#or hit me up directly

[gayvecchio]

Frannie, you are in over your head. Meaning? Meaning, guys like him don't marry girls like you. That's fairy tale. And girls like you get hurt, and guys like him don't even know it, and that's life.

#due south #ray vecchio #francesca vecchio #benton fraser #oof the way you can see the truth of this hit ray so hard #good for frannie for saying all of this and sticking up for herself because ray was being an unfair jerk #especially since he was projecting his own fears and insecurities about losing fraser and taking it out on frannie #ray's behavior here only makes sense to me if he's acting out of jealousy #because he doesn't seem the type to get involved in his siser's love life (unless she's being harmed in some way) #and what he says about fraser directly contradicts what we know ray actually thinks about him #i can't imagine ray sees fraser as the type to 'love 'em and leave 'em for lack of a better phrase. he knows he's not like that #ray is the one in over his head and worried about being left heartbroken (and not being good enough for fraser to stick around for) #if fraser was involved with frannie; ray loses ever getting a chance with him either way whether it works out or not #if the potential relationship worked out ray would have to sit by and watch the man he loves be with his sister #and if it doesn't work out (which it likely wouldn't lbr) he loses his frienship as well because it would never be the same after #and the fact remains that fraser will likely go back to canada one day and leave ray behind #and not realize just how much it will hurt ray when he goes #AND FRASER IS LISTENING TO ALL OF THIS #HE'S JUST ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE GLASS #THE PERSON RAY DREAMS ABOUT #SO CLOSE BUT STILL OUT OF REACH #i can't with them #frannie is the only brave one here i love her #ds30below

[starflungwaddledee]

Hi sorry to bother you but I just wanted to say that as an autistic person Starstruck makes me want to cry. I love her so much let her live the happy life she deserves with people that accept and care about her. That “otherness” or feeling of being “incorrect” and being seen as suspicious/ostracized for it was absolutely NAILED and it HURTS SO GOOD. I just really wanted you to know that. It’s nice to see someone like me in media, especially in something like the Kirby franchise. Thank you.

ohhhhh i am SO thrilled to receive this message because i am autistic, and by extension so is starstruck, and this was entirely on purpose! i'm so happy that you feel i nailed it! thank YOU for letting me know this; it's the highest praise i could have hoped to receive!

this was intentional autistic representation by an autistic creator and i am over the moon that it's connecting with you! her inability to "have the right magical signature" and her "mimicry of the signatures around her in attempt to fit in" is explicitly a (rather ham-fisted, if i'm being honest) autistic parallel, especially towards masking.

there are obviously parts of her story that aren't explicitly parallel (she is still a little alien after all, and there's going to be Fun Dramatic Aspects that my real life autistic experience sadly lacks), but for what it's worth i'm really happy that this purposeful allegory was noticed!

thank you again so much for writing in, it means the world

#also ngl but i just think like the entire kirby cast is pretty autistic in their own way #like we ALL know meta knight for SURE but the others too. at least imo!! #i have actually been wondering if folks were picking up on this tbh. it seemed so apparent to me but that's bc i made it so i knew #i've had some say 'oh it's the social anxiety' which.... yes. also correct. i also have that too & it is that as WELL but it's incidental #i think this is the first time that someone has directly compared it to autism. it's nice. thank you! #representation in media sure does continue to be like... a Certain Way. but i think you can just hit everybody with the autism beam #it's morally correct. #asks #starstruck dee #starflungs personal tag

[skitskatdacat63]

Fernando Alonso × Unconventional Drinking Implements

#if i had a nickel for every time nano drank out of a trophy id have two nickels. that's not a lot but its weird it happened twice #dont ask me if theres more i didnt have the mental capacity to look up all his podium pics...theres 20 years worth #but if you do have more somehow miraculousy do of course hit me up #this is one of these things i think that youd have to experience by watching a lot of races bcs finding it by keywords is impossible imo #though i did look up various trophies and now i want to make a tier list of trophies by drinkablity 😭 #but yeah some people in the tags of the pics i posted were like 'he did exactly what i wanted to do![drink from the big cup basically]' #so this is like: hey! not the first time hes done it 🤭 #but like if these are the only two times hes done it thats hilarious #bcs its been 18 yrs so was he suddenly like 'oh my god wait i just remembered what i can do with this' #but like the 2005 is the wcc win so it makes sense why he did smth so over the top #but this one i really really feel like he let the impulsive thoughts win and was just 'this looks like a giant cup....' #not pictured: flavio also drinking from the trophy. he was so indulgent of his boy 🥹 #also i wonder if theres footage of him pouring in the champagne in 2023 cause i didnt even know he drank from it until i was looking at pic #cause thats my fav thing about the 2005 one is watching him trying to aim and pour it from way too high hahaha #oh also there is the brazil 2005 gp as well but he doesnt directly drink from it so i dont think it fits well here #but at the same time he really is looking at trophies like 'hmmm how well would this work as a cup' #f1 #formula 1 #fernando alonso #2023 dutch gp #2005 chinese gp #fa14 #we do a little bit of f1 #formula one

[runawaymun]

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#sorry let me rant real quick in the tags #cw personal #once again hitting an insurance pothole bc the psych says she accepts my OHP plan HOWEVER the therapy group she is contacted with says #THEY don't #they only accept the insurance if it's through my employer but NOT through the government?????????????? #so there's still some kind of payment??? #anyway I want to scream why is this so complicated #like will she take my insurance or not who's right here #anyway called her back directly and went to voicemail so now I've done all I can for now #why the hell is this so hard man #the person on the phone didn't know really how to explain #once again no one knows what they're talking about #like can y'all not communicate and figure this out? #AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH #i need to get an ADHD eval before my next PCP appointment in june so that they will continue giving me my meds #and the psychiatry through the hospital has a limited number of visits that insurance will cover #*contracted #not retyping all of that #and once again the only reason this is so stressful is because the psychiatry group at the hospital fumbled the communication ball last tim #and the psychiatrist I was with never put the ADHD on the chart #and now somehow it's MY responsibility to fix that> #UGH #like I am grateful to have some kind of coverage but holy shit is the US healthcare system in shambles #the bureaucracy is INSANE #i had to just sit down and put my head in my hands for a second #and then go 'right okay nothing i can do about that rn moving on' #uGH #literally said 'what the FUCK' out loud a couple times #like not on the phone after I hung up obvs

[apamates]

Maybe he found something more important to him than karuta. Is there such a thing? Like what? Nothing comes to mind, give me an example. Like a girlfriend. Arata?! Having a girlfriend? No way! We're already highschoolers, we won't be playing karuta forever. Things are different... compared to then.

#chihayafuru #chihayafuru kami no ku #wataya arata #ayase chihaya #mashima taichi #taichihayarata #chihayafuru live action #yuki suetsugu #suzu hirose #shuhei nomura #mackenyu #arata mackenyu #i'm just not normal about the scene before this where taichi brings up arata just to be cynical about his distance #and directly after gets hit in the face by nostalgia: truly cinematic gold #he's so forlorn lmao #that hallway scene was two people talking about their shared crush and you cannot convince me otherwise #i just heard today it was arata's birthday so i had to rush and make this #first time adding subtitles to gifs and boy it was a whole thing #i started watching the live actions without expectations but i was surprised to really love them #the way the key events change from who's the central character makes the retelling really interesting #i love how here it's arata who gets picked up from the snow #my gifs #my stuff #drama edit

[mcybree]

martyn based arc at 22:14

(I wanted this for future reference, transcript of Martyn’s defense below.)

I’m gonna go with ‘not the asshole’! Bros before hoes, and bros before bones. It’s an age old rule, it’s an age old tradition. And this friend, supposed friend, completely went against that. And why wouldn’t they wanna join the company, the kingdom, whatever it is? Why not? I think they should.

Your friends know you better than your partner ever will in those early stages, and if they can see that they’re a wrongin’ from the get-go… It’s not nice doing the ‘ha, told you so,’ or anything like that. I think the friend should’ve listened to the friend. I think the friend should’ve listened to the author.

‘Are you biased?’ No, this isn’t me. So… Don’t know what you’re talking about. I dunno, man.

‘You’re the asshole if you have to gaslight people to make your point, your point is invalid.’ Nah, but some people need to see the world through a different lens. That’s why you have to… sort of… tell a little white lie, and then when that person rebuttals it, and all the truth comes out. It’s like poking at the beehive, right? Poking it’s not pleasant, it’s not nice, and you might get stung, BUT at least, you know, this all goes through.

[Reading chat.] ‘They were husbands, how is that early stages?’ They got married fast, I don’t know what to tell you. They were married after the first day. I saw an edit on the post afterwards, and they said (…) they got married after a day, so this was like a shotgun wedding. This was a shotgun wedding, felt a bit cult-y, felt a bit, y’know… bit weird and a bit rushed. So, I dunno, man.

#deranged.fh.posting #<- for my own reference #sorry. demons made me transcribe this #the white lie bit is really interesting… obviously the original AITA post here isn’t written very graciously towards Martyn #And makes his ‘Scott is an asshole’ claim entirely unfounded rather than directly following Scott hitting Jimmy around. #But martyn did lie to Jimmy to try and split him and Scott up *after* the first attempt already failed #So this is interesting in regards to that #anyways. yeah im still trying to use tumblr less I just needed this in the bree fh database

[pocketramblr]

Dash simulator

Blog 1: lol anyone else seeing a lot of strawberries in new recipes now? sometimes its fun but i really dont get the appeal of adding it to everything. why did you make strawberry garlic bread

Blog 2: u kno im not a fan of strawberries, i really like the rich sweet and sour notes from oranges, oranges and chocolate is such a good combo. i altered a recipe for a smoothie with oranges last week and it was soooo good ill give you my notes if you want Reblogged by: Blog 1: ahaha yesss i love chocolate and oranges

Blog 3: I canNOT believe the hate im seeing to strawberries right now, like, you know guys know the rule don't like don't bake right?? you know you can hit the back button right?? honestly what's wrong with yall

Open draft- wait guys you know there's a difference between leaving a comment on a recipe saying you hate strawberries and the recipe writer should never use them, and going to your own blog to say you don't really like strawberries, without naming any specific people or recipes right? you know there's a difference right?? - Save - Post - Discard

Draft discarded

Blog 4: why is everyone jumping on the strawberry hate train right now. what is wrong with you. Reblogged by: Blog 5: I knowwww like guys some people stop baking because of reading things like that, please stop it, if you don't like strawberries you can be quiet about it

Open draft- im so sorry if anyone's getting sent mean messages or comments about what they're writing and baking, but i'm literally not seeing any of that and if you are, please use the block button. but someone making a post on their own blog is not that, and if you can't see the irony in you being allowed to complain on personal blogs but not them i can't help you... - save- post- discard

Draft discarded

Blog 2: are strawberries even in season?

Blog 6: woo cherry pie!

#trying so hard to be a blog 6 rn #im discarding those drafts #but clearly it has been too much for me as this one is getting posted #like i really am sorry if any. strawberry antis are directly being rude to anyone #that isnt ok #but i have seen zero of that on my dash or in the tag #i saw a few blogs saying lol they don't like strawberries #and then i saw a ton of blogs saying how dare there be any negativity at all #and seeming to act as if those blog posts were specifically about disliked fic authors i mean recipe makers #which... if any of them were... i didn't see it because of how i blocked large swaths of the fandom like three years ago #when i realized that it was determined to blow up a discourse topic every single month #and if there are people doing that. please. do what i did. block en mass #if you open a recipe that turns out to have strawberries in it and you cant hit the back button but instead leave a nasty comment that is a #you problem #but also if you see a random blog post about someone saying they dislike strawberries- hate strawberries even- and you feel personally #attacked and start crying about how now you never want to bake a strawberry shortcake again and they're so mean #that is also. a you problem. #'what fandom is this pocket' dont worry about it #not one i have any mutuals in #which. considering the mass blocking and the annoying chronic discourse explosions. perhaps is not surprising

[lieutenant-amuel]

Elena of Avalor is genuinely such a good show.

#Personal #You know I've never forgotten about this show for a single day even after it ended #Just thinking about it makes me happy already but I recently listened to all the songs again #and directly interacting with the show and rewatching the clips from it hits so much different #I really need to do a full rewatch someday I haven't watched the show in ages #Just episodes I love most or something random for the content making purposes which is certainly not the same as watching for pure enjoymen #I probably realized it long ago but I'm currently in the 'analyzing my life' state of mind #and this show means so much to me on a personal level too because it brings up so many important topics to me as a person #And it just does it so well it's clear to see that creators actually cared about the story they wanted to tell #And really EoA also has absolutely fascinating and unique worldbuilding #and in the combination of important not trivial messages and dynamic layered characters this is just such a solid show #It really deserved to get more recognition #I wouldn't even say attention because lots of attention may cause more harm than good #It's actually more about recognition and acknowledgement #Really I'm not even talking about what a huge impact being a part of the fandom has had on my life #it's worth the whole separate post #I'm just talking about the show itself and how great and meaningful it is #Anyway EoA warms my heart and I'm so happy I encountered this show

[tearlessrain]

seriously can catastrophes stop happening for five minutes my brain is already fried from the ones we're already experiencing

#I fucking. missed d&d tonight by accident #I straight up forgot #and just didn't show up to the session #my sleep schedule is absolutely fucked #I should be sleeping now but brain won't shut up #my creative output is the lowest it's ever been and I've been in some level of depressive funk since like early january #I am just deeply unfathomably exhausted #like mentally and spiritually #all the time #my memory and sense of time are both shit #my spelling is worse than it used to be for some reason?? #I really don't know what to do to make my brain start functioning again it's frankly worrying me #I couldn't even handle college so it should come as no surprise that I'm reacting poorly to the world being a perpetual screaming trash fir #and yet #idk it's been hitting again lately that I have never succeeded at anything in my life and just keep tripping and falling up for some reason #fucking everyone is in hell right now and with my overall success rate I should be dead in a ditch but I'm actually doing spectacularly #due to a series of improbable accidents and weird circumstances that happened to turn out in my favor instead of completely fucking me #aside from the looming spectre of my various failed attempts to have some kind of life trajectory #it just doesn't feel like this can keep up forever #like surely at some point the luck has got to run out I can't just keep living like some kind of folkloric trickster archetype #but my motivation and sense of purpose kind of died after the last failed attempt so I'm still just here #doing whatever this is #maybe I should drive out to the coast #maybe staring at the ocean would fix me I've been away from it for too long #I mean it can't make me worse #I should wait until further into summer though so I don't have to drive back in the dark #everyone around here has trucks with those goddamn LED headlights and I've got a little sedan that's directly in their blast zone

[vampcaprisun]

i knew mizora was big on the whole treating wyll like a dog thing and i already fucking despised it, but nothing could’ve prepared me for hearing her call herself his “handler”. being a bitch to her isn’t enough anymore i need to destroy her and i need to do it now. wyll baby i’m so sorry she talked to you like that i love you so much.

#mizora when i catch you mizora #ive seen that scene so many times now but its never hit me as hard as it did that time #something about that comment just. made my blood boil even more than usual #like i feel like it takes the dehumanization to another level. it’s not just calling him pup or an offhand comment about a leash #it’s like. directly asserting that he’s an animal and she’s the one who sics him on people #and i feel like she says it seriously. like she means that #like calling her his patron is offensive because that would imply more agency and humanity in him than she thinks he has #which. makes me watch to throw up. to be quite honest #brb smashing my computer screen in a futile attempt to maim and murder and destroy her #wyll ravengard #mizora bg3 #bg3 #baldur’s gate 3

[kindheartedgummybears]

Canya Tlarke.

#I HAVE LIKE EVERY IMAGE OF HER AND TABI UNDER THE SUN ITS SO EMBARRASSING ATUALLY OMG #if anyone needs any references for tanya or tabi hit me up😭🙏 #this is going into drafts for who knows how long #shes so ominous and for what😭🙏 #she keeps staring directly into the camera and it frightens me. #the t's are such... fascinating creatures! #Little Hope #Tanya Clarke #12/11/23 #<- date of draft #SHES FINALLY BEING RELEASED INTO THE WILD #GO!! RUN FREE YOU STRANGE CREATURE!!!

[asleepinawell]

the funniest moment I ever had in a trust was in the hydaelyn fight when I got a stack marker and all the scions came running over to me and then. then. at the very last second every single one of them ran out from under the stack to group in the middle (AI anticipating the next attack I presume) and the stack went off .0001 seconds after they ABANDONED me before I could catch up and the wol's mom resundered the shit out of my poor lizard boy. the sheer and utter betrayal of that moment. exquisite. hydaelyn was like yeah you guys should probably just get on the moon ship and gtfo

#ffxiv #ffxivmp #mp #it was my second time trying to with trust and had been months since the first time I'd done it #so I didn't remember the fight well either #BUT ALSO urianger ran me over with his aoes twice #twice!!!! #I swear that man gets an aoe maker and runs directly at me he did this in the dead ends as well #the second funniest moment in a trust was in malikeh's well #when we jumped off the cliff #and g'raha was like 'well struck' in a pained voice at the bottom #and alisaie was like 'you'll pay for this!' #I was like okay team that is what we call the ground and you hit it first #scion ai is the secret extra mechanic you have to learn in trusts 😔 #alisaie ran the look away in front of me in lapis last night #I was like alphinaud your sister just tried to kill me you'd better shield my ass to make up for it #I'd finished leveling pally to 90 a while back but never tried it #and suddenly had like 4 new blade attacks and was like ?????? #love them though

[llatimeria]

just doing some thinking about the adderall shortage

#People are having their lives ruined LMAO! #It just feels completely unacceptable that this was allowed to happen #and I think the reason more people aren't up in arms about it is because it's /just adhd/ #assflash newshole. Apparently adderall also treats narcolepsy which is a new thing I just learned #But that's beside the point because adhd is completely debilitating to many people LMAO #People are losing their jobs. Dropping out of schools. Destroying relationships... #It makes me so ANGRY #I don't think this is the kind of thing you can sue for but I wish it was #I wish people were getting any form of restitution for this. Just... Anything #Like. Imagine being on meds for years without an issue and then a shortage hits and you start getting symptoms again. #You miss a few too many deadlines. Don't complete a few too many assignments. Take a few too many mental health days #because it's exhausting to live like this #But somehow this is all a You Problem and it's Your Fault and you deserve to be PUNISHED???? for this??? #if you failed a college class this year because you weren't able to access your lifesaving medication: #in a good world you'd get your tuition reimbursed #and people who lost their jobs should be paid unemployment directly from the bank accounts of adderal manufacturers

[goldenpinof]

does anyone want to find someone from Dan's team on Feb 10-11 and ask what the fuck is going on with merch bundles on live.danielhowell.com? like, why they are available only in a handful of countries, and no one else has access to them.

team aka merch people, Martyn, Rosie, Dan's manager (if they are gonna be there)

i get that the only people who can be slightly interested are europeans who suddenly don't have access to what UK, Germany and the Netherlands have.

#i'm not even asking if someone wants to ask Dan directly during m&g #i doubt anyone is interested lol #but hit me up. i'll happily give you a rundown. i don't bite :) #wad dvd #we're all doomed #dan and phil

[kedsandtubesocks]

went and lived my best y/n life today and I almost cried

#y’all he was so fckn sweet and hit it off with my sister and they talked SO MUCH TOGETHER #and I was an embarrassing giggling MESS I MISSED MY SHOT!!!!! #what broke me was how directly he stares at you & takes the time to fully give you his attention?? #like when I asked to take a photo he directly turned to me and even after we took the photo he again made sure to look AT ME AND NOD #I still haven’t recovered I’m sorry #Erika shut up tag #din 🤎 #Din 🩶

[rowenabean]

Went to a medical talk I wasn't feeling tonight purely so I can leverage the gossip machine (I'm not going to deliberately steal someone from another practice for my patients that would be poaching... but if they should Just So Happen to hear that there might be a job going... well that's none of my business is it)

#to be clear i am well aware this is not my job #but i also know it's hard to recruit to this town and i am attached to my patients at this point #i would like to know i'm leaving them in good hands #(is also because there's a lot of people in town who i don't necessarily want to tell directly that I'm leaving but it would be nice for #them to know and if they hit me up for a drink before i leave i wouldn't say no #and a large number of them are doctors) #(town is small enough that literally every doctor in town was invited to this event) #rowena adventures