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genderqueerdykes · 10 months
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aromantic and asexual people are not inherently "miserable" or "unhappier" than other people. we are not "missing out" on something- if we do not experience these feelings to begin with, we have nothing to "miss out" on. the only time that aromantic and asexual people are miserable is when we are forced into relationships or forced to believe we "need" to be in one to be complete. destroy this argument in your mind- aromantic and asexual people define our happiness. we are not inherently miserable, we are doing just fine
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your-rutherfurr · 4 months
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Me: yeah I'm asexual
Me at the same time: *starts playing the most filthiest songs known to man*
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frogsforthefrogwar · 1 year
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ryanyflags · 4 months
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Nebula- flags set :D
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nebulasexual | nebularomantic | nebularose/nebularoace nebulalterous | nebulaplatonic | nebulasensual (1) nebulasensual (2) | nebulaesthetic | nebulaqueerplatonic nebulaphysical | nebulaemotional | nebulatertiary
(I did not make all these flags by the way, I just included them all because I love having everything in the same place as a set. For the ones I didn't make I included a link to their sources.)
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nebulasexual flag (source)
nebularomantic flag (source)
nebularose/nebularoace flag (source)
✦ nebulalterous was color picked from the Turtle Nebula.
original nebulalterous flag (source)
nebulaplatonic flag (I have it saved on my pc but I can't find where it came from / who made it)
nebulasensual flag (source)
✦ alt nebulasensual was color picked from the Glowing Eye / Dandelion Puffball Nebula.
✦ nebulaesthetic was color picked from the Twin Jet / Butterfly Nebula.
✦ nebulaqueerplatonic was color picked from the Little Ghost Nebula.
✦ nebulaphysical was color picked from the Bubble Nebula.
✦ nebulaemotional was color picked from the Rosette Nebula.
✦ nebulatertiary was color picked from the Tarantula Nebula.
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The specific nebulae I chose isn't for any particular reason, I just chose what I thought looked pretty/fitting.
Also the names for these nebulae are just so amazing. Like dandelion puffball? Little ghost? Adorable.
(The reason I didn't include these in my other aspec flag set posts is because I didn't know how they should be designed. But I decided to give it a try now, I think they work?)
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flower32-1020 · 10 months
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I noticed a lot of tbh creature flags but not a lot of btw creature flags. So I’ve decided to make my own.
Starting with all the Asexual flags I could get my hands on
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Top to bottom, left to right:
Greysexual, Asexual, Asexual spectrum, Aegosexual, Myrsexual, Cupiosexual, Demisexual, Lithosexual, Fictosexual, Fraysexual, Reciprosexual, Belussexual, Cadesexual, Iamvanosexual, Placiosexual, Requissexual, Adexsexual, Nebulasexual, and Orchidsexual
Oh also:
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Aroace (purple & green ver)
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We had someone ask about the auti- microlabel, so here’s a little infographic going into some detail on it! It’s similar to quoi- and nebula-, but is a term specific for those on the autism spectrum. 
[ID: “Auti-ace. Someone who finds that their autism and asexual orientation cannot be unlinked due to how much their autism affects their orientation. Auti-aro. Someone who finds that their autism and aromantic orientation cannot be unlinked due to how much their autism affects their orientation. This orientation is exclusive to autistic individuals. Auti- does not mean one's orientation is autism itself, rather that their autism greatly impacts their orientation and aspects related to it (desire for social partnership, interest in physical intimacy, etc.)The flags include the infinity symbol, which is a symbol of the autistic community.” End ID.]
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palatteflags · 5 months
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Nebulasexual and Nebularomantic moodboard~ ^^ For @pebiejeebies c: Hope you like this~
Want one? Send an ask! -mod Jay
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isobug · 11 months
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Nebularoflux, Nebulaceflux, Nebularoaceflux
Nebularoflux : one is unable to or has a hard time distinguishing romantic attraction from platonic attraction due to being neurodivergent (Nebularomantic), and due to this has a romantic orientation that fluctuates. (It may always stay on the aromantic spectrum, or it may not. This depends on the individual)
Nebulaceflux: one is unable to or has a hard time distinguishing sexual attraction from platonic attraction due to being neurodivergent, and due to this has a sexual orientation that fluctuates. (It may always stay on the asexual spectrum, or it may not. This depends on the individual)
Nebularoaceflux: one is both Nebularomantic and Nebulasexual, and due to this has both a fluctuating romantic orientation and sexual orientation. (These may always stay on the aromantic spectrum and asexual spectrum respectively, or they may not. This depends on the individual)
(Nebularoaceflux could also be called Nebularoseflux if you’d prefer that)
The first column uses the layout of the Aroflux/Aceflux and Aroaceflux flags and the second column uses the layout of the Nebularomantic, Nebulasexual, and Nebularoace flags. The colors were taken from blending each corresponding flag together.
Made for prompt 3 of my 150 followers coining event "aspec or little to no attraction" (read about it/join in here!)
Free for anyone to use as always, help with ALT text is appreciated! EDIT: please see this reblog as I didn’t cover the full scope of the definitions for Nebula- terms on this post!
Taglist - @revenant-coining
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mineshaftss · 8 months
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Honestly I feel like the label Nebulasexual describes my relationship w/ sexuality pretty well. I can't tell if I experience sexual attraction or not because of neurodivergence, specifically PTSD. It's also kind of funny (not really) because I used to mistake platonic attraction for sexual attraction. Anyway, I made one of those memes for this label (feel free to use).
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entropy-sea-system · 6 months
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Redefining Nebularomantic to be more open-ended as a label, like its Nebulasexual counterpart
Introduction:
Nebula- as a label was meant to be quoi- but specific to people who feel their neurodivergence and/or (action/attraction type)-related intrusive thoughts influences the respective orientation for them.
If you look at the nebulasexual label it is defined broadly, just as I described in the above paragraph. However, the term nebularomantic has almost always been defined only as "cannot distinguish between platonic and romantic attraction because of neurodivergence" unfortunately.
Now there are generally a few problems with equating platoniromantic with quoiromantic:
Quoiromantic is an umbrella term with many definitions it can include. It generally includes any difficulty in comprehending or fully understanding an attraction or relationship type. Platoniro definitely is included in this but it is inaccurate to define quoiro as only platoniromantic and it disrespects the broader definition of quoi- that the coiner intended
It assumes that we all have a connection to platonicism and understand the concept of "platonic" well. Not all quoiros use the arospec label and some are more alloromantic-spec aligned but there is an assumption that arospecs must have a huge connection to platonicism (due to platonormativity) which undoubtedly sidelines those of us who don't (aplatonics and plato averse or repulsed people mainly)
It implies that you cannot confuse other attractions with romantic if this is the only way quoi- gets (mis)defined
Anyways, seeing as how the nebulasexual label functions as "quoisexual if orientation influenced by being nd and/or having sexual intrusive thoughts", it is very reductive to make the romantic orientation of nebula- spectrum mean only "platoniromantic and neurodivergent"
For those reasons I am now redefining Nebularomantic as follows:
Nebularomantic: Being unsure whether one experiences romantic attraction, being unable to fully understand romantic attraction, or otherwise identifying as quoiromantic or similar experiences, and this being influenced by one's neurodivergence and/or having intrusive thoughts about romance
The main reason I am doing this is because I'm an apothiplatonic sexuromantic who is quoiromantic and does not want people like me to be excluded from the label of nebularomantic. I also want arospec and adjacent terms to be defined properly, instead of being forcibly made to involve platonicism, despite the other orientation types' counterparts of the term not even specifying confusion with ANOTHER attraction type (while still including it under the term if one wishes to id w it for that reason).
This very much means people who fit the older definition of nebularo are still nebularo !! Just that it will no longer be the ONLY way to be nebularomantic because there was no necessity for that label to be that specific to begin with, especially compared to the usage of it in the acespec adjacent version (nebulasexual).
Additionally if anyone wants to coin another term that specifically ONLY means "platoniromantic and orientation influenced by one's neurodivergence" you definitely can. I think that can be a useful label for some people if they want it. (I might coin one like that for sexuromantic myself at some point)
Additionally at one point I will coin a term 'Nimbusromantic' which is explicitly inclusive of nebularomantics who do not experience platonic attraction and/or don't feel a connection to platonicism thus don't relate to the older definition of nebularomantic.
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arsonist-frog · 2 years
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I made some crystal pride flags
( lesbian | ace | trans | agender | nonbinary | aro | pan | bi | nebularomantic | nebulasexual )
What other pride flags should I do?
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ace-culture-is · 1 year
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Nebulasexual culture is “is it actually sexual attraction or just intrusive thoughts??”
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i saw someone attempt to "critique" labels that are born from being unsure, like the "quoi" labels and the "nebula" labels (which respectively are "idk if i feel this attraction/have a gender" and "quoi, but for neurodivergent reasons") by saying they promote people not actually figuring themselves out, but like...
who gives a shit?
if someone identifies as quoigender or nebula-romantic or whatever, it's because they aren't worried about finding a concrete label. They don't know what fits them or whether they experience something and they don't care, which is why they label themselves as quoi or nebula in the first place instead of saying "questioning". Questioning implies that you want to figure it out, but some people are fine with not knowing or being unsure, and therefore aren't questioning. that's literally fine!!! they should be allowed to feel comfortable labeling themselves as "idfk man"!!
same with being unlabeled. There's nothing wrong with that, either. It is literally fine to be unlabeled, quoi labeled, or nebula labeled. There's nothing wrong with the people who do so.
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ryanyflags · 9 months
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Alt nebularose flag.
The colors are just picked from the two nebulasexual and nebularomantic flags.
Just something I wanted to try making.
Nebulasexual and nebularomantic flags below,
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autistpride · 4 months
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This is a brief intro to the nebula- microlabel - we’re hoping it provides some useful info!
[ID: “Nebula -sexual. Someone who finds it difficult to tell if they experience sexual attraction or desire, and connects this difficulty to their neurodivergence. Nebula -romantic. Someone who finds it difficult to tell if they experience romantic attraction or desire, and connects this difficulty to their neurodivergence. This is a locked orientation, meaning it is exclusive to neurodivergent individuals. Nebula- is very similar to quoi-, but is specifically connected to neurodivergence. The flags are based on the colors from pictures of nebulae." Pictured above the text are the nebulasexual and nebularomantic flags. End ID.]
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