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#narcissist abuse
solitaryschizoid · 2 months
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i fucking hate the phrase "narc survivor" bitch us narcissists are trying so fucking hard to survive our OWN disorder, get our name out of your fucking mouths, you didn't "survive a narcissist" you survived ABUSE from an ABUSER!
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cariii291 · 3 months
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This is real and I don’t wish it on any body 😔
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finleyforevermore · 11 months
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narckaveh · 1 year
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common disproven myths about NPD (from a narcissist) 💗
🎀 ▪︎ narcissist abuse isn't real. you wouldn't call an abuser with depression "depressive abuse" or someone with bipolar "bipolar abuse". It's a term meant specifically to attack people with NPD, regardless if they're victims theirself. its just emotional abuse. Stop demonizing specific complex disorders that vary on a case to case basis in order to deal with your own trauma.
🎀 ▪︎ low/no empathy does not mean people with NPD cannot learn to care about people.
🎀 ▪︎ not everyone with NPD wants to be cured, and that's completely acceptable.
🎀 ▪︎ the idea that "real narcissists would never tell anyone they're narcissists" is ableist bullshit spread around to convince people to witch hunt and bully individuals who're trying to recognize their own traits.
ALL NARCISSISTS ARE VALID. DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE.
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loserwitchkid · 6 months
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here's your reminder that people are not all the same! just because someone else treated you shitty doesn't mean that everyone else will! you don't deserve to be treated shitty!
there are people in this world who are waiting to meet you and they are just dying to give you the world.
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whatacharade · 8 months
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invisibleoctopus · 2 years
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calling emotional and psychological abuse "narcissistic abuse" does a disservice to actually talking about the ways emotional abuse can fuck you up.
calling everything that isnt physical or sexual abuse narcissistic only validates the idea that physical/sexual abuse are the only "real" kinds of abuse since "emotional abuse is only done by mentally ill people" is whats implied by this narcissist shit.
emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and neglect can hurt just as much as physical and sexual abuse (bc different ppl react differently to different types of trauma) and talking about it PROPERLY will probably help more people realize how their lives were fucked up than saying its just the evil unfeeling narcissists who do that
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butterfliesrising · 4 days
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he wanted me to feel jealousy towards her, but i didn't, i just felt compassion for her… i too had once known the devastating lack of self-love required to be with him
- butterflies rising
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novasvent · 2 years
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Hi, so super unpopular opinion. If you have NPD and don't want to or make any effort to get help or get better or try to change your mindset and don't care, youre a piece of shit. Im sorry, I said it. Yes it is a disorder and yes it could your judgement but if you are purposely and knowingly hurting others around you because you refuse to get help you suck.
Hate me IDC I said what I said
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lalalalibra · 1 year
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One of the hardest choices to make…
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thyroiddiseasediaries · 10 months
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Child- the toxic manipulation.
Someone please stop teaching these insecure men therapy terms before they choke on them?
Bro I so bad wanted him to be decent, but what a fucking piece of shit.
A boundary does NOT equate to being able to control your partners appearance.
A boundary is don’t touch me without consent, don’t sneak up on me it triggers me. Don’t just show up unannounced. If I ask for space, give me space. Even- hey I know you love this show. But it triggers my anxiety and at least for now. I don’t want to watch it. I’ll try again later when I’m in a better head space.
A boundary is NOT don’t wear this, don’t wear that, don’t talk to men, don’t take sexy pictures. Then chastise when your partner doesn’t follow your demands to the letter.
This sounds more like a hostage negotiation than it does a fucking relationship.
Stop trying to turn happy bad bitches, into miserable sad bitches just like you.
If you can’t handle them? Leave. But don’t you dare try to make them feel bad for being the person that attracted them to begin with.
Why is Danny Mcbride the least problematic of your squad?
Fucking hipster bitches who call themselves a feminist and act like this. You are worse than the ones that just come right out and show their toxic/sexist card. The “sensitive” Big eyed velvet painting guys who pretend to be different then say the most foul shit about women.
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solitaryschizoid · 2 months
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Personality disorders are a direct result of severe childhood trauma, so if you're promoting the idea that all narcissists are abusers, just know that you're causing very much harm by insinuating that victims of abuse are the abusers. And you're not just harming those with personality disorders, you are hurting ALL victims of abuse.
Just because you don't feel comfortable with the way trauma manifests in people doesn't mean you can blame them for the abuse they went through and tell them they are inherently abusive because of the way their trauma formed into a personality disorder.
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cariii291 · 2 days
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I really need to know how to get rid of a narcissist/ sociopath because those people are possessed by the devil. The narcissist guy is this guy I dated when I was like 21/22 years old but even though he broke up with me, he has never left me alone. They are the devil in disguise. When I say they, I mean his dad and him harasses me spiritually. This guy (my ex) talks in inside my mind and I can see those people inside my mind. They steal my energy spiritually. They don’t have a life. I read online that narcissists don’t like to be alone and think they are superior than anyone else. Narcissists are self centered and don’t have empathy. Of course I know my ex boyfriend name and I want to report them to the police but I can’t report them because I don’t have proof of how to report them. It has been since 2019 yet They harassed me spiritually to this day. I want to know if someone has experience in this narcissistic abuse and how they got away from these devilish people. I swear, they have like magical powers. My ex boyfriend possesses me. I swear my ex boyfriend and his dad are living demons.
#narcissisticabusesurvivor
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if you believe in narc abuse you believe in:
-adhd abuse
-autism abuse
-ocd abuse
-depression abuse
-anxiety abuse
-anorexia abuse
-ptsd abuse
-did abuse
think before you try to assign abuse to the possible (not even likely) “evil” disorder you’re assigning them. people with npd, but really ANY cluster b or “scary neurodivergency/mental illness”, don’t deserve this treatment
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narckaveh · 1 year
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something I both hate and love are the stupid fucking "narcissists don't care about you they're just here to abuse you" because you get gems like this
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"It's a habitual choice to be selfish and to lack empathy for other people" is such a stupid statement I can't even begin to outline how much misinformation about NPD is spread around so casually. its amazing how many people demonize it as if it's going to help have other people with NPD realize their disorder without feeling like they have to deny it. you can be a fucking hot ass cool bitch and have NPD. mental illness doesn't make an abuser, a person does.
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ddlc3177 · 11 months
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