#or being lumped in as a Girl

[hella1975]

it's been pointed out on here before that a lot of terf arguments are actually rooted in sexist idealology that feminists fought and died to unnormalise decades ago and that's its own kettle of fish but one thing i also find very frustrating about this so called 'radical' feminism is that it's so... defeatist? like the moment you categorically label an entire section of society as Bad and Inherently Evil then there's also the implication that nothing can be done about it, and it completely takes all accountability away. saying all men are evil is just another way of saying boys will be boys. he raped her because he's a man. he hit her because he's a man. he didn't listen because he's a man - it's almost offensively oversimplified. there's no point trying to fix this issue in society because men are just Like That, okay! so now what? it's not like they're going anywhere, so you just accept that 50% of the population are evil and will forever treat you terribly and there's nothing to be done about it bc they're biologically predisposed to it? like is that fr the argument here? you're soooo radical for that

#this is coming from someone who used to very genuinely be a misandrist #ironically it was only when i started actually analysing my own feminism that i got MORE confrontational with men #and started respecting my boundaries a lot better BECAUSE i started holding them accountable again #like when men treat me like shit nowadays i dont just write it off as 'what did you expect? he's a man' i get MAD about it #because i EXPECT BETTER FROM THEM even if it's just tiny shit women have to deal with daily #i hold them to just as high a standard as im held to and i make them take accountability when they dont meet that #and whether you realise it or not even on a subconscious level the MOMENT you black-and-white blanket statement all men as bad #you stop holding them accountable. #like it is literally just boys will be boys. do terfs seriously not realise they're sending feminism BACKWARDS #like if a girl came to me with her trauma and people - other girls no less - tried to comfort her with 'yeah all men are evil' #id be fucking furious. like no he did that because he was a piece of shit that had it normalised to him that women arent to be respected #dont you dare let him off the hook with something as simple and uncritical as 'he's a man' #i promise you men like that will MUCH prefer a blanket statement such as 'all men are as bad as each other' #than actually being point blank told they're an abuser or a rapist. because being lumped together is comfortable and even empowering #wheras isolating their behaviour with words that are Bad and Ugly (LIKE 'rapist') is not comfortable at all and has heavy connotations #idk i dont think radical feminism is always bad on its own it can be v liberating. just terfs and misandrists that i have a problem with #dropping this post in a piranha tank and closing tumblr knowing im gonna have some thirty year old karen yelling at me within 5 mins #i probably wont respond to any terf comments bc they literally mentally exhaust me with their stupidity #but that also depends on my mood and ability to keep my mouth shut LMFAO we shall see

[lab-gr0wn-lambs]

I know I said Carol can do whatever the hell she wants, but the way she keeps saying "you should hate me. please don't hate me" instead of just "sorry" and more importantly "are you ok?" is driving me nuts

#like I get it. you *are* sorry. but you sound so selfish rn babygirl #actually I'm not even conviced you *are* sorry about doin Lydia like that. #keep being a reckless madwoman. I love it. but if you're gonna get all remorseful then do it right #and the way she's only hanging out with Ezekiel now that Daryl's not talking to her? #dude deserves so much better #she didn't even ask what his neck lump thing *was*. they just sad-fucked and then she pissed off #and Daryl- #imagine you get your best friend's other best friend trapped in a cave. possibly killed. and you grab him and go 'call me a naughty girl' #now is not the fucking time Carol #wrong response. try again. #didn't even say nothin to Kelly or Yumiko #feels like you only care because Daryl's mad at you #and like you wouldn't even care about Connie or Magna if it wasn't directly your fault #anyways #twd liveblog #the walking dead

[gongedtornado]

help girl i got too silly <\3 (overthought every interaction ever)

#im okay i think #(lying) #hoooh boy #ill be alr but girl (/gnc) what the fuck is this #nahh i could’ve had a NORMAL FUNCTIONING brain but yknow what i got instead ? #a sentient lump of meat. that likes to imagine scenarios that will *never* happen and form ideas of what people think of it #even if like. yknow. ITS IRRATIONAL AS FUCK AND LIKELY WRONG ABOUT EVERYTHING #see. if i was a house cat i wouldnt have to worry bout this shit . just be kitty. lick paw. take nap. eat. in whatever order i desire. #oh and be silly and cute. #‘’embarrassing myself in front of a customer? overthinking what a coworker said?’’ #‘’eeerm. oh? you wanted to carry on about your day?’’ #‘’too bad. here’s the underlying feeling of dread for the next few hours. have fun!’’ #I HATE BEING SENTIENT RAHHH RAHHH #I COULD HAVE BEEN A LITTLE GUY DOING LITTLE THINGS. WHAT IS THIS!!!! WHAT THE FUCK! #i know i should be a big guy and act like it. but sometimes you gotta like. be a little insane. #okay anyways anxiety rant over. if for some reason you read my rant while i was Probably loosing my mind um. #1. i am sooo sorry you had to witness my illposting #2. i give you a little smooch (/p) for sticking with me . I bite you . (/pos) #kazzy complains #me when im cringe on main

[seaquestions]

im fuckinj losing it again

#incoherent turtle noises #‘’isnt it just part of normal life that things go up and down sometimes’’ yes. however. #i feel like my Regular state is Down. and sometimes i get a little ‘hee hee im a real normal human being!!’ high. and then it goes away. #you just dont get it cos u only see me when im actively trying not to look like i regularly bite myself. #sorry that its hard to believe. im trying to not show vulnerability girl. anyway. #im 0-2 on these sleeping pills. but i dont think its their fault that my brain is fuckin Blasting lock the taskbar rn. #that is. rock the casbah but lock the taskbar. with the video where the cursor does a lil flip. #heehee..i just wanna be a real girl but im a lump of flesh stapled together into sentience… ahhh.. #ugh at least i used to post cool art between my episodes. now ur just getting them full blast.

[hartmannyoukaigirl]

Im ngl so tired of exams and just want to draw and play vidya games but i heard a classmate loudly ranting about how 'this is all useless and we are all gonna end up in our husbands's homes with 10 kids anyways' so basically i will be dedicating very second to studying the most complex of subjects to get the best grades and prove her and every girl and woman who thinks like this wrong.

#i literally was revising while she was ranting like #idk maybe if you Studied it wouldn't be so hard ?? and maybe it IS a personal skill issue #and has nothing to do w being female. #i hate women who geniunely have inferior brains try to lump ALL women with them too like girl thats just you. #its not that im insulting trad life but let it be a choice atleast. loudly encouraging the group to give up and not bother studying bc #'we all will end up in the same place' is so annoying. #some of us actually want a better life

[andromeda3116]

am i or am i not watching the og inuyasha in the year of our lord two thousand and twenty-three? who knows? not me, for sure. i would never. how dare you accuse me of such a thing.

#inuyasha #old-school anime #i actually didn't ever watch it when it was coming out #it was a little too... Extremely Anime for my tasted #it was what the catgirl who was just a little too weird for me to really be friends with was hardcore into #and i was in that middle school phase of ''don't be too weird'' so i was like ha-ha nooooo i would never #even though i was low-key deeply interested in finding out more about it #anyway #repressed middle school me who was terrified of being lumped in with ''that weird girl with cat ears'' is thriving tonight #i'm sorry leanne you were bolder than me and flew your flag high and proud and that rocked in retrospect #braver than any us marine

[weathernerdmando]

If I had a nickel for every coworker I've had who's said "men are disgusting/variation on that" I'd have two nickels (tbh more than that but :/) which isn't a lot but it's annoying it's happened twice when both have been aware I'm trans and NOT A GIRL. Seriously, the second one said it like 20 minutes after asking my pronouns and getting he/they in response.

#trans #trans dude #transandrophobia #its misandrist type bullshit and im sick ofnit #im not a girl stop lumping me in with them to make yourselves comfortable with being shitty

[lindwurmkai]

I wish I could opt out of posts telling me I am supposedly some kind of Intuitive Misogyny Understander because I "grew up as a girl" or some shit

Like get the fuck out of my house tbh

#the fact that i fundamentally don't understand women's experiences and can't even imagine what it's like to be one is kinda the whole point #my mother instilled in me a sort of rudimentary and flawed understanding of feminism but i still thought sexist comedians were hilarious #because they were all talking about not understanding women and literally telling all these stories i could relate to so much #which in retrospect was more due to being autistic than not being a girl but nevertheless it felt so good to feel seen #my entire life has revolved around being incredibly confused because i DID NOT understand girls and DID NOT have girl experiences #but i also didn't have boy experiences so i had to be some kind of fucked up freak right? #cool for you if you feel differently but don't lump me in under AFAB or transmasc and act like i'm supposed to get it #i stopped calling myself transmasc for a while because of this! but unfortunately that is indeed what i am #the whole thing leaves a disgusting taste in my mouth #weirdo chronicles

[eats-the-stars]

my sister’s boyfriend wants me to stop rapidly crawling over furniture while navigating the house because he hates efficiency an he’s jealous of my spider-like agility and limbs

#the quickest path to your destination is a straight line bro #logic is on my side #he's just envious of my skill at scuttling and rapid crawling #and the fact that my hands and feet are both strong and tiny #so that i can scuttle right across the countertops without displacing the kitchenware #also not my problem that my small body makes dog beds cozy and suited to my curled form #or that i make barely a lump under a couch blanket rendering me invisible to his inferior vision #maybe if he exercised more situational awareness #he wouldn't scream like a little girl at 3am #when i wake up from napping in the dog bed under the kitchen table #and rapidly and efficiently scuttle across the kitchen over the counter and then over the couch to where my phone is charging #is it my fault that my limbs are limber and my movements swift? #does the fault lie with my sensitivity to light that moves me to dark places? #no it's clearly not any of those things #no one else in this household screams like they're being ax murdered when i get up to fetch my phone

[katnissgirlsmakedo]

that was a lie my parents won’t ruin THIS episode by coming home. unfortunately i will probably watch a third episode

#well. ruin is a strong word. i just don’t like how they don’t perceive stuff i like #ignore the second don’t #i’m the baby of the family so everything i like is automatically juvenile and it doesn’t help that i like a lot of things that are juvenile #but like no one in this house can conceptualize ‘family’ media. like if there’s no curse words or sex it’s just For Kids #like get serious y’all just watched harry potter with my sister and no one has ever acted like she’s childish for liking that shit #like i KNOW it’s just because of misogyny 85% of the time because especially in the fantasy genre girl’s stories are seen as more childish #simply due to being about and being written for girls. where boys stories get to be gender neutral because they’re the default #and then because i’m me and 80% of everything i enjoy is about women. the other 20% doesn’t make enough of an impression to not be lumped in #so even though THIS show isn’t about women it’s still something I’M watching and it’s fantasy and it doesn’t have curse words or sex so by #default it’s girly and childish. and that sucks already but sucks even worse because now my family is gonna go about their lives thinking #that bbc merlin is girl stuff. and therefore even remotely feminist. which makes me want to kill myself because i’ve never heard something #less true in my life. like YES i am the annoying girly feminist girl’s girl of this family YES i watch bbc merlin NO that show is not that!! #anyway. that’s annoying. i love how it’s only not stupid to like something in the fantasy genre when it’s harry potter or game of thrones. #like that’s awesome. #we should all kill ourselves. but before that we should publicly execute jk rowling and george rr martin #like i firmly believe jkr should be killed but not for the terf stuff just because she made up the most annoying franchise ever. #beth.txt

[heir-less]

Why is Lady Louise being included in the “these are children” narrative? Nah, 18 is old enough to tussle, especially with a fashion sense like that.

#maybe it's because i'm a tall black girl #but i was considered an 'adult' by the time i was 13 with people saying i looked mature and older #so seeing an almost 19 year old being lumped in with a bunch of 1 - 10 year olds #is just completely eye-roll worthy she's an adult #she's not fully matured but she's no a fucking child anymore

[srdcovka]

my school noticeboard let us know that there is new subject available since they cancelled 2 electives, i already signed up but now me and my friends arent sure if it's for first years cause it's not mentioned in the system 😭😭😭

#end this whole institution im SO DONE #i emailed the admin who put it on noticeboard to find out whether it's for first years or no but like GIRL #i assumed it is bc it was lumped together w the message abt two subjects that only we have being cancelled SO ??? #ugh

[zanathan-aisling]

my consciousness tells me i should apologize towards that person i got pissy at due to dungeon meshi shipping stuff.

#no i haven’t seen the anime yet i’ve just gotten older wiser and no longer feel a disgusting dreadful lump in my gut about people implying #laios and marcille are cute together lmfao #they’ve got a ton of great bits in all honesty. plus the advantage of actually interacting a lot #the point stands re: sillyboy pushing the boundaries of Uptight Girl being a dogshit trope but it also stands as i was aware then that #that dynamic nigh-on completely stops being a thing and in all honesty does not inform the characters that much #(those last two tags being things i’ve Always felt. no new arguments made there no fresh revelations etc) #i’m literally so much like jesus now #ANYWAYS SHES THE LIGHT OF MY LIFE AND frankly deserves better than marcille wink wonk BUT I WISH FALIN HAD MORE WRITING GOING INTO HERRRRRRR #AAAAAAAAAAA #FALIN BE MORE THAT BETTER LAIOS AND A PLOT DEVICE SLASH OBJECT OF MOTIVATION CHALLENGE AAAAA #also for the record shipping both la/cille and fa/cille at the same time or like. in same continuity sucks ass #like the second kind -the nonpolycular and usually ‘one dies’ kind is INTERESTING from a narrative perspective but fuckin hell i’m not sure #if i’m wierd for reacting to it so bad or if its just genuinely that fucking wierd as a form of like #inlawcest? oh my god i hate that word kill it die bad bad #don’t be coinin’ wierd niche forms of overcomplicated transgressions near me myself!!!!

[justanothergeneralkrow]

Still remember the first time I realized I was trans and my first thought was, "Fuck I'm not gay anymore..."

#good news is after some self reflection I realized I'm not male or female #bad news is I'm not male or female #It was the ultimate sense of relief finally realizing why I never liked it when I was called a boy #but also why I never really liked being lumped in with the girls #then the inevitable sense of dread realizing I have no place in this world cause I'm not cis :))))

[ickadori]

i think yuji has a thing for spoiled, bratty girls. the ones with borderline bad attitudes, who roll their eyes more than they smile, and scowl and huff when things don’t go their way.

sure, it can be annoying sometimes, but you’re never like that for long, not with him at least. you try, but all he has to do is wrap those steel arms around you and gush about how pretty you are, how he loves you so much, how much he missed seeing you and then you’re like putty in his hands.

you’re sweet, bashful, doting, clingy, glued to his side and rubbing yourself against him like some baby kitten. it’s cute, you’re cute, and he’s head over heels for you.

but like all things, that doesn’t last long either. your moods are fickle, changing at the drop of a hat, and your little outbursts can be explosive, sometimes offensive. yuji usually lets you get your frustrations out, lets you rant and rave while he sits and listens, and then when you’re all tuckered out he’s dragging you into his embrace and whispering comforting words into your skin followed by sweet kisses.

sukuna always tells him how soft he is when he does that - she’ll never respect you if you keep letting her off like that, he says. put her in her fucking place, he hisses. back in my era, the only time a woman opened her mouth around me was to suck my cock, he reminisces.

but yuji isn’t like sukuna, he doesn’t need to do those things to get you back how he likes you most, sweet and soft and eager for his love..but sometimes you really try his patience, so he figured he could do something, nothing close to the cruel things sukuna had suggested, but something to let you know that you couldn’t just do and say whatever you wanted all the time.

he figured he’d take something away from you, like you’d do with a misbehaving child, something that you loved and couldn’t get enough of, no matter how much he gave it to you.

his cock, obviously.

“yuji!” he’s had you like this for a while, your stomach flush against his bedroom wall as he forces you to stand while he squats behind you. you’re dressed in a little skirt and an equally as little top, no panties in sight. the skirt is hiked up around your hips, and he swallows past the lump in his throat as he thrusts the pink dildo into your drooling cunt once again, his ears twitching at the lewd squelch that sounds.

your thighs tremble, knees buckling, and he lets his free hand come down against your ass, his lips soothing the sting after when you let out a whimper. “m’sorry,” he mumbles against your skin, “but you have to stand up straight for me, baby.”

“mm-nn,” you shake your head, and yuji tsks, wrist pulling back to slide the dildo out until only the top remains, and then he’s quickly slamming back in, lips still peppering kisses along the curve of your ass. “ah! i want you, yuji. i wanna feel you..”

“you don’t get my cock until you start being nice to me.” he builds up a steady pace, his breathing ragged as he listens to the squelching coming from your cunt. needing to see it and not just hear it, he pulls his head back, marveling at the way your pussy grips onto the silicone, your slick coating the shaft along with his fingers. “such a pretty pussy for such a mean girl.”

“s-shut up!” he sees you clench, feels the resistance when he goes to push the silicone cock back into you, and he practically salivates as he watches a fresh wave of slick ooze down the shaft.

“see? so mean to me… i shouldn’t play with your pussy at all.” he slips the dildo out of you, jaw going slack as he watches your hole clench around nothing, your desperate protests and pleas falling on death ears. there’s a string of your arousal dripping down between your trembling thighs, and yuji swipes it up with his finger before pushing it into his mouth, lashes fluttering as he groans around the digit.

“please, yuji, m’sorry! i-i’ll be nice, i promise!” you plead and cry, and yuji knows you’re only thinking with your pussy right now, that overwhelming urge to come clouding your mind. you’ll be fussing at him by the end of the night if he gives in, he’s sure of it, but he’s not a mean man. how’s he supposed to tell you no when you beg for him like that? when your pussy weeps for him like this?

he can’t.

it only takes a second for him to free his own cock from his pants, replacing the dildo with the real thing, and he moans loud and guttural when he slips inside, your hot cunt wrapping around him like a vice. “fuck, baby.” his pelvis grinds into the fat of your ass, his hands pinning yours against the wall above your head as he thrusts in and out of you. “you feel so good.”

“yuji,” you keen, and he knows you and your body well enough to know that you’re milliseconds away from coming.

“you gonna come?” he breathes in your ear, low and raspy, and you weakly nod, his name leaving your lips like a chant, and the muscles in his thighs and calves flex as he bends at the knee to fuck you at a slightly different angle, tip of his cock pushing into that spot that always leaves you a babbling, sniffling mess. “go ahead and come, baby. make a mess.”

that’s all the encouragement you need before you’re creaming around his cock, pussy clenching and fluttering around him as declarations of love tumble free from your lips, and he wonders how long it’ll take for you to change your tune this time.

#yuji x reader #jjk smut #++ yuji #IM ILL #MY BFFFF #i have 10 million thoughts about him and will probs only write like 7 at most v.v #++ yuji/brat

[slvttyplum]

you ever have dick so good that you’re literally running from it. tears in your eyes, lumps on lumps of sobs crowding in your throat and suguru holding your hands behind your back still slamming into you. 

“take it like you're supposed to, baby. do it for me.” slapping your ass and slamming into you again, a sob crawling up your throat and your body shaking uncontrollably with this overwhelming pleasure. 

he knew where your weak spots were, where you broke down easily, and where you itched to have more of. that's why he was going to give it to you—give it to you until you were physically numb. suguru wasn’t going to stop until he saw your body lying still on the mattress. 

suguru wanted to twist you around and put you in different positions so he could see his pretty baby cum on his dick but you weren’t take it well, your back arching and your muffled sobs into the mattress. 

he had to keep your wrists in his hands or you weren’t going to finish soon, his hand squeezing your wrist and his other one trailing over your back up to your chin, pulling you back into your chest. 

"come on, baby. what’s going on today? i thought you wanted to be my good girl.” his hips pushing into your ass harder and harder, his soft breath tickling your ear, and the tip of his dick pressing deeper inside of you. 

another sob coming up and tears running down your face—he couldn’t say he didn’t admire the sight. he loved when you cried from overstimulation, but all he was thinking about at that moment was making sure you took in what he was giving you. 

he could feel you squeeze around; the feeling of your soft insides clamming onto him made him feel good. he almost wanted to crawl inside of you, but you didn’t deserve it. 

you didn’t deserve his cum being leaked inside of you, so if he had to hold himself back for a couple more minutes or just not cum, then that’s what he would do. 

“suguru i can’t take it.” your sobs more vocal, your back is arching even more, and your eyes are squeezing shut with more warm tears rolling down your face

it felt like a fiery pit in the bottom of your stomach every time he made you take him. Even though you couldn’t, it’s not like you could run away or fake your way out of it. 

suguru knew you inside out, literally. he knew how good you were feeling, your nipples peeking up as your ass was pushing against him; it’s like your body was telling him to just do whatever he wanted to make you take it. 

“remember what i taught you.” whispering in your ear and slamming into you again, sweat dripping off his forehead and onto your back, he could feel you clamp around him, a moan sliding past your lips and little whines after. 

cooing in your ear then pulling your arms back some more while slamming into you again and again, feeling his cum leak into you little by little. 

that’s how he liked to cum, when you were squeezing the cum out of him. 

if you were running and crying, scratching the sheets, trying to get away, suguru was going to pull you, restrain you and make you take it; he didn’t play. 

#jujutsu kaisen #jjk #jjk x reader #jjk x you #jujustsu kaisen x reader #x reader #jjk geto #jjk suguru #getou suguru x y/n #getou suguru x you #suguru geto smut #getou suguru x reader #jujutsu kaisen suguru #geto suguru #suguru geto #jujutsu suguru #geto x you #geto smut #geto x reader #jujutsu geto #geto x y/n