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aritsukemo · 19 days

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Heyyy! I hope the requests are open and im not putting too much work on your shoulders...

Anyways, this is my first ever time requesting... ANYTHING at all so i hope this is a not-so-hard or something that i shouldn't request (if not or you just don't feel like doing this request do NOT respond/do this request. I don't want to cause you burnouts or anything...)

Okay.. so...

May i request OMORI main gang x reader (all separate ofc) how long did it take for them to get comfortable around their s/o fully and how do they act in the developed relationship?

Thank you for your time! ^^

How long would it take the Omori Gang to become comfortable with their s/o? Well..

( @weed-stoner )

Warnings: Spoilers ahead! ( Implied in others and blatantly stated in Aubrey's part )

A/N: I AM SOOOOO INCREDIBLY SORRY THIS TOOK SO LONG!!! I started this shortly after you requested it but then things happened and I had a little dry spout with Omori and forgot about it completely. Nevertheless, I hope you enjoy this! ( And again, I am SOOO sorry, love! 😅)

I'd say, based on their level of openness, the ranking of how quickly they'd become comfortable with their significant other would look something like this..

Kel

Mari

Hero

Aubrey

Sunny

Basil

And here's why..

Kel is the type of person who can vibe with anyone as long as they aren't a horrible person. ( Or act like Mikhael. Even then there's a chance. )

I'd say give it maybe a couple weeks? He's never been in any kind of relationship like this one so he may act a little different than usual for a while. Once that's over though, he's pretty much the same eager ball of sunshine! He'll always want to nag them to come out and enjoy the world with him and will do everything in his power to be around them! After all, it's way more fun hanging with them than being at home..

Now this can be up for debate, but I think Mari wouldn't take long at all to grow comfortable with her significant other. In her opinion, communication and trust are key parts to any lasting relationship so she doesn't mind coming to you when she's a little bothered by things. ( Which happens more times than one may think )

I see her taking maybe around a few months ( like three to four ) before completely letting the person in. It's nothing personal, she just wants to gauge their personality and see whether or not this relationship will be able to last.

Now, Mari doesn't act much different when she's comfortable with people. Subtle things do change though. For example, her smile seems more relaxed and she gets less upset when making mistakes around that person. Their presence soothes her and as a result, she's less uptight around them.

For Hero, it really depends on when he got into the relationship. If it was before his relationship with Mari, which is not likely, he's not that much different to Kel. He'll spend a lot time with the person and pretty much tell them anything and everything. If it's after his relationship with Mari, which is more likely, it'll be much different.

You see, Hero has experienced heartbreak in one of the worst possible ways and it'll take time for him to heal. That being said, I really don't see him dating anyone until that happens, but let's say that he does. Realistically, it take quite some time which can vary from a few months to a year to way longer than that.

Now, Hero is still Hero so he'll treat whoever he dates with the kindness and respect that they deserve and will do everything he can to make sure they're happy and healthy, ( both physically and mentally ) however when it comes to verbalizing his own emotions, that's where we hit a nail. Whoever he dates would have to be very patient with him otherwise it may cause him to put even more walls up.

When he's finally comfortable around them, it'll show. He'll start telling them things he wouldn't before and'll even rant to them about his problems occasionally. He'll be way more open with his partner and'll be just a tad bit ( a lot ) more clingy than he used to.

Aubrey is a rather tough cookie. Ever since Mari died and everyone distanced themselves, forcing her to cope with everything alone, she has never truly let her walls down in front of others. And, if someone attempted to break down those walls, she'll grow defensive and even violent towards that person.

How long it would take Aubrey to even be comfortable enough to date someone really depends on the personality. Like, I see her letting her guard down quicker if the person is more kind and patient with her like Mari rather than someone's who's short-tempered or rough around the edges like her.

When Aubrey is comfortable around her significant other, she'll be less afraid to tell them how she feels. She'll vent to them, but because of that, she'll be more shy towards them. Aubrey'll also hold that person in higher regard than others and'll hold them close to her heart. When they scold her, she actually listens and tries to do better. If they're upset, she'll be the first to notice and'll be there to listen to them rant/help them out in any possible way. And, she'll always try to make sure that her little fights and other violent affairs never mesh and disturb the person's daily life. In a way, she sees this relationship as a way to pay them back for putting up with her for so long so she'd pretty much do anything for that person.

Sunny's next and oh boy..

I honestly don't see him indulging in any kind of romance with anyone unless him and that person were like childhood friends—I'm talkin' never leaving each other's side, seen everywhere together type of close childhood friend with someone—and even then, it's hard to imagine post-traumatized him feeling comfortable around anyone besides his former friends, let alone a relationship. But for the sake of this, let's say he does..

I can't put a time limit on how long it'll take him simply because I see it depending on which ending we're talking about. Obviously if we're talking about any of the bad endings, he's pretty much a lost dead cause. He's not going to make any attempt to open up to them and no matter how much they may try, there will always be distance between them. Now, if we're talking about good ending Sunny, the person actually has a chance.

There will be a lot of trial and error simply because Sunny's used to keeping things bottled up. He's not used to being upfront and truthful and he's only used to running away and not facing his problems. That being said, I see the process quickening a bit if the person he's dating is super gentle and patient with him. If they just gave him time, and a tiny push here and there, he'll come around. And when he does, he'd be stuck to them like glue.

I feel like he'd make it known with his body when he's truly comfortable around his partner. Whether his shoulders noticeably slump in their presence or maybe he lets his guard down enough to hold you or lean on you. Just something that'll let the person know that he feels truly safe around them! I see him being sorta touch-hungry and expressing it once he's comfortable with that person by giving them a bunch of hugs and cuddles and such.

And hey, maybe he'll even talk! ( Nah I'm playing BAHAHA- )

Finally, we have our sweet boy Basil. The gardening genius that carries a ginormous bouquet of trauma wherever he goes..

It's easy to say that whether the person was his friend prior to the incident or not, it'll take forever for Basil to truly feel comfortable around them.

If they were his friend prior to the incident, well, it all really depends. Was he close ( closer than he was with the others ) with them before the incident occurred? Did they distance themself from the group like everyone else? Did they stick to him and never let him go? Depending on what the person does all depends on how long it'll take. To me, I definitely feel like Basil would spill everything eventually if the person decided to stick with him when everyone grew apart and, as a result, would become sort of this unhealthy lifeline to Basil. Since they'd be the one he confides in about everything, it would grow to the point that they'd be the one thing keeping him together. He'd be at their mercy, and in a way, they'd be at his and nothing would really change until probably after the truth comes out ( if it were to come out ) and Basil got the proper help he needs.

If they weren't his friend before the incident, good luck. They'd be lucky enough to even get a full conversation from him, much less get him to be their friend and harbor any kind of romantic feelings for them. But let's say that is the case. Let's say that through some stroke of luck they managed to befriend Basil and eventually end up in a relationship with him. The person is going to have to put up with a lot. Basil is a very sensitive person and all it takes is one bad interaction for him to completely shut them out. They'd have to tread very lightly ( but not too lightly; if they don't try enough, the relationship's not getting anywhere ) or else they'll end up back at square one. I see this taking years ( specifically four or more ) and really, I only see him completely growing comfortable with the person after some extensive therapy.

When he's finally, fully comfortable with them, he'll be way more verbal and open. The fear of being rejected/judged would've been less apparent and slowly pushed to the back of his mind. Being with them for so long, ( and having gotten at least some bit of therapy since I literally don't see this happening otherwise ) he's grown to trust them to some extent. He's also grown to love rambling to them about whatever's on his mind. Whether that be about flowers or things much darker. I see him craving their touch and he wouldn't mind asking. ( But not too many times, he's still Basil after all ) I see those two spending so much time together that Polly would see them as an extension of the household. ( She'd fix them dinner every evening and would grow concerned if they didn't show up to get it and say hey to Basil. That's how much they'd be together. )

Dividers were made by me, pictures used are from Pinterest, post formatting is inspired by @xxsabitoxx

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mommamercury · 6 months

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drop your rising along with how this eclipse has been treating you! ✨

i’ll go first: libra rising 🥳

backstory:

ever since i started my current job (09.06.23), in libra rising fashion i’d dress up and color coordinate to the GODS everyday! hair was always done too! and since the last week or two of september, i was consistently doing everything i said i would. waking up at 6am, putting all my attention into my podcast, rarely even using my phone! you see, i’ve been into astrology since december 2020, but went thru some personal things and fell off with it around late 2021 early 2022, so i don’t recall studying anything pertaining to an eclipse. i attempted to research, but nothing caught my attention, so i was just gonna go with the flow! afterall, i was hearing nothing but good surrounding it.

the real tea ☕️:

i got sick the same week of the eclipse so I was out of work for two days. as a 6H pisces even though i felt better, i wanted nothing more, but to stay in my bed. but no, i did the “adult” thing and went back (👎🏽). now mind you, i work with children so for me to have an off day, will affect the energy that i give to the kids; but the state that i was in, i couldn’t have cared any less about the needs of children, i was just so out of it! i’m the teacher that talks, but i didn’t let out a PEEP, i was so exhausted. (god forbid, a human being have an off day 🙄)

so this last week and a half or two, i’ve been mentally elsewhere, like not even on the same plain as everyone else. still color coordinating, but have not been dressing up at all! my hair? same twisted style that wasn’t even supposed to see the light of day 😂. appetite? we don’t know her! all the food i cook has just been giving me icky vibes! and ofc, my skin has suffered tremendously from my shitty diet! (downside of being a libra rising ☹️)

one positive unexpected event did happen tho 😅. one of my tik toks blew up and is still receiving traction. it has upwards of 1.4 million views. it was one of my shitposts that i didn’t think twice about posting, and what-do-ya-know, that’s the on that blows up lol! not complaining, just was shocked hahaha.

i am still confused on the significance of a solar eclipse, and the effect it’s supposed to have, but I guess I’ll just have to wait and see! 😊

DROP YOUR STORIES BELOW AND SPILL ALL YOUR BEANS! 🥳🙌🏽

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powerfultenderness · 1 year

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Similar idea as that last ask… Adrian telling you that you’re his real best friend. It could be during a soft, sweet domestic moment, like he’s laying his head in your life and you’re playing with his hair and he just says it. So you smile and tell him that he’s your best friend too. And that you love him of course.

Or it could be a big dramatic moment when you’re in danger and he thinks you’re both going to die. He has nothing to lose by finally confessing that he’s in love with you and that he thinks of you as his actual bff. But you are the most important person in his world. The first thing you do once you’re both safe in the mission is over is tell him that you feel the same way.

This isn’t to diminish how important Chris is to Adrian. But Chris has Eagly and Leota first, so I like the idea of Adrian having a number one BFF, who reciprocates. I think, having his significant other be his best friend, somebody who feels just a strongly about him as he does towards them, would mean so much to him. Chris would totally pout about it though and everyone would tease him - except for Adrian who will insist that being bff #2 is still a respectable spot!

Omg. Soft, sweet, domestic Adrian gets me every time! I swear there's a moment of playing with his hair, or just softly pushing aside a curl, in like every scenario in my head 😅

Oh, in both cases Adrian is the one admitting first that you're his best friend. It was probably bubbling up inside him for a while that he just had to blurt it out! In that first scenario it's prolly just instant relief bc of how quickly you can say it back to him. But when he blurts it out in the middle of a mission? He gets all his nervous energy out in the fights lol. He's extra into using his sword and knives at that point. (and he's extra hot at that point too, heha)

lol! Yes!! You know Chris doesn't like admit that Vig is his bff, so the second Vig announces his new #1, Chris totally messes with Adrian! The first time Chris says, "wow, I thought *I* was your best friend?" Adrian totally panics! 🤣

(kinda related, kinda not, personal story under cut. idk if ppl wanna read that)

I used to have a friend a couple years back that, now that i think about it, kinda reminds me of Adrian. The nby ace to my (questioning) bi. We were friends for like a year before they finally met another ace person, and they had a different kind but also close connection with them too. And the look on my friend's face when they accidentally told me that the new person they met was their best friend. They were like, "No! I mean, YOU'RE ALSO my best friend! You can more than one best friend! Like, best friends in a different way!"

I completely understood what they meant, ofc, but i still giggle at how panicked they got 🤣

Anyways, I feel like that's what Adrian would be like 😅

#anonymous #yes tell me all you're adrian hc's pls!#🧜‍♂️#kinda personal story #a glimpse into my past?

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