#ok so this is just a dumb rant but

[wellthatschaotic]

whenever i see someone who is like "yes but [x] isnt as oppressed as [y]!!" or "[x] is widely accepted now!!" as a way to like. disregard queer people's experiences. i'm just like. have you been outside? have you been in the real world?

#im just. #infighting is so dumb #'you're tme so you can't talk about-' first of all. we're not tme. transmasc =/= tme. honestly tme is a dumbass label anyway and has just #become a 'progressive' way to ask for agab #what do you think a boy/masc person in a dress reads as to transphobes. you think theyre gonna apologize if i say #'actually im transmasc not transfemme' #thats not how that works- #every time we try to correct our pronouns we get stopped because it's 'inappropriate' and 'uncomfortable' #same with every time we try to explain our gender #and yet there are still people online trying to judge if a complete stranger is 'queer enough' to count #(and if they're 'not' the reaction is like. death threats for some reason??) #and im always like. GO OUTSIDE. PLEASE. #the queerphobe on the bus does not ask for your labels before calling you slurs. the bully harassing you will not stop and apologize if you #try to say 'i'm not [x] actually im [y]' #they do not care. they are full of hate and they have already decided on a target. #also? you have no right to a stranger's labels and life experiences #trying to demand that is already creepy. especially since your goal is to see if they're worthy of respect #ok rant over i think. just. ahhghh

[electronix-arts]

is this a safe space where i can be upset with those “reblog if you are/arent _________”

#like i dont know man i find them so stupid #i cant explain it like its so annoying like it should be obvious?? #like yeah ‘helps weed out the bad ones’ but what if the good ones dont wanna repost that shit because it just feels dumb #like oh ok so automatically i am a woman hater homophobic ableist and everything else #is this a rant i think this is #whoops #update_log.txt #rant.mp3

[theoneandonlycowboyofthesea]

actually idc I’m fucking pissed about redlyn breaking up just so they could end up in same sex relationships as a bi person I LOVED seeing these two realize that they’re bi but they loved each other and were in a m/f relationship and they just immediately stripped that away again and it just leaves such a bad taste in my mouth

#also as a bi jew seeing these two bi Jews in a relationship meant so much two me so uuuuh fuck tim federle for this #also I just truly love redlyn as a couple #and the whole cheating plot line was so fucking dumb #also Tim federle IS aware that two queer characters that could technically be together don’t HAVE to be together right? #like sure madlyn is ok but I’d honestly rather see more of their dynamic as friends instead of making them a couple just because they’re #both sapphic #like seblos I don’t have anything against apart from the very ooc cheating plot obv but why does big red suddenly have to date #fucking antoine??? like I love the abf was in the last ep and sure it was funny but also why????😭 #Tim really does NOT seem to know how to write single people #anyways yeah that’s my rant on this #oh also having the one bi character cheat and the other one almost cheat is also kinda iffy tbh #a rambles #hsmtmts spoilers

[daz4i]

how and why is there discourse about whether or not certain queer identities exist/if people should be allowed(???) to use them. why is "people know their own identity better than you ever could, and they're the only one who get a say on what they are" such a tough concept to grasp

i think if you find yourself offended by the label someone uses (especially if they're a stranger) or think it invalidates your own, it's a good idea to look inside yourself and question why that may be. more often than not, it's a result of insecurity or uncertainty of your own identity (or many other things, but i won't make a whole list here). whatever reason it is, until you resolve it, you shouldn't take it out on people for having an identity you don't understand

many have said it before but it's worth saying over and over. infighting only helps our oppressors. conservatives don't care if you're a cis gay or a xenogender aegosexual aplatonic lesbian, they hate all of us either way. trying to fit in by going for people who are easier targets for them isn't gonna help you, it'll just alienate you from your own community, and you're never gonna please them. the momentary rush you get from hearing you're not like "one of /those/ gay people" is not worth it and is gonna do more harm in the long run, i assure you

also, it is important to me to say this, but having some less than nice kneejerk reaction caused by confusion about an identity you don't understand doesn't mean you're a bad person or anything. as long as you aren't mean to that person, and you take a second to think smth along the lines of "wait a minute, this isn't any of my business" after having said reaction, you're good 👍 a lot of reflexive reactions we have to things are ingrained into us simply by. well. living in a society 🤡 and you're not terrible for having those thoughts. it's your actions that matter, and your second thought (the "wait, why did i just think that?") is more defining of your actual character and morals than your reflex. i know that having thoughts like this, even tho they're unwanted, can very easily make one spiral, so it's important to me that whoever needs to hear this knows this doesn't make you a bad person 🙏 you're good, keep taking actions to be good, accept other people even if you don't understand them, and you're on the right track :)

#i considered adding that last part in the tags but i figured it'll be too long for that 😭 #i noticed i'm posting a lot of rants lately. sorry. but i do wanna make sure no one's actually feeling bad over them #if i complain about something that you do or call it mean and such. that doesn't make you a bad person #you can always work to change and grow 👍 it's not easy but it starts with smaller steps than you'd expect #and now i just switched to a whole other topic from my original point. oops #i do firmly believe that any discourse about someone's identity is dumb as fuck #seeing it in poll blogs always makes me 😐😬 like how is it any business for any of us. why is this up for debate #if a person says they're queer then they are. they don't need to pass some test or go through initiation to be accepted #if they feel comfortable with a certain word that's awesome. why does it matter to *you* which word they use #'they're only using this microlabel to feel special' so? is there anything wrong with that? #'this label contradicts [insert other identity that falls under the same umbrella]' ok. but does that hurt anyone in any way #a lot of identities can even be self contradictory. does it matter tho? does it affect anyone in any way? #'they might realize that label is wrong later' again. what's the harm in that. #i don't blame anyone for these thoughts bc like. this is how cishets view a lot of the even more common labels #so you're basically taught to think this way from day one. that doesn't mean you need to stick to that thought process #you might have these reflexes forever no matter how hard you try. but you'll get quicker about moving on from them #but you do have to try. you do have to realize that other people's identities aren't about you #anyway. this post feels like batting at a hornets nest. really hope i don't get some bad faith readers here lol #(i noticed a lot of places one could apply bad faith but like it's 3:30 am i'm too tired to add this many disclaimer. #so i'm gonna trust you to not jump to conclusions and to approach this in good faith okay? mwah 🖤) #also my whole ramble abt morality (in the tags too) is relevant to. any topic really #i may just make a separate post about it really. .....tomorrow tho.

[definitelynotnia]

got a piece of glass stuck in my foot and my mother chose that moment to start yelling about how stupid and lazy i am like :) we're not taking customer feedback right now ma'am :) there is literally my blood on my hands can u please maybe wait :) and do this at another time :)

#for context the thing that broke was not even hers it was mine i ordered it for myself and she didn't tell me it arrived and just kept it in #her wardrobe #and then she asked me to fetch smthn from her messy asf wardrobe and she had kept it (made of glass) in the utmost corner of her very messy #and packed shelf #and obv one of the bottles in the shell was almost empty so when my hand brushed against it it fell and knocked down the glass bottle #bcz it was kept in the c o r n e r #but its ok it was an accident but still it was my accident so i just silently started clearing it up and she obv started yelling at me but #thats fine ive grown up in this household i know that when u do smthn accidentally its always bcz u are a dumb ho and when ur brown parents #do smthn accidentally then its fine bcz accidents happen and also that too is actually ur fault somehow bcz if u hadn't done xyz then 5 day #later this never wouldve happened #but wtv its fine wtv #and then i noticed the piece of glass sticking outta my foot and she watched me try to pull it out with my nails #and once i pulled it out it slipped from between my nails and fell onto the floor #and immediately she started yelling at me again saying i 'threw' it onto the floor on purpose like bitch I'm bleeding bcz of that thing why #would i risk bleeding again #and secondly i was literally picking up all the glass shards two seconds ago why would i throw this onto the floor on purpose when i litera #lly emptied the floor of glass two MINUTES AGO #and when i told her it just slipped and i didn't do it on purpose she's like dont argue with me i saw what happened like oh did u #im sure only u did its not like it was IN MY HAND I'm sure you had a better view than i did of what is in MY hand #this is such a stupid thing to rant about on tumblr but I'm just so tired #i literally had just woken up from a nap i was minding my own business trying yo make myself some coffee #this just irritated me so damn much like #if u really think im that much of a dumb lazy bitch then why did u ask me to do that thing for u in the first place ur literally sitting #in front of the wardrobe why didnt u just go and fetched that thing from ur wardrobe by yourself #ugh wtv this is ridiculous

[foxgloveinspace]

*cracks open a starbucks energy drink*

hey guys, I know I've done this like, 80 times, but I'm pretty sure I'm bi with a preference of men. I'll probably still say I'm a gay, but like. just so y'all know.

#very much so #idk coming out is dumb but I thought I'd let y'all know lmao #i mean..... idk... #women pretty. want to hold hand.... men pretty. want to hold hand.... you feel me?? #also have some gender fuckery going on. i am a guy but I don't hate how i look and also I think i don't hate being called a girl and also I #want to look like a girl but also I want to look like a girl who doens't have a hard time passing as a guy when I want to and I also don't #want anyone who knows me to call me a girl I just want my friends and family to call me a guy thanks #also anon is off if your gonna be a t/e/r/f be a t/e/r/f to my fucking FACE you coward! I'm not a girl and I'm not a bi girl (tho i am bi) #I am a bi guy who says fuck gender you here me? #I have had many anons who pissed me off ok?? Anon used to be off on my blog for years and years for a reason lmao #idkkkkkk where this is going tbh.. thanks for reading my rant

[filthyjanuary]

i'm so sick of my fellow iranians being cringe as fuck on social media and simping for the state of israel out of some insane the enemy of my enemy is my friend mentality like i know this is crazy but you can hate the iranian government without deciding to go full monarchist and act like israelis are liberators of literally anything or anyone

like i'm sorry if the best you can envision for iran is trading one authoritarian for the son of the previous authoritarian (who was literally overthrown bc he was an authoritarian puppet of the united states) solely bc of his name then you hate the iranian people more than i can image

#like why are they somehow hitting the same level of insane cringe as indian nationalists #also stop parroting these dumbass slogans that don't make any sense like iran isnt islamic republic like ok what does that even mean #it makes as much sense as hamas is isis #yall are just saying words that you think sound catchy but are ultimately meaningless #like yeah iran hasnt been an islamic republic for most of its existence #it currently is #that has clearly not worked out and it can and should change but like that's literally factually what it is rn #and it's dumb as shit to act like there ARENT people that do support it #you are never going to gain ground if you accuse literally everyone of being a paid state actor who disagrees with you #or if you see the world in so black and white that you think bc the iranian government is bad israel's government is good #or act like the actual revolution in 1979 WASNT born out of legit grievances #like obviously that went incredibly sideways but like #what is with this insane whitewashing of the shah all of you are so embarassing #sorry i cant rant on twitter bc of the Job so i gotta do it here i am so fucking tireddddddd #i wish the most outspoken public facing iranians weren't all wealthy as fuck monarchists playing activists #while sitting in beverly hills mansions contemplating their next nose jobs and doing absolutely nothing of use like wow you are so brave #it's the same energy as those rich cubans who moved to miami after castro took over #you can argue that the motive for the iranian regime's defiance of israel is not ultimately out of any desire to help palestinians #and frankly i would agree with you #but like in this specific instance i don't actually think their motive matters if it is materially helping palestinians #will it? that remains to be seen #and acknowledging that it could does not suddenly mean you support the regime all of you are so braindead i am tiiiiiired

[alexius-fr]

Rant in tags

People who get upset about other people buying their dragons at fodder price and then actually exalting them will never cease to amaze me.

#alexius speaks #negative #Not drama im just annoyed #Its no one on here i just read a reddit post #if you're so pressed by people exalting dragons dont sell them for fodder price #or just dont breed hatchlings/keep the ones you hatch #thats the only way youll ever be sure they wont be exalted #its literally core gameplay mechanic of the site #its fine if you dont like it but dont get pissy at people just literally playing the game #or put something in your dragons bio like 'pls dont exalt just send back to og owner will refund' or something like that #That personally keeps me from buying a dragon alltogether bc i dont want the hassle of an overly attached former owner coming into my inbox #when i inevitably exalt a dragon #ive exalted dragons that were core parts of my lore #ive exalted dragons i loved bc they didnt fit the lore anymore #and i dont have endless lairspace to keep them all #anyway this has been a rant #i get really heated about this bc its dumb ok

[rosicheeks]

🤦🏽‍♀️🙃

#I can’t stop thinking about it #I keep replaying the morning over and over in my head #my friend said she thinks I should write a letter or text tell them #and I’m thinking about it #the more I’m processing it and it’s kinda sinking in #the more angry and offended and hurt I am #idk I know super vague post #and since you guys keep saying you like my crazy dumb Rosie rant posts maybe I’ll do one telling you guys what happened #I’m just still so fucking mad? #and she has NO idea how badly she fucked me up #she’s texting me like nothing happened and I’m like ???? ok sorry but I can’t just move on from this #anyway fun fact and update about me and my life #I’m looking into a php 👌 #partial hospitalization program #if you didn’t know what I was talking about #so that’s suuuuper duper fun (hope you can feel my sarcasm) #but at this point in my life I feel like I need it #not gonna get into that right now cause ooofda one thing at a time #but this whole situation reallyyyyy set me back in my progress and healing so thanks buddy 👌👌👌 #you are lucky I love your dog so fucking much otherwise I probably would never talk to you again #shut up rosie

[queer-reader-07]

god i love opera but there are too many pretentious fucks who like opera too and i hate being associated with them

#like i can't make one silly little joke about the french writing too long operas #because someone shows up and is like 'ok well you're just weak and dumb because i can sit through a 5 hr opera' #ok good for you so can i i just don't want to be at the opera house till 1 am thank you very much #and you can't say you don't like an opera because then you just 'don't get it' #like no. some of them are just bad ok? opera isn't above any other media form #some of them are shitty and that's ok #opera #rant #(?) i guess #personal

[frogiwi]

oooh people online love to act so morally superior about not using the proshipper label when in most cases that’s probably what they are bc all proship means is ship and let ship NO MATTER what kind of ship it is, no exceptions. like i don’t know how to tell u this but “i don’t care what u ship” is in fact a proship stance

hate to break it to u but most proshippers are adult with jobs or adults in general. of course there are people on both sides who take things too seriously and are permanently online and there are adults who are antis for some reason but i digress. just because you think shipping isn’t a valid hobby doesn’t mean we don’t have jobs or lives <3

#i never post on here but i keep seeing this stupid ass post on twitter and i think it’s dumb as fuck #of course i wish these terms just didn’t exist lmfao they’re stupid and unnecessary and have only caused problems #but when people constantly try to misconstrue the meaning of proship into something it’s not i get impatient #there is literally someone in the notes of the original post who’s like #oh i thought it meant pro as in supporting shipping freely but apparently it means you’re a pedophile! #like NO you were right the fucking first time #but then they went on to say they’re ok with any ships as long as they’re not illegal LMFAO so their opinion is moot anyways #ranting with ki :)

[dreaminginholo]

anyone that seriously calls themself “conscious” and makes a whole blog about it please stay as far away from me as possible

#they’re usually the worst people i’m sorry #just be it don’t talk about it so much #shhhhhhhhhh #had a man with a blog name conscious missing some letters and they said i’m stupid for bringing up the multiple genocides occurring #when their post was about the state of the world #i think i’m doing something right if people like that think i’m stupid and insane 🤪 #people always surprise me with the levels of willful ignorance and blatant dumb assery #ok that’s all #just had to rant about fake spiritual men #you did mushrooms once calm down please universalstudent

[aqqleshiqqing-archive]

"jil why is tom too gentle and nice isn't he always rude or something"

yeah but he isn't rude to ME.... 💔💔 maybe to you but not to me 🤧🤧🤧.......

#u gotta imagine what if he wasnt mad at me ok imagine he was nice for once what would he be like right... RIGHT #don't worry this isnt me ranting im just omg bro hes so ... hes so affectionate what if someone points that out #THAYS BCUZ HES NOT RUDE TO ME 💔💔 PROBABLY U OK BHT NOT ME 👊👊👊 #THIS IS DUMB LMAO ITS 1AM I CANT SLEEP 😭😭😭

[saetoru]

me telling my mom all the drama in my friend group as she cooks and her eating up every last detail like :O

#ok well she’s not cooking she’s ‘prepping’ as she likes to say but it’s 1 am she’s insane #but anyway #listen #you may call me a snitch #but that’s simply not true #my mom doesn’t spill a word okay ??? #TRUST #MAMA TEE DOESNT REPEAT NOTHING #she’s just so elite to gossip with #i be telling her about my friends ex who cheated 3 times and she still took him back #and my mom and i be shit talking him like it’s no one’s business #and then she listens to me rant about how dumb my friend is and she’s like yes yup you’re so right she’s dumb for this #and i’m like THANK YOU bc she rly fucking is #GIRL MOVE TF ON HES UGLY AND HE LISTENS TO 21 SAVAGE #ok no hate to anyone who listens to 21 savage but i’ll be real i don’t understand you #anyway tee + mama tee = best gossip ever #the end

[karlyboyyy]

Oh BOY I get to take tomorrow off work so I can go down to my local police station and file a hit-and-run accident report because some a-hole decided it was cool to start backing out of their parking space riiiight at the same moment in time when I’d also backed out and then! drive off as if nothing had happened 😀👍🏻 and MAN it’s just sooo neat that this happened only three days after I registered & titled the car after only having it for a month 😀😀 like wow what a silly goofy coincidence 😀😀😀

#like ok the damage is minimal and can hopefully be easily fixed #like it’s so minor that had the person stayed we would not need to involve police #I coulda just been like lemme get your name and car deets so my insurance can pay for this shiz #but nooOOOooo #LUCKILY someone saw what happened and got their license plate number #but UGH. this is so dumb #Karly overshares #I was thiiiiisss close to posting a boomer-esque rant on my town’s FB group lmao #but instead you all get to hear me complain ✨

[deus-ex-mona]

✨change the system✨

#fr though i wanna slack off on my responsibilities so… feel free to send me notp prompts if you want— [is dragged back to work] #i don’t have the time/motivation to tl as much as i want to… and i’m also too stumped in my writer’s block to even spew out some crackfics… #(i say as i waste my days away playing p5r… and then p3p and p4g once i’m done with it—) #(i can’t wait to replay p3 and p4 aaaaaaaaaa the cryfests were real in those gamessss) #(freakin’ onions during the ending scene of p3… and the nanako scene and the hisano and naoki social links in p4… s o b s) #(and the yumi social link and the freakin’ guilt trip at the 10th level?? lol???? i got played by the game i wanted to play) #(and this time!!!! i’ll complete the dumb fox’s social link for sure!!!!!!!!!! friggin’ impossible fishing quest (derogatory)…) #…ehhhhhh this ended up being just a complete and utter p3-5r rant… hm. well whatever. it’s suiyoubi i can do whatever i want #(but if you do send prompts pls include the pairing too okiedokes~? [knows no one would send prompts anyway]) #it is suiyoubi my dudes #i m sorry i’ve been having tons of purse owner feels as of late… like aaaaaaaaa i didn’t think much of haru at first then i saw noir and i— #noir’s confidence is just really attractive ok???????? not gonna romance her though kasumi for life <3 #can’t believe i’m having my quarter life crisis over a 2d girl… what has my life come to…