i've seen a lot of people express the worry that they can't claim they're nonbinary until they start hormones or get surgery. i just wanted to say this absolutely isn't true. you don't even have to change your presentation, the way you dress, the way you speak or act, or anything. you don't have to change anything to be able to claim that you're nonbinary. you are a nonbinary person from the moment you realize and accept it. it's okay to call yourself nonbinary before transition. it's okay to call yourself nonbinary if you never transition
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Queer multigender culture is hating "non men loving non men" and "non women loving non women" being treated like the Good Inclusive Definitions for Nonbinary People for gay and lesbian because you know they'll never include you, as a nonbinary person, because you're NOT a non man or non woman.
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Meeting other queer people irl made me realize how irrelevant online queer discourse is. My teacher was nonbinary and gay, no one cared. A girl in the hospital was a lesbian who liked guys, no one in the group of mainly cishetallos even batted an eye. Don’t let online discourse get you down because in the real world people don’t care.
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I need hickies on me💦
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nonbinary gay springtrap pride icons
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I should also say, I fucking love turigirls and achilligirls/achigirls and mlm women and transfem mlm and transfem gays & achilleans and she/her gays & achilleans and femboy women and malewife women and gay bear women and nonbinary gays & achilleans and multigender gays & achilleans and binary woman gays & achilleans and cis woman gays & achilleans and girlfags and intersex gays & achilleans and cistrans gays & achilleans and gaybians and etc etc ily ily
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nonbinary & genderqueer (& other/"third"/etc. gender) people should not have to be relegated to specific or blanket terms for attraction like enbian or queer, nonbinary & genderqueer people can be lesbians & gays, sapphic & achillean, and whatever other terms they want to use. gay, lesbian, sapphic & achillean are not for men and women only, nonbinary & genderqueer people get to define our identities.
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Me and my fiancé had a beautiful date at the MET and then took a stroll through Central Park
We’re moving out of NYC in a few days and while we’re very excited to be closer to our families again we are certainly going to miss some of the beauty here
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It’s nice that a non-binary gay person and a non-binary lesbian can date
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Thinking about nonbinary lesbian & nonbinary gay t4t couples rn
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