it's so funny (read: sad) that if bigoted fuckheads didn't insist i was a woman simply by virtue of my body at birth, i'd probably be chill with she/her pronouns in addition to he/they. if my mom didn't insist i was her daughter, i'd probably let her call me that, and we could still have a relationship.
i'm nonbinary and 'gendered' words are hypothetically meaningless, but because there are so many people who are more interested in telling me who i am rather than lovingly and curiously letting me express my own sense of self, those words carry trauma.
there's no reason a nonbinary person like myself can't be a son and a child and a daughter. there's no reason a nonbinary person like me can't go by he, they, and she.
'she' is not a slur. 'daughter' is not derogatory. 'beautiful' 'pretty' 'gorgeous' 'feminine' are not insults.
to the contrary, they're parts of language that express certain facets of a multi-faceted human existence, like mine.
and i have this sad, mournful feeling that if it weren't for unloving, condescending people, i'd probably be down to be called any of those things alongside my usual masculine/neutral terminology.
but i'd rather die than let anyone tell me what i have to be called.
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Made a new Pinned tweet for my Twitter but I liked it and wanted to share this little collage here as well :3
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୨୧ my evil little diary
hi tungle,..,. my name's torchy!! u can also call me briar or torca or just stinkman or whatever ur feelin i'm not picky with names lalala
interests include but are not limited to:
hannibal, F1 racing, saw franchise, supernatural, megadeth/bandom adjacent stuff, a bit of undertale, metalocalypse, evil dead, other assorted movies, comics, cars, 80's TV, etc etc <3
on very rare occasions i post art, maybe even writing.. imagine..
DNI terfs/lgbtq exclusionists
i lov my awesome friends and mutuals and i lov making friends even more!!! raid my askbox idgaf 👍
catch me at @stinkman007 on almost every other platform annddd yeah!!
haha while you were busy reading my intro i put you in a saw trap. reverse bear trapped your ass. find the key boy. /silly
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i’m so glad ur back! i hope school went well! here’s some concert shua i thought you’d love! from glasses shua anon!!!🩷🩷
https://x.com/shua_enthusiast/status/1746664991883964461?s=46
https://x.com/shua_enthusiast/status/1746549337059135931?s=46
https://x.com/shua_enthusiast/status/1746585256763998664?s=46
https://x.com/nihonggyu/status/1746138523609248183?s=46
https://x.com/0526concerts/status/1747123193671004654?s=46
https://x.com/shua_enthusiast/status/1747635961574686858?s=46
[joshu 1] [joshu 2] [joshu 3] [joshu 4] [joshu 5] [joshu 6]
it's good to be back haha ! also wHat they had a concert????? they're always so busy help 😭 nuu but thanku dearest glasses shua anon for sending me links haha
and also .
LINK SIX????? PLS :(( THOSE R MY TWO MOST FAVOURITE PEOPLE IB THE ENTIRE WORLD HNNNGJFHHFHF I LOVE THEM SO SO MUCH
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ಇ. ns fw = (🌷) | risque = (gg) | sfw = (s) | fluff = (f) | angst = (a) | yandere = (yan) | dark content = (🌟)
⚘ – LONG FICS! | MULTI PT!
⚘ – ONESHOTS! | DRABBLES / PWP!
⚘ – SCENARIOS! | HEADCANONS!
⚘ – THIRSTS! | BLURBS! | IMAGINES!
<– BACK: MASTERLIST ⟳ NEXT: PINNED –>
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I was harassing people at work about my video game troubles but also. Maybe. Sad about other things (secretly).
It's Astarion I am so sorry Gale
I started my period which I think was like 30% of it I'm less sad now
I just need to sleep you guys
I have been pressured my life to constantly shave my legs, always all the time, and I finally reach a point in my life where I am more comfortable not doing it, for me, and then I decide I need a romantic/sexual partner? Apparently? And just knowing that I have to date people, strangers, and knowing that a significant chunk of them are going to be guys who are just like, completely and utterly judgemental and turned off by me being hairy, despite me being a literally generic milquetoast attractive skinny white woman, and knowing that fuck them they don't deserve me anyway if they can't deal with that, but also knowing that it will hurt me in weird self esteem ways that I haven't felt before since I don't really date people since I'm so romantically slow and unavailable. And knowing that socially it is still unacceptable in The Land Of The Free for me not to shave. That this is some sort of statement and not just me being too lazy to do that because I don't care about it enough to do it every day. And knowing that there are people out there who are cool and that would date me anyway despite this but knowing I have to go hunt them down in my area and that's so much work. :(
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