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#nonbinary alter
thestarseersystem · 2 years
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Do y'all have alters that are trans or like,, have a confusing/conflicting self image?
Because there's this one alter, I'm beginning to understand is both a fused alter and they feel some dysphoria when being viewed as feminine but also wants to express to us that this is who they are, but also they do not mind what the body looks like.
Their first name is something they want to share with us, but also keep private, and that they dress very gnc despite their innerworld appearance.
Like,, someone who once was a young girl but now is not and identifies as nonbinary and trans. They have a changeling type appearance where sometimes their hair is long but sometimes it's short and can transform into a cat-like animal.
Like,,, some of our alters just,, are not at all like the body and they're good, it's not their body, but their innerworld body is theirs. As for this alter, their innerworld body is not something they completely identify with but it's theirs and theirs to customize how they choose.
I'm definitely not used to it??? But any other alters who are like this? Support is appreciated.
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ellis-reblogs · 8 months
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Nonbinary and genderqueer folks of tumblr
Feel free to tag your name (and gender identity if you please)
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subpixie420 · 7 months
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system-of-a-feather · 10 months
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Unexpected Gender Affirming Thing
At work there is a room where behavioral testing of mice are being conducted and mice have apparently been shown to be sensitive to testosterone. As a result men are not allowed to enter it as it would sway the data of the studies.
I pause and I have to go "Wait then I can't go in either cause I take T and have male level testosterone." and theyre like "well, yeah you can't. I mean if the mice say no, the mice say no."
Like POG mice think Im a man.
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sapphicflorae · 5 days
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A moment of silence for the brain cells I frazzled when my partner sent me a picture of them with goth makeup and a low cut top
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dreamtwinsxxx · 4 months
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Shot made in Tulum, Mexico 🌱
You can find more here ❤️
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justanotherstardrop · 5 months
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hello. i am Melanie. i split off June 2023. they/it/pup pronouns please art is very hard it looks so bad
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I went from someone always scolding and criticizing the way I loved, constantly making me feel like the way I loved was burdening, to someone who tells me that the way I love makes them feel like they're the center of the universe. Here's a sign that maybe you don't need to change. Maybe you just need someone who actually loves you
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possumsinpeoplesuits · 2 months
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I'm kinda still reeling from having a paper trail of just what happens when I black out for days at a time, but a panicked conversation with my roommate brought up a very odd question...
I'm (Kay) transfem, and have been for a whiiiile now. I've been medically transitioning for almost 13 years, and I've got 2/3 of the big surgeries done, save for bottom surgery... and Noah seems to still identify as a guy? Like, I pretty consistently blend in with cis women, and that has to be compensated for, so instead of thinking on what this means for my mental health, dating life, public scrutiny, relationship difficulties, studies or job prospects I'm asking the community to help me with a conundrum, because reading over journal entries isn't helping.
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bongdaddy666 · 17 days
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went to a fancy restaurant the other day and i had an excuse to be a classy goth
i need to get a better picture of the dress because its definitely A) vintage and B) a mourning dress of some sort and it was one of my greatest thrift store finds ever
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Trans Thoughts
So, sometimes I question how I feel about Kay getting this far into transition and bringing my masc self along for the ride, but no matter how dysphoric I get over stuff like my boy tits, I don't think I would've prevented it in a million years.
I'm proud of Kay, and Alice by extension. Getting to this point was hard, and required so much perseverance that I would N E V E R stand against.
It's not the worst thing in the world for me to deal with a bit of dysphoria, when it was so much worse for them. Me? I just dislike the breasts, but they were fighting against my AGAB and trust me when I say, I didn't start out looking that feminine. I had a beard that grew in middle school, I hit my current height of 5'9 when I was still in the earliest teenage years. People complimented my shoulders, compared me to my giant former Navy dad. Hell, I'm a boy and that still feels weird...
I wear baggy enough clothes to cover the curves. I'm decent with binding, as uncomfortable as that gets in Texas. FFS just became facial twinkification surgery, and my voice range is pretty wide. I'm still... feeling out how I talk? I've been reflexively speaking in a very fem voice, and when I try to speak in a deeper voice without imitating someone for drama's sake, my Southern accent gets really strong and I'm not sure I like that. I'm also certainly not going by our deadname, and chose Noah because it was short and a little softer.
I am a boy in a body that's well into transition to female, and as much dysphoria as I get, it's still nothing compared to everyone else. Maybe I don't get to be one of those sexy manly men with the braidable chest hair that're rapidly filling up my internet history, and maybe I'll have trouble dating as a gay man, but who knows? Maybe my softboy charm and the autism in my eyes will lure in someone who finds it very rugged and manly when I explain the plot to Phantasy Star Online Episode 1, and they'll kiss me midway through explaining who Red Ring Rico is and after we sleep together I can make pillow talk about how badass the transition into the fight with Dark Falz was.
Then they'll buy me more vests, because I can never have too many of those.
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subpixie420 · 1 year
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Happy ✨Fem Boy™✨ Friday!💚
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finncapashen · 9 months
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Who doesn't like a little extra mana?
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sswitchblade03 · 3 months
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Oh, and daily reminder,
✨️PRONOUNS✨️
Don't
Equal
✨️GENDER✨️
And if you're non binary, you can be whatever sexuality YOU feel comfortable as, mate.
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system-of-a-feather · 2 months
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So now that I'm starting to get decently far into recovery with top surgery that I can actually kind of occasionally take off my binder for brief periods and go back to exercise and overall my post-surgery care is notably less bulky, I've been able to explore some new options of expression some and I'm so happy and excited to be able to explore and play with going back to fem / feminine dressing and expression some more now that it is 1) an active choice and 2) gender non-conforming
Cause at this point, I've VERY quickly realized that without boobs, basically everyone assumes I'm a short man. It's been almost two months and I would say 95% of people default to he/him and other masculine words and terms - which is TECHNICALLY an overcorrection from the expression I wanted, but that's because I am still in the habit of having to be hypermasculine presenting to counterbalance my previously huge chest
So now I can feel a lot more free and fluid in how feminine I present and in what ways I do. Like, I really actually enjoy wearing a bra and crop-ish-tops now as an aesthetic thing. Femininity is something I have to work for now and I like it that way, thats how it should be and I like it that way.
Femininity is an art, masculinity is a comfort. I want to be comfortable being masculine - masculinity should be effortless. I want to enjoy being feminine, I want to put effort, creativity, and intent into my femininity. I don't need my femininity to be natural or easy, I don't even need it all the time.
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darksunradiance · 6 hours
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