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gh0ulfish2 months ago
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I need a sugar momma so goddamn bad lmao
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damienhirstsdiamondskull3 months ago
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top ten men i hate:
1. that one guy from my class 2. that other guy from my class
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blackswallowtailbutterfly3 months ago
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Female Separatism
Fuck it. Before this topic blows up again, as it always does and I'm seeing the stirrings, I鈥檓 making a post on this controversial topic.
What is female separatism? Women living free from men. That鈥檚 it. That鈥檚 all it means. There鈥檚 no hidden meaning there. It literally just means women living free from men.
Lesbian separatism is a subset, but is, as the name implies, for lesbians only. Whether they admit febfems or not I guess would be at their discretion. Either way, I wouldn鈥檛 be a part of it because I am het, so I鈥檓 not going to go into that. But other female separatist spaces would be open to opposite-sex attracted and same-sex attracted women alike.
So how does that work? Well, on a small scale, it鈥檚 women鈥檚 shelters, housing, etc.. You know, female spaces. We鈥檙e all good with that, right? We all agree women should have some spaces that men don鈥檛 get access to? Cool.
On a larger scale, yeah, it would be land that women live and work on, and men do not. It鈥檚 not like we鈥檙e going to get half the physical planet surface to ourselves either, so what we鈥檙e looking at is several areas that are ours. Like women鈥檚 only villages, and some already exist which is way cool.聽Each of these can be run differently. Some may admit male children and some may not. Some may have smaller areas designated for temporary use for women fleeing male violence with male children in tow until they can get on their feet. Some may admit male visitors who are family or friends for holidays or whatnot, with a sign-in policy and strict rules imposed while they are there. Others may not, and that鈥檚 fine! There can be many kinds of female spaces but the point is only women and girls live and work there and only women run the place.
What it does not mean is that every woman has to live in a female space, as if we could allot enough areas for all of us. It does not mean every woman has to live in one or else turn in her feminism card. It does not mean women who live there cannot leave. It doesn鈥檛 mean women who live there can鈥檛 come and go as they please!
It also doesn鈥檛 mean women who don鈥檛 stay there permanently, choosing to never have male visitors, and never leaving the area, are to be scorned and shamed as stupid. The wish to have a romantic/sexual partner is very strong, whether you鈥檙e at risk of your partner abusing you or at risk of the state punishing you. Clearly that鈥檚 something humans still want and crave. How much of that is socialization which upholds romantic love as the end all and be all, and how much simple biology we don鈥檛 know, except that it鈥檚 clearly both in some capacity. We don鈥檛 need to be nasty to one another about it. But it also doesn鈥檛 mean that het women who do choose to forego all interactions with men are giving up something profound. A fulfilling life absolutely can be had without a lifelong romantic partner. But each woman needs to make her choice about that on her own. Giving advice and presenting options are fine. Shaming women for giving into a very powerful desire that the vast majority of humans have is not.
It also doesn鈥檛 mean lesbian and bisexual women need to give up dating and sex just because het women can鈥檛 date or have sex with anyone in these areas. If you want to have sex with a man, you can leave, have sex, and then come back. If you want to date a man, you can leave and date him, and then come back again if it doesn鈥檛 work out. Within the area, you can also masturbate and read/write het romance novels/watch movies and TV shows with het romances, whatever you want. It鈥檚 okay. You just can鈥檛 bring a boyfriend/husband there to live. That鈥檚 all.
And it doesn鈥檛 mean that smaller scale female spaces such as women鈥檚 shelters suddenly stop existing! So, yes, women with male babies at the breast will still have some place to flee to.
And here鈥檚 the thing also, for women still worried that separatism means abandoning other women, and for women who believe men can be reformed: separatism gives men something to worry about. The law is more often than not on the side of men, we know this. It鈥檚 not much of a deterrent for violence against women and girls, sexual or otherwise. But if places exist where women can literally just up and go and stay away and be protected by people who absolutely will not under any circumstances buy the man鈥檚 bullshit against her, well, men had better behave like decent people then if they want women to stick around, hadn鈥檛 they?
As for men trying to get into the spaces, well of course they鈥檒l try, but that鈥檚 no reason not to have sex-segregated bathrooms or shelters; you just have to keep supporting the ones that don鈥檛 let them in.
Anyway, we need separatism, that鈥檚 not even a debate. Not every woman or even every feminist is going to want to be a part of those spaces and that is okay. But we, collectively, women, we need separatism. We need it for the women and girls who want to be away from men right now, and for any woman or girl who decides it later in life, and even for women and girls who don鈥檛 want to, just so they know they have the option.
That鈥檚 it. Maybe radblr can stop going for one another鈥檚 throats over this and then we have some productive discussion on how to make this work.
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beatlite5 months ago
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this is a psa: i shall no longer be talking to any men on this app unless it鈥檚 entirely out of platonic interest. i am a lesbian, goodbye.
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onehithero8 months ago
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all of my characters r girls and/or nonbinary u wish u fucking wish u were me
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666fxck8 months ago
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i just want to be surrounded by women and women only
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sleepysuccubi9 months ago
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Lol when men follow me
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aspiringhooligan10 months ago
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a no-skip album isn鈥檛 necessarily a fave album. for example i don鈥檛 skip a single song on 1989 but it is behind red in my taylor rankings
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freckledsweetpea6 hours ago
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I don't want kids. And then I see a man holding a baby crying and then I'm like okay but maybe I do want kids. And then I remember he's probably crying because he's thinking about defending his infant daughter from her future sex life and then I'm dry again.
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networklovemvs8 hours ago
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#blegh i will allow myself one (1) post to rant abt kingdom and then i will not think abt this ep again#but wtf was that voting#and ugh it looks like all the performances next week are just gonna be a bunch of macho men bs where is the artistry.........#just bc u can throw a bunch of random stunts and special effects into a performance doesnt mean u have a cohesive performance!!!!#this isnt a fucking marvel superhero movie oh my god i am so tired#it looks like even btob is giving in :// like everyone thinks the only way to win is by hyper masculinity and just as many stunts#and special effects as possible#its like mnet just wants a spectacle for hype or whatever#and im disappointed tbz werent voted first#i thought they and skz had the best stages#the song arrangements were cool they told a cohesive story that was easy for the audience to understand#and their concepts were cool and unique and they used the choreo props and staging well to express them#its hard to compare tbz and skz performances but i think i liked tbz's perf a little bit more#i just thought it was neat too how each of the members had a different kind of interaction w/that ice witch lady (the disembodied hands)#and the dancers' costumes were soooo cool and well done#the story was cool and it connected w/their first performance (they were the only group to do that!)#and yeah the idea was based on got but i think they still built a lot of original stuff on top of it#and just like w/reveal on rtk they made no air into a COMPLETELYYY different song#sigh... i hope they at least feel proud of what they did even tho they didnt get 1st bc i thought it was really cool#(and i thought out of all the groups they had the best acting too...)#(besides felix during skz performance omg he was good)#but honestly i am the clown for wanting this show to be something it probably wont be#oh also my fav moment of this ep waas when the mcs asked q if he was satisfied w/the results and q just went: no鉂わ笍#LMAOOOO ur right.... u were cheated king </3#anyways rant over goodbye <3
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ultraviolencedyke14 hours ago
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why can't lesbians have literally any words for ourselves
#first it was 'butch and femme arent lesbian exclusive!!'#then it was 'lesbians arent the only people who can call themselves dykes!!'#and now of course the dumbass twitter discourse of 'bi lesbians' and 'pan lesbians' or whatever tf so basically even lesbian isnt for lesbi#people literally hate lesbians so much they really dont want us to exist#and i fully believe that lesbians get this much erasure and hatred and get overtaken by other ppl so much bc ppl are so mad that we're not#attracted to men like we r the only sexuality that does not include men at all#so many lesbians dont like the word queer bc its not specific enough!! lesbian is what we are! we like women and we dont like men#lesbians are just ~too exclusive~ bc we wont entertain the idea of being with a man if we've overcome our comp het#~queer~ allows people to imagine that we're not exclusive#that we're ~fluid~#that there is a potential that there will be that One Man who's an exception#and im really really really really really tired of it. i want to dig a hole into the crust of the earth and just disappear like i literally#dont have any other idea as to how to escape men and the male gaze and patriarchy and lesbophobia#usually i just try to Be Over this stuff by now bc whatever dumb internet discourse but like its literally not the internet anymore there r#people ive met irl who dont know butch and femme are lesbian words#or who think they can call themselves dykes even if they arent a lesbian. and then who refer to all other wlw as dykes#its literally just so harmful how lesbians arent allowed to have our own community or our own separate experiences#yes theres a lot of overlap thats why we have the broader lgbt community#but lesbians need a place to just be lesbians too and it literally makes me feel so incredibly lonely to not have that.#this was prompted by seeing yet another stupid tiktok from a pansexual who was telling a lesbian that theyre abusive for saying femme is a#lesbian only term ?
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There's only two genders of being androgynous and they're "being so beautiful everyone wants to fuck you" and "being a nasty little rat on purpose so no one will fuck with you"
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triforcey3 days ago
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men will wear literally the worst hat you have ever seen in your entire life and theyre like i think i look great. you look like you have a lego persons head and someone put a barbie hat on you. it doesnt even go with your outfit.
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entamewitchlulu3 days ago
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according to this season i have two flavors of Anime Wife
1. strong, beautiful, competent,聽could聽crush me if desired but i mostly want to be held gently by her big beautiful arms
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2. objectively a poor decision that will likely end with physical and/or emotional wounds but i鈥檓 going to hit that anyway
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kingjasnah3 days ago
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yea niche post but im realizing when ren/rlain happens i will be holding it up to penumbra podcast second citadel standards in terms of transgressive relationships that not only tackle being m/m (and poly) but also deal with cultural differences between a human and someone who is....humanoid? and if i dont get the full spectrum of complications and character development and care that tpp had i will probably be kind of a bitch abt it
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squips-ship3 days ago
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laura saw this goddamn pose on a polyam trio meme, sighed deeply and said聽鈥榊EP... THATS ME聽鈥楴 THE ANGRY MEN.鈥 and crummily doodled this as i had a dire need for the poly content.
鈥榲ert will see enj鈥 doing literally anything with me and get jealous and sWOOP IN TRYING TO ONE UP HIM. RINSE AND REPEAT. THEY鈥橰E BOTH PETTY AS HECK TO EACH OTHER. PETTY PETTY PETTY. (but also both very much in love with me so they gotta try at least ACT nice to each other while i鈥檓 around.)
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waka-chan-out3 days ago
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rating nicknames:
@liibrii tagged anyone that wanted to join so i鈥檓 subjecting you all to my opinions
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mommy/daddy: daddy? 2/10. mommy? 7/10.聽
darling: cute, classic, but should be used sparingly. 8/10
doll: very few people can pull this one off. should also be used infrequently. 6/10
slut/whore: exposing myself . . . 11/10.
baby: in the bedroom? 7/10. 鈥渃ome here, baby鈥? 8/10. in literally any other context? breaking up with you/10.
love: should be used sparingly but another classic. 8.5/10
bae: I -- what the fuck? no. absolutely not. I might commit a literal crime if someone called me this, whether ironic or not.
kitten/bunny/puppy: didn鈥檛 think I was into it . . . . I was wrong. kitten 4/10. bunny 5.5/10. puppy 10/10 but only when used against someone else. i don鈥檛 want to be called puppy lmao.
cow: why the fuck is this on this list.
princess: makes me feel like an infant so i get violent ick when it鈥檚 used. -0.02/10
brat: i had a longer explanation typed out for this but i鈥檓 just gonna say 10/10 and leave it at that.
angel: 3/10. idk to me it just sounds kinda awkward.
i鈥檓 adding one of my own because this list doesn鈥檛 feel complete
sir/ma鈥檃m: lord have mercy. 40/10. 400/10. i don鈥檛 know how this wasn鈥檛 on the original list because 馃ゴ
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tagging: @tanzaniiite (if you want to baby no pressure), anyone else that wants to (i want to hear your opinions fr !! drop them in the replies if u don鈥檛 want to reblog)
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