#once again this is for blatant mistakes with no malicous intent which can be rectified- not fot racism- homophobia-transphobia

[sad-starsign-student]

So when do you guys accept apologies fr??

Like are apologies just not meant to be accepted anymore?

God, I don’t want to be that type of person but what are people meant to do, honestly

#cos here’s the thing no matter what they do you guys are just gonna say ‘we don’t owe you forgiveness’ #like okay i get that because toxic forgiveness and toxic positivity has silenced a lot of victims over the years #but at the same time for blatant mistakes made with no malicious intent?? #atp i feel like if you feel like u owe no one forgiveness we also don’t owe you sh*t either #like every mistake you make we’re gonna judge and hold it against you forever #now it’s gonna be an issue your gonna say we don’t let people learn and grow ‘you can’t expect people to be perfect’- well...babes? #idk maybe it’s the christian upbringing in my slightly and truss i’m not the christian to ‘turn the other cheek so it can be slapped’ #Jesus is better than me in that aspect (then again he’s-well-Jesus-so kinda expected) but i’m not tryna be taken fiya idiat- THAT being said #i feel like (in CERTAIN situations- watch it) you can’t in the same breath recognise that nobody’s perfect then turn around... #...and say ‘nobody owes you forgiveness’ no sorry its not making sense to me #once again this is for blatant mistakes with no malicous intent which can be rectified- not fot racism- homophobia-transphobia #like i say there’s levels to it and i don’t think the levels are that hard to read- sometimes the lines are blurred- but sometimes... #...the solutions so damn obvious and you acc just want to cancel for cancel sake like i promise you the amount of people you call out does.. #reflect on your morality at all it doesn’t prove you to be a good person- okay maybe a little it shows some responsibility but if that’s... #...all you can offer to show you’re a good person i’m-not impressed??? anyways this gone everywhereee and only makes sense on my head-barely #you know what- just always try you’re best- learn and grow and if u know you’re genuine- then anyone on the internet trying to paint u as... #...an irredeemable monster- they just don’t matter- like at all- they can try and get u cancelled all they want but who gaf honestly #deffo be self aware- but don’t live trying to please any of these internet people- they will never be satisfied- just try to do your best #all anyone can ask for—