#pinoy relationships

[dear-mahal-ko]

Next chapter of my life ✨

If anyone has followed me for a while, di ko ni akala, I’d see this day come forward. To see that before my 28th birthday I’d find out I am carrying a life inside of me. Purong excitement naman ako pero nervous but excited. I never thought na, id be so happy to be talking to this little strong baby who has a powerful heart of 135bpm 💕

I was worried because the last month, akala ko I lost it kasi I was bleeding-spotting pero bleeding off and on-though sabi nung doctor its normal. So na bigyan nya ako nang medication to help the baby stay with me. I kept talking to it saying to be strong for mama kasi i didn’t feel my stomach anymore although at that point i didn’t know how far I was with the pregnancy.

Not knowing when I got assaulted at Sunglass hut I was pregnant. I didn’t know na, it was God, my guardian angels and my baby telling me to leave that toxic job that became not safe anymore to work for.

Here I am rejoicing and thanking God for this blessing- knowing I don’t know how my parents will react to it.

I pray I find the right words and the direction to tell them. Though the angels has protect me from many tribulations and I am thankful for my guardian angel’s protection.

Little panda coming soon March 2023 🥹 and I can wait to see you and hug you and love you as much as I do after hearing your heartbeat. You are a warrior my panda 💜

#filipino #love #pinay #pinoy #pinoy relationships #artists on tumblr #art #illustrators on tumblr #my art #study art #pregnancy #pregnancy announcement #prayers #prayer warriors #warriors #have faith #pinay dating #pinay family

[vasito-de-leche]

hello!! your writing is so good i am perceiving it /pos. i'm not sure if you do familial/platonic requests so ignore this if you don't but may i request click with a reader who he sees as an older sibling? it can be headcanons or like general thoughts i don't rlly care. thank you!! <3

;R1999 CLICK - Familial Headcanons

Compilation of headcanons and analysis about Click and an older sibling figure.

ty for the ask, nonnie <3 and yes, I do write for familial/platonic stuff too, not just romance! check the rules if you have any questions!

As far as I know, there's no information about Click's family nor their dynamics, and he doesn't seem to fit any of the stereotypical youngest/middle/eldest child labels. So, going by personality alone, I'd say that for Click to consider someone as his very own older sibling figure, they'd have to be somewhat similar to him!

Not necessarily a carbon copy of him, mind you - they don't have to share his passion for photography nor agree with him 24/7! Just someone who he can relate to and who brings him a sense of security. Perhaps someone like Zima! Insightful, with a strong core and sense of self, aiming to broaden his horizons.

Someone who has also seen the darker aspects of life, lived through tragedies and come out stronger - Click is proud of his job, but he knows that talking about heavy subjects isn't everyone's cup of tea. So he'd like to know that his older sibling figure can understand or is trying to understand where he comes from, that he doesn't mean to bring the mood down whenever he happens to bring up the subject of war. It's part of his life and his experiences, and pretending that it didn't happen would be a disservice to all the things he's witnessed.

Alternatively, Click would gravitate towards anyone who shows extreme passion for their craft, regardless of what it might be - creative people who are dedicated and who experience the world through different artistic mediums are a big inspiration for him. Someone who drags him into all sorts of situations, allowing Click to capture many different points of view that he would've otherwise missed. Someone like Regulus or Diggers!

Click tends to wander and disappear a lot. It's always up to you to find him.

Younger siblings tend to either follow after their older siblings all the time like puppies, or disappear off the face of the Earth and mind their business (I'm the youngest of 6 siblings, I can vouch for this). Click fits the latter!

It's common for him to just wander around and disappear for days on end to focus on taking the best pictures across the Wilderness, with nothing but his camera and his thoughts. Somehow, he always seems to know whenever you call out to him - he'll manifest beside you right away, hoping he's not gotten into trouble. It's a weird feeling, knowing people expect him to keep in touch and come back safe and sound, that no matter where he goes, he'll still hear your voice calling out to him because he's going to miss dinner (not that he even needs to eat). But it's a very nice, warm feeling, so he doesn't mind.

I like to think Click - and pretty much any ghost within the universe of R1999 - can just become invisible to the human eye at will, with arcanists (especially those of Spirit and Intelligence afflatus) being able to sense their presence. During particularly bad days, where PTSD might be giving Click a hard time, he'll just fade away so that no one can see him. And then, he'll pick a spot to sit and wait for it to blow over.

Sometimes, you find him anyway, no matter how much he tries to hide. Sometimes, he lets you know where he is. Either way, he lets you know that he'd like for you to stay and keep him company - I imagine there's a system you two come up with, should he feel too overwhelmed to talk. Knock once for yes, two for no. Tug on your shirt if he wants to lead you somewhere quieter, pat your hand to sit down with him, etc etc.

Everyone begins to see you as Click's guardian.

On a less sad note, whenever someone needs Click for anything, they always go to you first and foremost! Either because you're the only one who can figure out where he may be, or because they want to run their plans through you first.

Vertin specifically makes sure to know if you'd like to accompany him during missions that require his presence, or if you'd like to know the details of his next solo mission. It's something she does out of politeness and as a a formality - and because Click just seems to perk up just a tiny bit if she tells him that you expect him to do a proper job. Whenever Lilya is planning to give Click a ride to take better pictures, she always jokes around, saying that she'll bring your precious brother back in one piece. Pavia always jokingly threatens Click to snitch on him and tell his "big scary sibling" that he's been taking pictures of people when they sleep.

From an outsider's point of view - those who do not belong to this group - it feels like everyone is infantilizing Click. He's 19 and a war photographer! But one has to remember that everyone in this suitcase has lost family and friends to the "Storm".

Aside from being displaced and forced into unfamiliar waters, everyone is dealing with so many things on their own, like losing their lives and all the people they once knew and cared for. So knowing that Click was able to form such a strong bond with you, to trust and see you as family, despite everything? It really brings them hope for a brighter future - Vertin's goal to create a place for those who have nowhere else to go starts to make sense for them. And hey, most of them are willing to stop with their little jokes and such should they bother you or Click!

This specific point comes from me seeing Vertin's group as one huge found family - there's no way everyone will get along, but at the end of the day, everyone trusts and relies and takes care of each other. The dynamics within this found family are much too complex for me to get into right now and for people outside of it to even understand, just know that it's a thing!

Click picks up on your mannerisms and speech pattern unconsciously.

Click isn't very talkative outside of the usual photography or artistic talk, he's more of a listener. And while he does become a little more talkative around you, opening up and whatnot, you tend to do most of the talking. And that's how he ends up picking up your mannerisms!

It's especially funny for everyone if you happen to have a very different and contrasting way of speech- the way Click just casually drops an F bomb in that soft-spoken voice whenever he fails to get the perfect shot will NEVER stop funny.

I like to think that, because of how observant he is, he also ends up picking up on your unique gestures. It's all an unconscious thing he does - if someone points it out Click won't even know what they're talking about, entirely oblivious to the fact that he now emotes and makes the same facial expressions as you do, the same gestures (at least when his hands are free, instead of clinging to that camera of his) and using the same phrases and whatnot.

#reverse 1999 #reverse: 1999 #reverse 1999 headcanons #reverse 1999 x reader #reverse 1999 click #im a relationship anarchist so you have to understand. talking abt found families makes me go DERANGED #i kept it to just general familial stuff tho #see if it were up to me. click would call you the english equivalent of kuya or ate but. no one does that in english apparently #calling your siblings sis or bro??? is apparently weird??? but its so natural to me. like yeah thats my kuya!! #sorry i shortwired thinking about pinoy pavia again #i also have a lot of thoughts about click and war PTSD and whatnot but thats for a different post

[inevitablefeelingsforyou]

Meeting you will always be my favorite memory, but you being a memory will always break my heart.

#sad love quote #love #love quotes #love quote tumblr #relationship quotes #love quote #quote #quoteoftheday #relationship #deep quotes #deep thoughts #pinoy hugot #pinoy quote

[sebcalaguas]

Ingat kayo! Baka nagco-color color palang ngayon sa kinder ang ipapalit sa inyo ng mga jowa niyo.

#Andrea Brillantes #KathNiel #Kathryn Bernardo #Daniel Padilla #Julia Barretto #Gerald Anderson #Bea Alonzo #Pinoy #Filipino #Couple #Love Team #Relationship #Meme #Love #Celebrity #Showbiz

[tobeastar]

The moment you decided to not talk to me than assure me for the things that confuses me, the time you decided to prioritize yourself than to help me with my overthinking, the time when you do your things happily and with joy in your heart, the moment you decided not to help me again to stop this fucking mental illness I'm having because of you, made me realize what I really am to you. WALANG KWENTA. WALA AKONG KWENTA TALAGA SAYO! That's what I am to you. And thank you so much because tonight, YOU made me realize that my worth is not what you should deserve. You don't deserve everything I am doing for you just to make you feel okay while I am losing myself. This has to stop. You fed me up and fucked me up to the end of my line. You are not helping me. You narcissist liar. I'm done with you. Sawang sawa na ako sa mga kasinungalingan mo. Sawang sawa na ako sa mga pambabaliwa mo. Sige. Ipamukha mo sakin lahat ng pagkakamali ko, then I'll rub all of your mistakes, that I've swallowed that choked me to death, up to your face. Palagi kong kinukwestion sarili ko kapag nag aaway tayo without you even questioning yourself. No. Hindi pwedeng okay ka habang ako, kailangan kong gamutin tong sakit na mental illness na IKAW ANG NAGBIGAY SAKIN. You deserved what you tolerate. I tolerated you with everything you did to me without me complaining and at the end of the day, ako pa rin may kasalanan. Lahat ng kasalanan mo, ako ang umaako, ako nag dudusa sa bawat kasalanan mong ginagawa, ako nahihirapan sa bawat kasinungalingan na lumalabas sa putanginang bunganga mo. Lahat ng pag kukulang mo, ako ang sumasalo. Ikaw, sarili mo, at yang ego mo lang mahalaga sayo. Nagbubunganga ako pero hindi ko pinaranas sayo ang pinaparanas mo sakin. Pagod na pagod na akong ayusin tong putanginang relasyon na to pero nandito pa rin ako, nag titiis ako sayo dahil mahal kita pero sobra ka na. Sobrang sobra ka na. I'll let you experience hell with me. Hindi pwedeng ako lang ang nasa impyerno dito, habang ikaw, ayos ka lang, masaya ka. Putangina ng lahat ng putangina. Pagod na pagod na ako maging sunud sunuran sayo at gawin lahat ng magpapasaya sayo dahil sa takot kong iwanan mo ako. Putangina. Mamamatay ako sa sakit na binigay mo, papatayin din kita. Tinanggal mo lahat ng takot at inhibitions ko sa relasyon na to ngayon gabi. Hindi na ako takot mawala ka. Ubos na pasensya ko sayo. Wala na kong natitirang awa sayo. Yung pagmamahal na meron ako sayo? Wala na. Ubos na ako sayo. Inubos ko na lahat sayo pero ikaw? Wala ka pa rin pakelam sa kapwa mo. Makasarili ka. Umalis ka, wala na akong pakelam sayo. Ubos na pakelam ko sayo katulad ng ginagawa mo sakin. Wala akong kwenta sayo. Wala ka na rin kwenta sakin. Hindi kita kilala. Yung Lester na nakilala ko noon, isang imagination lang na ginawa mo. Yung tao na lester ngayon? Kinasusuklaman ko. Inubos mo ako hanggang walang wala na ako. Gusto mo mag umpisa? Umpisahan mo sa sarili mo, matakot ka sa pagsisinungaling mo. Hindi ko na gustong mag umpisa pa sayo. Kung ngayon pa lang ganyan ka na, nakakatakot matali sa isang katulad mo. Nakakatakot magkaron ng anak sa gaya mo. Hindi ko na gustong makasama ka hanggang sa future ko. Kung anong meron tayo, hanggang dito na lang. Ayoko na. Tapos na ako.

#tagalog #filipino #pinoy #pagodnako #relationship

[wheresurboytonighthelookslikeenj]

GRANTAIRE AND MARIUS DUET OMG YES. Seriously, Gavroche as a Filipino street kid is just such a good image. (I agree! I love Enjolras but like... it's so easy to project on Marius sometimes. :'))

marius is a special kind of pathetic poor little meow meow because he is me and i am only irredeemable thru him

#a very complicated relationship #marius pontmercy my beloved noodle #pinoy amis

[unpenetraded]

My wife is Filipina, she knows about my submission to her and she more and more let me wait to pleasure her. The problem is that I have a quite strong need while she can wait.

This is a diary about how to handle being Unpenetrated all the time.

#female led relationship #keuschheit #schmerz #humiliating kink #asian wife #wifedom #pinoy drama

[titaofpampanga]

Di ba ang sarap sa feeling na sa gabi bago ka matulog may magsasabi sayo na: “Sige, tulog ka na. Wag kang mag-alala, bukas mahal ka pa rin kita.”

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[brilliantlydimwitted]

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[caffeinatedenough]

#MariaClaraAtIbarra takeaways:

𝐌𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐮𝐞. It takes a lot of bravery to confess your feeling to someone. It takes courage to take the risk and accept the consequence — 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐟’𝐬.

Thus, we admire those men whose intentions are pure, someone who will never lead a woman to confusion but to clarity with consistency.

Dear woman, keep this in your mind that 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐧’𝐬 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐲. Regardless of the consequence, they’re not afraid to show how worthy you are to be valued and be pursued. Wait & pray for that man.

Secondly, 𝐞𝐯𝐞��𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐦 & 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐥 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. When a man confesses, it is not the woman’s obligation to reply as fast as she can. Learn to lead your emotions so that your emotions won’t lead you.

Never make a decision when your emotions are high. Normalize consulting God in every decision you’ll make so that you can 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.

Lastly, 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐧 & 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭. Everything must always be in process. You don’t need to rush things. Blessing comes to those who wait patiently on God’s go signal; and these signals might be “yes”, “no” or “wait”.

Things may or may not go in your plan, but know that God’s plan is always for your best and we must never question it. Cliche to say, but 𝗹𝗲𝘁 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆. Above all, in all seasons — be it in friendship, courtship, relationship, and marriage, let God be the Author. 𝐇𝐞 𝐦𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐚𝐲.

Here’s the lesson: In a world full of unlabeled relationship, 𝐛𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝙖𝙛𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙘𝙡𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙛𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣. If a man has real intentions for you, he will court you, he will pursue you at God’s timing and not on his own pacing.

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[dear-mahal-ko]

I wish i knew

It hurts knowing I lost you in a short amount of time. I don’t know if ill ever be okay. But i know you are my guiding angel. I think about holding you in my arms. I had a name for you with Gods whisper telling me what to name you. I miss the small talks in the mornings. Mama ❤️

I don’t know how to to be okay right now. It pains me enough to block the pain God has reasons for to take you away from me. I feel like its karma. Looking at the days you would call me Mama and tell me you want something in your sweet voice.

You heartbeat will always live in my heart as I heard it for the last and first time. I will miss you Zion. Mama loves you Zee 🤍

Have arthur take care of you there cuz he knows i would love you as much as I do with the people that I love.

#miscarriage #filipino #love #pinay #pinoy #pinoy relationships #artists on tumblr #art #illustrators on tumblr #my art #study art #pregnancy #support #blogging is my therapy #writer of tumblr #tumblr is my therapy #miscarrying #angel baby #fallen angel

[notreallyherxx]

im sad

im sad that we never get to talk about things. im sad that we didn’t get to spend some time together. im scared that you’re drifting away. im scared that im gonna drift away. im sad that i cant say what i really wanna say to you. im sad that im always overthinking when i think that i don’t have any right to do that. i just want it to be real. i miss you flirting with me. i miss you being with me. i miss your small surprises. i miss you replying to every message i sent you. i miss you keeping it real with me. im sad that i think i love you more than you love me. im sad that there are people out there treating them better. im sad that these are the thoughts running inside my head but i love you. I love you even though it hurts.

#hugot #pinoy #thoughts #masakit #pagibig #relasyon #relationship #words i never said #words i wish i could say #sad thoughts #emotions

[inevitablefeelingsforyou]

" let’s fall in love again and do it right this time. "

#love #love quotes #love quote tumblr #relationship quotes #love quote #pinoy quotes #tagalog love quotes #pinoy quote #pinoy hugot #life update

[whyiammiserable]

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[soulkatcherninetyfour-blog]

#relationship #heartbreak #letting go #pinoy music

[titaofpampanga]

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