#okay calm down now

[starship-squalleater]

They’re gonna kill off Molly in like ep 2 so they don’t have to animate that fucking coat

#critical role #the mighty nein #kidding but god it’s gonna look so good #his death will be a late season thing if they start w cali and end w iron shepherds #cr spoilers #critical role spoilers #Ig these need to be tagged now #that’s fun #y’all can calm down in my comment section okay :)

[binalakarchive]

imagine your own version of yuri being so doomed that it takes the shape of an Extremely Vivid Traumatizing Recurring Nightmare Every Single Night where you gain and lose the best n only love you've ever had in your entire life. where you outlive a world that curses then outgrows you, ostracizing you in an immortal prison youre forced to keep living in

and then you wake up from that and you have to go on about your day like nothing happened

anyway i am normal about some hcs i have in about the ice queen (infodump + discord screenshots under the readmore)

okay so basically in my daydreams about the Ice Queen, she very much exists as an opposite to Fionna: a woman that loves the simple things in life so much that she comes off as Very Annoying and somewhat crazy for it

the only thing she doesnt look forward to is sleep, because like everyone else, she also gets dreams about the previous fantasy life that she had where she's constantly getting thwarted as the ice queen...amongst Other Things

with her already faulty memory being a thing and her sleep deprivation worsening her memory, she has a reputation for being forgetful and bad with everything (especially including relationships)

#fionna and cake #adventure time #the ice queen #ice queen #simon petrikov #betty grof #petrigrof #idk let me be normal for a background character for a second . okay ? okay #promise my fixation didnt die in fact it only grew stronger. i just. now have calmed down n accepted the finale for what it is

[spitinsideme]

I can see nun Pomni being a bit weird about her period, like "this is punishment from god" type of shit. While demon Ragatha "nah girl this a blessing", then proceeds to go down on her :3

GOING DOWN ON A WOAMN WHILST SHES ON HER PERIOD IS TJE BIGGEST BLESSING OF ALL !!!! DEMON RAGATHA UNDERSTANDS

#pomni x ragatha #buttonblossom #jesterdoll #ragapom #tadc fanart #pomni #tadc pomni #the amazing digital circus #pomni fanart #tadc ragatha #ragatha x pomni #pomatha #demon x nun au #demon ragatha #nun pomni #god .. fucm .. going down ona woamn whiskt her period .. hssuss ... #thatsthe dream #i wish everyday #tbe way kd lkterally sucm the blood oit of a girls pussy shen shes on hrr period #id literally DEVOUR it #after im finished i will look like a cannibal eating thr fucm oit of the inskdes of a prrosn #blood dropping down my chin #i wipe it off with my hand and licm it roght off #i ned to calm down #calming myself down im okay now guys im back to normal

[andy-clutterbuck]

Men's Fitness | 2014

#*Elena Fisher voice* Okay cowboy #Andrew Lincoln #* #andygifs #S I R #you need to calm down #you're being too loud #bout to invest in those kneeling pads people who garden a lot use #excuse me sir please put your forearms away thank you #happy mother's day to me im with child now #ARM VEINS #gonna go get my ouija board from the 90s and contact bram stoker #ouija board party at my house #bram stoker wants to talk

[coffeebanana]

istg half of the post-s5 finale fics i see have some sort of disclaimer in the tags or summary (or i even just saw one in the title!!) saying the fic was written because the show sucks or the finale sucked or they just hated everything about it

and it's frustrating because i probably would have enjoyed a lot of these fics! but now i'm not even going to touch them because i don't want to engage with people shitting on the show

#miraculous ladybug #ml fandom salt #like. it's okay if you didn't like the finale #if you're disappointed or wish things happened differently #and it's great to use fic as a means of writing what you wanted to see. that's the point (or at least one of the points) of fic! #but being negative af about the finale isn't going to make people who enjoyed it want to engage with your fan-creations #and that's sad because there IS so much to explore with what the finale left us #and i bet a lot of these actual fics are not salty beyond the author's note/summary/etc... #but because some people refuse to acknowledge that the finale maybe wasn't trying to wrap up everything in a nice little bow #and have decided the show is objectively awful because of it #now i don't want to engage #and i know salt isn't new in this fandom but my god can we calm down for five seconds #kayla rants

[actualbird]

confession: i refrained from talking about It here (though i livetweeted the ordeal on my priv lsbdfsdlf) but now that things have calmed down, i wanted to share what's happened

from february 4 to february 12 of 2024, i experienced the most heartbreaking and heart wrenching week of my life. my mother tried to commit suicide several times, and the days were first spent taking care of her while in an overdosed state while she said over and over that she wanted to die before i finally broke and begged her to go to the hospital. up until that point, i was looking after her on my own. i was feeding her, getting her to sit up to drink water, walking her to the bathroom, checking if she was still breathing, and enduring it when she got mad at me and told me she was “fine.” i was hanging on by a thin thread. i’ve always been the house’s caretaker—always known as the pragmatic and responsible one—but this was more than I could ever handle.

“i don’t know how to help anymore,” i told my older sister when i myself had my own breakdown on the night of my mother’s hospitalization. as i hyperventilated and sobbed, the feeling of helplessness shook my body and my words. “i can’t help anymore.”

and then something really wonderful happened: people came and helped

when news got out of my mother's attempts, suddenly my phone was blowing up with texts and messages from people i didnt know. they were her friends: old friends from college, friends from the university she teaches at, her family from the province. they were all asking me and my siblings if they could help with anything: driving, food, money, emotional support. her family in the province drove hours from the province to meet us in the city just to lend a hand in keeping us calm. her friends from the university were the ones who drove her to the hospital and helped us out with a loan and financial aid for the ER bills.

my brother who lives in japan flew in back to the philippines despite having an academic conference just to help. his girlfriend drove him from the airport to the hospital despite having to study for an exam. my older sister's boyfriend came over just to buy us all donuts and food to make sure we were all eating while looking after everything. my girlfriend bought my sisters and i trinkets from a convention just to make us smile during these hard times, and she kept reminding me to sleep and eat and drink and take my meds. my online friends who knew were messaging me asking if i was okay, if i wanted to see some bird posts for serotonin or if i needed somebody to vent to or even to help with money too. hell, even my coworkers asked me if i was okay. they asked about my mom, and i told them, but then my supervisor asked "but how are YOU?" and i burst into tears

all this reminds me of that weird "discourse" i see around about how youre not supposed to ask friends for help because we're all adults and. i am 24. and in these weeks, i felt more like a helpless child than ive ever felt in my life

and yet

people came and helped

when youre needed, youre needed

and we didnt even ask. they just....showed up.

everybody we knew—friends, acquaintances, colleagues, family—they all showed up when we needed them

idk. i guess in this world it's really easy to feel really alone. i sure did. but youre really really not. i had no idea how many people were looking out for us, but they're here. they were here for us. ive lost count of how many people came to help, and isnt that a beautiful thing. i lost count of how many people helped

#i think this is what being human is about #dootdootdoot #things have calmed down now and everybodys okay now #and a large part of that is thanks to everybody who came in to help #cw suicide ment

[snailsnaps]

YOU MADE ME DO THIS MAKE DONNIE TO APOLOGIZE TO MIKEY, DR FEELINGS DOES NOT APPROVED THIS

Make them happy, its not a request is an order

yes honey...

continuation of this post

#calm down everyone #they made up #its okay now :) #yes. donnie drew eyebrows on his skin. #bite me #rottmnt #alphastage rise #mutuals #rottmnt donnie #rottmnt mikey #de-aged!donnie

[thearoaceshark]

#With all the aphobia that have come out with this whole Alastor thing #I just want someone to hug me and tell me that everything is going to be okay #He is just a fictional character. but I feel very invalidated every time they do whatever they want with his orientation #and they are so insensitive about it #maybe Rosie will hug me and tell me everythin is going to be alrigth #I'm sorry for sounding so depressed all of a sudden. but I had that inside me for a few days #Fortunately in a few months the love for Hazbin Hotel will calm down. and I could now scroll through tiktok without fear of finding them #hopefully in a few years aphobia will be less and HH fandom(or THOSE shippers at least) will be remembered as one of those very toxic fandom #aroace alastor #hazbin alastor #alastor the radio demon #alastor hazbin hotel #aromantic alastor #asexual alastor

[tangledinink]

I can imagine the first cycle after moving. Probably Leo because Donnie likely has internal scarring, so leo goes through the process of laying his eggs, panics, his brother can't help, and finally, *finally* they ask for help. It's not willingly. It's not for fun. It's purely necessity. It's purely because there's *literally noone else* and the idea of telling anyone at all is so scary that the way they do so is in a note. Splinter sits them down and basically walks them through "You're safe, you're fine. We can handle this however you feel most comfortable, including getting you both on blockers if you prefer" and they just.... sigh. For the first time, there's *someone else* in their circle, and it's willing and it's warm, and it's *safe*. There will be tears.

Yes, except I'm not convinced that either of them could stand to tell anyone. Even if it was literally life or death (which it has been before,) I'm not sure if either of them could bear to give up that information. Donnie is finally, finally away from the people who hurt him when he got found out last time, and even though logically, he knows that it's different here, he's absolutely petrified of the thought that the same thing will happen again and it won't be over anymore. He's still horrified by the idea of anyone else knowing about Leo when he's gone to such lengths for so long to protect him, and Leo is likewise terrified in the same way. They've spent years with this being their more closely guarded secret, and that's going to be really difficult to give up.

But it's really not a secret they'll be able to keep for long.

They're in a completely different environment, with far less space and privacy. They're both stressed as hell and Donnie WAS on birth control and taking all sorts of vitamins and supplements to make sure he didn't eggbind again and now he's suddenly not and it's not only messing with his body, it's fucking scary. It literally keeps them both up at night. Neither of them know how to wash blood out of clothes or sheets. There's no private en suite bathroom they can sequester themselves away in. They're both literally making themselves sick with anxiety trying to deal with this, and they're used to handling this on their own, this is routine for them, but they're not used to all of this.

They'd probably metaphorically limp through a few cycles before their family puts it together and gently confronts them.

Venus probably figures it out first. She's pretty smart, and incredibly observant, and after all-- she quite literally experiences the exact same thing. April may not lay eggs, but I think she'd be able to get the idea after a bit as well. And while I think Splinter would realize something was wrong pretty quickly, Draxum would probably realize what was wrong first. Splinter has April, so he has a little bit of experience in this realm, but Draxum has Venus and so he has far more experience.

And so when they do sit them down and talk with them, it's going to be really scary at first. And then they get to, "you're safe, you're fine, we can handle this however you feel the most comfortable. It will be okay. No one will hurt you."

And then there's finally other people in the know, in the circle, people who will actually help them. And yes-- there will definitely be tears.

#leo in particular will probably panic at least a little when theyre confronted #because its been what? almost four years? #almost FOUR YEARS of him keeping this a secret at any cost #almost four years with no one else in the universe aside from his twin knowing #and now the spell is broken #but its okay #and they might panic and cry for a little but then they calm down and its... actually ok. things will actually be okay #april will take to big-sistering them so hard #and lowkey just? having venus exist in the household will be incredibly helpful #(she was honestly so baffled that everyone else didnt realize what was going on right away. it wasnt obvious????) #mikey tries to spoil them the same way he tries to spoil venus whenever she feels nasty #(but has to adjust a bit to respect boundaries because. donnie will bite him...) #likewise raph tries to take care of them the same way he'd take care of casey #(ie by leaving offerings at their doors and staying the fuck out of their way. just overall letting them do or have whatever they want) #their family will take care of them and keep them safe and things will get better #its honestly a huge relief when they get caught in some ways because leo can finally be like #and donnie got really sick one time and almost died and im scared itll happen again PLZ can we make sure it doesnt happen again #donnie in the background like >:0000 that leo just fucking OUTTED HIM LIKE THAT #but to leo 1000% worth it if it means donnie wont get sick and die #(as if donnie is actually realistically at any more significant risk of that than leo is) #(quite frankly theyre BOTH at risk of it at the time because of how stressed they are. lowkey a miracle neither of them eggbound yet smh) #also donnie def has internal scarring lmao;;;; poor bab. makes it a bit rough... #menstruation #tw menstruation #cw menstruation #gemini au #asks #anon #csa implied #cw csa implied

[ssawboness]

they're on a date

#context: rolled a 4 on a rizz check #ft medic flirting with scout #calm down grandpa #medic smile hot #i shit you not that's the rp channel's name. sorry #okay. now the tags #stoop.txt #tf2 #my art #stoop art #scout #medic #mediscout #medic x scout #medic/scout #scout/medic #scout x medic #scoutmedic #this is funny. give me clout

[bluespiritshonour]

Okay so apparently Netflix removed Sokka's sexism in the Kyoshi Island episode...

...which also explains why he wasn't wearing Kyoshi face-paint in the stills.

Because if he was never sexist to begin with, then there's no need for him to change—he doesn't get to dress ‘like a girl’ and feel brave and courageous instead of ashamed. When Suki says ‘it’s a warriors uniform’ and Sokka stands proud and tall in the dress like—

Sokka was the only male character who's sexism was addressed by the narrative. Suki kicked his butt and he drank his respect women juice, like, guys! He learned!

And they just took the whole thing out. It means we wouldn't even get the “I am a warrior and I'm also a girl.”

That was what sold me on Suki’s character tbh. I'm mad. I'm so mad—but, okay, I should wait till the show drops. Then I'll start complaining in the earnest.

#im kind of tired of everyone starts out lily white shit studios been pulling lately #like seriously #now im kinda afraid for zuko #i hope they don't make him too much of a good guy—or cool!—from the very beginning #sokka #suki #kyoshi island #sokka learned a lot in that episode #why must they do it #okay #i should calm down #the show hasn't dropped yet #im hoping they didn't do it ig? #atla #avatar the last airbender

[nekrophoria]

ʀᴏʟᴀɴᴅ - ʀᴇɴᴏᴡɴᴇᴅ ʟᴀɴᴅ

#sims 3 #random crap #Oc: Roland Lynch #okay i think I'm done for now #next week I can probably get my set up back and real life will have calmed down a bit #will get to cathcing up then

[8bit-mau5]

Update

Hey guys I didnt mean to disappear the way I did this month, but especially in the more recent weeks. I've been in an UNBEARABLE amount of pain with migraines almost every day for over a week and I may very well have a sinus infection (': Like I WAS diagnosed with chronic sinusitis last year iirc but this is unbearable. My throat hurts, my teeth hurt, my face hurts, I can't breathe out my nose. I feel miserable tbh.

Another reason for absence and being so slow on work is because I came really close to calling the cops on my mother in the middle of a fight not too long ago. I'm certain it would've gotten physical if Popo hadn't walked through the front door when he did. Thankfully things DIDN'T get physical, but I'm still very shaken up about it. I'm in no danger, but I'm getting around to making an official post for my [GoFundMe] that's been successfully published now. That was the last straw I just cannot handle how my cats and I are treated. It's seriously affected my workflow for far too long.

Anyway I could really use some positivity and distraction. I missed this place and I missed you guys, home life has just been.. a lot. And I'm exhausted.

#abuse #abuse tw #animal abuse #animal abuse tw #i think thats everything? #okay to reblog #since it has my GFM link? #i had to call my shitty hardly-present in my life father to calm me down but like. the way he talks to me aint great either #the treatment ive gotten from mom has gotten exponentially worse since my sister moved out just like we all expected tbh #ive NEEDED to move out for ages but now i have like. a plan #i just need to make the money for it now #honestly id be happy to even reach 7k. the deadline is just in a few months so.. i'll be keeping it up for rent and move costs. but id like #to raise a bit to properly PAY popo for driving me up there and back. so $ for gas. food. hotel stays. etc. and paying for a rental truck #8bit beeps #god i wish i just had a friend i could move in with RIGHT NOW just to weather out the storm and work on raising more money #to go to chicago w/my boyfriend

[jils-things]

to love someone is to heal someone

#~ art #♥️ memoryshipping #ignore tags if youre just here for the art and not me going full diary mode #anyways ... this is a little personal to me #especially with how i treat her here. i think this is a direct projection of how i'm feeling right now #today has been a little harsh on me - maybe a little painful even #i'm okay now - because i resolved it. albeit harboring some bits of anger to it but its not worth fighting about anymore #its hard to say that i'm - very optimistic so to speak because it's only one pillar i just jumped over and there will be more later #and this is me coping with it and im lucky to have mustered some energy to at least express it through drawing #i havent been drawing much for myself and it makes me sad because its my source of happiness #my time for drawing is being repurposed for other stuff right now and it still is and i dont feel entirely happy doing it unfortunately #i still have many things i want to follow up on my drawing list especially in my recent interests peaking again #but i resorted for now to making something im already used to. stevaide lol fgsjsddsjjsdjkghsdjgdjkhskjghshsgsasjhjsjksdjfhsfasgs corny ass #rest assured im at a somewhat relaxed state right now. throwing boops here and there calmed me down because theres people around me #who ig thinks im cool eajdhajhd #ahh anyway

[theminecraftbee]

actually, one more comment. the thing is: i just need you to look at it. i just want the hermitcraft fandom to look at the bad behavior. i want hermitblr to look at the bad behavior. stop looking away. stop pretending it isn't here. stop acting like we're better. i want to hold your head and force you to stare at it until you acknowledge it's real.

the moment you think you're morally superior is the moment you become an asshole.

look at it, jackasses. look at it.

#discourse #not making this one rebloggable because it's not helpful #but. look at it. JUST FUCKING LOOK AT IT. #okay i will calm down now #i promise. this was a good experience for me. but sometimes y'all. sometimes

[spop-romanticizes-abuse]

me @ post-s5 spop fanfics or fanart where it's all about catra having ptsd nightmares and panic attacks and the other characters have to calm her down, instead of addressing their trauma that was caused by catra herself:

#god i hate these with a passion #it's always about catra #there was this fanart where catra wakes up next to adora and sees the scars on adora's back #and she starts crying and sht and adora has to calm her down #and adora is basically like “it's okay you're a better person now” #... #beautiful art but i absolutely despise that perspective #spop critical #spop salt #spop criticism #spop discourse #spop #she ra #anti spop #anti stans