#my personal life

[leaping-into-leaves]

Not fall related but: I’m getting ready to move in with my boyfriend next month and he lives in the south where there’s no seasons, it’s jut hot all the time. The only bad thing is I’m coming from up north where we have wet distinct seasons and some of the prettiest hikes and fall leaves I’ve seen.

I’m very much a fall person, I love everything about it. Especially the cooler temperatures, sweater weather, and going on hikes or long drives to look at the changing leaves. So I’m a little afraid that once I move to a place that doesn’t have all of that I’ll end up missing it too much and I’ll be sad and miserable and might even start to resent my boyfriend for talking me into moving.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m very much looking forward to taking this next step with him, and to continue down the path towards spending forever with him. I’m just nervous about how I’ll react to so much change.

Any of my followers live in the south where there’s not really a true fall? Thoughts or advice on how to still enjoy the season even though the weather isn’t reflective of the time of year?

#not fall related #my personal life #need advice #fall #autumn #halloween #fall blog #leaves #pumpkins #cozy #fall is coming #boyfriend for fall #i love fall #fall in the south #fall aesthetic #pumpkin time #falling leaves #cold weather #boyfriend #i love him #love #i need some advice #i need relationship advice #help lol #not fall but fall #just my silly thoughts #send help #don’t know what i’m doing #future worries #thinking out loud

[myfuchsiadreams]

So, today it is my birthday! 🎉 I cannot believe that I am turning 32! ✨ Maybe this year I will start to feel as a functional adult! 😅

#my personal life #my inner thoughts #b day

[artist-fan146]

Nothing says spending your day at school like spending 4 hours testing becuase it’s a graduation requirement…

#my personal life #personal rambles #psat 2023

[lovelydommommy]

One thing about me, is I don't drink but gosh I feel so exhausted this morning. The party was so much fun! I love having family and friends that means something to me coming over.

I had even my best friend with me as well. He was dress up in a costume and gosh my mind wasn't thinking straight. All the things I wanna to do to him. How I wanna to hold him close, how I wish I can use the rosary inappropriate ways.

I had fun, he had fun and I kept telling him how such a pretty boy he was. My little bunny is my favorite toy. I always enjoy our late night conversations as well. He surprisingly knows me well and thats something I love. I just wish he could rub my feets tho, my high boots hurt at the end.

#softdom #subby boy #my personal life #halloween party #yo my feets hurts #but i look cute

[rledenwrites]

the moment when you realise you don't love them anymore

#mine #personal #personal post #my text post #text post #text #my personal life #real life #life #love #falling out of love

[livesinyesterday]

Hi everyone, I am recovering from an emergency surgery so new gifsets are on pause for a little bit. Hopefully I'll be posting new ones soon!

#my life #my personal life

[karizard-ao3]

Hey 😊 how are you doing?

Hello! I'm doing okay! Trying to get Christmas shit arranged. I just got my covid booster and spent all of yesterday laying down with body aches and a headache, so I'm relieved to be feeling normal again today. I also have a job interview on Tuesday that I'm nervous about! I really want to get it. It would be closer to home and a little more money, but I don't interview well.

#ask me things #my asks #answered asks #my personal life

[eirenare]

Hi hi~! Life update here

Hi there!

Yes, I'm still alive lol, it's just that 85% of my social media time I currently spend it on Twitter (I refuse to call it how Elmo Muskrat wants the site to be called lol), and 15% I spend it on Bluesky (which, by the way, if you wanna find me there, I'm Eirenare too there lol).

I'm still very veeeeeery much in my Reylo brainrot haha, so yeah, you might see me posting or reblogging every now and then some of it, although I've been as well into some other stuff lately (Elden Ring for example), so you might see me posting about that too, so just a heads up there about it (and don't worry, everything I post here, regardless of what it is, as usual it'll have its tags and spoiler warnings, a "read more" if need be, etc).

My energy's been specially low for the past months though to be honest, so I can't guarantee I'll be very active around here (except for private messages, I'll be checking these every little time), just that every now and then I'll come here and post or reblog some stuff, probably Reylo and other things Star Wars or series/movies, life updates too, maybe will share in a bit of my Elden Ring brainrot and theories as its DLC approaches and I get more and more excited.

Anyways, here's some random life update stuff and anecdotes that I wanted to say before I log off for the night here:

I fell into the Kalluzeb (Kallus x Zeb, from Star Wars Rebels) rabbithole some time ago and it was, and is, neat, I love them so much

earlier today I had churros and hot chocolate as desert at lunch time and I was in cloud nine all the while I chomped on them

apparently my brain won't cease to come up with new Reylo AUs which is amazing and so much fun but also if I ever showed you guys screenshots of my Google Docs you might just faint because there are just so many things there between WIPs I'm currently working on that are already on Ao3, future things to go on Ao3, vague WIPs, AU ideas... and my energy is running so low and I'm working on various Ao3 WIPs so yeah lol I don't think I'll ever write even half of the fics I noted down

I watched Barbie at the cinema and it became one of my new comfort movies and one of my fave movies of all time

somehow I'm not as bad as I thought I'd be at Elden Ring even though I'm clumsy, a scaredycat and my tunnel vision goes lvl 100 when I'm playing videogames which usually means "good luck remembering to look at your stamina bar and using key items", so seeing myself not get too stuck on bosses was unexpected and neat (in fact, funnily enough: somehow this game even makes my anxiety lower at times and it barely increases it at all even when I'm fighting bosses, go figure lol)

I had the chance to buy Final Fantasy XVI at a much cheaper price than release price but because at that site I didn't see any warning that it was temporary, by the time I went to buy it, it had risen price again so now I'm awaiting once again for both better prices and for my wallet to recover

my brother bought a PS5 back in spring and a copy of Star Wars Jedi Survivor and, since we live in the same house, I did play that game and it was amazing asdfgffdgfjfb there were only a very few things I didn't like that much but holy shit was it good, some stuff even felt tailor-made for me in ways I wasn't expecting but that I enjoyed very much (and also the tears, the rivers of tears I shed on certain scenes lol) and now I'm super hyped for the 3rd whenever it is that it'll happen

the official Star Wars accounts at Twitter have been posting quite a bit about Reylo and the sequels and Ben for the past days (and I gotta say, the account from Spain even added some extra Reylo flavor in some tweets that other accounts didn't which is curious) and I'm clowning kinda hard, hoping that DLF finally realized most of the people actually like a lot Reylo (or don't mind it) and the ST, and hoping (always hoping, always dreading to hope too much, but hoping anyways) that we'll get Rey and Ben reunited in her movie

Anyways x2, enough anecdotes and thoughts for the night, see you around lovely people~! <3 Hopefully soon lol, but if not... *looks at 2024 fast approaching* if not, then I'll 100% be around to gossip and scream for when the Rey movie begins production and talks begin and all that stuff, lol.

Good night~! :D I hope you have a great day and/or a good sleep~! <3

EDIT: looooool apparently this was my 100th post in here and I got a free badge for my profile so yay, nice~ x) XDD

#My life #Life update #My personal life #Reylo #(adding Reylo to the tags because there's a little bit of talking about how the official SW Twitter accounts have been posting about it) #(which is kiiiind of sus if you ask me but maybe that's my clown ass hoping for good things in post-TROS aka the Rey and Ben reunion)

[sure-to-lure-someone-bad]

I went on a date the other night, so I'm going to post about it here! I'll put it under a Read More so I don't crowd up my follower's dashboards!

Okay but like, I went on a date to go bowling (shout out to my brother who works there and got us in for free) and like. I can be kinda competitive with games, but I went in prepared to lose. Like, this man told me that his whole family bowls and he literally owns at least two bowling balls.

So we start the game and I'm actually not epically failing. I get in a couple spares, even. But even though I'm getting kinda lucky, it is hella obvious that I don't do this a lot. I don't have any form or technique at all. I kinda just stroll up to the lane and toss the bowling ball down. There is no grace or style to my actions. I'm sure it was an interesting contrast to the teams of hobbyist bowlers on either side of our area.

So my date, we'll call him Ren, has actual form and skill backing him up. He's getting a lot of spares, but strikes continuously elude him. I cheer him on because I already know I'm gonna lose, which I do. But we end up deciding to go another round.

So I grab my ball (the numbers signify weights, right? I just keep grabbing the orange or purple one because I like the color) and I shuffle on up to the lane before casting the ball a little rougher than before. By this point, I'm two very strong drinks into the evening, so I was a little looser I guess. All I really know is that I got a strike out of nowhere on my very first turn in the second round. I turn around with a cheer and Ren is legit gaping at me. I can't help but grin and shoot him a couple peace signs.

He spends the rest of the game trying what he dubs the "Ash technique" periodically. He gets spares pretty often, but no strikes, and we're pretty evenly matched the whole time. He does finally beat me on his final turn, where he does actually get a strike, but it was a close call! We were both laughing the whole time, and it was honestly so much fun!

After that, we ended up going to a bar downtown and listening to a live reggae band perform. We had a couple drinks and we talked about everything and nothing. And we eventually decide to leave, but we head to another bar. We have another couple drinks and cannot stop talking again. My date didn't end until 2am! It was a 7 hour long date, but I never once felt bored or like I wanted to go home!

#my personal life #Ren tag #dating #fourth date #he seems really wonderful tbh

[sutherlandspiritofficial]

tbh I don’t know how much more of this year I can take…

#2023 is cursed #the world is going mad but it's fine try and be happy #stressed #everything is happening at once #work #my personal life #reblog if you feel the same #lol #Thoughts

[helenvinces]

More about me 👧🏽

Jamileth Vinces

Hi, there! My name is Helen Vinces. I am 11 years old.

I am Ecuadorian. I am from Ciudad de Huaqullas, a fantastic city. I speak Spanish.

I am a student at the Principe de Paz Adventist School, I study in this institution from the beginning and now eighth year courses.

My school is great.

My classmates are friendly.

#my personal life #my city

[lovelydommommy]

I just started to rewatch a favorite show of mined, I be on and out for a few days.

#my personal life #smallville #i need a herooooo #someone save me

[livesinyesterday]

Remember This: The Lesson of Jan Karski at Berkeley Rep! // Dec. 2022 

#my personal life #remember this: the lesson of jan karski #david strathairn #berkeley reperatory theater #my life #gpoy

[fategranddisorder]

I'm almost afraid to ask but what do you see/do at work that makes fate asks a good palete clenser?

Don't be afraid. :')

Erm it will be a bit of a read tho and it will mention some heavy topics.

-☆-

I work in healthcare. During my studies I moved to a different location/specialty each year.

I decided to stay in a nursing home that specialises in care for people that have dementia/ other psychological or physical problems and cannot stay at home anymore.

My unit specifically focusses on people that have far progressed form of dementia and have more extreme behaviour problems (aggression, threats, disinhibited sexual behaviour) that come with the progression of the disease.

We take in crisis residents, which means the situation at home has thus far deteriorated or has become a threat to the resident themselves, familie or surroundings.

I have been cussed at, hit, kicked, spit at, yelled at, threated with murder.

But also I have cuddled with residents who needed it. Been shoulder to cry on because sometimes they realize what is happening to them. Laughed and danced with them on the unit to the tunes of Elvis Presley.

There is a lot of loss and grief to deal with as well. Because the family needs guidance, to understand what is happening to their loved ones. Because they see their loved ones change and almost wither away before their eyes.

Their mother, father, grandpa or grandma is not the same person anymore. Doesn't know them anymore. There is a need for patience and room to grief for the families, to try and help through that process and that is also part of my job.

Because it is a nursing home the residents either die with us or moving to another nursing home that is closer for the families.

So I have seen a lot of residents die and it always hurts.

I make sure the residents are comfortable in their final moments, make sure either the pain/sleep medication is enough

Because they cannot say that they are in pain or uncomfortable like we do. Especially not at that point.

And at the same time be there for the family. Guide and support them through that final phase.

I do cry sometimes, when I get home. Just to let it all out, just for moment. When a day was particularly rough or when I lost a resident.

This blog, reading those fun asks, creative ideas and hc's from like minded people just makes me smile after a long day.

#k.answers💬 #my dear anon #my personal life #this is a wild read #tw: death #tw: violence #my work is a wonderful mess wrapped in tears and a shortage of employees

[daughterofgaston]

Today, July 1st 2022, was one of the hardest days of my life. Today I testified in court against my abuser.

I was terrified. The thought of seeing him again made my heart want to come out of my chest, made me want to just curl up and never leave the safety of my home again. Remembering what happened made me want to forget even more.

I am so happy that I had my best friend with me there to hold my hand and give me a distraction when things got hard- because of them, I held firm and didn’t break.

And because of that, the defense lawyer slipped up. He got angry at me for not giving him what he wanted- he wanted me to get mad. To yell. Accuse me of things until I busted, but I’ve dealt with men like that my whole life. I held firm.

Now he is being charged with a felony. We are only one step closer, and I am only one step closer to closure, but it’s coming.

I won’t let him get away with what he did to me. He won’t win this time. I will.

If any one of you who sees this needs someone to talk to about your own experience- do not hesitate to send me an ask. I will always keep anon on for those who are uncomfortable talking about their experiences.

Domestic abuse needs to end. The pain never goes away… but it does get easier.

#not descendants related #my personal life #anna rants #personal