#my mom is black- yet she

[shimenchus]

it's so telling when someone says radical feminism is "white woman shit" and you bring up the fact that in many places such as africa or asia, the only feminism that prominently exists is radical feminism, and for those places it's just considered regular feminism that you get told those women live in places that aren't progressive enough for them to understand their actions properly. to say these women are too dumb to realize that their beliefs are "bad" simply because they don't align with western mainstream liberal feminism is rooted in xenophobia and racism, not to mention a lack of understanding of the struggles and violence women from these countries regularly go through, which can range anywhere from fgm to men rubbing and wiping their cum on the back of women's clothes in trains. but of course, as usual, there's no intelligent response to this so you just end up getting blocked or get rape wished on you.

#my grandma was born and raised in south sudan she considers herself a feminist and her beliefs #along with all of the women she knows believe in what radfems believe in #being against things like surrogacy forced marriage harmful sex culture misogyny male violence and femicide #i live in a primarily hispanic/black area and literally the only people who try to push gender shit on us is white people #and if you say you don't believe in all that you get called an ignorant white supremacist #white people put the mirror down when you're calling non white people white supremacists #anyway today's rant is brought to you by a white guy who told me (a non white darkskin child of 2 immigrants) #that of course i didn't understand gender politics because i'm too privileged #and then went on to say women in south korea aren't 'booksmart' enough to realize their corset movement is a 'terf' movement..... #my mom always tells me do not engage with white people who want to play devil's advocate with race based matters #and yet here i am doing it again lol #/rambling

[legoflowers]

#me after a full day of 'your daughter is so pretty she makes me wish i had sons' and 'your daughter is gorgeous i wish my sons were older' #you know whats kind of embarrassing tho #not the last wedding but two weddings ago there was this woman who thought i was nudge nudge wink wink really cute #and she was talking to my mom about me and stuff #well that day i was wearing a black dress and my mom was wearing a teal gharara #and for this wedding we were like its a little soon to repeat outfits but the crowd at this wedding is gna be completely different bc #the families of the bride and groom are from a different village back home #and we were right the crowd was completely different EXCEPT for miss wannabe potential mother in law #so this woman we never see otherwise sees me and my mom wearing the exact same thing as when she saw us last #i wouldve been more embarrassed but my mom said she was wearing the same thing too #anyway they were talking for like an hour #the woman has 3 sons and the one she want me for is the second oldest #i think he's in law school or he wants to go to law school or something #i couldnt eavesdrop too well the music was too loud #but he sounds a little older #anyway my matchmaker mother is not gna skip out on the chance to become besties w that woman bc even if i end up saying no to the rishta #(which is not a rishta yet btw just chatting atm) #a woman with 3 unmarried educated adult sons is like a gold mine in my moms eyes #her eyes were glazed over w the excitement of potential matches #hashtag arranged marriage tings

[scattered-winter]

THIS SUCKS!!!!

#SORRY I HAD TO GET THIS OUT OF MY SYSTEM #she's not gone yet but. very soon. #if i had to guess i would say sometime during the night or tomorrow. very very soon. #ive already said all my goodbyes and we sang around her bedside one last time and i think im as ready for it as ill ever be #but that being said. how the fuck do u get ready for your mom to die. #but it's not all bad. #my aunt was sitting by me while we sat at my mom's bedside and just shared stories between singing #and she wiped the tears off my face and traced my veins and held my hand while we both cuddled my dog #and idk. im the black sheep of the family but that doesn't mean i'm not part of it. even when shit sucks. #and these last couple months have been rough because first i lost my friend suddenly and now the thing we've been waiting for #for 3 years is finally happening #and idk. in a way i'm glad it's happening because i won't have to watch her suffer anymore. and in a way i won't suffer either. #just kinda ripping the bandaid off yk. #anyway i am contemplative and mostly at peace this fine night. we'll see what the morning brings. #winter speaks #personal #grief tag

[thatfaerieprincess]

Aaaaaaaa tattoo???????????? Maybe??????

#I reached out to a tattoo artist last night and she got back to me this afternoon #and I’m !!!!!!!!!! #I’ve never gotten this far #I’ve just dreamt about it for years #and never actually taken the next step #and I haven’t like booked an appointment or anything #but I’ve contacted her and confirmed her books are open and she would be interested and on my basic description about what price range #holy shit #my whole chest tightens up and I like panic response any time I think about it #and my friend had to sit on the phone and encourage me to hit send on the email #and I don’t know if that’s a sign I should just not do it but also I’ve wanted one for so long but do I actually or just the idea of one???? #but also!!!!! I’ve had so many fucking god damn needles in my life #it would be kinda nice to finally have some that I CHOOSE #anyway!!! maybe getting a tattoo this winter???? #maybe???? #I haven’t booked or anything yet but #I rlly like her art style and her books are open during the window I’m home #idk how to navigate this around my mom while I’m home but #I think I’ve almost settled on a black line cecropia moth on my upper inner left arm #anyway I’m freaking out and I can’t tell if the terror out ways the excitement or what I’m actually afraid of #I’m not gonna get it before thanksgiving for sure bc that’s too much attention for the once a year we’re all together #and if I wait until mid December then my sibling will be home to go with me too tho Ik my friend would go with me if he’s home too #but anyway anyway anyway anytime I think abt this for longer than a few seconds my brain shuts down and I can’t breathe so #first I gotta parse what that reaction means #Im a rambling sam

[kaidabakugou]

this is so random… BUT MY DOG’S EYEBROWS ARE GROWING LMAO

#kai.rambles #he’s 4 years old and NOWWW THEYRE CHANGING COLORRR #i don’t have a picture yet bc you can barely see it on camera but he has a little brown shadow where his eyebrows would beeeee #he’s always been fully black so the fact that his eyebrows are growing all of a sudden it’s so funny #my mom didn’t beleive to the point she came over at like 6am when i told her this morning bc she needed to see him before she left for work #and when she told my grandma she immediately called me to tell me to come over bc she needed to see the baby’s eyebrows LOL

[newvegascowboy]

Also dnd News, Red had another lil date with their dnd love interest and they "sparred" (in quotes because he actually beat the shit out of Red and they haven't gotten so low on hit points since they were KO'ed in August, 2 levels ago) and the dm and I were laughing about twee and nervous the (knight captain and career soldier) and (former hardened outlaw) both are about going out on ONE DATE

#not fallout #kal talks #kal plays dnd #red: too shy to ask him for a kiss #skipping back to the party with a black eye and bloody nose like SOMEONE HAS A CRUUUUSH #also lmao and loling about how they haven't even held hands and yet ruven is going to have to be like. look. #my mom wants to invite you to family dinner because my loudmouthed brother blabbed and now she wants to meet you #red like :) [deception] okay i can be normal for one dinner

[micamicster]

So how /is/ the black sails rewatch going? Any more insights from your dad?

Thank you for taking the time out of your very important Day Online to ask after my rewatch I know how busy you must be 💜 Rewatch is going GREAT in that i love tv and I love the moving image ❤️❤️❤️ rewatch is going terribly because after the high of season 2 buddy comedy ship stealing I remembered how sad this show will ultimately make me :( My dad has been left in the dust unfortunately because he’s been “at work” and “in delaware” but the only plotline he requested updates on when I kept watching without him was if max Anne and Jack manage to get their hands on a boat or not so he has the correct priorities (women’s plot lines first always <3)

#I hope to start season 3 soon to keep my momentum going! #unfortunately my dad will probably never watch the rest of this show because he only watches stuff with my mom #and she would not enjoy the amount of violence in black sails so I’ve never recommended it to her #it will remain yet another tv program my dad only knows about because I’ve summarized the plot for him <3 isn’t he lucky to have me <3

[hauntingblue]

I ❤️

IN-BETWEEN ARC EPISODES

#shanks!!!!!! always wonder what is wrong with him to be an emperor..... bc big mom is severely strong and powerful and insane since birth #kaido can't even kill himself so same thing. blackbeard has the end all be all of devil fruits and then shanks is just there. #something smells fishy #they spent all the budget on the musical now we are back with this animation ajdhak #well baby luffy cameo.... always thinking about luffy being a good swimmer.... the anchor t shirt is a foreshadowing ajdhskdjks #yasopp talking about his son.... WELL WHERE IS HE???? #maybe shanks power is being an alcoholic..... who knows.... #luffy calling shanks pathetic is so funny this kid has anger issues.... his powers reveal is so funny ajdkajak to this day.... #i was gonna be pissed about the flashbacks but little luffy is too good #this is my fucked up theory about shanks is that he gives up his arm and his hat when luffy eats the fruit.... idk why yet ill figure it ou #lmao but HOW do you leave a kid with a devil fruit just there.... he must have known who his grandpa is or smth.... like garp muat have wen #after him for an explainatiom or smth #shanks doing two 180 spims before putting the hat on luffy... the pizzazz.... the drama..... #well what was i saying.... evil shanks or smth... hidden intentions idk.... why isnt shanks pirate king yet... suspicious.... #MAKINO HAS A BABY... and back to ad breaks... another asexual reproduction specimen see.... i know i am right #REIJU GAVE LUFFY A RAID SUIT FOR SANJI AKDHAKDJKS #him wearing black clothes..... like shirt and everything.... #sanji saying they already have franky to be weird akdhaks #NAMI KEPT ZEUS!!!!!!!!! FIRST SLAVE AND SANJI IS JEALOUS AKDHAKDHSKSJ 'I WAS THE FIRST SIMP!!' #but with part of her soul being away form big mom.... how.... she is coming back for that #luffy planned everytjing HAHAHAHHAHA oof bonneh on the sidelines of the paper... i know i know.... #sanji realising his rep went up bc of germa ajsjahdj where is namis bounty??? and luffys???? #back to the reverie.....SHIRAHOSHI IS GOING YEAAAAHHHH (bc luffy might call her weak again no other reason) #crocodile smiling at the paper... i see you #cavendish and barto spreading gossip ajdhak garp must be fuming!!!! #LUFFY IS THE FIFTH YONKOU??? ALREADY!!???? i said he has no territories....but maybe gyojin island counts #just saw a comment saying makinos child is shanks b plan in case luffy fails akdhaksjk #talking tag #watching one piece #episode 878

[todayisafridaynight]

God okay hold on I AM SORRY FOR THE SPAM </3 but I feel like These Specific Images are perfectly representative of the vibe...

By the way, Tsutsumi only actually owns one suit, and a good majority of the time, he'll show up in an all-black ensemble when he wears it to events instead of renting. You could really tell when the pandemic hit because he basically never wore anything but this lol

these ARE the vibe that's EXACTLY it. losing my mind at this goes-golfing-on-the-weekends fit too 😭

#snap chats #you NEVER need to apologize for spam i enjoy it immensely #but more importantly bro they took that pic AT the golf range ik they did 😭 #ALSO NOTHING BUT RESPECT FOR OWNING ONE SUIT INSTEAD OF GETTING A NEW ONE #if it aint broke yk. black works with everything too no ones gonna know.. #AND COMMITTED TO ALL-BLACK how could i be a hater. i could never #but yeah... this is it this the vibe this is the epitome #naw the timing of this is funny i do be drawin shit thats ADJACENT to This Is Their Vibe ☠️☠️☠️ #i dont know if my moms home again today... which would be insane if she was because she'd be home like. every day this week #so i have not eaten yet so i May be insane. ill eat later tho most definitely that is without a doubt so it's all good :)

[foxgloveinspace]

Me: yeah I’m not that big of a fan of birds.

*loves ravens crows and tufted titmouse’s*

Me: well…. Maybe I’m not a fan of parrots??

#very much so #idk what I’m doing with this #when I see a tufted titmouse I get so happy!!! I saw one yesterday I think?? #little gray birds with puffs on their heads… #there’s also a family of crows that sometime live in my back yard!! #I wish I could befriend them but they are so far out there idk if they would accept treasure from me #I see them when I do the dishes and I know it’s gonna be an ok day when I see them #they haven’t been around tho cause it’s been so hot out #I hope they come back in the fall🥺 #since I’m info dumping: the feral kittens that live on my front pourch have stopped running and I’m able to pet the biggest one!! he’s #black and white and we named him Munchi. #their mother cat is sooo wild but I have touched her back twice now!! #the kittens are so dumb tho when the water bowl is empty they curl up in it😭 #sadly I can’t bring them in when I get them tame. if I could keep my cats inside I would without a moment of hesitation #but my mom will not let me. she doesn’t want any inside animals. #oof. #when I leave I’m taking Moose Marmalade and Munchi with me. and maybe all the others but Jam and Smelly Cat don’t get along #and also… 11 cats is a lot oof #Moose Marmalade Notch Jam Smelly Cat Rock Stripes Munchi Mallow Boo & the unnamed one #she’s a tortoise shell and I haven’t thought of a name for her yet #wow. this is a lot of info dumping

[perenlop]

just read the get out 2017 screenplay. man.

#oh my goodness u look back and it all makes sense. and the emotion of the movie comes out completely in the screenplay #like i was genuinely scared reading it and i havent even seen the actual movie yet (doing that tomorrow) #BUT LIKE its all stuff that totally comes together yet works really well when u dont know the twist yet #and i knew going in that the girlfriend was tricking him but GOD shes so fucking insidious like when she manipulated him #with a fake pregnancy to MAKE HIM STAY and she had them cut off the lines and she led the cigarette thing to her mom #and the entire time theyre literally fetishizing him and shit. making comments abt his muscles and ''genetic superiority'' #i get the hype for jordan peele now. goddamn #also walter and georgia being like older names too. fuck #at first i thought the reveal was gonna be that they were brainwashing black people to ''be more white'' or literally be slaves #but nope its literally. body horror and roleplay holy fuck. #echoed voice #time to watch behind the scenes clips so the gore doesnt freak me out too bad. oog

[gonzodangerfeels]

There is a difference between a young man saying ok nice boobs to it feels like my destiny to see those tits on the horizon

#through the window #we were so scandalous #when you wave and I know you cannot see me #after she was knowingly showing me herself it felt like we had something going on between us #and yet she only ever let me stroke her night black pussy #I can't remeber if inky wasale or female #I guess it was a girl #oh my God stroke me #you used a little of the old 66 on Jane though #it's cool I used to float her #what do I care if you convinced her that was a very friendly pussy cat worthy of coming in the house #(in hindsight a garden variety cat would probably not have impressed mom to get in the door) #for real though #you steadfastly stuck by your guns of we are mommy and daddy girl #we never broke up #this is a fact #not our faults we had to go separate ways #I think I had to comfort you on that one #if I liked you (Loved ok) I could be pretty sweet #if I didn't like you #well that becomes your problem

[vote2]

society if my package comes early tmr

#as in its not due til thr 23. but thats useless im at work that day onward. #but what if they got it wrong. still ircked that it took 5 days when its just coming from ny but whatever. for the best #like idc and obvi if thats what it takes due to the amount of workers and to avoid overworking ppl and workers sufferng. #but i feel like i shouldnt have to specify that. also pakige :] #oh its a knockoff perfume or whatever someone i follow recced. thats why. i want to go to the store w it on #im probs washing my car one of thesse daysss tmr or next. but its in 90s both days well see #my front window needs to be washed thats as muvh as i can tell. i got dark grey its impossible to tell when its dirty #i touched a mark to see if it was a scratch (it wasnt) and my finger tip came back black #so uhm yeah. she needs to be cleaned #i havnt named my car yet my mom asked the other day and got upet that i havnt. hmph

[my-thoughts-and-junk]

i could not give any less of a shit about fallout 4 without dissolving into dust but fallout 3 coulda been so cool so im mad about it

#random thoughts #fallout #literally the only thing i like about fallout 4 is nick valentine who is perfection incarnate #but like. so much about fallout 3 is cool on accident #just #first of all the idea of a biracial child being raised by their father who is keeping secrets from them about their birth and mother is #like this could be so coded right. in 'my child is black but im white so im just gonna ignore it' coding. #ESPECIALLY since one of the inhabitants of your vault is an older black woman #her and jonas have AN INFLUENCE on the lone wanderer. growing up. #(btw the lone wanderer's mom is black in-game and if that wasn't meant to be important then dont put it in the game todd) #and jonas FUCKING DIED OKAY #amata in general. she could be so coooool #i went on a whole thing about her where i was writing this whole dialogue i wanted to have with her #it's in my google docs somewhere ill find it and polish it up later ig #fucking. charon??? BUTCH??????? #sorry idgaf about the other companions yet <3 my exposure to this game is very limited #if i cant find my disc in the next week i might just watch a playthrough online

[two-bats]

friends wanna go bowling but mom is saying no for racist reasons. how the fuck do I tell her that her worries stem from 1. her Even More racist parents drilling shit into her head over Thirty Years Ago & 2. working in a shitty hole-in-the-wall diner means you're likely to deal with shitty shady people Regardless Of The Area.

we're a group of adults. we (mostly) know how to conduct ourselves. the place is woman-owned and apparently lgbtq+ friendly. they have live performances nearly every night. two of my friends have been there before and vouch for it. I'm almost positive the local bowling alleys we've been to in the past have been Sketchier Than This Place.

#vent #bats squeaks #it's a newer alley in a predominantly black city. that's why my mom's so hesitant #she told me ''whatever. you can go but i'll be texting you like youre in high school'' & she's CONVINCED there was a shooting at this place #in 2021??? yet i can find NOTHING #you'd think that info would be very easy to find! yet i have found literally zero evidence of this having happened #now she's saying i should be fine but to never be anywhere alone and to take her car if i'm still driving my grandpa's cadillac bc it's not #in a high crime area #i'm frustrated lmao. i just want to hang out with my friends

[50c14lly4nx10u5]

so at my school we had this thing called "intensive core french", or "icf", which you could sign up to do for the grade six school year

i had signed up for it

ok that's the set up

i was at my friend at the time's house for a sleepover sometime over the summer, right? near the end of august. we were about to go to grade six

we were eating some toutons for breakfast after a night of her trying to show off her new wii u but not impressing me because i didn't know the wii u and the wii were different things and so i said 'i have one too!', and falling asleep to the cinderella live action remake, when the topic of the icf program

i ask, are you doing it?

and she replies, i was going to— but none of my friends signed up

and me, who had signed up, and is there the morning after a sleepover her house, only had the nerve to say 'oh'... or something

yeah we stopped talking in grade six

#she stole a cool rock i found in my backyard (it looked like it had a mini dino foot imprinted in it) #she also stole the anne frank diary book i had #both under the impression of 'lending' #'oh my aunt works at a museum! she can see if this is a real fossil!' #'oh i want to read that! can i read it?' #i never brought up the rock with her again #but i brought up the book MULTIPLE times yet every single time i got #'oh i forgot i'll bring it tomorrow' 'oh i'll bring it monday' etc etc #ha i'm not salty about this 'friend' #and you know she was kinda racist as well #mom told me that once we were playing house and there was a robber and she apparently specifically specified that the robber was black #wtf #AND THIS IS MORE RECENT idk one or two years ago #i've long since stopped talking to her #but my pop sometimes went over to her house cuz her dad's a car mechanic and my pop has a buy and sell thing going on for cars idk #either way he was going over to talk to her dad about cars #but was met with their german shepphard biting a chunk of his arm off when he got on the property #yeah it's a guard dog i get it fine (house got broken into once) #but they have NO signs saying so #AND #they used to have a labrador or something— don't know specific breed #and during the last two years of it's life they just let it wander the street #like it was an outdoor cat or some shit #meanwhile they go get a new puppy (the german shepphard) #ngh #50c14l speaks