#online friends are the best

[maxgicalgirl]

Being a “Fun Fact !” kind of autistic is all fun and games until you get halfway through sharing an interesting tidbit and realize that it probably wasn’t appropriate to share in polite company and now you have to deal with the consequences :(

#autism #neurodivergent #adhd #fun facts #GOD I’m such an idiot #anyways now a 10 year old is out there looking up swear words online and it’s all my fault :( #I got so excited by the fact that I knew a fun fact #that I didn’t stop to think that maybe not everyone knows that fun fact for a reason :( #it’s like explaining how to successfully bury a body at a book club #or explaining the dangers of Scientology to your sister’s boyfriend the first time you meet him #or debating gay sex positions with your best friend in front of your mom #no matter how much I wish to be a beacon of knowledge in this world #sometimes there are things others just don’t want to know #and consciously that’s valid but the autism ? I does not care

[keldae]

I love having online friends who are huge computer-building nerds. My PC's fans are dying and it sounds like an engine revving when I'm not doing anything high-intensity, and @andveryginger and our friend Gydeon are researching on Memory Express and Amazon to find me affordable towers and cooling systems.

Which is great, because I understand NONE of this and am just getting what they tell me to get (for reasonably priced!).

#Kel rambles #online friends are the best #computer problems

[porrigens]

raison d’etre + sushi = profit

#p5 #persona 5 #persona 5 royal #yusuke kitagawa #persona 5 yusuke #p5 akechi #akechi goro #goro akechi #kitagoro #akekita #my first p5 art i posted online! #for a p5 based art trade with my good friend uhenishi on twitter:3 #IF UOU SEE THIS UHE HIIIII FROWS UP #SORRY IF THE DIALOGUE IS CHEESY OR MY CHARACTERIZATION IS OFF I TRIED MY BEST AND THIS IS MY PERSONAL INTERPRETATION OF THEM:3 #they should have interacted more they haved a lot in common Tch… watever….. #of course they would have a deep talk at a sushi conveyor belt place. yusuke’s broke

[yookikiku]

her name is Tensai and she has a socmed dependence problem

#Oc #2023 #doodles #original #she draws and has a lot of followers #I think maybe around 60k #But she has like 0 friends irl and online #So she’s constantly very lonely which worsens her socmed dependency #Also she’s very prideful so she would never admit she wants friends #She also pretends to be super bright and cheerful on the outside but on the inside she is constantly yelling #I’m lov her #Most people get tired of her pridefulness and leaves most of the time so she doesnt have good experiences with building relationships #Tho its mostly her fault tho tbh #LIKE SHE TRIES HER BEST but eventually her facade of being a nice bright cheerful gal just comes off

[kabutoden]

HAPPY HOMESTUCK DAY EVERYONE!!! 413!!!

#homestuck #homestuck comic #413 #homestuck 413 #hehehehe this is how i was drawing melosas redesign before i drew her in bugstuck #SHES SOOOO CUTE EEEE SHES 14 YEARS OLD HERE AND SUCH A LITTLE GUY #i adore her so much its crazy she had so much silly and so much gender #BEST FRIENDS!! moirails!! this comic has been brewing since jan but i hadnt finished til now. originally i thought i had nothing 2 post 2 c #SO YAYYYYYYY #POSTING POSTING #homestuck oc #fantroll #melosa tranql #i made her one year older than me so shed be more mature. and people online would think I was more mature. when i was 13 #LOL

[fastidious-and-a-mess]

guys can we PLEASE stop shipping riz w people. honestly at this point i kind of don’t even care if you yourself are also acespec/arospec/aspec.

yes, aspec people can be in relationships, etc etc, but riz specifically has expressed over and over and over again that that is something he personally has absolutely zero interest in.

he’s not just canonically aroace, he also canonically does not want a relationship.

“aroace people can be happy in romantic/sexual/queerplatonic relationships” is a true statement. “people who do not want to be in any kind of monogamous committed relationship can be happy in a monogamous committed relationship” is quite a bit harder to argue.

i’m just so sick of it. i’m glad we all understand that there’s nuance to aspec identities, and everyone’s expressions of and experiences with their own aspec identities are going to be different and personal.

like, it’s not even just about the asexual/aromantic aspect anymore. it’s also just refusing to let him not want to be in a relationship. why are so many people so resistant to the idea that he does not want to be in a relationship. like genuinely, why can you not accept that there are people who just don’t want that. who would just be unhappy in a relationship. why can’t you wrap your head around the idea that wanting a relationship is not a thing that everyone secretly wants. like, No, he hasn’t just not “met the right person” yet. because there is no right person. because he’s simply not interested.

this post is kind of rambly and not as effectively phrased as it could be i think but idc.

TL;DR: riz being aroace is not the only reason to not ship him. he also, explicitly and repeatedly, has stated he does not want to be in a relationship. “aspec people can be in relationships” is completely irrelevant because regardless riz simply does not want a relationship. please just respect thag.

edit: plz don’t like this is u wont rb. i won’t guilt you into rbing, it’s ur blog i’m not ur dad do what u want etc etc. it’s just irritating for me personally to see ppl interacting w this but not willing to actually put it on their blogs.

#sorry to keep this ‘’’’’’’ discoure ‘’’’’’’ alive #im just sooooo tired #i just don’t understand how so many people can see this character have such a significant part of characterization be about how #he does not want to be in a Relationship at all and how that affects him and his relationships with the people in his life #and then go ‘what if he was in a Relationship with his best friend’ #like come on!! #i don’t care how you define the Relationship. i don’t care about your own personal identity. #i don’t care about whatever reasons you come up with the justify why it’s actually totally fine #the bottom line is riz does not want that for himself and you’re deciding that that’s not worth respecting #sorry fabriz enjoyers but i wish you guys would just stfu #dimension 20 #fantasy high #riz gukgak #edit continued: ik it’s all just online fandom stuff. but it’s also representative of a larger issue #of people just being incapable of comprehending that some people don’t want relationships. or even past that; that some people actively want #to Not be in relationships. it’s people coming into contact with a person (character) like that and believing that that just can’t be true #that that person Must secretly actually want a relationship. even if they don’t know it. they just haven’t met the right person yet. etc etc #if you can’t give up outting riz in any kind of relationship then you cannot accept that some people really truly do not want relationships #that’s FINE. PLEASE just respect that

[dear-ao3]

YOU AND BRAD BROKE UP?????????????

yes

#honestly it’s for the best #never going to get into my personal bs online but it was definitely time #not a tag #from saph #were still friends

[yearning4life]

feeling proud of your friends is the best feeling in the world actually. like did you pass your exam? oh my god SLAY. did you get that good grade on that paper you were working on? good job dude! did you finally have that awkward conversation with your mom that you wanted to? pop off dude i just love my friends so much they make me feel like my mom from how proud i am of them

#online friends #friendship #friends #best friends #chaotic academia #chaotic thoughts #mood fr #academia aesthetic

[ruckytheslut4]

do you want to cum on my Ass😍💦 ¿¿

#transgirl #sexy content #hook me up #naughty #naugthy girl #meet and fuck #meetup #so hot and sexy #dm me #dm me for my content #online dating #asexual #friendship #best friends

[kirby-the-gorb]

#kirby #daily kirby #my art #digital #hal laboratory #nintendo #(edit: it's been found thank you! original tags preserved below) #I cannot for the life of me find one specific reaction image and its source post #the one where the person is coming to in a hospital bed after a surgery #and they try to eat their own fist #and get stopped #and make big wibbly confused crying faces #it's smooth line images interspersed with text #does anyone have it? #cuz that '🥺???' was me most of the day and I wanted the image so I could convey it #but I Couldn't Find It #and neither my wife nor my best friend have any idea what image I'm talking about #so they can't help #(my partner isn't very online so there's no point asking them lol) #do any of y'all have it pls #I want the original post but I can't even find the standalone reaction image which should be enough to find the post #I've found one iteration of someone drawing their oc in the meme format and that's as far as I got even with as much as I remember about it #favorites

[only-one-brain-cell]

“None of which we had access to for security.” Oh really? Then how the fuck was JJ able to play Scrabble with her then?????

#criminal minds #this makes me so mad #warning the following tags will turn into a novel #this and the fight between Spencer and JJ #how was she able to look Spencer in the eye and say Emily is dead and help him grive while also playing Scrabble with her #did Hotch play any online games with her?? NO #“but she couldn’t tell him” pretty sure she also couldn’t play online word games with her #“he’s my best friend” I mean you roll your eyes every time he opens his mouth or you shut up down whenever he talks about his interests #but yeah your his ”best friend” #not Emily ”I’m so proud of you” “never stop being you” #or Penelope “I know I’m sorry” *presses two fingers to her lips then to his forhead* Spencer: ☺️ #also Pen: *keeps his secrets despite not being able to keep anyone else’s* #she didn’t tell anyone about his mom when she found out nor did she tell Tara or Luke about his addiction #AND THEN HIS “BESTIE” JJ IMMEDIATELY DID #I’m sorry what was this post about oh yeah “dead Emily”

[uncanny-tranny]

Over the years, I've gotten a lot of cis people messaging me about how they should go about dating or courting somebody who's trans, and I always felt like my responses would almost... disappoint them because there isn't this magic secret to dating us.

Cis people, if you want to date us, just date us. We're human beings, we're not wild animals to tame! I promise you can have a healthy relationship with a trans person without needing to feel like the world will end if you mess up.

Trans people who date cis people often want to feel secure in your acceptance of them. You don't have to talk about our transness for hours on end to prove that you accept your loved one. You don't have to put on a display and cabaret about how Much You Accept Us. Just be a person around us, and let us be people, too!

I almost want to disappoint cis people by reminding them of this. Some of the best relationships I've had with cis people have been ones where my transness is acknowledged, sure, but it's acknowledged in the same way that my left-handedness is. It's not a joke to them, it isn't something to be horrified about, but it's also something that they don't objectify me for.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #watching a video about this topic and it just reminded me of this #like there have been plenty of cis people who have come to me for advice and while i appreciate the thoughtfulness (don't get me wrong!)... #...part of me just feels like... they see trans people as needing to be Tamed in some way or Appeased... #...like they see us as people but it's more like they see us as Trans People and not... people... #...and maybe i'm looking too deep into it. maybe i'm jaded but that's sometimes how it can feel with some people... #...like my besties that i talk to fully accepted me... #...though it is funny when they forget i'm... not a trans woman or (with other friends) that i'm... not a cis man #(maybe i just give off ambiguous vibes irl and online because it's happened irl and with my online buddies) #adding once again: i don't think ALL cis people who ask this are doing so in bad faith #cis people i'm glad you are vulnerable about not being sure about how to go about transness... #...however i don't always think it's the best move to go to a stranger about your interest in a trans person in your life... #...simply because: 1. transness isn't a monolith and... #...2. it feels awkward because you aren't going to *them* to have this conversation that will ultimately affect *them*... #...because your relationship with a trans person will likely /not/ affect a trans stranger...

[stillthesunkenstars]

I loved reading fics so I drew fanart for fics that really moved me so I wanted fic writers to know that their effort was enjoyed..!! If you enjoyed fandom creators especially in small fandoms please at least comment to let them know they are not just shouting to a void, it's really easy to feel alone in small fandoms

#mine #✌️peace #I am now an oc man I love drawing lesbians and yuri . But just saying this for ppl still in this fandom ..! #feedback is sooo important for creators . I met all of my online friends through their feedback of my art or my comments on their creations #But now it's ok 👍 happy new year I wish the bs/brax fandom all the best without me !! hope more ppl find enjoyment in this media !! #He's a really good character and there r good stories

[shinrascomputer]

Me out here making ace friends like :0 Hi me too

#behind the screen [ooc] #Literally the LGBT community I live near is uhhhhhh #Not the best #To say the least #So I find it funny that I make aro/ace friends online so easily #Love you ya funky guys #asexual

[a-cat-in-a-funky-hat]

ok i need u to look me in the eye and take this seriously. i. love. soap bars. fuck liquid soap, fuck body wash i LOVE SOAP BARS. i cannot tell u where this weird obsession with soap came from in the first place but BOY. DO I LOVE SOAP BARS.

#at this point i would like to thank my beloved best friend vampy for putting up with my bullshit #bc they get the full scope of me buying ten bars of fancy french soap online #and they put up with me anyway #peace and love on planet earth yall #soapcore #soap #midnight rambles

[clownsins]

mmerry crisiss

#rdo #my art #red dead online #rdr2 #friend and i's characters but they are centaurs #centaur #cuz centaur cowboys are the best