Sometimes i don't feel like any name is good enough. I've come out at least 4 times officially, each under a different name, and none of them stuck. And the most recent name is starting to feel weird. I've tried so many names, Aspen, Moonie, Jekyll, Cody, just going back to my birth name, and now Jerzy, and none of them feel good anymore. I think I'd be happier without a name. But how would that even work?
i actually feel you there, names are tricky! i'm plural and have alters, so naturally names are going to be a challenge for me because there are multiple people living in one body, but i understand how it can be challenging for singlets as well. names are a very permanent thing which can make one feel very stressed when it comes to choosing a new one- other people can be very judgmental about names and name changes too, it makes it even more stressful to try to decide on a name
i think it's okay that you've changed your name so many times- i have too! i've gone by a lot of different singlet names and i've accepted that it may not be possible for me to keep one name forever. i honestly think your idea of going without a name is awesome, and if you want to do that, i think you should. people could refer to you with pronouns only. obviously i don't think there's a legal way to remove your name from paperwork or identification, but you can absolutely choose to just not go by a name with people you know if that's what makes you feel the most comfortable
i think that's an awesome concept, and if you want to go for it, go for it! names are stressful as hell, it's a very human concept that eludes me at times
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It’s a common thing to change your name. It isn’t that incredible. Many people do it. People change their town, change their country. New appearance, new mannerisms. Some people have many names. I wouldn’t pick a name unless I thought I was that person. Sometimes you are held back by your name. Sometimes there are advantages to having a certain name. Names are labels so we can refer to one another. But deep inside us we don’t have a name. We have no name. I just chose that name and it stuck. My forebears were Russian. I don’t know how they got a German name coming from Russia. Maybe they got their name coming off the boat or something. To make a big deal over somebody’s name, you’re liable to make a big deal about any little thing. But getting back to Dylan Thomas, it wasn’t that I was inspired by reading some of his poetry and going “Aha!” and changing my name to Dylan. If I thought he was that great, I would have sung his poems, and could just as easily have changed my name to Thomas.
Bob Dylan • Playboy
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octobers postcard for the postcard club on patreon
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Okay it’s past midnight for me but…. KHtober day 2… Isn’t it funky how No Name’s chain bit looks like vertebrae?
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【2023-12-11】 Tarot Cards (vent)
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