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champsays · 5 years

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“Adam” The Film And It’s Problematic Implications

Okay, so first of all — YES IM LATE TO THE PARTY! Apparently there’s a film called “Adam” that is coming out this summer based on a YA novel written by a white lesbian woman that is supposed to be super groundbreaking for the LGBT+ community. I’ve never heard of the book or the film until recently because of some backlash I saw on twitter. I didn’t wanna join the band wagon without being properly informed so I did my research and I must say that the backlash surrounding this film is completely just and warranted.

The novel written by Ariel Schrag is about a cis, white teenage boy who has bad luck with girls so when he goes to visit his lesbian sister in New York, who is at the moment dating a transman, he decides to pretend to be trans so he can bag himself a hot lesbian. He does this after being mistaken for trans and decides to run with it. He falls hard for the “hot lesbin girl” and in one scene they even have sex where he actually uses his real penis to penetrate her even though she thought it was a strap on. He goes to a Trans Camp where he eventually feels bad about his actions and confesses to the girl. But for some reason she’s not as mad and even says that ‘it’s okay because she imagined him as a real a boy anyway.’ A lot more happens but that’s the summarized version.

Despite the backlash, some movie executives thought that it would be groundbreaking to make this novel into a film and here’s why that’s a huge mistake. How many Hollywood movies have we seen where a White, Cis male has infiltrated the safe spaces of a marginalized community for personal/sexual gain and then eventually learns how these actions are problematic? We’ve seen this same story play out plenty of times on screen but now that LGBT allyship is trendy in Hollywood, the powers that be thought they were doing something groundbreaking and pushing the envelope by making this highly offensive film.

First of all, the fact that the original novel was written by a lesbian just goes to show how education on trans identity is very scarce even in the Queer community and we have to do better in that regard. But how many times do we need to see a white boy using real issues to get laid on screen? This could have easily been a story about an actual transman coming to terms with his identity in life and in romance. But instead lets create a story where trans is essentially a costume. Hell, a story about the main character’s sister would have been more interesting and more authentic to the author’s personal experience. It also proves that just because you identify as being apart of the LGBT+ community, it doesnt necessarily mean you are qualified to tell stories about all of our experiences.

Now besides the highly problematic narrative and offensive nuances, the writer literally tries to romanticize a rape scene. In the book, the main character tells his lesbian girlfriend that he is using a strap on to penetrate her but in fact he uses his real penis. The girlfriend didnt consent to that which is, by definition, RAPE. Make no mistake, when engaging in any sexual activity and one party decides to go a step further without the consent of their partner that is considered rape. Not to mention the horrible implication that trans men arent real men. Or the fact that lesbians can be “fixed” by having sex with a ‘real man’. That’s right! In the book, the girlfriend of the main character ends up getting a cis boyfriend. Does this make her bisexual or has she decided to be completely hetero? We really dont know but the implication is not okay, especially for this to be a YA novel. If you marry that idea with how impressionable young adults can be, smells like a recipe for disaster.

I can’t continue without saying that there are actually straight men who prowl gay bars hoping to connect with a “hot lesbian” to convert her back to liking “real men”. I’ve personally encountered men with this exact mindset so to fantasize this very problematic behavior into a book AND movie just perpetuates the notion that gayness/queerness/trans identity is curable.

I perused through youtube to find a few videos and interviews of the filmmakers talking about the movie amidst the backlash and the director Rhys Ernst is surprisingly one of the directors that works on the critically acclaimed show “Transparent”. As popular as that show is and as talented as Jeffrey Tambor is, the show is still riddled with its own issues by allowing a Cis White man to play a trans person eseentially taking a job away from an actual trans actor. An issue that even Jeffrey Tambor ironically shed light on during his acceptance speech after winning a Golden Globe Award for Best Actor for his performance in the role.

One would think that in an industry where LGBT+ stories have been scarce for so long that we should rejoice in the small triumphs. On the surface, this film is being paraded around as artistic genius amplifying the voices of the trans community and employing those who belong to the community in front AND BEHIND the camera. We should be applauding this right? WRONG. This story is essentially about the trans community through the lens of a selfish, insecure, sex crazed straight man and we are tired of seeing that portrayed on screen. I looked on IMDB and it says that this film comes out in August and I’m sure it will have a strong marketing campaign that will be wrapped in a beatiful bow of romance, inclusion, and acceptance but don’t be fooled.

We live in a climate where standing up for what’s right is frowned upon. Where people mistake using your voice as another cry for political correctness. You even have people saying this new generation is “too sensitive”. Well I beg to differ. We are not sensitive at all. We just choose to not be as passive as our parents and grandparents were. We have decided to not apologize when we tell you how we want to be treated. And if that’s an issue for you, take it up with God or whatever higher power you choose to believe in. I’d rather be politically correct than completely deaf and oblivious to the experiences of a marginalized people — and that’s what Champ says!

#adam #adam the film #ariel schrag #rhys ernst #lgbt #lgbtqia #transgender #transphobia

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tootiefrootieroll · 5 years

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Got some random thoughts on 13rw

Spoilers ahead, triggering words and topics discussed proceed with caution.

One, does anyone else feel that Clay has shown serious signs of schizophrenia or at the very least depression induced psychosis? And I know his parents have tried to get him help in the show, but I don't feel like it was enough?

In fact I don't think they did a very good job depicting how important seeking profession help can be crucial to a person's recovery. Tyler, Monty, Justin, or Alex never saw profession help.

I'm thinking about removing Tyler's name because he did make an effort to go see a school counselor. But I think, Clay did Tyler a disservice to him by not alerting his parents discreetly or not, he almost shot up an entire school, he was suicidal, and was raped.

The humanization of Bryce and Monty is a bunch of BS. period. What's really shitty is Bryce's arch was actually working, for me as a viewer. I had to continually say out loud, BRYCE IS A RAPIST. Now I think it's important to realize that the part of that story arch's purpose was making people realize Bryce and the people around him would only see him as that monster. But I mean, where is the fault in that? He is a grown ass man, he was very much so capable and aware of his actions, there's no "forgiving" or "redeeming" that. So despite the shitty writing on that part, it had a purpose that I think was important.

How Ani was okay with not judging Bryce by his worse actions, but scared of Clay after breaking into his house, makes no god damn sense.

Now that were onto Ani, fuck that shitty ass character. Let's just off the rails throw this show into that hands of a character that had no ties or business narrating a story that had nothing to do with her. She literally self-inserted herself into this narrative by being as nosey as possible, a liar, deceptive and down right careless about anyone around her. Her only purpose was to be the "inside scoop" on Bryce and his "walk to redemption". Literally a waste of time. And confusing as a viewer to adjust to a stranger telling this grand twist and turn crap season. Plus she didn't even bother to nosey her way around Hannah's tapes, give me a damn break.

I think they took way too much "inspiration" from maybe Big Little Lies with the way they went about narrating and portraying this season. And trust me you're viewers are not that dumb that they need to be lead around like a dog on a leash and thrown around about who did it. The fact that they had to change the person of interest of bryce's killer every god damn episode is ridiculous. It just looks like mediocre writing. Also the continued vague referral and dragging out of what happened on homecoming night was annoying, hence my referral to BLL.

Character to character, some of the writing was excellent. Tyler, Tony, Jessica, and Justin's characters were done some justice. Won't go into detail about each one, but things that stood out to me was Tyler confessing to Clay about his assault, that had be crying. Justin's whole struggle as a addict and the whole relationship with Clay. Tony confronting Bryce about how all of this was his fault, a good reminder as to why we are even in a third season in the first place. And Jessica trying to be more than just a victim, and being active in a change in the schools fostering of toxic masculinity and rape culture.

Character that were wronged or annoying: Monty, Zach, Alex.

Monty, do I really need to say. He is a rapist. He knew what he was doing, no amount of closeted frustrations can excuse his actions. Being closeted in a toxic household can do more to a person's mental health and demeanor than making them a fucking rapist. Ugh. Such a god damn disservice to the LGBTQ+ community. Like Netflix already threw that trope at us with Sex Ed. We get it. Thanks, it's a shitty trope. Stop it.

Zach has a few redeeming qualities here and there. But overall I think his "holy than thou", "I'm an innocent", arch was annoying. Honestly they didnt really use his character at to deserve all this hate from me, but really, any time he would show up would annoy me lol.

Alex was done wrong. He was still suicidal, he was on drugs, and kind of just thrown around. And I think the whole "break up with Jessica hurt me" trope was a weak plot device although I don't think it's unreal. I think it's important to realize how breakups can effect a Male's self esteem the same way its portrayed for females. Yet overall I think they still did him dirty. Also his dad is a cop, and can't pinpoint the mental health issues that Alex was portraying???

On that note, even though I think they made the parent's roles absolutely worthless I think they did it right and wrong. I think parents can be blind or just don't know the warning signs of a child in distress. I think the portrayal of parents not knowing what's happening in the lives of their child was correct. I think that the deceptiveness of teenagers was correct as well. So hand in hand I guess it makes sense that the parent didnt do a lot, but also I think just a display of bad parenting??? Hmm I'm a little on the fence but I think this story should of touched on the roles of parents, parenting their child(ren).

Taking a few days and reading around various opinions of this show (through tumblr) I do have to say I would like to revise my statement on characters. I believe that almost all the characters were pretty irredeemable to begin with. Not including Jessica and Tony.

Let's not forget, Tyler took people's pictures without consent, including a potentially sexually explicit situation and distributed them around. Justin let and protected his girlfriends rape. Clay's inability to see it any other way and his obsessive possession with girls is really disturbing. And all the character one way or another contributed to the suicide of a classmate.

That being said I don't think the characters mentioned above aren't worth redemption (not bryce or monty) but I think it's super hypocritical of the shows writing to dedicate an entire season of humanizing a terrible person(s) but throw away all the bad the rest of character have, and expect their audience to be okay with it???

Those are most of the thought I can put together. I wasn't really a fan of the book back when it was released but didn't mind the show, despite the triggering nature and down right ignoring licensed psychologists.

Ps. Shout out to Olivia Baker for calling out the Cops for jumping on this "poor rich white boy" murder, but lazing around when someone was raped, and another was raped and committed suicide.

Let me know what you guys thinks. Try and be respectful. Everyone has an opinion that matters for different reasons (unless you are defending Bryce and Monty then kindly fuck off).

Overall this season was a trainwreck, hypocritical at best, and down right not necessary.

#13rw #13rw season 3 #13rw3

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the-scottish-costume-guy · 5 years

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My Trans Story

Story of my social and medical transition under the cut, I know its not trans day of visibility anymore but consider this a belated contribution. I hope it helps anyone who’s questioning, or even anyone whos curious about the experience. This is very long and has some mention of dysphoria, abuse, bullying but also has a happy ending so thats your warning:

The earliest I remember giving any indication of being trans was at five or six years old on my way to primary school with my mother (who I will mention was a fairly good mother at the time - this will be relevant later). I turned to her in my little green and white uniform dress and said “I’m a boy, aren’t I mum?” I’m not sure what prompted the question really curiosity maybe but my mother laughed it off - something I dont blame her for, kids say silly things all the time. I wouldn’t say I was a super boyish kid. Yeah I liked a bit of rough and tumble play, I was into pokemon cards, then yu-gi-oh, beyblades - which were all considered “boy” things when I was at school. I liked to play british bulldog and tag, and as I got older I’d get into Warhammer, Dungeons and Dragons, The elder scrolls and other nerdy things which are seen as more unisex now but again in the time were considered “boy” interests. But I liked having long blond hair, and I was curious about make-up. I liked to bake and sew and weave, and as a child I even enjoyed knitting. I cried easily and got hurt often - I was accused of attention seeking through most of my childhood though even looking at myself critically I can only ever remember wanting validation. When I was hurt, when I’d achieved something I was proud of - my motivations were called into question when I sought out help or interest. I remember being heartbroken when art I’d worked on was dismissed or I was told the bad bruise I’d gotten was nothing to be upset over and to stop seeking attention. It set me on a path of questioning everything I did and why I did it.

Unfortunately I have a lot of memory gaps in the lead up to high school and through much of school.

Fairly early on in school though I came out as bisexual. Honestly I think a part of me was threatened by cis guys masculinity and that drove me to women. I had a fairly even number of girlfriends and boyfriends. One relationship the boy I was with implied being ready to try sex and we ended up breaking up not long after when I distanced myself. I didn’t know how to explain the discomfort with my own body that I didnt even understand. How I didn’t want to be touched in certain places or do certain things. I felt like a freak.

It didn’t help that I was already bullied pretty much from the get go in highschool, from age 11 I did have many friends and there were periods where I had none. I was bullied for my hair, for not having friends, for being gay, for being depressed. Hell sometimes I was bullied for being bullied - high school is weird.

I was also... “bullied” by a “friend” who would hit me, talk down to me, at times wouldn’t let me sit on furniture. Once she choked me to the point of passing out among other things. Somehow I was still convinced she must like me on some level - why else would she hang out with me? I wish I’d known better. She introduced me to the concept of being transgender but not in a way I identified with. She told me about a documentary of “Boy becoming girls and girls becoming boys.” she told me “The girls that become boys are always still pretty, you can tell they were girls. But the boys that become girls, you cant tell they were boys they just look like ugly girls.” I imagine shes less ignorant now but its stuck with me.

Eventually around age 16 Two trans people spoke at my school. They talked about how they always felt different, things they’d disliked about themselves - the relief of coming out. I understood completely but my brief excitement was dashed by their talking about harassment and fear. I wrote my email address on a slip of paper and ‘please help’ which I put in the box they were collecting at the back of the room for any questioning youth. They never emailed me. I made an appointment with my doctor.

I actually begged my doctor to fix me, and he referred me to a GIC (Gender Identity Clinic) in Edinburgh. It took a full year to actually be seen there. I told some of my close friends about my concerns and confusion, and came out as genderfluid. I used a random R based male name to try and settle - knowing that as it was fandom related I’d change it later. When I spoke to the specialist at the GIC, I came out as a Trans Man, I felt validated. I came out to my family not long after and it was not well received. My cousin (who had spent every summer with us for as long as I could remember and I viewed like a sibling) died when I was 14. My godmother (his mother) died a year after. Within the ten years since my cousins death, he, my uncle on my mothers side, my great grandfather, my godmother, my gran and my grandad have all passed away. When I came out to my dad he begged me not to put more strain on our family. My mother turned to drink when I was only 14 and had worsened becoming more and more abusive as time went on. I’d had mental and physical health issues since the age of 8 and my experiences were being written off. My mother got worse, and I ended up being her full time carer for a few years. She was abusive, she hit me, she destroyed my things, she wrote on the walls and threatened me with knives. When a letter for my third GIC appointment came, (the appointment that would have gotten me hormones) I highly suspect it was my mother that destroyed it. I didn’t even know I’d been dropped from the list until six months later when I called to ask when my next appointment would be. I’d apparently missed it and for that reason they’d silently, without fuss, taken me off their active patients list. I was upset but handling my mother was enough strain for me not to fight my case for another few years. I went to attempt college for a second time in 2015 - nearly six years after I first came out, and four after my first GIC appointment. I called my best friend over to my house, and together we sighed 15 deedpolls changing my name and title legally. I contacted the clinic and got another appointment for that September. The doctor wanted longer - more appointments to get to know me, but after hearing I’d already had two with another doctor, had waited four years, had told the story I’ve told you now - she told me she wanted to get me on hormones for christmas. She rearranged her schedule and had me come in on december 9th, four days later I had my first doze of testosterone. I didn’t tell my father that I’d started hormones but I had told him prior that I was going to soon. My dad continued not to accept me, as did one of my tutors at college. I kept my head down and muscled through. I’d become so used to not passing that only 4 years later, when Im passing easily and consistently, its both a shock and yet somehow feels like its always been the case. I had top surgery on October 23rd 2017. To my surprise, my father came to the hospital. He’d said he wouldnt visit, but made the 4 hour drive anyway. Last summer, he started introducing my as his son to strangers. He started inviting me out for drinks with him and my brother. He treated me how I had always wanted. Sure he still drops the feminine endearments in - but I’m not going to fault him that. Everyone I meet assumes Im cis until I tell them otherwise. I was finally comfortable enough in 2017 to come out as gay, and I’m now engaged to my wonderful Fiance who is just beginning his own transition journey. My point? It gets better is a tired phrase that feels worn out by use. And no my life isn’t perfect but dysphoria and lack of love is definitely not the problem. Years ago I felt I’d never pass, I told people as much. I thought I was ugly, and unlovable. Now I like how I look, I Know i pass because people call me “sir” “Mr” ect. One of the tutors for the university I applied to was excited to “finally have a man in the class.”

The journey is long, and at no point can you see the end of it. Eventually you just look back and see how far you’ve come. Stay strong.

#Transgender #tdov #tdov2019 #transman #ftm #my story #trans day of visiblity #transgender day of visibility

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heartlessvoice · 7 years

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so the reason why i’ve been super eh with activity lately is, as i mentioned, due to issues with my boyfriend. on valentine’s day he wasn’t going to be here because he made other plans which was kinda shitty considering it’s our first valentines day together and i’ve never spent it with anyone else in a romantic sense so yeah i got upset. i was roleplaying on tumblr when i saw a desktop notification from facebook--darren’s facebook. i mean that’s not too big of a deal i honestly get his notifications all the time since i’m logged into his facebook on my laptop and he knows that and doesn’t care. i don’t usually snoop or anything i’m just too lazy to open facebook and log out. so from time to time i see those desktop notifications for his messages and stuff which isn’t too big of a deal. only this time, i see some shit from this girl talking about me.

i clicked it, wondering who the fuck this chick was and why they were talking about me. i look at it and it turns out he’s talking to her about our fight which made me super uncomfortable because why are you talking to some random girl about our fight?? like don’t do that... anyway i scrolled up to see more and literally the day before that she sent him really... suggestive photos of her in thigh high boots (like yall she was in her fucking underwear and boots). when i confronted him about it, he claimed that he only wanted to see her boots because he was considering getting them as a gift for me and had no idea they were going to be like that (even though she warned him the picture was going to be like that)

so i said to him that even if he truly didn’t know the nature of the photo, he still could’ve told her to stop or not send him anything like that again because um?? hello i’m your girlfriend and no one can send you shit like that what the fuck. and i got super super upset and pissed off with him especially when he told her about our fight like... why are you talking to some chick who sent you provocative photos about our FIGHT. like dude that’s how emotional cheating starts. after confronting him about it, i thought that’d be the end but not even five minutes later HE’S TALKING TO HER AGAIN. and it hurts so much because he knows how uncomfortable i am with him talking to her and how it hurt me that he didn’t do anything about the photos or tell me about them.

i continually tell him all night how much it hurts for me to see him continuing to talk to her but what does he do about it?? absolutely nothing. and it hurts. so much. and i don’t understand why he continues to talk to her when it hurts me like i thought he cared about me enough to do something when he knows i’m in pain. and again, he talks to her aabout our fight which i got mad about in the first place. he even says things like “i must say i do enjoy your company” and expresses interest in her and keeps asking her things similar to how he was before we first started dating and he wanted to date me. like why. why would you say this to the girl who is currently ruining our relationship just why.

anyway he goes to bed and i basically can’t sleep all night and i’m crying a lot and i continue to send him texts all night begging him to understand how much this hurts and i made him choose to either be with me and block her or continue to talk to her but leave me out of the picture. he chose to be with me, and he blocked her and even deactivated his facebook for me even though i didnt ask him to and i thought that’d be the end. we had a talk after and set boundaries and all seemed to be going back to normal.

yesterday, i was checking his snapchat and going through his stories because i deleted my app and i wanted to see my friend’s dog. i look and he has her as a contact on snapchat. naturally i get furious and he told me that the only thing that they talked about was her asking why he blocked her on facebook and he responded with “sorry i cant talk to you” and that was it which i dont believe. so he’s like “go through my phone and ill prove to you that i’m still not talking to her” so i do. i go through his instagram and in his dms literally thirty minutes after i talked to him about it and he chose me and blocked her on facebook and deactivated, he messaged her saying “hey i deactivated my facebook so if you wanna talk text me” and then they exchange snapchat info.

and i showed him it and he said it was because “it’s the anniversary of my grandpa’s death and i wanted companionship” like YOU HAVE ME. I’M YOUR GIRLFRIEND I HAVE BEEN DATING YOU FOR NEARLY A YEAR WHY AM I NOT ENOUGH. i just dont understand why he did this or is doing this like it hurts me so much and i want to break up with him but at the same time i dont and he’s been begging me for one last chance and he’s desperate and he says he’ll do whatever to fix this but i don’t trust him anymore. i’ve been telling him endlessly that i can’t do it anymore but he’s convinced that if we just give it time he’ll make it up to me. and i want to give him another chance but at the same time i don’t know if i should or if i could. i just don’t have it in me to listen to any of his lies. but he’s also my best friend and i love him so much and i don’t want to lose him. i don’t know what to do i’m jut so over crying about this.

#[ ooc. ]#[ tbd. ]#i rambled a lot i apologize #honestlyi just needed to put this somewhere im so over this #i just want it to beo ver with #tbh don't even read this it's just me whining #seriously don't read this aaa

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leagoldsbrough8-blog · 7 years

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My girlfriend and I have been dating for around 4 years now, starting when we in our senior years of high school. Now that we are seniors in college, things have changed a lot in our relationship. When we were 18, I could barely deal with the fact that she had fucked a few other guys before because I was so jealous, and she was incredibly jealous as well (although I was a virgin when we started dating). As the title might imply, this story may not appeal to everybody, but it was a hot time that stuck out in my mind. Over the course of our relationship and late night drunken talks, we explored our mutual interest in bringing outside partners in to the bedroom. It started with talking about celebrities we would fuck, and gradually turned to more realistic scenarios like camming on Chaturbate and talking with others on Craigslist. At this point we were just beginning our interest in extracurricular activities. Although we have yet to actually physically bring others in to our bedroom, it is easily my favorite kink and something that always gets me off. A bit of background to begin: We are both 23, and my gf is 58 140lbs with an athletic body and 34d tits. This particular event took place about a year ago, but I still remember it quite vividly. Enough of the background though. An important fact of this story that made this night so much hotter is the fact that my girlfriend is usually very submissive sexually and not really as outward about her sexuality as youd expect from someone in to a kinkier thing than most people. I jokingly mentioned it to my gf later, and to my surprise she was immediately enthusiastic about both of us downloading the app and flirting with people on there. So anyhow, we both used the app a little the week we were away from school for Thanksgiving, and it was pretty fun – she obviously had a lot of guys trying to fuck her, and although I have gleaned from most of my girl friends in real life that none of them use Tinder seriously whatsoever, it was still flattering to be openly hit on. I am 510 165lbs bit of a fitness freak haha. My gf had matched with a guy that she clearly favored over the hundreds of matches she already had – I think that may have been due to the fact that he was a little older and already had a professional job (The one time my gf will ATTACK me is when I am wearing a suit, so not very surprising). Anyway, my gf was clearly really enjoying sexting with him, and all of it had me hard as a rock. The guy also shared a lot of the same kinks that I had, interestingly enough. Now that I think about it, he was a redditor as well and frequented some of the porn subs that I like as well, so I wouldnt be too surprised if he sees this haha. Although we have always had a great relationship and are now very secure with each other, it didnt hurt that after 4 years of being with each other there were hundreds of strangers that found both of us attractive. The next week when we were back at school and staying at the same place again, we could actually share what we had going on. Since neither of us had anything to do the next morning, I suggested we walk to the convenience store and get one more bottle. It was right before holiday break, so nothing really left to do but a few finals, which meant excessive partying. I was home from college for Thanksgiving when a friend mentioned this new app everybody was talking about at his college – Tinder. She turned around to playfully hit me for doing it, and I joked that she should send it to Tinder guy. It was cold as fuck out, so she put on yoga pants and boots (who doesnt love that combo) so me being the perv I am took a picture of her ass as I walked. When we got back we quickly drank the wine playing a Tinder drinking game, and the wine and the flirting had both of us in the mood. One night after walking home from the bars, her and I were sharing a bottle of wine at home. If so, feel free to PM. I know that it is blasphemous for most to check phones, but since it was obviously getting both of us off, I nodded my approval at her. Just like when I had first suggested Tinder, she surprised me by being all for it. I instantly stuck two fingers in her sopping wet pussy and whispered that instead she would do exactly as he asked. Right as things were starting to get hot and heavy, her phone buzzed. She moaned softly and writhed on my fingers as I told her to strip and get down on all fours so he could get a better view of her ass. 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She looked at me and said Ill text him back later, but I had other plans. I slowly began to fuck her face in rhythm as she slipped a hand inside see live porn of her thong to touch herself. This time, she confidently went straight down on all fours and laid spread eagle while I snapped a few more and sent them off. She told me that he had instructed her to send another picture. She ran to go grab her Magic Wand and immediately started bucking her hips as I whispered dirty talk in her ear about how bad she wanted to fuck the guy from Tinder. I got a little wordy with it, but it was a very fun night. They continued to talk on there a little bit, and he tried to get her to hang out a month or so later, although it wasnt really something I was comfortable with yet. I pulled out right as I started cumming and coated her face in the largest load I have ever blown, hands down. For a lot of people this probably sounds ridiculous, but for me, fetishizing my previous jealousy has allowed me to take control of it, and in turn be more satisfied with my sex life. (to this day I feel like he must have known what was going on as these obviously were not selfies) She turned around and started to stand up, but instead I pulled her on her knees over to me. This sent her over the edge immediately and she came just as hard as I did. I have plenty more stories along these lines if you guys like it. She pulled my ear down to her mouth and whispered how hot it was that this turned me on before she went back to swallowing me like a porn star, until the whole situation sent me over the edge. We are more interested in having a MFM or FFM where we are both present at least as a starting point, but that was still easily one of the hottest experiences of my life. I dont think they talk much any more as he was entering a relationship.

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nitro77hearts · 7 years

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was i wrong to defend my friend

okay let me just get this out I have Aspergers syndrome wich is a mild form of autism I was diagnosed when I was five years old , but my parents never put me on any medication, but I'm going to track here every second Thursday I go to a club for young adults with autism and yesterday was one of those days, however, yesterday something happened my best friend who's name I will not mention told me about this guy out at the activity center she goes to, and how he wouldn't stop bothering her he kept saying the were boyfriend and girlfriend even though she didn't like him and kept saying they weren't she told me she didn't like him because he kept watching these videos on youtube of horrible accidents with people getting hurt or something worse it was as he relished in their pain or something when I asked her if she had gotten help from teachers she told me they were too busy with the others fast forward to an hour later my friend decides to go home and leaves Meanwhile, I'm on the lookout for this little twerp who's been harassing my best friend half and hour later one of the volunteers points him out for me, and I see he's about to leave, and I go after him I catch up to him in the hallway, and this twerp is not very tall he's about 1 or 2 centimeters taller than me I tell him in as calm a voice as I can muster to stay away from my friend and to stop saying that they are a couple, wich they are not, and you know that this little dips... does he starts saying that it's my best friend through 16 years who's been lying to me he claims that it's her who wants to be a couple, of course, I can see through that big fat lie cause I know my friend, she can not lie about such a serious issue and I call him out on it he then threatens me by saying he would throw the rest of the contents of the beer bottle in his hand in my face i then tell him that that could be seen as assault and then i would have every right to defend myself he then flips me the bird and walks back into the room where everyone else is for the theme of that night wich was karaoke I follow shortly after when I enter the room one of the other volunteers walks up to me with him right behind and ask what all that was about I tell him that I was defending my friend the boy then flips me off again and the man takes him away from me I then walk back to my chair and a female volunteer then walks up as ask what happened I start to tell her and the boy starts walking up towards me flipping me off over and over and calls me a bi... several times the lady stands in the way and makes sure he doesn't get anywhere near me the male volunteer from before starts pulling him away but the boy get loose from his grip and flips his s... he throws the beer bottle on the ground so hard it shatters the male volunteer grabs him by the arms and the boy then kicks a table so hard a glass falls off and breaks he gets free from the grasp of the volunteer once more and pushes a chair so it falls to the side one of the girls at the other end of the room where the karaoke stage was screams, and the music stops the male volunteer, and another male volunteer grabs the boy and escort him out of the room when he's gone I realize something i was as cool as an iceberg the whole time I didn't even flinch when he threw the bottle on the ground not even once did I flinch or lose my temper for once I was the one with the long fuse even when all the other volunteers come up and ask me if I'm okay as if I'm shaking like a leaf I just kept saying I'm cool

so here's my question to all of you was it wrong for me to stand up for my friend

update I just found out today that my friend got in trouble because of what I did apparently the day after I told the jerk off he went up to my friend in the activity center and started cursing up a storm once the teachers got them separated they asked what happened and my friend told them that she told me and they remembered me for having a bad temper (I kinda forgot to say that I used to be in that same activity center for about 2 years before i just stopped going there) and thought I had started yelling at him for no good reason and got angry at her for something I did I should be the one to get yelled at not her she didnt tell me to defend her and she got in trouble anyway so now she is kinda mad at me cause she thinks I lost my temper and yelled at him wich I didn't

#harassment is wrong #was i wrong to defend my friend #update #I should be the one to get yelled at not her #she didnt ask me to help her

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