun! I know we haven’t talked much but this year? Ish right? But just know I’m here for you ever need to rant. I’m thankful for you listening to me rant haha.
@re-bec-ca-ann I know we’ve only talked recently?? But wow. Tumblr is good about that you may be across the planet for example and yet we have same fandoms. That’s what I love about this app / social media. You can share fandoms and find others in those fandoms. Cuz real world makes it hard / impossible. So thankful we have similar fandoms to talk about. And even finding new fandoms to join when we talk about are favorites we didn’t know about.
And EVERYONE else sorry if I missed you to give you shout out ! I’m not joking my brain is foggy. Even if I read just the other day 12% sleep in black and white AND remember their dreams .. I can only dream in b&w BUT not remember them. Endless I’m already slowly waking up.. but yeah maybe one day if I ever can afford it maybe I’ll go to therapy about it but pfft nah. Need money on food. and trips instead. But yeah if you didn’t get a shout out and we are mutuals talk to me! You can literally send a gif or talk about a fandom you see we have in common. I will respond. Might be slow or take a second but I won’t ghost you I promise!
But I want ALL of YOU to know YOU are loved, valued, important, suppose to be here, and incredibly wonderful person.
Soooo yeah that’s all I guess haha sorry for rambles again. Uhhh have a great rest of year !!
But hey if you don’t celebrate too I hope you have a good day too. Or your day was good at least. I know life can be hard but just know better days will happen.. it may not happen right away but it’ll come..
Happy Indigenous Peoples Day!!
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queerbookdom · 8 months
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 🌈2023 September Queer Releases 🌈
Nota Bene: an asterisk (*) is added near the titles to mean that the book DOES NOT feature queer characters on page (to my knowledge), but the author is queer and therefore still in need of our support as those book are intrinsically queer (or at least I think so, everyone else is absolutely free to feel otherwise).
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realqueerpositivity · 4 months
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This is a queer positivity page!!
What do I mean by "real" queer positivity?
Queerness is not just a word for LGBTQ+. It's also been used as a historical term for people who take pride in their "queerness", ie their marginalization and the way they've been treated historically as abnormal and subhuman. This includes people of color, intersex people, disabled people and more! You can be queer while also being nonLGBTQ+, and you can be nonqueer while being LGBTQ+. Along with that, being queer isn't just having pride in your differences and liberating your community, but recognizing that bigotry is all interlinked and standing with your other ostracized siblings. You may be a black lesbian woman who fights for the liberation of women of color, but you're not queer if you're a terf. In fact, your politic is flimsy at best if you can liberate one group while demonizing the other!
We won't have a DNI, because we believe people can change and saying they can't be here prevents that. However, we are left-wing inclusionists, and that's what our blog is about !
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queer-queries · 1 year
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hello all! welcome to my queer advice blog!
this is my blog where i will do my best to give any advice on queer-related topics to those who need some! i know there are plenty of blogs like this already, but i wanted to make my own because i know that if i had had someone to ask these questions to when i was struggling, it would’ve saved me so much pain, so i want the chance to be for someone the person that i wish i’d had! below is some basic information about me and this blog!
about me-
- my name is reign and my pronouns are she/her
- i am a queer/genderqueer aroace sapphic bi lesbian
- i am autistic and have ADHD, OCD, depression, and NPD
- i am not a minor, but i am not really an adult either. i don’t pretend to be some queer expert, especially since i’m young, but i still have some knowledge and advice and want to put that to good use.
- i love music, writing, poetry, songwriting, queer theory, and queer studies
- i am a staunch inclusionist when it comes to the queer community. i think policing queer terms is the antithesis of queer solidarity and does literally no good. sometimes lesbians are bisexual and/or guys. sometimes trans women use he/him pronouns. sometimes your gender is related to flowers. get over it. i will not tolerate exclusionism on my page.
about this blog-
- you can ask for advice on anything queer-related
- you can vent about negative experiences or share positive experiences
- you can ask respectful questions about queer topics/identities you don’t understand
- i will post about queer validation, queer solidarity, and queer joy
- i will occasionally share my own experiences
- i will not give medical advice (so if you need medical advice in terms of transition, i highly recommend the blogs @genderpunks and @transgenderteensurvivalguide )
boundaries-
- do not use they/them pronouns on me
- do not send me discourse. i will delete it.
- do not interact with me if you are bigoted in any way.
- if you are a queer exclusionist but you still need advice on something, you can send an ask and i will still answer you because all queer people deserve kindness in their questioning. but if you bring your exclusionism into it or try to invalidate me or others, your ask will not be answered.
that’s pretty much it for now! could i get a boost? @justlgbtthings @genderpunks @transgenderteensurvivalguide @trans-mom @stopcannibalizingourown @genderkoolaid @wearequeer-andwearehere @makingqueerhistory @1000lesbians @soft-sapphic-love @kenochoric @neopronouns @sapphicspoonie @sapphic-sprite @intersexfairy @queerasfact @queercutlureis @our-queer-experience @aspecpplarebeautiful @genderqueerpositivity @aroace-people-are-lgtbq @aro-culture-is @aroaceconfessions @transenbyconfessions 
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thousandsofroses · 1 year
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walking into women’s locker rooms/dressing rooms/bathrooms as an afab genderfluid person is wild because
my appearance belongs in there but my brain is like… are we… are we an outsider to this experience right now? i think we are, this is weird, act normally tho
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