#my bad haha

[fruitypat00ti3]

May I offer an Insider oc in these trying times?

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#I keep forgetting tumblrs a thing #My bad HAHA #toontown #toontown corporate clash #corporate clash #my art #toontown cogs #ttcc #The Insider #Mister

[aeris-blue]

Wonderland for Work ^^

#irl #costume #Halloween #halloween costumes #mad hatter #Cheshire Cat #white rabbit #second time posting cause whoops the address was visible #my bad haha

[darling-fascist-bully-boy]

obsessed with them

#IM SO SORRY I HAVENY POSTED IN SO LONG #i went inactive in the young ones community #my bad haha #i missed you guys too much #the young ones #vyvyan basterd #adrian edmondson #jennifer saunders

[wolfythewitch]

Look at the sky. It's looking back.

#art #animation #tma #the magnus archives #the eye #if this posts twice my bad HAHA #scopophobia

[linkeduniverse]

September Art

#linkeduniverse #creator content #artworks #haha! i just noticed Time's eye #even his markings #my bad #horizontal flip disorientation #same with sky and 4's tunic patterns #i was too worried about fitting them all in #I forgot the details #do you know how hard it is to get a family photo!? #hyruel's bow and war's face were battling for space for the longest time

[inkskinned]

there are a lot of posts out there that are positive and healthy coping mechanisms for handling the holidays. this is not one of them :)

i think there's like. going to be times in your life you will be stuck in a social situation that you cannot escape from gracefully. i do not know why the internet doesn't believe these times exist. it's not always just that your physical safety is at risk - sometimes it's legit like "i just don't currently have the energy or time to put in the effort of responding to this." sometimes it's a coworker you hate so much. sometimes it's just like, fine, you know? like you know you can handle your aunt when she's cheerily horrible, but if you actually set a boundary around her, it's going to be weeks of fallout with your father.

i don't know why people think the answer is always just "cut them out!" or "don't let them get away with that!" because ... the real world is tricky and complicated. i think kind of a lot of us have an internal "radiation poisoning" meter for certain people. like - i'm talking about the ones who are absolutely giving you gradual ick damage. like, you can handle them, but you'll be exhausted.

and yes. you absolutely should listen to your therapist and the good posts about handling others and set good boundaries and take care of yourself. prioritize peace.

HOWEVER :) ...... since im often in a situation with a Gradual Sense of Ick person i cannot just "cut out" of my life (without losing someone else precious to me) - i have sort of developed the most. maladaptive form of mischief possible. because like, if i'm going to have to listen to this shit again, i like to have a little bit of private fun with it.

now! again, i am physically safe, just mentally drained by this man. you should only do this with people you are not in danger with. which leads me to my suggestions for when your Unfortunate Acquaintance shows up and says oh everyone pay attention to me.

my favorite word is "maybe!" said as brightly and happily as possible. whenever the Horrible Person starts in on a topic you do not want to go further with, particularly if they make a claim that you know to be inaccurate, do not respond to it. you and i have both tried to actually argue with this person, and it hasn't gone well, because this person just wants the drama of an argument. however, "maybe!" gives them literally nothing to go on. it is incredibly disarming. they are used to people having some response. they know they can't prove what they're saying, and maybe! treats them like the child they are. it dismisses them in the politest way possible.

i like to say maybe! and then, in their stunned silence, immediately change the subject. this is because i have adhd and i will have something unrelated to talk about, but if you can't think of topics fast enough, i recommend just pointing to something and saying, "isn't that lovely?" because fuck you let's bring in some positivity.

by the way. that second trick - of pointing to something and stating an opinion about it? - that just works on its own, like, 70% of the time. i picked it up from teaching preschoolers. it's an intentional "redirect". it stops children crying and it also stops grown adults from finishing their explanation on why women belong in kitchens. dual wielding!

keep it silly for yourself. i absolutely do not care if people think i'm fucking stupid (it's more fun if they do) and as a result i will purposefully misunderstand things just to see how long it takes them to realize i've completely removed them from the subject at hand. when they say "women aren't funny" i get to be like. "which women." "all women." "all women in america?" "no in the world." "like the mole people? the people in the world?" "what? no. like, alive." "oh are we not counting the mole people?" "what the fuck are you talking about." "you don't believe in the mole people?"

similarly, i play a personal game called "one up me." my Evil Acquaintance literally knows this game exists (my family & friends caught onto it and now also play it) and it always fucking gets him. i don't know why. you have to be willing to be a little free-spirited on this one, though. the trick is that when they make one of those horrible little bigoted or annoying comments they are always making, you need to go one unit weirder. not more intense, mind you - just more weird. "you don't look good in that dress." "yeah, actually, my other dress was covered in squid ink due to a mishap at the soup store." "you shouldn't wear such revealing clothes." "wait, what? oh shit. sorry, your son tears off strips when no one is looking and eats them. i swear it was longer before we left the building."

the point of "one up me" is to completely upend this person's narrative. we both know this person likes setting up situations where you cannot "win" and then they really like telling other people how badly you handled it. in a usual situation, if you respond "please don't say something that rude", you're a bitch. but if you let it happen, you're letting yourself be debased. they are not usually expecting door number three: unflappably odd. because what are they going to say when they're telling everyone how badly you behaved? "she said my son eats her dresses" ".... okay?"

if you can, form an allyship with someone whomst you can tagteam with. where they can pick up on your weird "soup store" story and run with it.

the following phrase is amazing and can be deployed for any situation: "oh, be nice :) it's the holidays!" i do not know why this works as often as it does. i'll say it for the most random shit. i think this is bc most of the time these people know they're being impolite, they just like to fight.

godbless. when in doubt, remember that you could always start stealing their pens.

the whole point of this is - if you can't escape. maybe see how long you can just be. like. a horrible little menace.

#this is objectively bad advice #don't listen to it protect yourself and do real work on yourself find one of the good posts i've made about this #but also. u know. if u want to have fun while u do the work of setting boundaries #.... it IS fun #i will say that my fear of him went SO down after i just started. fucking with him. #bc i used to get SO fucking upset #i'd spend WEEKS arguing with him. tearing my hair out. sick with anxiety and dread and anger about all of it #and now i just LITERALLY do not engage #instead i'm like '' haha :) mole people" and get the HELL out of any tense conversation #i kind of think some of these people are literally addicted to drama as a form of connection #they like the rush they get from arguing #but those arguments are incredibly damaging for me #so like..... i am in the process of literally rehabilitating this person to figure out how to find connection thru #NORMAL CONVERSATION #he doesn't get it yet #i also do talk to them like they're preschool kids lmafo . ''are you using a safe and kind voice right now?'' #'' do you need a snackie? you sound a little upset. let's have some hummus and come back to playtime when we feel ready''

[mayullla]

I think you need third option because my first thought was "i would date both"

PFFFT- LMAO

#my bad haha #mayu mailbox #next time i would make sure loll ^^

[hayden-christensen]

STAR WARS APPRECIATION WEEK 2023 MAY 25: FAVOURITE MOVIE ▸ EPISODE III - REVENGE OF THE SITH (2005) + trivia

In the original screenplay, when Anakin joins the Dark Side, he is no longer referred to as "Anakin", only as "Vader".

[in/sp]

#swaw2023 #swedit #starwarsedit #star wars #rotsedit #revenge of the sith #anakin skywalker #starwarsblr #*mine #*2023 #*gifs #10k #this movie quite literally changed my life asdlfkahj #only ended up not doing 3 I had planned not bad not bad haha

[ghostsxagain]

@blumhouses​ asked:  ❤ ☀ ✦ (kyran)

❤ to learn about my character's past relationships

truthfully I feel like there isn't much to say about his past relationships. I think he's dated before and had moderate success but nothing too long or serious. aside from one girl he met in college that he actually thought might be the one. she was not kind about their breakup and it hurt him quite a bit. now he's less hopeful and quite a bit jaded.

☀ to learn about my character's hobbies

kyran has a very logical mind, so naturally he prefers hobbies that stimulate him. he's a BIG puzzle fiend (you know those crazy clear ones? yeah, he eats that shit up) and loves crosswords & sudoku puzzles too. lately he's also taken up mixology and can whip up really fun drinks when he has company over.

✦ to learn about my character's family

the copeland family was very average, nothing noteworthy or dramatic about them. everyone got along well enough but were never overly affectionate or loving with each other. as soon as kyran graduated high school, his parents moved back to ireland, which he didn't mind. they don't see each other often but do check in every few weeks with a zoom call.

#woah not me answering a meme sent MONTHS AGO #my bad haha #kyran copeland ; answered #kyran copeland ; headcanons #blumhouses #answered #meme reply

[shmaroace]

don't get me wrong, i love all the positivity around being aro, like "be proud of being aro!! love who you are!!", but we never talk about how hard it is to reach that spot. so here's to the aros who are still trying to understand themselves, who aren't proud of who they are yet, who are still coming to terms with their new identity.

#i was in serious denial about being aro for a long time like i knew the label and knew it fit but i refused to use it for several months #even after that point it took a while for me to be comfortable with the label or saying it #and this is not a bad thing!! being aro basically requires you to undo all the societal brainwashing you grew up with #and there is so much arophobia that it's hard to find positivity #i got lucky w/ this blog and the people i follow but i know i had a hard time being as proud of myself and my queerness as i am now #this doesn't even really have to be an aro statement like i think it could fit most queer experiences #sorry for the long tags haha #aro #aromantic #arospec #aromanticism #aro pride #aro positivity #aroace #aspec #1k #5k #6k #7k

[clouvu]

Save me french yuri... Save me

#genshin impact #arledrone #sandrone #arlecchino #haha remember when we all thought that sandrone and arlecchino would both show up in fontaine and be gay together? #good times.... good times #jk i'm ready to end it all actually #I KNOW WE HAVE LIKE ONE LAST MAJOR FRENCH PATCH BEFORE NATLAN BUT IVE JUST ABOUT LOST ALL HOPE #the way that literally every wlw arle pairing got fed so well following arle's drip marketing EXCEPT for arledrn... hate it here so bad #anyways shipping aside HOW is it possible that the frenchiest of french harbingers with heavy ties to machinery #and like two major world quests tied to specifically to her lore and is even MENTIONED of being present in fontaine #also being one of the first harbingers ever mentioned dating back all the way to the description of chode's teaser trailer #just???? doesnt show up?????? #Sandy enjoyers are stronger than any us marine because my GOD are we struggling out here #anyways ignore the fact that I completely forgot to draw sandy's wind up key it was hard drawing through the tears #(actually it was cause i half-assed this doodle but we dont talk about that)

[yeehawpim]

someday I'll see all the levels 😞

#original comic #artists on tumblr #video games #comic #my comic #my art #this is about have a nice death lol #im on easy mode ill get there eventually haha #the struggles of being a bad gamer

[lovehaleylo]

Don’t mind me drawing ship art of two one-off characters, anyway who else thought they’d kiss after saying how alone they both felt

#smiling friends #troglor #gwimbly #adult swim #I neglect my tumblr account so bad guys I’m sorry #this episode JUST came out too HAHA

[ncutii-gatwa]

NCUTI GATWA as THE DOCTOR Doctor Who | The Church on Ruby Road

#ncuti gatwa #doctor who #dw #doctor who spoilers #dwedit #timelordgifs #ngatwaedit #tvedit #usersophie #userridge #useraurore #usersugar #he is the love of my life already #haha these are so bad haha #edited by me #gifsbyemma #mine #2k #wouldn't blame you if you didnt want this shit on your blog #merry christmas to us

[strobbylemonade]

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#me haha i can make mermaid pearl like really tall. #my brain: you coward. TALLER #pearlescentmoon #pearlescentmoon fanart #hermitcraft #hermitcraft fanart #hermitcraft s10 #geminitay #(barely) #this bad boy made me rip my hair out so many times i thought i would develop male pattern baldness #strbylmn art

[usikunox]

Oh to be an extraterrestrial being of immense power, summoned from your home on a whim to unlock a door for 3 random witches on some midnight excursion 😌

#critical role #critical role fanart #cr3 #laudna #imogen temult #imodna #bells hells #fearne calloway #these witches be bitches #cr art #art #fanart #my art #artwork #illustration #digital art #drawing #digital drawing #usikunox art #nothing bad could possibly happen beyond that door haha #no way 🙃 #critical role spoilers