#person: *is violently transphobic*

[nervoustragedyluminary]

Reductress is just spreading terf rhetoric now

The "joke" is that nonbinary people are somehow escaping from violence by being trans that we can opt out of fearing violence and don't fear violence when walking at night....

Like just yuck as a transmasc nonbinary survivor whose actually aware of the stats of violence against nonbinary people this just disgusts me...

Also I'm betting they have talked to zero Black trans enbies or men or women of colour about how being seen as "scary" puts them in danger from racist white people & or they're just assuming all enbies are white idk it's disgusting... There's just so many layers to the bigotry and white fauxminism of this "joke"

They've previously made posts like this so idk if they've got terfs on staff who keep trying to slip this in to pipeline people or people who think certain trans people they dislike facing violence including sexual violence is funny and that those trans survivors are lying and shouldn't be beleived.

They're priming their audience to disbelieve and mock nonbinary trans survivors. They're literally pushing the "people transition to escape/opt out of patriarchal violence like a fun game" terf talking point which isn't reflected in the stats of violence against trans people who face higher rates of physical sexual and domestic violence than cis people

Just "it's a coin toss!"

As a survivor fuck you

Like the comments section is full of transphobia and people going "har har they think they're in danger they're delusional " or spouting transphobic BS and a trans man whose talking about how he fears violence walking at night being called 'female' and misgendered like well done you've curated a comment section full of transphobes and people who think trans people aren't who we say we are fucking yikes

None of the transphobic comments have been deleted reductress seems happy to leave up comments calling trans men "female" and saying that trans people are a danger to children

#Reductress #Exorsexism #Rape culture #transandrophobia #Terf rhetoric #Erasing tpoc #When your “joke” is “haha enbies don't face violence people think you're men and trans men don't face violence” in current year just wtaf #Did a nonbinary person reject one of the writers or something there seems to be this persistent creepy obsession with mocking and belittlin #It really sounds like the “all my exgfs are crazy” shit but projected onto enbies like who hurt you and why are you hurting survivors? #Like they already tried a similarly transphobic joke and it went over just as badly then why do they keep trying to push this maga shit #Enbyphobia #Anti-Transmasculinity #This is what violent transphobes who harass assault & kill us WANT you to think when we try to talk about fearing for our safety #Why are you perpetuating this transphobic nonsense #Also I wonder if the stock model whose image they used knows its being used to mock&erase trans survivors

[thistlechronicles]

headcanons for the bullshit each PPG would have to deal with the most if they came out as transmasc, based off my personal experiences:

Bubbles: uwu femboy infantilization, getting treated like a little girl playing dressup

Buttercup: scary predatory butch demonization, jokes about trying too hard to prove his masculinity that are barely funny to begin with when aimed at cis men, other trans people hating him for being a “stereotype”/not being palatable to cis people

Blossom: people using every opportunity to shut him down for “mansplaining”

#didnt reblog w this in case it would ruin op’s day or something #personally i dont understand the desire to trans hc the ppgs #i was obsessed with buttercup tho so i just roll my eyes when ppl are like its transphobic to hc the violent one as trans

[thepoisonroom]

petition for all the trans the last of us likers to read manhunt by gretchen felker-martin

#like manhunt isn't a zombie story but it's not NOT a zombie story #and it's also one of the most brutal and concise takedowns of t*rf ideology i've ever read #it is the book form of that graffiti that's like 'there are women with dicks men with vaginas and transphobes without teeth' #and also importantly it is a good fucking book that made me cry #and which has interesting things to say about love and solidarity in the face of violent oppression #sorry for once more flogging manhunt my beloved #also fair warning it is one of the most blanket triggering books i've read in a minute can give more specific tws if anyone needs #personal nonsense

[tinkkles]

normal destiny users: it's OKAY to HATE NIMBUS and OSIRIS I'm being SO BRAVE and VULNERABLE right now by saying that I CANT FUCKING STAND these characters and that's OK!!! ITS NOT EVEN ABOUT them being STUPID FAGGOTS I just think they STINK OUT LOUD!!!! I am SICK of being VICTIMIZED for LOUDLY VOCALIZING how much these characters SUCK!!!! NORMALIZE HATING NIMBUS & OSIRIS !!!! RISE UP HATERS !!!!!!!!!

#video game players will be like 'can i say something brave' #and then just echo 6000 incel redditors like its a hot take suddenly #like ok king that's great. reassure yourself you aren't homophobic but you still do have bad taste idk ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ #idk what the current twitter discourse is with nimbus but man. everybody shut your up #like idk if your personal preferences for characters just so happen to feed the violently transphobic & homophobic sectors of the community #maybe just. keep your opinion to yourself. why do you need to post about it so much

[magioffire]

“theyfabs” tell me youre chronically online without telling me youre chronically online

#only basement dwelling terfs would come up with such idiotic words lmfaooo #its up there with 'pronoun mafia' and 'transtrenders' #yeah just keep trying convince yourself you dont have a violent urge to call every nonbinary person you see a dirty tr*nny #self proclaimed feminists reverting to 1960s bioessentialism right before mah got damn eyes #ooc. #rant cw #i just learned this word against my will today and im just like...can yall please come up with something BETTER #transphobes are notoriously bad at coming up with names and insults so im not surprised lol #ahhh ouch oooh no you called me a theyfab you got me....how am i EVER gonna recover

[asordidbarwere]

first valentine's day in a long time that I have someone worth doting on and I'm wasting it feeling like shit about myself and my identity and everything else

#literally can't think about anything other than not feeling like i deserve to call myself trans #and how being called a lesbian makes me uncomfortable but being considered a lesbian brings my gf such joy #so if we're together wtf does that mean #i wish everything were easier #i feel like nothing compared to the transfem struggle #hatred isnt constantly weaponized against me #what right do i have to claim the trans identity at all #i hate being considered a woman but i do nothing to suggest I'm anything else #like i think i can just declare ''I'm a boy'' and have that mean shit #is there even a kind of masculinity that exists in this world that isn't just oppressive and violent #how can i say i admire those things and strive for them in front of someone who hates how it was expected of them their whole life #why am i so not okay with transitioning #why can't i do anything but live in fear #I'm going to fuck this up. i finally get to know what real love feels like and I'm going to sabotage all of it #I'm going to make them hate me and there's nothing i can do #it's just a matter of time #I'm scared that they'll go in hrt and it will make them unrecognizable to me as the person i fell in love with #and isn't that horrible of me? doesn't that make me as much of a transphobic monster as my ex #i feel like absolute shit. i wish I'd died in that car accident. i wish I'd never met someone who makes me so happy #so that i wouldn't have anything to fear losing or changing #i wish i didn't exist. i hate this whole fucking world #and also what disgusting level of privilege we all have to be giving a fuck about our genders while a genocide rages on #i wish i could wish for death but i don't wish for my gf to go through that loss #i wish i truly had nothing to lose. i don't deserve a damn thing

[love-3-crimes]

theres this one guy that lives on my floor who really likes asking me weird questions just so that he can go "actually thats not true 👆" to everything i say. im at that point where i see him in the halls and i immediately turn around and leave ToT

#last time he asked me about my opinion on trans people #he then proceeded to say some extremely transphobic things about trans women #just 5 minutes ago he asked me about immigrants #and then again proceeded to call them diseased and violent #i think he knows that i have anger problems and is trying to get me to react #he only asks me things that are personal to me #the immigrant thing made me feel like shit tho so hes hitting the bad spots for me #university sucks man

[falloutnewvegastransedmygender]

So Started out with how the homosexuals and the transgenders are the antichrist coming to corrupt. They can't be fruitful and multiply so they have to recruit. Big obsession with how it's not fertile. Coming for the kids and trying to destroy us and we're just oh so persecuted but don't worry it's turning around and soon we'll realize the truth and put the church back in the government and our schools and that'll stop school shootings and heal society. Though it's gonna be hard because they have the corporations under their thumb and bent to their abominations (used abomination a lot), and they might drag the pastor away and force our kids to castrate themselves.

And 95% of this was my own fucking father.

#foxo ramblings #lgbtq #trans #transphobia #violently transphobic #trans genocide #stop trans genocide #homophobia #rant #vent #personal vent

[sandinmybed]

if you want to come into my ask and minimise what JKR has done when she is literally the direct cause of most of the transphobic culture war that is currently ruining my country then be my fucking guest but you can do it off anon

#like dont play fuckinf stupid lmao #calling her 'some author' and acting like only peoplr in 'annoying queer circles' know what shes done #first of all congrats on outing yourself as a queerphobe #second of all she is Literally changing things in the british fucking government by being so violently transphobic #say this to a british trans person I Fucking Dare You

[bvshboy]

tbh I think the thing that bothers me the most about tiktok kids talking about being a top or bottom is that they're very hetero normative and toxicly masculine about it

like as a queer teen myself who's tried making irls and had to deal with most of my peers being chronically online (and digging myself out of that hole aswell) they will push these labels onto you and correct you on your own sexual preferences

and it's over the dumbest shit

just classic gender norms repackaged

#its so invasive #like i personally always say im a top bc the thought of bottoming makes me violently dysphoric for reasons i cant explain #and the way these cunts will tell me i MUST be a bottom and then proceed to emasculate me by listing all the reasons #one of which is usually that i ''look like a bottom'' which totally isnt fucking transphobic at all #attictictic

[knifeslidez]

just an fyi for other mcr blogs: @/butchviking is a terf that interacts with a lot of mcr content/blogs (somehow including my own even though ive blocked them)

#can someone pls tell me how theyre still interacting with me even though i have them blocked?? #it makes me seriously uncomfortable as a trans+gnc person to have a violent radfem transphobe interacting with my blog #mcr #my chemical romance #ghoul groans

[starslite]

being on twitter n ig reminds me that we are regressing so far back as a society it makes me genuinely want to kms

#/hj #like we are going back to being blatantly and violently homophobic transphobic racist etc.... #it esp makes me want to go back into the closet as an nb person #i straight up just saw the “if u id as nb ur mentally ill” comment on an ig post #and its dumb how much it bothers me #i swear things were better when i was a teen #ntm all the terrible bills n laws being passed to get rid of autonomy and gender care. lawl #it's rly hard trying to stay positive in 2024. like tbings keep getting worse and worse #suicide / #sort of. idk #im not rly gonna hurt myself

[ironwilledfuckup]

currently in the middle of applying to houses (& allegedly organising doubles but there’s no way that’ll happen) with someone who i thought was a friend but is making it very clear that they don’t like me. the other day they insinuated i’ve never had long term friendships (likely projection bc they haven’t & can’t even fathom what a romantic friendship is) & now they’re mad at me. bc i asked too many questions about gloves. (i am a PRO DOMME & a DYKE i buy a box a week)

my last housing situation became actively dangerous bc i avoided red flags early on so i have learned my lesson but this person is reliant on me for proof of income & rental history so if i go back to applying to houses by myself she’s fucked. but i’m not risking my mental & physical safety bc i want to help someone else out for the 5th time in my life.

#& i’ve been very very clear that i have PTSD bc the last person i moved in with was a self described violent alcoholic #who had assaulted multiple people & would come into my room at night 🫡 #and those red flags started out like this #like a joke that’s a little too mean #saying something transphobic or racist but then brushing it off by saying they’re still learning #i’m panicking lol #dear diary