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regulusmasamune · 3 months
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ADHD: I crave stimulation. Gotta listen to stuff while gaming. Or gonna get bored.
Autism: There is TOO MUCH Stimulation. I am overloaded. NEED TO RESET.
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horny-ari · 2 years
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Hey guys I'm back with another Barbs fic! Please read the tags and enjoy💜💕
Tw: Top Barbs, Bottom Readder, GN! Reader, Ovipositon, over stimulation, slight belly bulge, eggs, tail sex, body worship, MDI
My Mate
Barbatos sighs in defeat when you are stolen from him once again when he tries to spend some time with you. It's been happening for three weeks now, everyone seems to want to keep you away from him. Seeing you spend all your time with them makes Barbatos burn with jealousy and anger. You're his mate, they all know that.
He walks down the hallways of the castle busying himself with chores and other meaningless tasks to distract him from his anger and loneliness from missing you. His Lord is hosting another ball tonight and the castle must be perfect.
The rest of the afternoon flies past as he cleans, cooks, and prepares the ballroom. Before he knows it guests start to arrive and he's at the door greeting them. Barbatos take their coats, and lead guests to the ballroom. He doesn't notice when you arrive at first, too busy tending to the guests and making sure everything is going well.
When Barbatos has a moment he scans the ballroom, his eyes finding yours in the crowd. His breath catches, seeing the gorgeous deep green outfit you wore tonight and the bright smile that blooms on your face when your eyes meet.
Barbatos immediately makes his way towards you, needing you close now more than ever. The weeks of missing you overwhelming him with the need to feel you close.
He gently grabs your wrist, whispering in your ear to follow him. Barbatos discreetly leads you from the ballroom to an unused bedroom somewhere in the castle, his need to have you growing stronger by the second.
Barbatos closes the door, locking it so no one can disturb the two of you this time. Finally he can have time with his mate. He walks to you, gently sliding the clothes off your body as he whispers an apology. He's sorry for pulling you away but he just missed your touch too much.
His kisses are desperate and needy, pulling you impossibly closer. Barbatos works off the rest of your clothes, folding them nicely and setting them aside while stripping himself. His clothes scattered around messily as he gently pushed you onto the bed.
Barbatos starts with loving kisses to your lips, his tongue taking its time to explore the territory it's been denied for so long before moving down. His kisses trailing down your neck, nipping and sucking marks into the tender skin of your neck.
His hands move along your body, stroking every sensitive spot you have. Barbatos trails his lips down to your chest, taking a nipple into his mouth and running his youngest over it gently. One of his hands moving down to tease your sex, pushing two fingers inside once he grabbed the lube.
Barbatos takes his time worshipping your body before he finally pushes inside, groaning in your ear about how much he's missed you. His pace is steady and desperate. Barbatos has missed you so much he lost all thoughts that didn't include you, how good you feel around him, the wonderful noises you're making under him.
He comes faster than he'd like, painting your insides white. Barbatos slows for a minute, resting, before starting again determined to get you to cum for him. He leans down, kissing you while his hands roam your body again.
Neither of you notice him shift into his demon form until his tail is pushing its way into you, filling you up further. Neither of you mind as it only adds to the wonderful mind numbing pleasure, only jolting a bit at the stretch.
Barbatos feels the familiar need to push becoming harder to ignore, he tries to warn you but all that comes out are moans and whines. He pulls you even closer, burying his face in the crook of your neck. His eggs moving through his tail and pushing into you.
You can feel the eggs starting to push through, getting that familiar fullness that always comes when Barbs lays his clutch in you. You can feel Barbatos's breath strain from all the simulation, his whines sounding soft. BBarbatos's pace starts to get sloppy, your walls tightening around him as his eggs push inside you. The two of you are getting close, he can feel it.
A slightly larger egg pushing inside you pushes you over the edge. Your tightening walls and the egg sliding past pushes him over once again. Barbatos stills, not quite pulling out as eggs continue to push inside you. He lays over you lightly, holding you tightly as you take the rest of his larger than normal cultch. Pulling out once all his eggs are safely inside.
Barbatos lays beside you, pulling you into a spooning position while the two of you recover. His hands lay over your belly bulge, humming in content. Neither of you know how long you stay like that for but all too soon Barbatos is getting up, cleaning everything and you up.
When he's done he puts on his pants, wrapping you up in a blanket and sneaks the two of you to his room ensuring no one will disturb you while you rest. Barbatos lays you on the bed, removing what little he had on and joins you under the covers.
You ask him about the party but he just shushes you, saying you are more important than a party and Lord Diavolo can handle it just fine without him. After all, he needs to focus on you. You silently agree with him, falling off to sleep with his hands softly messaging your tired body.
Barbatos kisses your forehead as you sleep. He got what he wanted, time with you and he wouldn't leave your side no matter what. You are his mate.
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oni-black · 4 months
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Tie her down and over-stim her clit until she passes out. A good owner makes sure their puppy gets there eight hours.
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just-an-average-rock · 2 months
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My guide to shower related hate and sensory issues:
1. Put socks on:
It doesn’t have to be socks, it can be any type of novelty. For example i have worn my favourite shirt, drawing a smile on my belly so that when I look down it’s smiling at me and even putting a small mirror so that I can pretend to be in a commercial.
While it is important to be able to live through boring stuff, if showers for you are overstimulating it might make it easier to have a distraction or something to ground yourself with (that’s why socks are my main go to).
2. Plug your drain
I know this doesn’t rly have anything to do with sensory, but chances are that if your neurodivergent you to have difficulty tracking time. I am very bad at estimating time spent, so seeing the water fill up helps me not waste it fooling around, like a natural clock. Also the two added benefits are that you get to have statics on your water use and that the puddle partially keeps your feet from being harassed by water droplets. I have the opportunity to have a shower bath combo, but if you just have a plain shower blocked off from your floor it’s possible to.
3. Don’t ventilate
This one is kinda iffy, but air currents and temperature changes are my worst nightmare. So if you would rather risk having mold than to ventilate the bathroom go for it! I do keep my door open, but you would have to straggle me before I turn on the ventilator. Also it’s super loud so that’s even worse.
4. Moisturize after
If dry/clean skin drives you nuts I recommend moisturizing after. It will compensate for the dehydration of your skin and add an extra “layer” over your skin.
5. Note your beauty
If you find that having your hair or your skin look a certain way, you could note even after shower to see if that time worked. It may encourage you to take a shower to have the same effect.
6. Drying in the shower
If you do not like changing environments I suggest taking off your clothes in the shower when its on (if they can go in hot water ofc) and keeping a towel very near the entrance so that you can dry yourself directly after closing the faucet. Like that you transition from wet to dry already ready for that state. Idk it’s hard to describe, but do it.
7. Chill
The most important rule is to respect your limits and to be patient with your self no matter the situation. It doesn’t matter if you skip an other shower day or that you smell bad, apply some deodorant if possible and live your day. You have the rest of your life to wash yourself so nobody is forcing you to do it today.
If you really have no choice buy dry shampoo or wash your hair over the sink and armpits with a wash cloth. Small actions are better than nothing
This is manly for ADHD and autistic people but a couple of these tricks can probably help anyone that hates showers in general. So I would be curious to see if they did and also what are your techniques.
Here is a picture of my feet in the shower :)
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drivenbydopamine · 2 years
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I had a very social night on Saturday and now, Monday, I'm stuck in this cycle.
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galaxy-dragon123 · 2 years
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ear defenders are literally so sexy all my bitches that get easily over stimulated by sound I am kissing you on the mouth bitches that use other methods to deal with auditory over stimulation I am kissing you on the mouth yall are so sexy <333333
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apollonianprig · 2 years
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I have one of those Bluetooth vibrators that a partner can control. What if I went over to their place with it in? We were just going to hang out and watch some series. Play some video games. Nothing kinky. I turn it on and see if they get a notification over their phone. I know they saw it because the notification went off. They don’t even acknowledge it. We continue to just hang out. After awhile, the vibrator gets dialed all the way up and I yelp. They grab me by the collar and look down on me.
“You’re such a fucking slut. You can’t go five minutes without thinking about being a wet messy for mommy?”
I can’t respond because I AM a wet mess who’s just thinking about being a hole. They take the vibe out of my hole and place it right on my clit. I scream and try bucking away, but they still have a tight grip on my collar. Immediately overstimulated.
“Little girls who only think with their holes deserve to have abused clits and ruined orgasms.”
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toplesstopics · 6 months
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Today's short: "When the person next to you WON'T STOP SWALLOWING!"
(also on my Instagram @toplessTopics and my Tiktok @toplessTopicsTV)
Trigger warning: swallowing sounds, loud gulping, #misophonia Me every gdmn morning when I sit down to watch some news before I get going for the day, and my dad sits next to me, swallowing his f'king tea SO DMN LOUD I CAN BARELY HEAR THE TV 😫😡😤 #sensoryIssues #overStimulation
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mentoillnesspolls · 1 year
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Vote even if you're NT as long as you get sensory overloads!
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mental-health-advice · 11 months
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Hello.
I have autism, which makes social situations tricky, and i also have trust issues, abandonment issues, and dissociate at inconvenient moments sometimes, which makes socializing trickier. Do you have any tips for not getting overstimulated at social places, like house parties and dinner parties? I tend to dissociate when i get overstimulated, and the dominos just keep falling from there.
Thank you in advance, to whichever admin ends up responding.
(Disclaimer: I have more disorders and neurodivergent parts of me, but they’re not relevant for this topic. I’ll come back for advice on how to be a healthy did system host another time.)
-Blue Words Anon
Hey there,
Even without having autism, being in social situations can be hard for some people.
Given that you not only find being in social situations difficult with being overstimulated at times and that you also find that you at times dissociate, I am wondering if trying to stay grounded may be helpful for you to try?
So for example trying to stay in the here and now and really trying to focus on your breathing when feeling as though you are being over stimulated, try to refocus your attention to your 5 senses in your current surroundings. For example:
what can you hear
what can you feel
what can you see
what can you smell
and if you are eating then what can you taste
Grounding techniques can also be helpful when it comes to dissociation as well as it can help you to keep in touch with what is really going on around you and bringing yourself back to reality.
Taking a break or just talking to one person at a time may also help when you are feeling over stimulated. It can help by taking away some of the stuff that is happening around you and making it a bit easier to not allow yourself to become so overwhelmed by everything if that makes sense? It’s always OK to take a step back or have a break and have a quiet moment to yourself too, a lot of people do this and it can help you to really stop and then get back into things when you are ready to do so.
I really hope that this has helped a bit and please do let us know if we can help to support you in any other way!
I’m thinking of you and hope that you are going well!
Take care,
Lauren
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kiralive · 1 year
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Today has been a bad sensory day. The first way I can tell if I’m going to have a bad sensory day is if everything has the same volume. And what I mean by that is when boiling water and yelling sound like the same volume. It sucks. And here’s how I try to combat it:
1) If I can I take a long shower. This usually can reset my sensory issues and my emotions at the same time
2) If I can’t take a shower or the shower doesn’t work, I put in my headphones and put on white noise. My favorite is a rainforest. Apple devices come with this in their accessibility features. You can even layer it over music
3)Which brings me to my third and final attempt before I give up. I have a playlist that I layer my white noise with. My go to song on repeat right now is Lenny by Stevie Ray Vaughan. But any song that reduces your anxiety works.
Hope this helps!
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beingthisgayisart · 6 months
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Floor time is self care
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waymond-wang · 7 months
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SPIDER-MAN: ACROSS THE SPIDER-VERSE (2023) dir. Joaquim Dos Santos, Justin K. Thompson, & Kemp Powers ↳ Everyone keeps telling me how my story is supposed to go. ↳ INSP.
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