#please stop being toxic

[bruciemilf]

Comic book writers who still make Bruce hit his kids even after years of mass criticism from fans who TELL you it's a bad creative choice that pushes them away from the fan base and comics in general,,, you did this for what?

#no bc like lets talk about it. if you hate robins that much. just. don't include them. but it's a very specific case of brain rot for comic #book nerds and writers -- MALE comic book nerds & writers -- that just. stops them from understanding #we're here because we love seeing bruce being a good father? we're here because we enjoy seeing a male superhero capable of #care and love after being so heavily traumatized to OTHER traumatized people? like. why. why is it so hard #to believe we love bruce more when he's a good father? ik the answer -- its bc these creators and consumers are #shitty men in general and they're incapable of understanding we might find healthy traits cooler than the machismo toxicism they've #been regurgitating since the fucking 90s #please just let a woman or a non shitty mam write bruce because this is so tiring #bruce wayne #dc #batman #bruce wayne is a good dad

[sunlightnmoonshine]

Like ep 7 affirmed what Hae In would have done had he brought up the divorce around the time she told him she was sick. Of course this in no way excuses the whole will fiasco and hyunwoo's approach being deeply flawed but in the eps since she told him, a majority of the time he has been genuine and good and looking out for her. Heck even before that he was playing the dutiful husband role even though he was miserable and unhappy.

Yet when she finally gets to know she completely ignores her fault in things and again she's feeling her feelings she has the right to do this because she feels deceived but literally if she stops and thinks for a second she would see how rightfully unhappy hyunwoo was and to have wanted to leave. At this point she's doing what she's always done put up walls so high refusing to communicate even though hyun woo wants to.

I keep saying this but it's constantly hyunwoo reaching out. When things are tough he's the one doing the heavy lifting because haein's response is to cut everything off and to just do things her way and he just let's her.

#queen of tears #kdrama #i was deeply frustrated this ep #because please stop and listen to him #hyunwoo please stop taking the fall for things #you two are being toxic #like please stop lying and stop not listening

[flyingbuddiies]

the day osc tumblr stops fighting over tacomic is the day we all heal [adding my personal opinion in the tags]

#tacomic neg #adding the tags so the people im talking about can see this and actually digest it with their eyeballs #its just so tiring #why do u guys care about ship discourse so much for ships that aren't even bad or hurting anyone #please just look away and stop complaining and being unnecessarily mean to people who are doing nothing wrong #i've never seen any actual tacomic shippers MAKE them abusive or toxic or belittle other ships and be so hostile towards them #also it'll make you much happier instead of making you pointlessly mad all the time if u just stop caring #i think people should just stop fighting each other cause it gets nowhere and just makes both parties mad and upset for no reason #but the osc thrives off of negativity and infighting for some reason idk why im even saying this. im not surprised this is happening. #its been like this ever since i joined. don't you guys ever take a break instead of being so negative all the time? #its also hypocritical for reasons i've said before but i don't feel like starting anything up

[roostertuftart]

Can we stop W the “if you have a different opinion on sp you clearly haven’t watched the show” bit. it’s. Very annoying

#I get that there’s like. some young TikTok fans who rly haven’t seen it #and putting aside that that’s not inherently bad #bruh like. pretty much everyone on Tumblr has seen the whole thing #there are dozens of meta writers here with absurdly different opinions who have all seen the show through and through multiple times #and came to different conclusions #and we can and should debate that but this take that anyone who isn’t like #in agreement on things that even Matt and trey are inconsistent on… like. #can u stop that actually it’s genuinely just kinda toxic in a community we can ALL agree needs to be less so #South Park fandom #South Park meta #it’s so weirdly like. uppity too. some of u sound like those annoying rick and morty fans who got memed on in 2018 #I get it we all have opinions on the show we all think we the right ones actually but PLEASE be decent about it at least in the presence #of ppl who don’t agree with you. it’s a cartoon. you’re not moving ppl over by being an asshole about your disagreements #we can debate and be chill and nice to each other about it #god Ik I’m going on about this but I’m just sick of genersl toxicity in the community and this is the one I’m seeing recently

[floofysmallbob]

I was scrolling Pinterest and I kept finding panels from the manga of Neito getting knocked out. Him being overdramatic doesn’t give anyone an excuse to knock him out and drag him by the collar. He gets karate chopped to the back of the neck so frequently no one blinks an eye at the fact that he is getting punched by someone who is strong enough to crush tungsten with just her fists. Also, he only acts overdramatic around Class A, his classmates know he’s not like that all the time, and it would be fine to just drag him away while he’s still conscious. It’s one thing when he’s saying things like the whole “Bakugou caused the downfall of all might” to provoke people, or when he’s fighting dirty, but when he’s just getting carried away laughing manically, there’s zero reason to knock him unconscious and drag him across the floor.

#neito monoma #monoma neito #monoma appreciation post #stop making him such a terrible person #also I feel like kendo x monoma is a bit toxic #or like off? #idk how to word it #but she clearly doesn’t enjoy his antics and he probably doesn’t enjoy being interrupted via a karate chop to the back of the neck #also if you hate him please just check out the mha wiki it might not be 100% canon but it makes him seem less one dimensional #that’s my emotional support twink and if I can help it he’ll be your emotional support twink too #idk I just really like him he’s such a crazy bitch but in the best way #bnha monoma #monoma mha #mha monoma #monoma bnha #monomaneito #neitomonoma #also knocking him out is meant to be funny? #like haha overdramatic theatre kid is going on his rant and then gets knocked out how funny because no one likes his screeching #idk I just got a bit peeved #does anyone actually say peeved #but like come on

[rotbloodoftarn]

OpLita but they have a healthy, functional relationship.

That is all.

#elita being abusive isn’t cute or empowering #optimus taking it lying down isn’t endearing #unless you’re writing SG please stop writing them this way for the love of primus #stop romanticizing toxic relationships #transformers #maccadam #optimus prime #elita one #oplita #my humble opinion #i’ve seen too many non-SG fics/AUs like this

[acaiyatree]

the issue with the prime!sonic shenanigans is the fact that. i agree with the twitter users but they r taking it too seriously. like yeah i agree, sonic wouldn't be too open with his affection and emotions, yeah i agree that the folks on the crew saying it's canon to the mainline thing should've showed it through the actual writing, yeah this kind of characterization goes against the point of the show, yeah they kinda maybe nerfed sonic etc etc

but here's the THING tho: it's not that serious? i can point out 300 other mischaracterizations that are 10000x more serious. like, sonic is going to be the type of character that changes thru time to match the demands of whoever they wanna cater to. it's obvious. and for sonic prime? didn't one of the crew of this show straight up say that yeah they are targeting a younger audience but still allow longtime fans to have a piece of the cake. it's obvious from the absurd amount of flashbacks, it's obvious from the dialogue. i think this is just smth thay they think the kids want, most esp with the sonic films.

Yeah, you can be upset that ur fave version of this character might get lost to time. yeah, you can be critical of the show and the way it handles everything. but lord almightyyyy this is a cartoon hedgehog!!!!! this is not thay serious!!! talk about it but don't be a bitch about it oh my godddd

#sucks to be on the side where they're just. fucking toxic as hell like. #sonic prime isn't my fav sonic either!!!! but he's fun and cute!!!!! stop being a bitch please plemakdiskzjsksjd #u can talk abt it w/o being mean #bc i'm pr sure i've talked abt this So.ewhere #prbly not on here tho #maybe just a ramble w friends #bit even if noone But them saw i still didn't be a bitch abt it #i just. idk dude #sth #sonic prime #sonic the hedgehog #it's so funny seeing fans be up in a frenzy over this kinda mischaracterization #meanwhile amy got mischaracterized to hell and back— with writers just playing w misogynistic tropes— just for her to suddenly be the #annoying girl #but also there r peoplw being annoyed of this version of prime!sonic while i keep seeing a lot of nd fans rlly relating to him... #please look inwards 🙏 #like this shit isn't a barbara gordon situation or some shit this is the writers emphasizing other traits and just playing around w #the Character Settings Sliders of sonic #hnnndjshdjsj whatever #people are abnoying god bless

[invisiblemelonmoose]

Thinking about how I rarely get the yuri I want in non-yuri specific media that has canon queer characters or a least a sizable yuri fanbase

#korasami was the first time I got what I wanted and bubbline the second and then never again #why don't most canon yuri ships appeal to me #99% of pokémon's popular game ships are objectively wrong #why are you shipping Hilda with Rosa when her childhood best friend is right there? #Jasmine canonically regularly hangs out with and admires Erica #stop making kris and lyra related when their only similarity is their hair style make them make out instead #mad that pricefield is technically canon when max regularly swoons over kate #still never understood how Kim and Ron got together (they never would have let Kigo become canon at that point) #but also Kim was too good for Ron tbh and I thought he'd be cute with Monique #I will probably never like HarleyIvy because Ivy was always a dick to Harley in btas and hardly a better option for her than the joker #(at least I can enjoy HarleyJoker knowing it's a terrible and toxic ship without having that reconned in all future media #and pretending I have some sort of moral high ground) #but also JokerHarley fans are terrible and keep them away from me #I bet you if the joker was female yuris would eat that shit up #where is my AkaneRanma yuri I'm dying please #I just need akane to be bi for ranma give me bi akane merch #invisible talking moose #someone watch Jubei-chan with me so I can stop being thr only person alive to ship her with Freesia

[omarjrudberg]

the bambam situation makes me so sad because :((( 

i used to love him so much and i think i still do. it’s hard to get over a person who made you smile for years. and after the haerin situation i was pretty uncomfortable with him but not once could i bring myself to hate him. 

he’s literally depressed right now after haters were bashing him so much for what he said (and mind you, what he said WAS wrong but i don’t think he meant it in that way. it just came off wrong and they didn’t think it would cause such a huge backlash). and on his recent live he was saying “I'm afraid of what's happening.. You know people cut things then I'm a bad guy... People believe everything on the internet. I try my best to be better but sometimes it makes me tired. Let me live, let me work. Like what did i do to them?... Why i wouldn't care if people believe haters easily.. Don't believe in 10 seconds videos! But i don't want to hurt others. you know, just let me live. let me work. everything i need is love. if y’all not gonna support, just back off. let me do my thing. let me stay with the people i love.”

and i genuinely think that should be the norm. don’t agree with an idol? don’t like someone anymore? IGNORE them. you don’t have to send hate, you don’t have to continuously bother them about their mistakes/deliberate actions. just leave them alone?? that helps both you and that person.

it’s so sad how people never learn and keep hating on others and it’s worse when the person is a celebrity and this affects their mental health adversely. the least one could do is ask for an apology and explain why so and so statement came off wrong. hate doesn’t solve shit. 

#[the world is already so toxic and kpop idols face the worst end of the stick a lot of times] #[people write off their racism and colourism so much] #[and then pretend that they care about the idols being predatory etc] #[it's a two way road nobody's out of fault] #[i'm not even defending bambam but i'm pointing out both the hypocrisy and a simple solution to stop this] #[just. please don't spread hate. let people be as they are] #sun.txt

[act-more-like-a-dog-sirius]

I swear to god it is impossible to exist for more than 3 consecutive minutes in this fandom these days without wanting to murder someone

#Where the actual gaddamn motherfuck is the reading comprehension #Where do y’all even come up with All these bad takes?!?? #Did people even read the books?!? #Do people even know how to read period?!?!! #Jesus fucking christ #no #I can’t even get into it there are too many instances that make me want to commit violence #but for fucks goddamn fucking sake #Holy shit this fandom is so so so so so unbelievably disgustingly pathetically WRONG #Please people please I am begging you to reread canon and to develop some reading comprehension #And for the love of god please #Please stop trying to say that just because you don’t like something in canon it’s toxic or homophobic or the author being a shitbag terf #I’m not defending jkr #but for fucks sake just because you personally don’t like a portion of canon does not make it intrinsically homophobic or transphobic #Honestly #Don’t come at me looking for a fight you will be blocked #I hate this fandom so fucking much

[patches-and-her-selfships]

love is when your beautiful girlfriend does your makeup really bad but you don't care because you love her and she loves you

(reblogs > likes) (pr0ship dni)

#this took me three days to draw please don't flop please don't flop plea #overall im pretty satisfied with what i drew!! its so amazing she's so beautiful omg #bautiful women im gonna pass ot she so pretty #don’t you know that you’re toxic? ☣️ #scribbling graffiti on the walls #frens😊 #cause polly's in that shitty lil comic #also POLLY STOP BEING A MEANIEFACE!!! #WANDA DID HER BEST OKAY I LOVE HER VERY MUCH #selfship #selfship art #selfshipping #f/o #wlw selfship #f/o x s/i #self insert x fictional other #fictional other community #selfshipping community #selfship community #romantic f/o #f/o x self insert #f/o community #self shipping art #selfshipping art #self ship art #self ship community

[victim-or-survivor]

just processed something. will cry about it later (off the clock)

#she speaks #the story i wrote during the trauma that's a veiled diary of what was going on #it always started out with the cruelty i experienced and developed into a toxic but very much present love and relationship #just figured out why! it's because my entire life i've always believed and carried into my relationships with me #the thought that if i was Good Enough or that if i was Worthy Enough #then someone would finally just love me !! and stop hurting me !!! #and that's why i stayed even when i didn't have to! because i thought the abuse was a result of me being deeply flawed and deserving of #being punished. but that if i #just LISTENED and did what i was SUPPOSED TO and didn't FIGHT and gave them their way #they would be so pleased that they'd have no choice but to love me #that's... heavy but important to have realized

[amazinlei]

Crack HC: Why Narinder was really called “The One Who Waits”?

He’s waiting for Lamb to propose already!  But he’s got very possessive siblings, one who raised him and the others just... don’t take kindly to lambs in general.  In order to get to Narinder the bridezilla, you gotta get through your future in-laws who mostly want you dead. 

#THIS WAS INSPIRED BY LILLI AKA KILLERTOONS #she knows I was crushing h a r d when I first saw toww since I sent pics and was like 'LILLI OMG PLEASE HE'S SO SPOOKY AND B I G AND COOL!' #still can you imagine a modern day AU of lamb looks like a timid lil guy and is like 3x times smaller than his fiance #Narinder still has a rocky relationship with his family but lamb is an orphan raised by ratau and he's like 'please babe you've met my dad!' #eventually lamb leaves them with some choice words because the whole family's vibes are toxic af #narinder is enough for them you've got a whole family like this to the wedding? nah-uh #also ring bearer aym and lil flower baby baal sounds adorable #the one rainbow shrimp guy made the cake #forneus is a happy crying mom at the wedding #ratau walked lamb down the aisle and ratoo helped the vows #helob helped with decorating the temple for the wedding #about 3 followers are crying because they wanted to be lamb's spouse #Lei stop being silly #Cult Of The Lamb

[spacelesscowboy]

fabian aramaris seacaster son of bill seacaster is so special to me.

#i can't stop thinking about him he is everything to me for real. (<- NOT LYING.) #do maids dream. toxic masculinity is dead i dance now. him getting pneumonia. being so so so cool and so so so lame at the same time. #lou wilson i think i'm in love with you. please call me. #KSDJFSLDKJF #emyrs.txt #for realises though i cannot stop thinking about The Implications. #(<- tgwdlm ref. btw.) LMFAO. OK BYE #d20 #d20: fantasy high

[madnesscombatredacted]

The madness fandom outside of my group made me overall more depressed. There are so many shit people out there that made me lose my own morale.

went offline for a bit but i have to post this. the madness combat community is horrible and toxic now and i feel for you. i'm so sorry about what happened to you anon, it'll get better

#not [REDACTED] #please stop being fucking toxic over stickmen you're interacting with other human beings #be nice to people for fucks sake #madness combat

[sapphos-tooth]

of course my mom is trying to guilt me into staying, by using her tears 😑

#.txt #i don’t care anymore #this has been my whole life #she cries and i have to take the abuse because i have to be the bigger person #i’m done doing that #i refuse to sacrifice my mental health and sanity for others #i am no longer being the ‘bigger person’ #i am not keeping the peace to please others and make them comfortable #this is just a big middle finger to me and my healing path #i WANT to heal and she won’t let with keeping me in this house #and not letting me break this cycle of toxicity #i want to finally be free #i wanna stop being in survival mode #i want to be able to feel safe in my OWN space #i want to be able to love myself #i want to heal and possibly be a mother #i don’t want my child to suffer like me #no child deserves that #i didn’t deserve it #this should’ve never been okay #why was i not protected when i was supposed to be #i deserve a healthy and safe environment/life