the trk era was generally characterized by stief cavalierly dismissing beloved fan theories/fanon and a lot of hostile interactions with fans, and while some of it was annoying or problematic or whatever, a lot of it was 100% understandable given the health shit she was dealing with behind the scenes and the hostile tone a lot of fans took with her
“Also, look to the side.”
“Why?” I said, blinking.
“Because when I look at you from one angle, I’m seeing Sherilyn Fenn and Winona Ryder, but when I look at you from another? Eh, not so hot.”
“Wow,” I said sarcastically. “I don’t have validation from a random man off the street. However will I live with myself?”
C.T. Phipps, An American Weredeer in Michigan (Bright Falls Mysteries #2)
dbz au where Yamcha runs and flings himself super romantically into Tien’s arms in front of everyone when Tien gets wished back to life and all the Namekians are like ‘Aww :)’ and Bulma and Krillin are like 👀 ‘fuckin knew it’
Remembered last night's dream while I was making tea! It was a nightmare with the flassic "bunch of kids are at an evil boarding school" scenario where I had to escape whatever nefarious plot was going on... Of course one of the evil teachers was bitchass ripley lol
What do you think about men who get mad if you don't want to have sex or phone sex with them...and they go on a rant to try and make you feel bad about not doing so...then they bring up the fact that they're a grown man and call you a little girl who who don't know know any better or how to please a man?
He’s trying to bait you into “proving him wrong” and breaking your own self will to f*ck him. Unacceptable.
He doesn’t respect you bc he’s not taking your “no” for an answer. And he thinks teasing you w his baseless opinions can change your mind.
Watch out for guys who try to flirt with you by saying shit like "unlike most men, I find fat/thick/plus size women beautiful". He's negging you. He wants you to focus on the "you're beautiful" part so much that you ignore the part implying that no other guy would find you attractive. Like any negging, guys do this because they want you to feel like they're doing you a favor by giving you the time of day. It sets up a power dynamic where they are always in charge and you have to work for to keep their attention.
What do you do if a guy feels like the two of you will probably never be on the same page to reach the same goals + probably shouldn't be together? My bf does this and sometimes he gets very extreme with it. He doesn't flip on me but he's going through so much I just feel like he's over thinking at times. I feel like we should take our time + I'm working on some things for myself that he knows nothing about because I feel like when I mention certain things,he gets mad because they're things he's not used to. I don't want to leave him and he does want what's best for me. But who wants to hear that shit every day coming out of the mouth of someone who claims they love you? I'm a good woman with no baggage. He has a lot of baggage. And I'm still here,doing my best. But if he keeps it up,I might just have to put him in the friend zone and get with someone else. It just feels like he's rushing me but I have my own things to do. Smh. I'm so clueless about this situation,Tae. Maybe I should take a step back and let him do him? Then if we're meant to be then we will be. Idk. I just don't have time for the nonsense when I'm doing my best and everyone is proud of me and things are going well... Until he shows up... Then let him tell it,I could be doing so much more. Smh. His way of motivating me feels so unloving at times. Like I'm done random ass female on the street. Smh
This is a hard line for me. Miss me w his bullisht.
How is he your boyfriend if he’s ever told you yall probably shouldn’t be together? Did he take it back or something?
No offense but until you admit why you’re blatantly ignoring someones continued efforts to literally dismiss you - this whole situation is in his hands. What do you gain staying in this rel’t’shp & allowing yourself to feel so many terrible, preventable things?
tbh I can’t take even thinking my partner thinks less of me. Unfulfilled potential is one thing talking down is another. This that type of mental/perspective distance that immediately means emotional/romantic/sexual/physical space from this person for me.
Narcissists are notorious for their scathing criticisms & verbal abuse. Overt narcissists in particular love telling their victims how fat, skinny, ugly, stupid, useless they are & more. They have no problem spelling out their victims’ supposed flaws very clearly.
When the narcissist in question is a parent, this is often the norm. That child probably doesn’t remember any time where their…