#my friend group (ex friend group

[thermodynamic-comedian]

"i haven't met a single lesbian who doesn't listen to girl in red" you clearly have not met a lot of lesbians.

#yes chat. generalizing is bad even when you do it. #im a lesbian. i listen to the taxpayers and the mountain goats. #my ex is a lesbian. she listens to mcr and gorillaz. #my friend is a lesbian. he listens to merm4id and pjsekai groups. #my parent is a lesbian. they listen to latin-american pop and showtunes. #my mom is a lesbian. she listens to russian rap. #lesbian music taste is amazing in its diversitt #dont simplify and generalize us pls and thanks

[ewwww-what]

I like to think that Gorgug hangs out with the seven the way Zelda hangs out with the bad kids. You know that horrible awkward feeling where you only know one person at a party? It’s like that but everyone else at the party is inseparable and they keep teasing you (in a good-natured way) with jokes you don’t understand, and all you can do is smile and nod and try so hard not to embarrass yourself in front of these people you perceive as way too cool for you.

#every adventure group has to have a weird guy who dates a weird guy that’s just how it goes #please oh my god the seven going ​‘way to step up Gorgug!!!’ when he calls Zelda from Sylvaire #the fact that they love Zelda does not give Gorgug a single ounce of immunity from being teased #and Zelda showing up at Mordred for moving day #and all the bad kids just accept her being there no problem #like clearly they hang out at least a little #please I really really need someone to write something about them it’s hurting me #save me the seven. save me. the seven please. save me. #I need more content of them so so bad I am STARVED #part of the reason I want donospring to stay good friends so badly is because of this idea #weird ex girlfriends and their respective friend groups that mix just a little #fantasy high #the seven #the seven maidens #d20 #d20 fantasy high #d20 the seven #zelda donovan #gorgug thistlespring #donospring #txt post

[exvangelical]

while everyone has the right to raise their child with the ethics they so desire, i do think it’s hilarious when xtians INSIST they aren’t indoctrinating or brainwashing their kids but also refuse to put them in public school (or even private xtian school), only socialize them within xtian circles like youth group or their church’s homeschool co-op, and rigorously vet any secular media so their kids doesn’t “reject the faith.” like uh. if your faith is so weak you have to hide your kids away from anybody on the outside so they never even think to question it…….. it doesn’t exactly sound legit

#text #like god forbid i ever have kids but if i did and they wanted to go to church i’d probably let them #if for no other reason just to show them how boring it is 9/10 lol #like if their friend invited them to youth group i’d be like ‘listen dude if you want to go you can #but it’s mostly just gonna be some out of touch conservative trying to guilt you for being a human being’ #‘like you might get to play a game or have snacks. maybe. depending in how cool the youth pastor is.’ #and if they did go we’d just have a conversation later about what they learned and we could discuss it critically #i would never intentionally isolate my child (especially older kids and teenagers) from opposing viewpoints #i would just hope i taught them enough critical thinking to not fall for emotional manipulation #ex christian #religious trauma

[fudgecake-charlie]

#i haven't been able to go through tumblr recently #i have a bunch of stuff ive needed to do and i haven't done any of it!! #i'm behind on secret life too :[ i saw pearl's episode last week but i haven't been able to watch any other POVs #or anything from session 2 which is sad #i don't wanna mute the tags so i'm just staying off the dash #but hopefully HOPEFULLY soon i get to have time where it's just me and i can just Draw #this weekend was nice but i am still doing a bunch of stuff #some good stuff too! my friends are lovely! but still stuff. and coursework. #gonna have to live like a hermit for the next while in order to have fun online and make fanart /silly #time to last minute work on my second group presentation project in two weeks! #delete later #the words of a fudgecake #[scheduled] #edit: after this was posted i broke up with my ex of almost a year lmao (its a good thing dw)

[soothifying-sounds-asmr]

I'm not saying I'm officially back, but I've queued autumn & halloween things for this month, as well as some new tiktoks after that. thank you for all the kind asks- I have seen them all and I appreciate you <3

#not asmr #a year ago I moved and it was exhausting #then broke up with my ex #then got a new big friend group and was hanging out with them a ton #then I got really into makeup and taking pictures and going to events #then I started causally seeing people #and then I cancelled my premiere subscription to save money #I just got busy and I also don't use tumblr anymore tbh #hope everyone has been doing okay #thank you for all the messages and concern <3 #been thinking about posting on my asmr tiktok more? unsure but maybe... #tumblr feels so different too what happened here #text post #about me

[cosmicterrorthe8th]

Another Grant headcanon:

I think he wrote love notes when in relationships, and he went all out with like making the paper scented and stuff. But like he had no good perfume so he ended up using his horrible body spray. So like the lucky boyfriend would like find a paper reeking of the body spray like every once in a while.

Also I think he was someone who fell deep into romance because having a crush and feeling butterflies in his stomach was better than numbness. So he would pursue every crush even if he knew it would not end well because of the thrill of it. I think this sucked but I think he atleast felt like this is a normal way for life to suck.

#honestly I was thinking he continued the note thing with marco in college maybe? #and now marco likes the smell of the body spray even if grant found better perfumes cuz nostalgia #i think i am in my own la dee da world after this episode #where I think if willy takes a break from torturing the parents they should form a circle and become bffs #they should form a circle #toast to rebecca #and then just talk shit idk #i think they would be very funny as a group after they are done grieving #like cassandra would be like how could I have dated such a loser #he literally kidnapped like four of my exs ex friends and put collars on them when we were dating #and they would be like no its not your fault he is that manipulative #and then one of them would talk about their ex to comfort her #and then somwhow it would come out that willy is like the age of their grandparents #and cassandra would be like why did this senior citizen get me so bad #he told me to make him a sandwich and I #a multimillionaire made him a sndwich #this will probably never happen in canon #dndads #grant wilson #dungeons and daddies #the tags are their own seperate post at this point #dndads s2 #looking back on this(tags) #all the spouses knew willy as a nice guy who saved them #rebecca was the only one who suspected him so thats why he killed her #they must be feeling so duped getting tortured except for marco who saw him kill a man #cassandra has been feeling duped since heaven #this is killing me all of them are having conversations in my head now the comedy and the pain is killing me mostly the comedy #marco li wilson #grant li wilson

[humanthatexistsrn]

thinking about troy and abed and what direction they might take in the movie for them. currently i see two options: 1. dan harmon makes it a story about friends growing apart and changing and how that’s just how life is sometimes, or 2. dan harmon finally ties up all of the homoeroticism surrounding the two and it’s them finally realising they romantically love each other

#community #trobed #troy barnes #abed nadir #community movie #my personal favourite version of option 2 is #the group reuniting and abed mentioning how idk he got divorced from his ex-husband recently #everyones like huh and hes like oh yeah im bisexual #troy is totally normal about this (he’s not) #then climax is jeff/annie saying something to troy on the lines if #*of #glad you’re having a bisexual awakening in the form of realising you’re in love with your best friend #but we have no time blablabla

[soulmvtes]

tiktok reposts are insane because what do you mean that people from my past who i don't even follow can see my reposts/i see theirs and it's about each other😭😭😭

#like wdym my ex bestfriend is liking a repost of mine thats literally abt her thats fkn crazy #n like people from an old friend group seeing a tiktok abt falling out of a friend group... its so insane to me #diary #tiyas thoughts

[dykehayleywilliams]

AND IF YOU WANNA CALL ME UP OR COME OVER COME ON WE’LL LAUGH TIL WE CRY LIKE WE DID WHEN WE WERE KIDS CAUSE WE CAN’T KEEP HOLDING ON TO GRUDGES

#aforementioned friendship was technically with my ex we had broken up a year earlier #but stayed friends until it reached a point that was unsustainable #and because the rest of my friends from high school went to the same college #i lost the high school friend group in the friendship breakup

[quasi-normalcy]

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#Just read a disquieting rumour that my ex was faking being indigenous. #Which... #I mean #I didn't see the evidence #All that I know is that this call-out post went up about 9 months ago in indigenous facebook groups #and my ex's entire online presence was apparently immediately scrubbed afterwards #which i'm only learning just now because honestly i've broken off all contact with them and with the rest of their friends #but like...it kinda wouldn't surprise me? #but the thing was they were an extremely militant decolonization activist #like they would go on long angry rants about appropriation and 'pretendians' and how terrible they were #but also like...they didn't really identify as indigenous until i think a year or so into our relationship? #and at the time i just figured ''whatever they're reconnecting with their roots'' #(I'm not indigenous; I don't know how these things work) #but then they started speaking sporadically in a fake accent when around other Native people and going on about how 'Rez' they were #and like...'Rez'. Mate. #I know for a fact that you grew up in a $10 million house in Hawaii #(at least I assume it was a fact) #And they were a big fan of using social justice arguments and language as a pretext for abusing me. #And if it was a lie then. Well. It would be very much in character for them let me just say. #Like they lied constantly to other people. I just...I guess I assumed that I was an exception? #Or that they wouldn't lie about the big stuff. Especially when they acted so vociferously angry about it. #But yeah. Trying to assume the absolute most marginalised social identity they can for clout sounds very much like something they would do.

[ichorblossoms]

hands you guys a grimm

#grimm is one of those characters that i draw scowly more often than not and i'm like. gotta draw you smiling once in a while #love love love its stupid extra teeth. pats myself on the back for that one. 100% catering to my interests #really funny when i draw their teeth tho bc i have a coyote skull on my shelf and i sit there staring at the teeth like #okay how would it feel if i had some of those growing out of my gums in addition to my normal teeth #holds her. in my hands #this week's been busy so i'm just like. rotating it and yarrow in my brain without having super concise thoughts #actually. i have been trying to figure out yarrow's friends a lil #bc like. they're social and good at talking to people and charming in their way so ofc they make friends in the five years between p2 and p #so i imagine he has a little group he hangs with. also an ex i'm trying to figure out hdklfghd #no real names yet but i have nebulous personalities #art #honeybee #grimm

[hand-of-devotion]

Sometimes I just randomly think about how Prism Grimpoppy is somewhere out there in the world with like half of the members of Bell’s Hells hair in a back pocket. Just for funsies. Like she asked for it just in case she felt like spying on them later and they all said “yeah sure that sounds good”.

#critical role #‘BH won’t stay in touch post canon’ #bold of you to assume prism ‘let me keep a chunk of your hair so I can scry on you later’ grimpoppy #and deni$e ‘I tracked my ex fiancé across the globe not once but TWICE’ bembachula #would allow such a thing to be true #team Issylra the worlds messiest friend group will survive the apocalypse so that they can all go for brunch #they couldn’t just hang out and have a good time the first run around you must give them this

[shoutsindwarvish]

you ever be really vulnerable with someone and it feels good and cathartic in the moment but then the next few days it sinks in and even though you feel 99.9% sure nothing bad is going to happen from it your stomach lurches when you think about it?

it’s reminding me of the time i went to the top floor of a skyscraper and went onto a viewing platform with a glass floor. the odds i’m going to fall and die are extremely low but holy shit is it high up here

#i’ve absolutely had this happen other times but #this is about talking to my rabbi about my god stuff on thursday #puts him on a very very short list of people i’ve talked to about some very specific experiences #probably the sixth person? #like i’ve talked about my family trauma to loads of people (both irl and on tumblr) #this though? this is PRIVATE private. like my partner and best friend and one ex-friend (ex just due to distance) and two priests #(ex-friend was christian and my neighbor and i’d wanted her thoughts on at least some of it) #i’m glad i told him but i feel naked and weird #and feeling anxious that i didn’t explain it right (because words are hard) #i need to stop picking at it #this is literally his job #my posts #realized i’ve told certain edited versions to a few more people #but i’ve only told ALL of it to a very tiny group

[bellamygate]

I think it's really likely phee and jin happened bc they were both rebounding from non and maybe they caught feelings maybe they didn't maybe phee is feeling guilty for that but like to ME regardless of how bad they feel abt it they're fucking on non's dead body and I'm petty enough to put away critical thinking and appreciating the nuances of media to wish them a very die

#dff the series #dead friend forever #I GET IT I GET IT ik what yall r saying yes them as a pair can b interesting asf and if i wasnt a non girlie id be all over it but god #my nonnie deserves better #this is just the final nail in the coffin like #this is nons 13th (20th) reason #imagine going through all of THAT and then ur ex bf is fucking the guy who filmed u getting raped and dragged u back into a group #that was abusing u constantly when u were abt to leave it #like #yall r built different i simply cant hack it #i cant compartmentalise and not be disgusted of the non of it all in order to enjoy them #like there will always be 3 of u in that relationship and we all know it #i can't force myself to not be disgusted by them and it's required to feel any reaction besides auto recoil to the thought of them together #ur relationship is paved with sins and corpses how can u be together and have peace knowing every moment will be haunted by it #i dont wanna see them forgive themselves and eachother and be together bc its SO UNFAIR TO NON #and i simply cant get over that if i wanted hard reality i wouldnt b watching a gay slasher its just so unsatisfying #its unsatisfying to end it like thst with no justice for the victim #yes theres a compelling story there abt that dynamic between them but this isnt the show to explore kt #theyve put too much emphasis on the victim to go there #i understand the sentiment but a story like that doesnt go like this. this isnt the way u write a story like that & explore those themes #like the majority of the audience isnt wanting that theyre rooting for non BECAUSE of the way its been set up & written #the past and the actions against non r the focus not phee and jin dealing w the aftermath in the present

[theinfinitedivides]

John saying in the Jan 30th press conference that Shah Rukh is not an actor anymore he's an emotion and so he (John) almost went in for a kiss several times during filming... i can die in peace now drape the pride flag over my coffin

#film: pathaan #pathaan #srk #shah rukh khan #john abraham #bollywood #local gay watches Bollywood.txt #YRF it seems i will not have to sue you after all #'[John speaking] the songs feature one of the most beautiful men and the most beautiful woman' #he knows!!! #they know!!! #also SRK calling their little group Amar Akbar Anthony... in reference to the '77 film... with Deepika as Amar and John as Anthony... #i almost cried i'm soft 🥺 #that and him saying he's open to coming back for Pathaan 2 were some of the best moments htg #anyway have we agreed that this is a polyam situation #i mean the 'this is my boyfriend and my boyfriend's boyfriend' type situation #bonus points if we include 'and my boyfriend's ex-boyfriend and his boyfriend but the ex is relative and they're all still dating' #bc yk i have the Kabir x Pathaan friends-with-benefits plot line set up and with the immortal Khalid plot line you can pry those two #out of my cold dead hands

[kirkwallguy]

In at least two of my worldststates varric and anders work through their embarrassing crushes on hawke by being fwb. i think i do this to them because it's the only thing that explains why varric is like that about anders in inquisition.

#i think the 'my ex-something stole my best friend / decade long crush away from me and ruined my peaceful friendship group' is #the only reading of it that works for me #in the marcus worldstate its just like a funny background thing that hawke NEVER finds out about. in my rivalmance #worldstate its obviously incredibly fucked up and evil