#parents mention

[sweetpeauserboxes]

[id: a light purple userbox with a pastel purple border, and pastel purple text that reads “this user has many fictional parental figures” on the left is an image of a small purple heart. /end id]    

#soft userboxes #soft userbox #soft aesthetic #softcore #soft #cute userboxes #cute userbox #cutecore #cute aesthetic #cute #pastel aesthetic #pastel userbox #pastel userboxes #pastelcore #pastel #userboxes #userbox #parents mention #parents ment #parents tw #parents #familal f/o #f/o comfort #f/o community #f/o

[dddemigirl]

Someone who has the life that I’ve always wanted now has their dream job too. Meanwhile I’ve been unemployed for a year and there’s a lot of jobs that I can’t do because of my disabilities. I’m not using them as an excuse, it’s just the truth. Trying to do jobs that go poorly with my disabilities would either get me fired or further my physical disabilities. It’s already happened once and I still experience numbness in my foot on rare occasions because of it. Yet I’m not “disabled enough” to be taken seriously or to get accepted for SSI which doesn’t pay for people’s rent these days anyway. They make it impossible to get on SSI, everyone gets rejected over and over. Now there’s talk of this wonderful country making homelessness illegal. If my parents weren’t so generous I would be homeless.

#alexa rambles #vent #vent tag #venting #actually disabled #actually neurodivergent #invisible disability #spoonie #chronic pain #dyscalculia #adhd #autism #parents mention #homelessness tw #jobs #employment #work

[ace-aro-queerplatonic-positivity]

My mom commending my confidence in using my walking cane never stops being weird

I agree it’s probably because I decided on my own to just get a mobility aid, still, my mother positively commenting on me presenting myself confidently is just… dissonant

#shit my parents say #personal #about me #parents mention #I know this technically belongs on my private blog but also just… whut #sorry for dragging more personal stuff onto this blog recently

[transastronautistic]

@hyperfix8edcryptid and i celebrated our 4th anniversary up in Ohio this past week. It was so good to see our little nieces, my bro, and my parents 🌈💚

Also look at the frog and toad print she got me it’s too perfect 😭 My mom’s verdict on it: “awwwww cute…I didn’t know they were gay!”

Simple ID: various pics of me and Leah, both white people with short brown hair, on a hike, at a Lake Erie beach, and one where Avery is holding up a small black and white print of Toad offering Frog a bouquet of flowers over the words “the lovers”

#averygayface #averygayfamily #solamente siempre #parents mention #mom mention #Leah and I have known each other a lil over a decade now that’s so wild

[cats-and-confusion]

Just made a card for my dad, hope it goes over well!

#parents tw #tw parents #parents mention #parental issues #parenting

[queerbauten]

hello yes it is Sunday yet I have the day off and I woke up early-ish (relative to when I thought I would wake up) and so I have unfettered access to my devices (at work, I'm limited to breaks, and on weekdays off, I'm usually out running errands, but not on Sunday, if I can help it), so there's not much stopping me from spamming the dash today

#I mean later I'm going to go to my parents' house for Thanksgiving #but I got plenty of time before then #you see usually when I am having my many thoughts head full moments #I am indeed on the work floor #but not today!! not right now!! #ha ha haaa!!! #The Biophone gets personal #parents mention #text heavy

[coolerdracula]

a review of that book is making me emotional bc it's a mom talking about how that segment is bad and shows pictures of how she wrote in the book for her kid that they can always talk to her about their feelings and just ohhhhh man

#mother mention #ummm #parents mention #bearer of the curse

[cozyqueerchaos]

// tw

nothing like shooting the shit with your mom about your dad and then coming home and having them immediately get in another fight

#like my mom's fucked up a lot too but girl!!! you're better than this why are you putting up with his shit!!!!! #parents mention #abuse tw

[0th3rw0rldl1n3ss]

#v curious whether this is a niche experience of mine or a typical boomer dad thing… #polls #hyperspecific polls #tw parents #parents mention

[bunnykitty13]

parents are just. inherently evil people lmao

ANONNNNN you have no idea i feel fucking sick to my stomach when i see good parents like i cant fathom how they exist and how there are people that just. grew up safe. thats fucked up LOL

#asks #anonymous #ask to tag #parents mention

[sweetpeauserboxes]

[id: a white userbox with a red border and red text that reads “this user's parent is diluc ragnvindr ” on the left is an image of diluc ragnvindr from genshin impact. /end id]

#genshin impact #gi #genshin #genshin diluc #gi diluc #diluc ragnvindr #video game userboxes #video game userbox #video game #video games #cutecore #cute userboxes #cute userbox #cute aesthetic #cute #userboxes #userbox #parents mention #parents ment tw #parents ment cw

[dddemigirl]

Hey all. I got dizzy and out of it today and almost couldn’t drive to therapy. I was scared to drive home so my parents picked me up. My mom said I was pale and that I should go to urgent care. Here’s what happened.

I had blood work done, urine sample, even an EKG. They’re not 100% sure what’s wrong but the nurse that I spoke to wants to monitor me because my heart rate is much too high and it has been every time I’ve come into that urgent care since 2019. After fasting tonight I’ll go back in the morning to get blood work done again. I’m also getting a heart monitor.

#alexa rambles #health update #health #urgent care #doctor visit #high heart rate #parents mention #mom mention #ask to tag

[tex-treasures]

Having said all that wow It's so nice being awake early and thinking of cuddling with f/os.

This morning's edition is Sunny, James, and Diantha, age 3, coming in from her room, letting in Karat and Sombra while she does.

Edit: LOL i ended up writing a blurb which-- hey! Fantastic! I was having severe writing block for a while! Anyway for those curious it's under the cut- I'm not going to tag anyone for it but it's G rating.

(✨Okay to Reblog✨)

Since Diantha was born, Karat has slept in her room, long ago abandoning James and Sunny to keep vigil over her. She follows Diantha everywhere and Sunny's heart is already breaking for the dog at the mere thought of how she'll react when Diantha goes to school in two years (or one- she's a clever little thing and might get in early like Sunny did at that age.)

Sure enough, Karat, that big platinum retriever, comes to lay between them with a characteristic wag of her tail. James won't admit it but it's comforting to feel her crushing weight over his tender feet yet again- Karat was his dog, his puppy, but she's grown now and has taken on the roll of Diantha's protector all on her own and he couldn't be prouder. Sombra, as all cats are wont to do, would rather sleep where she fancies- last night it was her bed in the living room, this morning theirs. She hops up and sinks into a bit of Sunny's pillow above xyr head with a soft 'mrrrp' and promptly begins grooming Sunny's hair.

James spends a solid minute trying to pet Diantha's curly hair off her forehead as she gets comfortable, a direct copy of Sombra, but it's no use, it's a jungle of curls just like Sunny's and while it's still short it'll just keep flopping over into her face.

Diantha, tired of Papá trying and obviously failing to fix something, huffs with all the energy of a child who's seen this before and knows it'll happen again and is, quite frankly, tired of it. She just woke up, after all. "Déja, Papá," she even batts at his hands, "deja!"

Sunny covers her mouth to hide her dimpled grin. "Día, amorcita linda," her voice is tender if not tremulous with tampered down laughter, "try to tell him 'déjalo por favor' and maybe he'll stop. You know how to ask nicely."

Diantha lifts her chin and fixes her fierce, hazel eyes at James. Most adults flinch when they see her eyes but not James. He only sees himself, after all. It's a small but powerful homage to him- Diantha got Sunny's hair, her brown skin and nose, even the shape of her eyes and while neither James nor Sunny have hazel eyes, it's not hard to see a smaller version of James with the way she glares at the world with a defiance that, thankfully, doesn't bleed into their home life.

For the most part, anyway. She is three, after all.

"déjalo papá," Diantha's eyes are sharp but her voice is soft and that's all that matters, "por favor."

So of course, he stops.

"thank you." She says, unprompted. She even gives him a peck on the jaw.

"She needs a haircut." James says to Sunny, voice gravely with sleep but the humor is there in the curl of his smile.

Sunny flicks her dark brown eyes up to smirk at the tuffs of honey wheat blond hair threatening to fall in James' eyes. He's decided to start wearing the front a tad bit longer but this doesn't feel deliberate. "Don't we all."

James snorts. "Touché."

Diantha flips over to nuzzle into Sunny's arms. Talk of haircuts is boring. "Mamá I had a dream."

"Oh you did?" Sunny perks right up and lays down on xyr back to coax her up on xyr stomach and Diantha follows before promptly resting her head on xyr chest to gaze at James.

"Mhm."

"Ay, mi flora preciosa, what did you dream about? Hmm? Díganos, por favor." Sunny kisses the top of her head and James watches, melting from the sight of the early morning light streaming in and bathing them both golden. Diantha's eyes never leave his- admittedly, she's got a bit of a staring problem but they're working on that if only to prepare her for the world outside their home, their fortress.

When asked why she stares she says she likes colors- she likes James' because they remind her of cloud gazing and Sunny's because they remind her of gardening; they've actually recently replanted some Dianthus flowers, (she's just learned that's her namesake. Diantha struggles sometimes to remember things but that's okay, they're not going to let her forget.) and she's giddy to watch them grow- if only they'd grow faster...

Diantha stares and stares but James doesn't mind it one bit- he stares back, lips curling into yet another bemused smile as Diantha begins to babble about dragons baking cakes- truly a dream fit for a toddler and it hits him again and again in rushing waves as Sunny reaches for his hand midway through that yes, this is his family, this is his.

Retiring when he did, adopting Karat, marrying Sunny, having Diantha... every choice he made leading up this moment- this brilliant moment tied intrinsically to a billion other brilliant moments happening each and every day- all of it culminates and condenses into a star like entity settling in his chest, warming him from the inside out as Sunny laughs at something Diantha said, as Diantha tries to tickle her mother in retaliation. He did this.

He can feel his future in the palm of his hand now, smooth and soft, squeezing his fingers, and see it in front of him, golden and beautiful, laughing and alive.

He couldn't be happier.

#tex talks #tex writes #from london with love | bond #*sobbing melting flailing* i----- #okay to rb #this is going in the chamber too #FINALLY i wrote something 😭 #thank you james & Diantha for giving me something to write 😭✨❤️ #parents mention #*wraps myself up in this*

[cats-and-confusion]

"I don't have the energy to do this right now"

"Yes you do"

Bitch no the fuck I don't. Piss off

#gonna kill my dad one of these days #personal vent #vent #vent post #parents tw #tw parents #parents mention

[angelmimikyu]

Why am I so miserable and depressed.

#Celi txt #i blame my parents. i don’t get any breathing room. they always need me ugh #negative #parents mention #I’ll be ok. i have to be strong and just let myself heal and be happy but. it’s so much work it’s so exhausting ugh

[miopet]

sometimes your parents dont even try a little. sometimes your parents will actively continue to work harder than they ever have to ensure your life is a million times worse because of them than it would be without them.

#talk tag #parents mention #i saw a post that was like it can ve true that your parents did everything they could but their choices still hurt you #and i just. lmao