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riverofrainbows · 2 years
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I hate you preserving beauty at the cost of enjoyment.
I saw a video of a woman with extremely thick hair doing a thinning method at home. One comment said "my hairdresser heart weeps" because apparently her method may lead to frizz and impact a unified hair look. The woman had so much hair it was giving her headaches.
Its the same as people telling me when I had long hair never to cut it because its so impressive. Its people telling natural redheads never to dye their hair because its such a rare pretty colour.
Its transmasc people being told they were so pretty as a girl and are wasting that.
Its girls being told they are wasting their figure/physical attributes because they are not displaying them constantly and wearing comfortable baggy clothes.
It's people telling you to never go in the sun, not smile and not to use a straw because it will give you wrinkles. Its being told not to eat certain foods because they are bad for your skin, or to do eat other foods because they are good for your skin regardless of whether you enjoy either of those foods. It's being expected to put hours into your skin care and prioritise it over activities you enjoy so you have younger looking skin when you are old.
It's being expected to wear clothes that are uncomfortable because they make you look thinner/more like an hourglass. Not to move in certain ways because it will be unflattering.
It's telling people not to prioritise themselves and their interests in their decisions but instead to prioritise their skin/hair/figure/etc.
I did not agree to preserve whatever natural features i was born with like a one man historical society for myself just because i happened to be made of those genes. I have every right to use and enjoy my body in ways other people don't think fitting and that don't preserve features that currently fit societal beauty standards. I do not agree to hold aesthetic pursuit over comfort and health and happiness.
I know one thing. When i am old i will certainly regret every single day i ate a papaya for breakfast (i hate papaya) instead of a pancake and didn't go into the sun. I will not regret having wrinkles, i just hope they are from laughing.
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shoujoboy-restart · 2 years
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But remember guys, this is only about women's rights and if you disagree with this Concerned Apolitical Women's Right Advocate™ you are big lesbophobic, support omnipresent rapists in bathrooms and also don't believe in the rights for women.
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woodeneyes · 6 months
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The twitter thread of men speaking about how much they hate their wives and girlfriends is the reason more women want to remain independent. Lots of the time, gaining a man means losing yourself. And it's simply not worth it. We choose sanity, survival, and peace.
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abwwia · 3 months
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For Youngmi and many others who subscribe to its basic premises, 4B, or “practicing bihon,” is the only path by which a Korean woman today can live autonomously. In their view, Korean men are essentially beyond redemption, and Korean culture, on the whole, is hopelessly patriarchal — often downright misogynistic.
- Youngmi and her friends created a map of women-owned businesses in Daegu so they could ensure their dollars went to supporting other women. “The economy is a very important issue for us,” she told interviewer . https://www.thecut.com/2023/03/4b-movement-feminism-south-korea.html?utm_source=tw&utm_campaign=thecut&utm_medium=s1
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electr1c4 · 1 month
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Instagram reels account that posts "cringe" tik toks simulator:
[disabled person having fun]
[disabled person having fun]
[woman having fun]
[satire]
[ragebait]
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[disabled person having fun]
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femme-dor · 6 months
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Hey Ladies, men who bitch about women’s outfits with dumb shit like “Men like The Chase™️” & “Women are gifts that should be unwrapped by a special man”, are admitting out loud he’s a predator who sees & prefers non-consenting women as consumable objects for male enjoyment he must outwit & manipulate in order to “win” aka get her clothes off.
It’s never about modesty. Run in the other direction.
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rainbow-sheeps · 1 year
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as an queer christian -
i have been told when i find a husband, i will be fixed. i have been told that all women are asexual. i have been told my own bodily autonomy is not my own.
i shy away from small groups, especially groups of people in my own age group. i do not belong with the amab groups or the afab. i am trans, and even though the people in these groups are very unaware of my gender. the afabs that i grew up alongside, i am seen as an outcast.
i came out of the closet as asexual at church when i was seventeen. i was told i would change my mind, and that i just hadn’t found a guy. i was told that it was because no one found me attractive because i am tall, or that im ‘fat’, or that i have a larger frame.
i came out as aromantic at church at seventeen. i was told that i would grow out of it.
i shy away from small groups, and curate my own small groups online. because where i live, the churches are all very conservative. i am not good enough for the church where i live.
but in the perfect fathers eyes, i am perfect. i was created by loving hands, made to be trans, made to be queer, made to be asexual. made perfectly in his eyes, and forever more, i will be thankful.
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the 'radical' part of radical feminism is mysoginy
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milk-and-cold-custard · 9 months
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for once in my life I’m giving into fandom discourse
People wouldn’t be saying as much about Gwen in Spider-verse if she were a male character. 
I’m not saying she didn’t do anything wrong but i am saying she’s not the backstabbing terrible person that people are saying she was 
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ashenprincx · 9 months
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I really think more people need to get it through their heads that patriarchy is more than just "men in power". the patriarchy describes not just that men are in power, but a specific type of man (cis het white christian upper class, etc) and the system that keeps that specific type of man in power. Every person lives under the effects of racism, misogyny, ableism, etc because those are all tools of the patriarchy and that's how it stays in power, even if the effects of each are felt differently. (this is why it's said that we can't liberate one group without liberating us all- because our oppression is all linked and to the benefit of one specific group).
it's also important to understand that there are multiple, sometimes complex, mechanism that this upheld, but can generally be whittled down into (what I usually refer to) as punishment or privlidge. in this understanding, deviations from the Ideal Model are punished (through various complex means), and proximity is given privilege. this is where you get situations like white women having privlidge and social leverage over black men- because yes being a man is seen a privlidge, but whiteness is one moreso.
it's not really possible to fully quantify or understand the intersectionality, and a lot of these precedents (or who has influence over who) are based in historical roles , just as the methods of social control (ie punishment) do too.
a prime example of a historical method of control and presidence being set can be seen when understanding the scope of fatphobia- while currently a lot of the discussion is centered around healthism and the influence of weight loss and beauty industry, the grounds of fatphobia and how fatness is treated can be found in history. fatphobia quite literally rose due to racism, and due to in part of the effort to separate black people (especially women) from their white counterparts- so it was surmised that fatness was attributed to blackness (again primarily women) and that thiness was part of what it meant to be white, ignoring the existence of thin black people and fat white people. this directly informs how fat people are treated today (and why it's so much more intense for black women)- fatness is associated with being lazy, messy, generally a slob, and stupid- all of which were stereotypes attributed to black people and women. fatphobia serves as a legacy to racism, past and present.
it also goes to understand that this understanding of power structures in our world can invalidate other claims of oppression, or enlighten how certain predudice works. Women are seen as inferior to men because it benefits the patriarchy. Discrimination against men does not exist because that would work against the patriarchy- however specific punishments attributed to non cishetwhitemen can manifest as a way of keeping those men from challenging the white men in power. black men are stereotyped as violent and uneducated because it stunts his ability to challenge a white man, and this is a part of racism against non White men.
different prejudice against every gender doesn't exist, because there are only 2 recognized by the patriarchy, and one that is put in a position of power over the other- because that is how it has to be to build the patriarchy. Transphobia can have different nuances, but it is all working under the assumption that you aren't allowed to choose your gender because you don't get to change your social power- and this is also often why part of transphobia is about degendering and dehumanizing, or denying the privlidge of gender. nonbinary people don't face their own specific discrimination- because as far as the patriarchy is concerned, they don't exist. trans men and women don't experience gender privlidge, because in the eyes of the patriarchy they are denied the rights to gender (and often humanhood).
the last thing to remember is that when it comes to prejudice and methods of social control, it is entirely based off of what differences can be perceived about you, because it's not like your social status is floating about your head. black people are highly visible, and therefore highly targeted. a passing trans person may avoid some violence, but that goes out the window as soon as they get clocked. an autistic person may be cis and white, but have social behaviors that are unacceptable or even deemed dangerous. etc etc. it's not a perfect system but it doesn't matter because it works, and has created a complex social hierarchy and method that keeps all of us pulling each other down by enforcing these methods of social control.
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sorry to say this (no) but if you call a woman a slur (b*tch, c*nt...) and/her send her rape threats, no matter who she is, what she did, who you are and what you did, you're being sexist, mysoginist, and you are holding hands with the patriarchy - that you reinforce, by the way. i don't care how much you disagree with the woman. i don't care how horrible you think she is. i don't care if you're indisputably right, if she did something extremely fucked up. find better arguments and way to express all of this than bigotry. there's no exceptions. it counts if she's dumb, mean, racist, homophobe, ableist. it counts if she's mysoginist herself. it counts if she believes that the earth is flat. it counts if she's a radfem, if she's a libfem, if she says she hates feminists. it counts if she's a conservative. it counts if she did horrible things and if you've never hated anyone as much as you hate her. you can't use mysoginy as a weapon. mysoginy against one woman, as terrible as she is, is mysoginy against all women. you can't reinforce bigotry just because a person annoyed you (or worse). find other arguments and other things to tell her.
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brain-stewz · 11 months
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A rant.
There's nothing that I hate more than prejudiced people. People who hate others just because of their skin colour, ethnicity, gender, or sexuality. Or even if they're neurodivergent. Like what the fuck is that about. Let people be people. Like what do you mean you think women belong in the kitchen? Also that people under the Trans umbrella are born something and they should stick with it. As well as how people of the LGBTQIA+ community shouldn't love who they love and that people of colour don't deserve rights because they're different than you, a straight cis white boy. Not a man. A boy. Because a man wouldn't be biased because somebody is different from them. I just don't get how some people are just so hateful. It's sickening to me really. How dare you, a person who didn't have to fight for your rights and freedom, hate someone who did. You should be honoring them. Because their people who they stand for, worked hard in to getting where they are now. But you still decide to make fun of and berate them. I don't get it. We should be celebrating each other. Not hating each other. Hate is the worst thing this world created. Hate is strong, but love is stronger. We should love each other. We should be equal. World Peace. I want a world where people love and celebrate each other. Not one where we hate and berate each other. All of my love goes to the POC community, the LGBTQIA+ community, All religions, and all of the women out there. Blacks, Asians, Mexicans, Whites, Indians, Mixed, Albinos, Natives, anyone indigenous. I love you. Gays, Straights, Trans, Cis, anyone in the LGBTQIA+ community. I love you. Muslims, Jews, Christians, Atheists, Satanists, Agnostics, Hindus, and religion. I love you. And to every single woman out there, I love you. I love every single person out there. Even despite their differences. I love you. And other people should love you too.
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femme-dor · 8 months
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I don’t know what WOC Christian Tradfem needs to hear, this but it is absolutely ugly to call single mothers “masculine”, especially if she’s poor and/or you were raised by one! Y’all can’t bring yourselves to actually hold men accountable let alone consider individual circumstance, so you blindly pass judgement & condemnation onto women stepping up to provide for her children & not the busted man who actively chose to opt out.
She could be a Christian woman whose ex-husband ditched her & the kids, so she does her best with little finance. Maybe she escaped an abusive relationship to protect her kids & succeeds at providing for them herself. Y’all don’t care about that. You’ll log on to call them “masculine baby mommas” & write cruel, condescending lectures about how they failed at keeping their men, because its really about you getting picked in the end.
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teamfortresstwo · 2 years
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Ladies is it feminist to disrespect women?
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mysharona1987 · 2 years
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bluedaddysgirl · 9 months
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THEY/THEMs WATCH THIS!!!!
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He/theys and she/theys better do the homework too, and he/hims and she/hers can do their ally bit.
He/heem/whimpers are dismissed and can remain under their blanket
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