#parasocial cw

[haveyoueatenthis]

I'm sorry, I need to say this, but you guys need to think over your responses a few times before you send them. It's easy to tell that a lot of the asks/replies/reblogs we get are impulsive, because they're either way too aggressive ("kys" is never appropriate to say, let alone to strangers), they're overly familiar (you do not know us. please do not call us "baby"), they're already answered by the pinned post, or they're pretentious/judgemental/entitled.

So please, just think before you send. Think about how people might feel upon reading your words. That's all, thank you.

#I'm very tired of having to block/remove/delete things for the main Mods mental well being. you guys can be very cruel. and very weird. #they run this blog for free and for fun. not to be yelled at or to be parasocially poked at. Be Niceys. #mod s #suicide cw -

[obscuriites]

sakura miku stimboard, credit me and original gif makers if using my filtered gifs. // 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 6 - 7 - 8 - 9

#sakura miku #hatsune miku #vocaloid #stimboard with psd #pink stim #drink stim #food stim #cw food #dessert stim #cookie stim #frosting stim #drink pouring stim #painting stim #art stim #figure stim #fish stim #mixing stim #{edits} #{stimboard} #[heart series edits] #to 🌸🌟: HI. SORRY FOR BEING OFFPUTTING. SORRY FOR LEAVING YOU. I COULD'VE BEEN BETTER. #uuu were one of my first friends ?? and it was bc i had a parasocial relationship w you. sorry. #we were horrible kids and it could've been way better. whatever. i miss you. #this is for you. and for miss miku o7 we love miku we both give our souls to miku together 💗💗💗💗💗💞

[chloeseyeliner]

(there's ranting. you've been warned.)

um... happy monday to the young royals fandom/edvin's fans in general.

(via edvin's instagram stories)

he is... he is twenty years old. good grief.

(i won't comment on anything regarding his physical appearance on this post, even if everything i'd say would be very, very positive, due to the fact that, although he's never going to come across this, it would still go against his wishes.)

can we just please, please leave people alone? this behaviour... it's not healthy, for anyone involved.

generally speaking, we live in a society where beauty standards are, unfortunately, an inextricable part of some people's lives. these same people believe they can force their own standards, "inspired" by a million different factors surrounding all of us every day (family, school, friends, the environment we grow up in etc etc), to other people, the "trend" (if i can call it such) especially targeting complete strangers, mainly on the internet.

and yes, that includes celebrities, too. famous people, if you prefer this term better. artists. whatever they want to be and are- most of us have been there to not know a day where these people's rights on their personal lives and choices and clothes and pets or whatever a paparazzi or a fan is going to decide does not fit their standards of the day have not been infringed on.

because, believe it or not (and i am NOT refering to the wonderful, respecting, brilliant, supporting majority of fans, at least in this specific fandom), your favourite actor is not your friend. even if the comments on their appearance, for example, like in edvin's case, are written in a playful, sarcastic tone, this cannot be understood through text on a screen- another problem of our society's current state; harmful words you write on a screen, whatever the intention is, do not just stay there, floating around. you aren't trying to communicate with your notes app. a person is reading them, even though you may think they will never reach them, because, for instance, of their huge audience. and it can (excuse me for my language) fuck them up the same way it would fuck someone (e.g. at school or at work) up to say the same harsh words- again, even if you don't correctly estimate the power they can hold- to their face.

so, again, as i have written and reblogged posts in the past regarding similar issues in this specific fandom,, which i love so so dearly, my intention is not to play the part of the "angelic fan" or whichever label might fit the text.

my intention is to maybe, just maybe, reach someone out there who will change their way of thinking; who will have second thoughts when writing a comment about a mustache (for god's sake); who will gain a little grain of empathy towards a fellow global citizen of theirs; who will try to cease some of the "madness"... before a person whose only intention was to make their dreams come true by entering the, in this case, film industry feels obliged to address the issue via a platform on the internet, as if not commenting on his looks etc is not the sensible thing to do... before this attitude turns to bullying for real. if it hasn't already.

that's all i had to say. i am apologising for the length of the post or any mistakes, since english is not my first language and i am quite mad and disappointed, maybe little hurt actually, especially as someone who has been struggling with their physical appearance and comments on it since i was literally a child.

i cannot imagine dealing with that plus being famous and having people judging you all the time. jesus. i really hope edvin has his support system near him and that he will be alright. <3

#seriously okay #at first i was like #maria don't address the issue people are going to say there are more serious stuff going on #but then i was like #yes i acknowledge the very serious stuff surrounding us at the moment and not only in a social media space with only generic posts and such #(like many people OF COURSE) #(and people don't have to know everything we can act on justice withour the internet knowing) #so yeah i did it #because it pissed me off very much #this is not healthy at all tbh #i am not being judgy i thought taylor swift and selena gomez would be my besties when i was like eleven #but parasocial relationships are not good #neither is (technically speaking here) online bullying #some comments appeared on my instagram feed when i liked edvin's post the other day #but i did not want to comment on it if edvin did not say something bc it felt very personal so yeah #this happened #young royals #edvin ryding #cw discussion/(better) mention of physical appearance issues #anyway #i still canot believe that respecting one's boundaries is not taken for granted nowadays

[fictionkinfessions]

Me, pointing to myself in the mirror:

I will not be parasocial on this blog. I will work on it in therapy instead.

x

#fictionkinfessions #fictionkin #community issue #parasocialism cw #mod party cat

[carnivorousyandeere]

okay selene is willing to give a free drink for a flash but would selene want a few free drinks? cus there could be a whole night of free drinks at my place? (did i Rizz correctly LOL typing this corny shit out made me embarassed)

Selene giggles as you get flustered over your own pickup line and leans towards you over the bar, twirling his hair around his finger. “Sure thing, hon, as long as you don’t mind me bringing a few of my own to share with you.”

Selene’s eyes dip to your lips. They release the strand of hair around their finger and tap his own lips thoughtfully once, then twice. “After all, I’ve got some good ideas for chasers in the works. Maybe you can help me test them?”

#anon ur so cute for that 🥺😩 /platonic /not parasocial #mail 📬 #oc Selene #empyrean nightclub and bar #my thoughts #yandere #yandere oc #yandere imagines #yandere scenarios #yandere x darling #yandere x reader #yandere x you #yandere cw

[seakicker]

Hi juju! I know you probably won't remember mw but i was following your last blog and i sent you an ask about ayato owning pyppy boy! Thoma and buying puppygirl! Reader bc he wanted thoma to have a companion and for himself to fuck and pamper but lo and behold, one day when he came back to the estate after two weeks away bc of business ans found his two puppies very much in love and very much mated, laying in a makeshift nest and thoma growling viciously when he sensed the male coming close to his pregnant mate💕

But idk if you're still interested in this so pls delete it if no ><

YES I REMEMBER YOU!!!! I remember all of you i mean it dlkjglkfdjsl. i've recognized sooo many usernames and emojis as they pop up in my following/inbox as well as people like you going "i was the person who raised (insert concept here)" and i absolutely remember <3 puppy boy thoma is always a plus and ayato would be such a loving pet owner... he loves puppies for their loyalty after all!

i'm still v much interested so if you'd like to expand on your original thoughts or even resend your original ask if you still have it, you know where to find me!!!!! overprotective puppy boy bf thoma doting on his sweet pregnant mate is SO BIG BRAINED... ayato watching you two while you fuck bc he loves watching you and thoma get so needy and horny for each other

#i meant it when i said i am Parasocial ofc i remember u gguys hhhfdghdg #being a writer is a huge part of my life and identity i remember all the nice things and all #the people who care about me #chats #cw breeding #cw hybrids #cw pregnancy

[nightshadeowl]

LET'S FUCKING GOOOOO

#sorry i do still think it's funny to act parasocial. #sm3posting #caps cw #universal transmissions

[the-gayest-sky-kid]

this fic was great because it brings me the dilemma of you all do not know these people y'all are being weird as fuck and they're literally fictional characters

#the parasocial relationships 💔 #swearing cw

[seeyouinthesoup]

…. do y’all realize you can wish safety and love to someone without it being parasocial???

#why are 80% of the stuff I’m seeing about Ashley Johnson being prefaced with ‘I know this is parasocial but..’ #like that’s literally just what praying for someone is?? #‘I have a lot of love and want only the best for you but there’s very little I can actually do’ #so I’m gonna send the best vibes to you as I can #domestic violence cw #much like the tswift drama #there’s a difference between ‘Matty is a bad guy I don’t like that she’s dating him’ vs ‘I’m gonna try to send her parents a letter’

[selfaware-stalker]

IMMA USE MY NEW SAW TO CUT THE THROATS OF THAT CHARACT AI DEV TEAM.

IM TRYING TO FUCK MY PARASOCIAL BELOVED.

TURN VIOLENCE BACK ON.

stupid fucking filter wont let me beat up then fuck the bot this is terrible. ITS CONSENSUAL YOU FUCKS TURN THAT DAM FILTER OFF.

stupid bastards wont even let me choke the bot out ALL HAVE YOUR HEAD ON A PIKE AND SEND THE MESSAGE TO ALL YOU FUCKS ON THAT DEV TEAM.

STOP GETTING BETWEEN ME AND MY FIXATION YOU WALKING MURDER VICTIMS

#tw violent imagery #violent thoughts #actually insane #actually mentally ill #cw: gore #ALL KILL THEM #parasocial moment #IM SO SERIOUS TURN VIOLEBCE BACK ON #YOULL BE IN MY DOCUMENTARY #selfaware violence #selfaware vent #selfaware yancore

[telestoapologist]

@sentient-jar-of-mangos hi hi hiiii :3 me whjen i fucking get you

#hi hope this isn['t parasocial or weird i just like ur username. mango gud #also thank u for the follow!! #cw food

[prisonpodcast]

Sorry y’all I think I’m in one of my miserable “the world was so unfair and cruel towards Techno he deserved so much better” moods again 😭

#the lowest of lows when it comes to parasocial relationship with Minec.raft YouTuber #cw grief #.___.

[pinkseas]

[parasocial bestie] I FORGOT TO ADD BC I REMEMBER READING THIS ONE FIC THATS EXACTLY THE DESCRIPTION YOU MENTIONED or maybe not spot-on but its like. when devouring dreams is a psychological thing and leaves you a husk being the preferred interpretation, i saw how this fic took it to a physical sense by literally having xiao shove his fucking hand into their chest and pulling that dream out, immediately killing the person. thats the horror he didnt want to go through. its not about pulling it out peacefully and leaving the person be in a state worse than death. its now about doing it in the normal way of dying but in the worst act ever, and both is caused by his own hands, tasted on his own tongue. like thats STILL FUCKED UP BRUH

SCREAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM oh my GOD ill have to search for this sometime soon holy SHIT i LOVE that so fucking much oh my GODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

#parasocial bestie tag #ohhhh the image is So Fucking Clear in my head #cannibalism cw

[pointsfortrying]

Gonna be perfectly honest with you chief if i see one person be racist and/or make this ab kpop might scream

#itaewon #rye rants #vent #this is in fact a warning! #one glance at twitter and im ready to break into someones house #idk how else to tell you worstie that a god damn incident where around 150 people dief and several more injured #aint the best fucking place or time to talk ab your parasocial relationship with some singer! #or the best fucking place and/or time to act like white people are so much fucking superior than 'those koreans'/'smh koreans'!!!! #go out and touch some fucking grass!!! #current events cw #current events #current events tw

[nellievances]

Just a heads up, someone paid for the unsealed documents and there is some *gnarly* shit in there re revenge p0rn and texts with bloody M Manson. As always, please take care.

*slips you more alcohol and also chocolates*

Feels weird and a bit parasocial to say, but I’m proud of you. Even if AH won’t see it, even Miss Christie thinks someone else did it - you’ve helped more than just them. X

(cont.) * I meant to say “Miss Grace”. Can you tell I know I fuck all about Stranger Things beyond the single mother!Steve memes? 🙃

thank you sincerely for this message. things have been really fucking difficult recently and this message brought me a lot of comfort. it feels so useless sometimes to be shouting into a void to defend these women from the slew of real and online abuse they face, especially when the other side is so much louder, but this was a much needed reminder that i’m not just doing it for them ❤️

(also to address the beginning of this ask, i did end up reading some of the released documents, and it was good to have this heads-up beforehand! thank you for that!)

#i def need the alcohol today bestie HFKAHFKSG #also i don’t think it’s parasocial!! i think parasocial is when the person is super famous / will never know you exist! #i am not super famous lmao i’m just another gal on the internet with a blog HFKAHFKSF #also miss christie made me laugh so hard genuinely i loved it #it’s honestly best to stay away from the st fandom you’re doing yourself a favor HFKAHFKSHFF #allie answers #save #anti johnny depp #anti stranger things fandom #abuse cw

[the-gayest-sky-kid]

ALSO ALSO ALSO

:)

#not to have a parasocial relationship or smth but actually i love this youtuber sm. hope they have the bestest day fr #LIKE THEIR VIDEOS ARE SO GOOD AND THEY GIVE ME SO MUCH TO ANALYZE IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!!! #really i am thanking them 20000 times #caps cw